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for David T. Toomalatai
"The Ocho"
Robert Martinez III
May 29, 2023
Toom’s, Brother I pray you’re keeping an eye on all of us. We all may have scattered but we’re always near. I pray your son and family are celebrating you as I know they all miss you Your Brothers of the Ocho do as well. You’re never forgotten.
Charlie Gili
November 8, 2022
Hello,
We wanted you to know that we will be honoring and remembering your loved one this holiday season. We are sending Care Packages to our deployed troops in his name. Each package will carry the name, photo, service branch, rank and hometown of David T. Toomalatai US Army Private 1st Class.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families, friends and many others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Robert Martinez III
January 27, 2022
Tooms, you & your family continue to be in our prayers. We’ll never forget... May the Lord provide comfort & peace to your family. Let them rejoice in memories of you today.
Robert Martinez III
January 27, 2021
Brother. you & your family & your son are in our prayers. We’ll never forget... you’re missed. May the Lord provide comfort & peace to your family.
Ashley Cababag
May 23, 2020
Never forgotten . Aloha always.
Robert Martinez III
January 27, 2020
Brother, Youre never forgotten. You, your son and family are in my thoughts and prayers. Youre missed...
Robert Martinez III
January 26, 2019
Brother, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers this evening... you're truly missed and most definitely never forgotten. May the Lord comfort your loved ones and let them find strength in unity.
October 30, 2017
Hey you! I just wanted to say I love you and we miss you a lot. All is well here so far. Still fighting the good fight.
Robert Martinez III
January 28, 2017
Toomalatai,
Brother, 10 years... you're Never forgotten . Prayers for you, the family & your beautiful son. May the Lord continue to watch over them all. You're truly missed.
R. Martinez III
January 26, 2016
Toomalatai, "Tooms"
You My brother and your family are in my prayers. It's hard to believe it's been 9 years and you're a part of all the team members from 2/8 always and the light you shared has left great impacts. You're never forgotten my brother and I will see you again one day. Keep watch over us all...
You're truly missed.
Jada Payne
October 29, 2015
Hid amien dad this is Jada I will always remember you
May 29, 2015
David,
This Memory day is so emotional at the Green Hill Memory Day program. We had Damien at the age of nine with questions about the Air Force missing in action program of why one decided to turn around while the others continuing. And telling him its a symbol of soldiers who couldn't make it home to take care of their sons and daughters. But the good thing is that they are Heavenly Angels watching over us night and day and I guess it comfort him hoping he will grow up doing in this world. Thank you son for your service and all your Veteran Family salute you on this May 25, 2015. God bless you and God bless the United State of America and Samoa.
Toomalatai Family.
Shantel Webster-Humphrey
May 23, 2015
Hey David. Just want you to know I still think of you. I remember at medic school when I would see you walking towards me I would just laugh wondering what crazy questions you had for me today about my Reservation in Nebraska. And how you kept calling me rich because you were convinced I owned a casino. You always made me laugh. Thank you for always looking out for me and the many others you looked out for at school. Made us feel safe knowing you were watching over us down in San Antonio. It wasn't until AIT that I started to really understand what Brothers and Sisters in Arms really meant. I was devastated when I received an email from a fellow medic classmate and learn of your passing. You are gone but never forgotten. I just wanted you to know I never forgot you and I think of you on holidays like this weekend and on July 5th because that was the day we had to all go our separate ways and go be medics at our new units. I thought of you when I became a flight medic and wondered where you would be and knowing you would definitely have been a SSG maybe even SFC because you were someone who excelled. I will never forget how excited you were when you told me your son was born. You were so happy. Well again I miss you and will never forget you. Thank you for allowing me to call you my friend and brother.
April 25, 2015
My dearest David,
I know you're up there somewhere. The day that you passed was the day that our whole lives changed. Im pretty sure God had a plan for all of us before whatever it may be. I just know that every decision that I've made I've made because of you and how much I cling to your memory. I drove all around Airport Rd wondering what you were thinking what you must have seen and how much of this place was the same when you were around. I walked around Whiskey Land looking for you trying to retrace your last steps and relive your last days on this earth. For people like us who enjoy the thrill and maintain the stability SA was the perfect balance. I don't think it helped much being surrounded by others who have just as much ambition to progress either. I haven't met anyone like you and undoubtedly I find myself searching for a piece of you in everyone that I meet. I felt the most close to you in that whole year since you've passed. I felt alive again and I saw your life, your dreams, and your aspirations through my eyes. And I thank you for that. I thank you for giving me that strength and the will. I wish you were here so that we can all be a family. i wish you were here so that you can raise your son and watch over your crazy nephew. I wish you were here with me so that we could both challenge each other, pin each other's promotion patches, and take this military medicine thing wherever it goes. I love you and I know what I need to do. When I make it so do you. Please continue to watch over me.
R. Martinez
January 27, 2015
May the Lord be with you on this day. We won't forget. You're missed brother.
January 16, 2015
I can't believe we are coming on the 8th anniversary of your passing. I have never forgotten about you Toomalatai, my little big brother; you are always the first person who pops in my head while I'm driving through lakewood/lb. Sometimes I picture a world where you would come home to SoCal on leave and we hang out for a little bit while you tell me how fun deployment is and I would tell you how fun civy life is. We miss you always.
January 8, 2015
We love you son and never forget you because you had brought into our lives a grandson whom walked upon your footsteps even the food that you had eaten. pizza and chicken nugget with fries.Damien is fine so as his mother. Love you always, Your Family.
Ava Tingala
October 12, 2014
To my first big brother who really protected me. I still think about how safe I felt knowing you were looking after me. Thank you for letting me experience that. I miss it. I miss my big brother.
Vai Toomalatai
January 8, 2014
A year change but missing someone never change. We love you son and you're miss by your family and Damian Ben Toomalatai will be 8 years old ready to be baptize and I ques I have to do it. Love you Dad
January 2, 2014
You are definitely missed my brother. We love you.....
Brandon White
June 9, 2013
I was just talking about you yesterday...About how you treated me like I was a lttle brother, even though I was older. How you would do anything for the people you cared about, no matter what the cost to you. Even now, it's still unreal that you're gone. If I can live my life to be half the man you were, I'll be a great one. I know you watch over all of us. Miss you brother.
Peggy Childers
January 28, 2013
To the family and friends of Pfc. David T. Toomalatai:
It has truly been my honor to sign David's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that David will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
November 12, 2012
As long as I'm stuck in Hood, I know your still here with us. We love you....
May 28, 2012
I'm remembering my brother David Toomalatai....
May 28, 2012
Remembering you on this very special day. Missing you sooo much bro. Know that we love you, and wish you were still here.
Peggy Childers
February 3, 2012
January 27, 2012
To the family and friends of Pfc. David T. Toomalatai:
Always remembering David. "Some gave all."
November 11, 2011
Hello David, I just want to thank you for your sacrifice to this great nation. I know its been so long, but you are still in my heart. The longer I stay here in Fort Hood, the more I think about all the good memories we all had together. You are a true brother, and a true friend. You are missed....
Happy Veterans Day.
We love you bro.
November 11, 2011
Hi, Son David I miss you so much I dont know how long Im going to live, because every day is like yesterday I keep hoping and pray that one day I will wake up and see you here at home thank you so much for all that you had done for our family. I love you forever and I will see you soon. Love always you Mother.
Robert Martinez III
January 27, 2011
Toom's you're still in our hearts and our prayers with your family. You're are missed brother.
SSG Marty
Peggy Childers
January 27, 2011
To the family and friends of Pfc. David T. Toomalatai:
Please accept my remembrance of David on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Anonymous
November 10, 2010
You are always in our thoughts David. You have made an impact on so many people's lives. There hasn't been a moment in your life & after where you are not being loved and missed. God Bless you always. Happy veteran's day lil' bro.
san antonio - apr 2006
Ava Tingala
September 11, 2010
Toomalatai family,
I was one of David's little sister/daughter from when we were in training at Fort Sam Houston. As I reflected on today, I couldn't help but think of him. He was such a great brother to me and to a lot of us in our company. He looked after me like a very protective older brother would, and he encouraged the "Benning Boys" to do the same. He definitely had it in him to lead where people were proud to follow.
I remember he told a guy that he could only take me out if he did combatives with him and beat him... well the guy chickened out. I still keep in close contact with a few of the friends we had at Fort Sam and we all remember and respect him very much.
My love and prayers go out to you. As I put on my uniform today before work, I thought of him and stepped out proudly because I was able to say "that's my Kuya."
I attached a picture I had with him on the first time we all were allowed to go to San Antonio for a day pass... My first taste of his brotherly (over)protectiveness. -SGT Tingala
Robert Martinez III
May 31, 2010
Toomalatai Family, May the lord be with you on this day. I pray He continues to comfort you all... Your son was a great young man and dear friend. SSG Martinez
Ashley Amavisca
May 31, 2010
Hi Toomalatai family,
I knew David when we went to training at Ft. Sam Houston together. I'm from Hawai'i and he and I knew the same friends. He became a really good friend of mine, and later shared some church knowledge with me, and ended up talking at my baptism :) Hope you are all doing well. He will be remembered dearly by me and my husband.
-A. Amavisca
Kraig Cuico honor's Pfc. David Toomalatai
Teri Cuico
May 24, 2010
Dearest Family of David,
I am writing this message to let you know how sadden we are for your lost. I've been on the internet trying to find a story about someone of courage and bravery and came across your son's name. It stands out for me because I too I'm of polynesian descent.
The reason for my research is because my son who is 8 years old has to write a biography that shows "courage". I'm moved by your sons story and would be honored if my son could share David's story with his class. My son wanted to do a story on a soldier, so I told him I would research it and see what I came up with. Your son's story has everything we need to write about.
We will honor David and let his classmates know of his courage and love for his family.
Peggy Childers
January 27, 2010
To the family and friends of Pfc. David T. Toomalatai:
Remembering David on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
P~
December 16, 2009
Pfc Toomalatai:
You never knew me, but I know your darling big sister Rini. I've been thinking about you. The stories she told me, and even the memories of your funeral came flooding back today when I had my last appointment before I enlist. My fellow soldier and brother, thank you for your service.
I will never leave a fallen comrade.
Vai Toomalatai
December 14, 2009
Merry Christmas David, hoping that you are having fun up in Heaven. We all miss you dearly and your son Damien Ben Toomalatai looks just like you even his attitude and smile. Don't worry about him he is surely having a wonderful life and we loved him dearly. Thank you very much son and May the Lord's goodness and love be upon you always.
Love,
Your Family.
Kenna larra
February 23, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,500 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
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Sincerely,
Kenna
Peggy Childers
January 27, 2009
To the family of Pfc. David T. Toomalatai:
David gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kristine Santos
September 15, 2008
On December 28th, 2005 at the LA meps, I seen David (not knowing his name at that time) we were all in a little room sitting there waiting nervously for our names to be called to be segregated depending on which BCT site we were going to. I was called over to go to Ft. Jackson and David to Ft. Benning of course. Little did I know I would run into David again 3 months later in combat medic school, and very suprised that HE re-called my face (more like my talkitiveness) at the meps that very day, that's when our very avid brother-sister relationship began. Unironically although David was one of the younger guys in our platoon he played the role of the "big brother" when it came to me and other friend Ava. Ava and I both being filipino americans were quick to refer to David at as "Kuya" meaning "big brother" in the philippines. My current husband was also very close to David as they went to basic and medic school together even being in the same platoon the entire time. David was quick to questioning me about my bf at the time (who im now married to) and reassured me that if anything were to happen he said "i got your back lil sis". In july we all graduated and when all was said and done David told me "don't worry. we'll see each other again, and probably in cali!" me being from Pasadena and him from Carson it was a real possiblity. We used to talk about how my neice and his little sister used to go to the same HS (lakewood) and that they were even in the same graduating class! When Kuya David got mail and discovered it was pictures of his brand new little Damien he was quick to brag and show them off! On Jan 29th 2007 while me and my husband were having dinner, that's when we received the heart breaking call about David, my kuya, and my husbands "battle buddy" death during his tour...ever since then theres not a time that goes by that we remember him, miss him. reminicse about him, pray for, talk about, and wonder about David and his dear family esp. his baby boy. There's no words to describe what David is, everyone around him and in his life found him very important, because he is, a genuine caring son, dad, brother, friend, companion, so much more but above all a real soldier, the IDEAL combat medic. Smart, quick to react, but very humble. I write this now in hopes that one day when little Damien grows up and wonders about his father he WILL know that all that surrounded him admired him and they always will have good stories to tell and memories of him big or small. God Bless you David, you truely will never be forgotten.
-Kristine M. Santos
Antonio Gattis
September 3, 2008
I know it has been at least a year since David has passed away. Every day I have wished it was me instead of you that day. I know right know that your in a better place. But with each passing day I can't help but to remember the good times that the three of us had me,you, and Solis when we use to walk to the trucks together in the mornings in Iraq no matter who was going out that day. All three of us knew we had a job to do but for me this hurts so much more because you rode on my truck with my crew that day. But with each passing day it still tears me up inside to know that your not here with us I wish there was so much more as a leader I could of done. But one thing I do know David as long as I am breathing I will never forget the the great things that that you did for me and the rest of the 2-8 Cav PSD as for as long as I live I will never take off the armband with your name and the rest of my crew who gave up their lives that day. RIP David.
June 19, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Pfc Toomalatai!
David and Damien
April 28, 2008
Allen Chase
April 13, 2008
To the family and friends of David T. Toomalatai. Know that my friend and brother in arms and fellow medic, died defending freedom and saving lives of his fellow americans and the iraqis that we protect. David will live in our memories and be respected by all who served with him. To David hold a seat for us in heaven and we can party together.
My LiL Brother, David- I Love You: Reen
March 24, 2008
Vai Toomalatai
September 18, 2007
To my beloved son, how long would I live in this life before I can see you again. Well I don't know but your good works and commitment to the U.S.Army and your love to this great Country enpowers me to live. I shurely missed you very much on this birthday, remembering my last birthday with you here at home with my grandson Damien Benjamin. Son continue to do good in Heaven.
Fionna Ane
September 10, 2007
To my little brotha/nephew Tavita. Im glad I found this website aside from your myspace page this is great so everyone else will know what kind of a person you were and will always be remembered as....humble, quiet and inspiring. Still have a hard time thinking that all the brothas and sistas are coming home to 51779 Comanche Circle, Fort Hood and you're not...aaahhmmm....trying to compose myself but...hey, I love you little brotha, you will always be in our hearts and thoughts. Now Im speaking on behalf of the comanche crew...missing you always and thank you for keeping us safe. We're able to do whatever we want to do because of you and all the fallen heroes who have given their lives for us, we'll be forever in your debt. Love you always, your sista/aunty.
August 16, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 7, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Pfc Toomalatai and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
ruben "RAT" rodriguez
July 2, 2007
David it's me ruben "rat" from BHS football 05'... man i miss you so much... all the laughter we shared both on and off the field .. those long summer days when after practice we would go to mcdonalds of all places..lol...i saw your son he is beautiful and looks like a cross between both of you two. tony, jairo, and i have come to the conclusion that you will never be dead to us...you will always be alive in our hearts and in our memories...i hope you are having fun up there with the lord..... and until then i will see you soon my friend.
ROBYN Garside
May 1, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR SON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
BERT HOLLER
April 25, 2007
WE OFFER OUR PRAYERS AND CONDOLENCES TO YOU AT THIS VERY DIFFICULT TIME. WE KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. ON JANUARY 22, 2007 WE LOST OUR SON-IN-LAW IN IRAQ TO AN IED. NICK WAS IN 2/7 CAV AND LOVED BEING A SOLDIER. HE LEFT BEHIND A YOUNG WIFE AND NEWBORN SON. WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. WE HONOR THE MEMORY OF YOUR SON AND WILL NOT FORGET HIM. MANY AMERICANS ARE ALSO PRAYING FOR YOU AND KEEPING YOU IN THEIR THOUGHTS. THANK YOU,
sonja st.john
April 18, 2007
Dear David,
My Brother Jon was killed that day with you. So now you are both together and with Tim too. so many of us miss you. my heart is broken.
One day we all shall all meet, til then.~sonja st. john age 23.
Jeanette. Toomalatai.
March 28, 2007
To our family of David, It saddened us deeply to here the news of the passing of David. We pass on our condolences to his remaining family with love.Our thoughts are with you at this time of sadness. Alofa to you all.
Jeanette (Toomalatai) & Paul Banks.
Brisbane, Australia.
Irina Barahona
February 20, 2007
May the Lord bless the memory and life of your beloved brother. May he be an angel to your family and walk with you gently. May our Holy Father always keep you, your family, and all those that David's life touched with love and tenderness.
Adriana Zamora
February 19, 2007
David was a friend of mine from school. When I heard the news I was shocked. Thefirst thing I thought was "Wow we lost a great guy!" I Loved David. We went to Junior HIgh and HIgh School togther. He was a kind and loving person. He loved to joke around. I will miss you David!! Rest in Peace David!!
Trudy Lowe
February 13, 2007
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
martina rami to'omalatai at heart
February 13, 2007
hi baby,
never did i think i would ever answer my door to two men in class a's never did i think you were not comming home to get married...i love you and i will keep all of our promises i will still get sealed to you and take your last name i love you and will always be your and only your rami you are my life and when you died my joy and strength did aswell i will see you soon in paradise where you are now serving your mission i love you and i guess im gonna have to come home to you now love you always and like you said "maybe apart but never alone" i love you baby
Ken and Jane Surette
February 11, 2007
David's sister is serving a mission in Orillia Ontario Canada. We are a part of the branch where she is serving. You would be so proud of her, she a beautiful young lady. She misses her brother, but she is persevering. We love her dearly and through her, her family. We send our condolances and love.
Alex Teckenbrock
February 10, 2007
PFC Toomalatai, this is PFC Teckenbrock. I was with you through basic training, and when I found out the news today I was truly shocked. You were a terrific friend to me throughout basic and I don't know how I would have made it without your help. To your family, I knew your son and he was truly a magnificent man. He was very mature for his age and very smart as well. He will be missed.
Arlington Tasi
February 9, 2007
You are a very brave and courageous young man. May God ease the pain that your family is going through. God bless you, my young brother.
LT Arlington N. Tasi
Hector & Savali Siaosi
February 9, 2007
May the good Lord bless & keep the family during this difficult time. We wish we would've met you during your brief time in Fort Hood, but find comfort in knowing that we will meet one day in heaven. You are a true hero!
alofa atu,
Hector & Savali Siaosi
Roxanne Swanson
February 8, 2007
3 young men died that day, surely a great loss to our families and country. I know that your family feels the pride as we do for these young men that gave their lives in the name of freedom. My nephew was with your loved one that day and died as well. If there is any comfort, know that they were family over there and looked out for each other. God bless you, your family and the soul of David.
WILLIAM SOLOMUA
February 7, 2007
USO ,YOUR ARE IN OUR HEARTS AND SEE YOU WHEN I GET THERE. MY PRAYERS GO TO YOUR PARENTS AND THE REST OF OUR FAMILY. I WANT EVERYONE TO REMEMBER
THE GOOD THINGS, AND THAT HE IS IN A BETTER PLACE. ALOFA ATU
Cathy Davis
February 7, 2007
To the Toomalatai Family: Our deepest, heartful condolences on the loss of David. My son, PFC Jeremy Davis, served with him in Iraq, at Camp Taji, and they became very close. Your family is in our hearts, prayers and thoughts each and every day. David is a true American hero and I thank you for the sacrifice that we make together in having our boys serve for the safety and comfort of the citizens of the United States. Jeremy told me about David last week but what struck me the most was when he said "Mommy, he was one of my best buddies, the best". May you find comfort in memories and in our Savior Jesus Christ and know that this military family stands with you and supports you and loves you and is here for you. David will be watching over you all and hold onto his son with all your heart as he lives on through little Damien. I hope for peace and comfort and happiness to you all and we love you all. Cathy & Amanda Davis, Columbus, Ohio
Lina Pitovaomania To'omalatai-Lua "Ranx"
February 7, 2007
David.. no words can express the cloud of sorrow that is following our family during these difficult days.. as we laid you to rest yesterday, there were so many mixed emotions, but one was common and shared by everyone there.. and that was love.. thank you hero, for being you.. thank you hero, for being someone that our kids will know to admire & hopefully strive to be one day.. thank you hero, for your selfless acts and love for others.. I was so proud to know of the lives you saved out there in Iraq, as well as all of your acomplishments.. Your handsome face & beautiful smile will forever be missed, but never forgotten.. thank you hero... for that's what you truly are!!
Linda Andersen
February 7, 2007
David...You are a hero to all of us..May you rest in peace!
Dina Shelton
February 6, 2007
To the Toomalatai family,I first want to tell you that I am praying for you everyday.Next I want to thank David for the ultimate sacrifice that he made for me and my family and this United States of America.I have cried many tears for him and his son (Damian) and you as the family of such a wonderful young man.I have read all the articles about David on this internet,checked his myspace, where I saw the most beautiful lil boy of this young hero.I have cried my eyes out for a young man I didnt even know, but just knowing how young he was,what a great big family he has and the love I could see in the pictures was enough to convince me of the wonderful life he had at home.Thank you David for all the wounded ,I'm sure you took care of while you were in Iraq. All the people whose life u enriched by just being yourself is a wonderful legacy and you will always be a Hero to all who knew you.I know God is with you and your family for," He is All we have and He is All we need ". He is carrying you now and will be until we all meet together in Heaven someday.I love you Toomalatai family ,but God loves you more and He will sustain you....you will stay in my prayers, your sister in Christ, Dina Shelton (mother of Kristle Toomalatai,Robert Toomalatai's wife). My husband Danny Shelton and my youngest daughter Mandi send their deepest sympathy also.......God Bless and Keep you all............
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 6, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Toomalatai family in the loss of David. I did not know David, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. David you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Heinz Fretton
February 5, 2007
David...I just wanted to let you know how proud we are here in Samoa...our Toomalatai family in Matautu and we missed you sooo much...we heard news from our families in California about you...we are soo proud of you David representing the US country, the Samoans but especially our family...we love you with all our hearts!!!!
RONALD TOOMALATAI
February 3, 2007
DAVID I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW HOW PROUD I AM TO BE YOUR UNCLE. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND YOU WILL BE MISSED BY THE US PEOPLE AND OUR TOOMALATAI FAMILY. THANKYOU FOR REPRESENTING THE LAST NAME WITH PRIDE AND DIGNITY.
Lee Sirotnak
February 2, 2007
As we offer prayers for your family in this time of sorrow, we will also offer prayers of thanks for the work and sacrifice of your loved one, David. God Bless your family, may you find joy in your memories of him, and peace and comfort in knowing that there are many military families keeping you in our hearts.
Pam & Dennis Robertson
February 1, 2007
We are saddened to hear of the loss of yet another young soldier, a hero. May God embrace you and comfort you as only He can. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Aunt & Uncle of Lance Cpl James R Davenport KIA 11/22/06
Karen Hickman
February 1, 2007
On behalf of "Gold Star Siblings" Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Garnet Jenkins
February 1, 2007
My Deepest and most heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family of Pfc. David T. Toomalatai.
The price this Brave Young Soldier and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
There is so much thanks to be given, to these young heroes, for their Courage, Dedication and Service.
May David rest safely in God's Care and may God's Loving Peace and Comfort be with the Toomalatai family.
I am the sister of a 19 year young, 1st Cav. Hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.
"Wait on the Lord, be of good courage
and He shall strengthen your heart"
~ Psalm 27:14 ~
May the Peace of God and the memories of David, remain in your heart always.
May this give you comfort and strength through the difficult days ahead.
~ Softly and slowly, time heals.~
Bobbie
January 31, 2007
My thank you to this unknown soldier for your sacrifice and devotion to country. You will not be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to your family and friends.
Gary Allain
January 30, 2007
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
January 30, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Henryk Zaleski (USN.Ret)
January 30, 2007
We can not repay this debt but we can humbly say,thank you.May you rest in peace as you surely shall.
SHIRLEY DONEY
January 29, 2007
GOD BLESS YOU MY FRIEND, YOU HAVE EARNED YOUR WINGS IN HEAVEN TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS HOLD CLOSE TO YOUR HEART ALL THE MEMORIES MAY THEY BRING YOU COMFORT.
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