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BLUM Dr. ELLIOT R. BLUM Dr. Elliot R Blum, a Director of Clinical Psychology Training and a Clinical Psychologist in private practice, died suddenly on March 13, 2016, of a massive heart attack at the age of 79. He was a man with big appetites and an even bigger heart. Elliot Blum was born and raised in the Bronx, NY. Education and work were important to his family, and he excelled at both, despite what he described as an undiagnosed learning disability. He graduated from City College with a degree in accounting and completed his doctorate in clinical psychology at Florida State University with what he happily dubbed one of the shortest dissertations in the field. He held the highest degree attainable in his profession, an ABPP in Clinical Psychology. Dr. Blum had worked continuously since the age of 12, but once he found a profession that enabled him to talk to people all day, he declared that he would never retire. He achieved his wish, seeing patients up until two days before his death. He came to Washington DC as a new clinical psychologist working on and later directing a forensic ward at Saint Elizabeths Hospital, the federal government''s acclaimed psychiatric facility run under the auspices of the National Institute of Mental Health. At age 34, Dr Blum became the hospital''s Director of Clinical Psychology Training. For 20 years, he ran the Clinical Psychology Training Program, overseeing the instruction of hundreds of externs, interns and residents and creating a program that was renowned throughout the country. Many hours of weekly clinical supervision for the trainees distinguished his program; Dr. Blum insisted on providing highly qualified supervisors to help launch his interns'' professional lives. Over the years, Dr. Blum sent into clinical practice an exceptional cadre of highly trained therapists who work in hospitals, outpatient clinics and private practice to this day. Many of them formed such strong bonds that they became good friends and often worked together long after their internships ended. Dr. Blum retired from the federal government in his early 50''s to devote himself full-time to private practice. In his clinical practice, he saw individuals, couples and groups, always adhering to his strong belief that people learn and grow through less judgment and more curiosity. Dr. Blum was a member of the American Academy of Psychotherapists, an organization dedicated to authentic personal connection. He participated in and led workshops and met several times a year with a long-term group of senior therapists. His work was just one of Dr. Blum''s many passions. He loved cigars. He loved food. He loved animals and always had one or two dogs, saying, "I never want to come home to a house without a dog." He was beloved by his students, colleagues, friends and family, all of whom recognized him as a "deep trawler," a person not into the details of life, but rather wanting to understand the meaning of it all. He loved all questions and encouraged his patients, students and friends to be curious and open. Dr. Blum''s first marriage to Deborah Blum ended in divorce. They remained friends, and their blended families often vacationed together on Cape Cod. Dr. Blum is survived by his beloved wife and co-therapist of over 30 years, Dr. Ann Reifman, by his children, Jonathan Blum, Belinda Blum and Joseph Blum, his daughter in law, Barbara Spindel, son in love, Eric Wallach and by his grandchildren, Lucy and Nathan Blum and Ruby and Lou Blum Wallach. A Memorial Service will be held at the River Road Unitarian Universalist Congregation, 6301 River Road, Bethesda, Maryland 20817 at 1:30 p.m., March 18, 2016. All are welcome.A Memorial Service will be held at the River Road Unitarian Universalist Congregation, 6301 River Road, Bethesda, Maryland 20817 at 1:30 p.m., March 18, 2016. All are welcome.

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 15, 2016.

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Nancy wasserman

March 9, 2022

Only such a mensch could raise such a mensch ..needless to say, I am blessed to be one of Jonathan Blum´s friend.
Much love and condolences to your entire family!

linda kaplan

March 21, 2016

Dear Ann,
My heart is with u in your deep loss. Not knowing Elliot i know from your words what a beautiful,strong partner he was to u. Having read about his professional achievements, i know what a loss he is to all who he knew,treated,& trained.Stay strong treasuring the memories that will always be yours.Much love, linda

Mike Sheftell

March 20, 2016

You were allways a joy to be with as a kid!Remember your gift of Dylan LP when i was about 14?R.I.P. cousin!

Ellen Bilanow

March 19, 2016

Ann,

Sending my sincerest condolences. What a huge loss for you yet how fortunate you were to be married to a man of such character and depth. Sending lots of love your way.

March 18, 2016

Sending so much love. Such fond memories of Elliot, a marker of a particular times in our lives when our paths crossed often. Holding you all in our thoughts and in our heart. Arnold Kramer and Emily Carton

March 18, 2016

Many fond memories of a wonderful guy and family and fun times we had.Sending my love to the Blum family.
Gabrielle Del Pozzo Finkel

Michele Nitishin

March 18, 2016

Jonathan, Barbara and family, sending love and strength from Dallas Texas. What an impact your Father made while on this Earth. Arnold & I are very sorry for your loss. Hugs all around.

Betsy Stewart

March 18, 2016

Dear Elliot, We all miss you and will remember your welcoming us with your heart and soul. RIP Dear Friend

Richard McComber

March 17, 2016

My sincere condolences to you Joey. Although I only met your father once, he seemed to be a very happy and likable man. Your challenge begins now. Make him proud of you! I'm here for you.

Michelle James

March 17, 2016

My deepest condolences Ann and Joey!! Elliot's kind spirit was infectious. His gentle smile was contagious and the love for his family was endless! My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Blessings and love to you!

Richard

March 16, 2016

Elliott was one in a million: a Mensch, a brilliant therapist, and a very kind soul. I will miss him terribly but will always be grateful that we were part of each other's lives for a quarter century.

March 16, 2016

To the Blum Family, please accept our deepest sympathies. Michael, Carol Beth, Eric, Max Zack and Alana Yoffee (Pittsburgh, PA)

Benjamin

March 16, 2016

The mensch

Joyce Johnson

March 16, 2016

I would like to send my condolences to Ann and family. I will truly miss the times at the office when the weather was nice and we would people watch or just saying hello every morning from his starbucks run.

Philippe Walter

March 16, 2016

Our love and our thoughts are with you all during this difficult time. And always. Philippe, Amy, Man, Jazz and June

Lynn Compton

March 15, 2016

My thoughts and prayers go out to Elliot's family. He had the gift of wonderful children and grandchildren who all loved him dearly. He was a warm and caring man to all who entered his life. He will be missed by many!

March 15, 2016

I was one of many students whom Elliot loved and cared for. He was a wonderful mentor and role model, a man of great compassion and wisdom, strikingly undefended and willing to be seen in his ordinary humanity. I have been training and supervising psychotherapy practitioners for the past 25 years at AUT in Auckland, New Zealand, and have often channeled Elliot. All my love to you who gather in his name. Were I closer than the other side of the world, I would gladly join you and I will be there in spirit.
Jonathan Fay

March 15, 2016

Eliot helped me through some very rough times in my life. For this I am forever grateful.

Eliot modestly described himself as like a star that provides another beam of light that helps guide the way forward. Although the star is now gone, the light that it cast continues to improve my life and the lives of those that it has touched.

Thank you Eliot.

To Eliot's family, my condolences on your loss.

-- A patient

Alida Seidel

March 15, 2016

My sincere condolences to the entire Blum family. Elliot was a special man, a wonderful listener, a gentle responder and a fun chess player. He will be missed by all who knew him.

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