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Gail Sander Obituary

Gail Sander, 67, of Potomac, Maryland, died peacefully at home surrounded by her adored children and devoted dog on Friday, June 7, 2024. Gail was born on February 23, 1957, at the Frankfort Army Hospital in Frankfort, Germany. She grew up in Riverdale and New Rochelle, New York and graduated from the University of Pennsylvania before settling in Potomac, Maryland.
Gail is survived by her son Jeffrey (Stacy) Astrove and their children Henry and Josephine; her son Brian Astrove; her daughter Michelle (Joshua) Bridge and their child Madelyn, her partner of 23 years Stuart Dvorkin and his son William; her mother Carole Sander; her sisters Elizabeth (Mark Zabarsky) Sander and Karen (David) McGaha; her ex-husband David (Deborah) Astrove; and her many loyal friends and extended family members.
Gail devoted her life to her family. She fiercely loved her three children and three grandchildren and enjoyed spending time with them as much as possible. She loved attending concerts (such as the Eagles), traveling with Stuart, and walking their dog, Maggie. Gail cared deeply for the people around her. She was thoughtful, caring, considerate, and driven to find ways to help and support others. She was a beloved fitness instructor, known by her many longtime clients for her compassion and dedication to their well-being. She specialized in Pilates Reformer and pushed her students outside of their comfort zones to improve.
Gail was preceded in death by her father, H. James Sander.
A private funeral will be held for the family. The family will be receiving visitors afterwards at the Bridge household.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jun. 10, 2024.

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cathou brown

October 17, 2024

I exercise every day thinking of Gail, mainly on the days we had our classes... I started with her 1O years ago, at the WSC in Bethesda, then semi private classes (6 of us, on Pilates reformer), and then, when covid hit, by zoom... I loved her sense of humor, her dedication to her students, her ability to teach us, and to push us beyond what we felt like doing... I talk to her every day when I do my exercises at home, while playing the music she used for our classes... I am so sorry her grandchildren wont know how a great lady she was... such a class act...
Gail, I miss you...

cathou

October 9, 2024

I have just had a glass of chardonnay and a pretzel in Gail's memory, she certainly liked both...
I remember how excited she was when Henry was born, and when Michelle got married... she was so proud to show us the pictures of the dress Michelle wore...
I remember getting my dog Pogo at the same time she got Maggie...
we share the love of the same music , Tom Petty, the Beatles, the Eagles, Bruce Sprinsteen ...
We love you , Gail...

cathou brown

October 9, 2024

Gail had been my Pilates instructor for the last ten years, and I was looking forward to starting my classes with her again, after a five months stay in France... she was a class act, and I was privileged to have known her...
smile down on us...
..here is a big hug for you...

Mary Jane

July 15, 2024

Gail and I were part of the same zoom support group. I miss her quiet and honest presence. I am sorry for your loss.

Kris B.

July 15, 2024

I knew Gail from a Zoom MBC group and am so sorry for your loss. We will miss her terribly.

Kris B.

Nola

June 14, 2024

Our wishes for cold chardonnay and warm salt and pepper popcorn always...now turn step turn...rest well Gail...Love, Nola

Heather Tierney

June 11, 2024

Gail was my group exercise director at Washington Sports Clubs, Gail was a great director always helpful I´ll miss talking to her she was always helpful and inspiring

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Claudia Cicala

June 11, 2024

Gail said goodbye to us saying
"My life is very lucky". We were very lucky to have her as gym instructor inspiring us with her strength and her always positive disposition.

Mary Reed

June 10, 2024

Gail was an inspiration to all of us who attended her Silver Sneakers classes. Her courage and dedication to her students were truly admired.

bruce j klores

June 10, 2024

Gail will be terribly missed. I looked forward to her spin classes and her inspiration for many years. My deepest condolences to her family.

Debbie Carpel

June 10, 2024

I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences to Stuart and her family.

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