Search by Name

Search by Name

BORN

1952

DIED

2021

GARY GARDNER Obituary


GARY THOMAS GARDNER  
Gary Thomas Gardner passed away on July 3, 2021, at his home in Germantown, Maryland. Born on March 7, 1952, in Takoma Park, MD, he was the son of Nancy (Harrison) and George Dewey Gardner, Jr. He and his wife, Linda Kay Adams Gardner, celebrated their 23rd anniversary on June 6, 2021.Gary retired after working at Top Down Systems Corporation for 20 years as their Senior Network and Database Administrator and IT Helpdesk leader. He was the go-to person for everyone who required help in the office, all of whom became part of the Gardner extended family. Before that, he was the ALGS Administrator and Systems Programmer for 16 years at the National Geographic Society, and worked at Harry's camera shop in Frederick in 1981. He was a US Air Force Veteran, serving as an Aircraft Control and Warning Operator from 1971 to 1979.Gary loved watching nature, playing and watching golf, teaching kids and grandkids life lessons, drinking wine, bowling, and just spending time with family and friends. He touched so many with his positive attitude, charm, smart wit, and personality. He took the time to listen, and only offered advice when asked. He took the time to explain things in ways even the grandchildren could understand. He liked to talk about riding in the back of his granddad's truck as a kid, and about trips to his family's cabin in Elk Ridge Lake, Maryland.Preceded in death by his parents, George and Nancy Gardner and his grandson, Luke Andrew (January 26, 2019); he is survived by his loving wife, Linda; sons, Michael (Sarah) of Waynesboro, PA; Robert of Germantown, MD; daughters: Dawn Marie (Rene) of Odenton, MD; Jennifer Hayden (Dennis) of Laurel, DE, and Barbara Nicole of Germantown, MD; and grandchildren: Michael, Emma, William, Ella, Gabriella, Isaiah, Abel, Nevaeh and Ariyanna. Other family members include sister, Diane Matlock (Mike); brothers: John Gardner (Karen) and Scot Gardner; sister/brother-in-law(s): Richard Adams (Charlien), Eugene Adams, and Pamela Dodge (Brian), aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.Services will be held on Friday, July 16, 2021, at St. Luke Lutheran Church, 17740 Muncaster Rd., Derwood, MD 20855. Visitation at 10 a.m., service at 11 a.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to a scholarship fund that will be set up in Gary's name. He will be sadly missed by all, but let his memory comfort you, knowing he is in a better place, and will meet you again.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Washington Post on Jul. 14, 2021.

Memories and Condolences
for GARY GARDNER

Not sure what to say?





0 Entries

Be the first to post a memory or condolences.

Make a Donation
in GARY GARDNER's name

Memorial Events
for GARY GARDNER

Jul

16

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

St. Luke Lutheran Church

DC

Jul

16

Service

11:00 a.m.

St. Luke Lutheran Church

17740 Muncaster Rd., Derwood, MD

How to support GARY's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor GARY GARDNER's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more