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Jacob D. Dones Obituary

Jacob D. Dones loved life in the Army. His sister, Priscilla Rojas, joined the Marines. That led to more than a little sibling rivalry. "In a Pizza Hut once, he was starting to talk about how the Army was better than the Marines," Rojas said. As they playfully fought about it, he put her in a choke hold, she said with a laugh. "He was always laughing and cracking jokes. He was very confident." Dones, 21, of Dimmitt, Texas, was killed Oct. 20 in Hit from a mortar attack. He was assigned to Fort Irwin. "No matter how crappy a job he had to do, he always managed to find a way to make a joke about it," Spc. Jonathan Cruz said. "He was serious about his job, and he knew how to tell the difference between joking around and working." Dones graduated from high school in 2002 and enlisted in the Army that year. He was on his second tour of duty in Iraq. "He was an inspiration to the younger soldiers because he'd been through this before," said Sgt. Stephen Freitas. "He would keep the younger soldiers on track." Dones was soon to be married and had a 5-year-old daughter.

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Published by The Washington Post on Oct. 26, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
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Priscilla Rojas

August 21, 2020

Hello again. I am J.J.'s sister. On behalf of our mother (Rosa Doñes), sister (Jessica Ramirez), brother (Daniel Doñes), bother (Jason Doñes) and myself; thank you. Thank you for thinking of him and posting on his guest book. Thank you for thinking and praying for our family and our extended family.

J.J is greatly missed and still loved. We think of him often. It's amazing to know he touched many lives and made such a great impact during his time here on earth. We know he watches over everyone from heaven with our dad, Danny Doñes and every family member we've lost thus far.

We appreciate all the pictures and stories shared of J.J.

Once again, Thank you so much. We all appreciate your kindness.

If you would like to contact us, you can do so via this email: [email protected]

Priscilla Doñes Rojas

Marc Dougherty

May 22, 2019

Miss you Dones....

Tosh Lancaster

August 3, 2018

I miss you, brother. Hit as a tough gig for us. I still think of the long hours we spent together in the Bradley on Route Tampa; you always had some funny stories to pass the time. I think of you often and wish you were here.

Melinda Moreno

May 28, 2018

Youre heavy on my heart today! We miss and love you so much!

Erica

February 11, 2018

I still think of you every single day. It never gets easier. I am so lucky to have known such a great person. I hold each memory of you close to my heart.

Susan Parker

October 3, 2017

U.S. Congressman Trent Kelly served with SGT Dones in Iraq. He would like to honor him as he has other soldiers who made the ultimate sacrifice. Will someone from the family please contact our office? Our number is (662) 841-8808. Congressman Kelly is a Colonel in the Mississippi Army National Guard. Thank you

Charlie Gili

April 26, 2017

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Dones Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Jacob D. Dones US Army Sergeant. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

October 20, 2016

it's been 11 years today and even though i was so young when you passed i remember how hard i cried finding out you were gone. my heart is so terribly heavy right now. i'm missing you so much.

Jessica Williams

October 20, 2015

It's been 10 years without you and its still hard to cope. Wish I had my friend to talk to still. But your in a better place in the army of the lord. I really miss you and I think of you daily as all small simple reminders happen in my everyday life. I will always and forever cherish those memories to keep you alive in myself. Thanks for being there when I needed it the most.... All your funny comments on everything we went through at my grandma Lidia's. Damn how time flies huh? Love you forever and always. Your beloved cousin Jessica Nicole Williams

Mariano Matos

July 5, 2015

Miss u brother until we meet again.. gone but never forgotten

Margarita Hernandez

May 22, 2015

I check your guest book almost every week.
Love you we all miss you very much

Robin Armstead

April 6, 2014

Priscilla,
Please contact me as I would like to send you a free quilt (Home of the Brave Quilt Project) in honor of your brother Jacob.

October 8, 2012

Nearly 7 years since Jacob's passing and he is still remembered, respected and honored.

October 8, 2012

I Still miss you terribly!

Peggy Childers

October 20, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. Jacob D. Dones:
Please accept my remembrance of Jacob on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

SUZANNE DOÑES

October 17, 2011

I WAS THINKING THAT UR ENJOYING HAVING UR DAD REUNITED W U. I'M SO HAPPY THAT HE'S IN A BETTER PLACE AND WE MISS YA DEARLY. RIP DOÑES FAMILY!!! LUBB YA LOADS!!!!

Daniella Oltivero

October 11, 2011

You are always in my heart primo.! I love you and miss you so much.! There isn't a day that I don't think of you.!

SUZANNE DOÑES

September 20, 2011

I'M ALWAYS THINKING OF U AND I MISS U SO MUCH. SOMETIMES I FEEL UR HERE W ME BUT MAN IT'S SO HARD. I LUBB U SO MUCH BRO AND WE WILL B REUNITED SOMEDAY RIP SGT JJ DOÑES

Janel Beecher

September 19, 2011

My heart is heavy today!! Thinking about you more than ever!! Love you so much!!

Diana Puga

June 25, 2011

JJ, I think of you often! I think of the night I spent with you n Bubba, you guys enjoying life singing some Ramon Ayala and Solido songs! =) I miss your smiling face! I like to come every once in a while and read what people have written about you! I sometimes cry when I listen to certain songs that remind me of you! We didn't know each other for very long before we became close friends! I miss you JJ!

Love you always,
Diana

Priscilla Dones Rojas

May 30, 2011

Thinking of you, not only today, but everyday...miss you and love you.

Nick and Jennifer Salinas

May 30, 2011

Hi my name is Jennifer Salinas. Nicholas Sandoval Salinas wife. Even though I never got to meet him,I feel as if he is apart of me since Nicholas speaks of him all the time. Every year for Memorial Day we go put flowers and a flag for Jacob to honor him. Today is the first year we will miss doing that since I have been sick and have had several surgeries.Today we salute you and honor you for fighting for our FREEDOM and for what is right in our country! You are truly an amazing person and you are never forgotten! Thank You!

Elizabeth Nunez

January 17, 2011

I served with JJ for a few days while I was on election duty in Hit, Iraq. He was one of the soldiers providing security for the elections and I was one of four female Marines there to search female Iraqis who came to vote. I just want to say to his friends and family that it was an honor to know him for those few days. I didn't find out that he passed away until December of 2005. I actually sent him several letters after the day I last saw him, which was October 19th 2005. He was a great guy and kept all of us laughing and helped us to not be afraid. I still cry when I think about him and what a shining light he was to all of us on the election team. I had one of our F-18 pilots fly an American flag in their jet over the city of Hit before we left Iraq. I hope that his family got it. I just want to let you all know what a help Jake was to me while I was out there. I will never forget him.

Reginald Pippin

December 31, 2010

Miss you Dones.....Take Care

SGT Reginald Pippin

yolanda sandoval

December 4, 2010

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

BBQ in IRAQ

Scott BEck

November 11, 2010

Scott Beck

November 11, 2010

Dones,

You are greatly missed buddy!

SFC(P) "Retired" BECK

Peggy Childers

October 20, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. Jacob D. Dones:
Remembering Jacob on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Cristinia Paiz

October 19, 2010

JJ was a fun and very outgoing person, And yes always smiling!! He is missed dearly and will remain in our hearts forever!! We honor you, Hero!!

mari pena

October 18, 2010

u will be missed ur lyk my family i will never 4gt u i will always luv u n ur family

RoseMary Patterson

October 18, 2010

SGT Jacob "JJ" Dones
United States Armed Forces
Always and Forever in our hearts..
Love & Miss You Cuz

Joann Pena

October 18, 2010

We honor our HEro..!

Ed Harris

October 18, 2010

Thank God for our troops. You are in our prayers.

Cecilia Rodriguez

October 18, 2010

Now in God's hands forever in our hearts! You will never be forgotten!

Dana Nelson

October 18, 2010

Sgt Jacob Dones served and lived the ulitmate purpose of a soldier. We ae proud. We are humbled. We are awed.

Cecilia Rodriguez

October 18, 2010

Now in God's hands forever in our hearts! Never Forgotten!!

Noemy Martinez

October 18, 2010

I can't believe it's going to be 5 years already. You are greatly missed JJ!

SUZANNE DONES

October 18, 2010

ULL ALWAYS WILL B IN OUR HEARTS AND SPIRITS AND SOME DAY WE WILL B REUNITED. I LUV AND MISS U PRIMO/BRO. RIP SGT JJ!

Mario Matos

July 23, 2010

I will never forget my brother. I'm still planning that trip to demmitt to visit your home. By the way I lost contact with your brother, so if your reading this write. Your brother was my brother in arms and I'll never forget him. Laters.

Chris Back Torres

June 30, 2010

I will never forget his smile. Every time go to Dimmitt to visit my mom I stop and pay a visit to him. His sister and I were best friends, so I was close to JJ to. He is greatly missed.

SSG Saul Medrano

February 23, 2010

Hey bro, you are greatly missed between friends and comrades. I never got to serve right along side of you but i did serve at the same time u did. I still continue to serve and will always remember you. Until we meet again.

Belinda

January 28, 2010

Hey spider monkey, I miss you and still think of you when I see all the soldiers anywhere I am. I just want to say that I was proud of you when you took that big step in growing up and up til this day I still am proud of you. No matter what you will always be my little cuz. God Bless You.

Terry Smothermon

November 26, 2009

Charley Mike, Trooper!!!

October 20, 2009

It is now 4 years later and again I continue to check your guest book for any new entries. You are still being "MISSED" & I can't wait till we join you. "THANKS" to all that have signed JJ's guest book. "May God Bless ALL our SOLDIERS" & everyone.
Love you dearly,
your proud Great-Aunt
(Tia) Marty

daniella

October 12, 2009

JJ,
i love you and miss you every day!! love your litttle cuzin kiwi

Fonda Ells

September 9, 2009

Dear Jacob.
Bless you! I know you are in good hands. Thank you. I know how sad it is for the family left behind, but I also know that you look over them every day. Bless our soldiers, we love and pray for all. I sleep at night because of men such as your self. I pray all will come to peace, and our men and women come home. God bless all of you, and the family left behind.
God bless you, and God bless America.
Fonda Ells

Priscilla Rojas

August 29, 2009

J.J.,
I love you and miss you dearly everyday.
Your Little sister,
Priscilla

Daniel Donez

August 19, 2009

To the Family of SGT.Jacob D.Dones,My prayers are with your family,I will also mourn with you of the loss of my Bothers and Sisters who have served with me, I also am serving in Iraq this present day,, I will never Forget the Fallen who has made it better for Me and my Family.
God Bless the Dones Family and All the Men and Women in the US Armed Forces
Respectfully,
SSG Donez,Daniel
US Army

Kenna Larra

May 25, 2009

”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna

Ginger Dones-Hernandez

October 26, 2008

JJ,
You will never be forgotten! We miss you!

Sgt. J.J. Dones headstone can be seen in Dimmitt, TX (one of a kind)

October 25, 2008

Sgt. J.J. Dones (drawn by his father - Danny Dones)

October 25, 2008

Martina Dones

October 25, 2008

It has been 3 years now and not a day goes by that I don't check your guest book for new entries. I still "MISS YOU" & shed tears as I read the entries but I know you are in a better place of which someday I will join you & the rest of the family.
To those who have signed my great-nephew's guest book, I "THANK YOU" from the bottom of my heart & "May God Bless" each & everyone of you & hope to hear from you (via e-mail or so).
Love you,
your proud Great-Aunt
(Tia) Marty

Peggy Childers

October 23, 2008

To the family of Sgt. Jacob D. Dones:
Jacob gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

In Memory of Jacob ~ (Debra Estep)

October 20, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Jacob, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

JOE ALVAREZ

August 22, 2008

JJ IS A HERO & WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN GOD BLESS HIM

Terry Henderson

August 20, 2008

August 20, 2008
Dear Family and Friends of Sergeant Jacob Dones. I wanted you to know that today I ran a mile in memory of Jacob. While running I held you up in my prayers that your memories of Jacob may be sweet and that your comfort and peace grow with each passing day.
I look forward to the day when all of us will have the chance to be with and hug our loved ones again in heaven.
God Bless and keep you,
No Worries,
Terry Henderson
mom, CW2 Miles Henderson
KIA 06 Nov 06 Balad Iraq
Phil 4:6-10

Nancy Quiroz

July 24, 2008

I love you and miss you.... God bless and I'll see you soon

May 11, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Dones!

Julia Donez

April 28, 2008

Thank you, Sgt. Dones for the great sacrificed you offered for our freedom. My consolences & prayers to the family. (This was sent to me to see if we in some way are relatives. My last name is Donez & would appreciate it if someone in the family could contact me) Sister Julia Donez, MJMJ

The men of 3rd platoon H co 2-11 ACR at JJ memorial in Al Hit, Iraq

mariano matos

January 28, 2008

I had the honor of being JJ's squadleader and good friend in Iraq. Just to let yoy know alittle about JJ, he volunteered to go on a dangerous mission with me in order for married soldiers to not have to go. JJ and I spent many of times remembering the "good life" back home and songs from Ramon Ayla. JJ you're one of a kind and I will ware your memorial barcelt till the day I die. I love you man, till the day we meet again......... Gone but never forgotten...BLCKHORSE 2-11ACER

Miguel Neri

January 23, 2008

Sgt. Jacob Dones, It's been a couple of years now since you passed and it still feels like yesterday. Ever since you passed away I've been feeling guilty about a phone call I recieved from you that I didn't answer, I am sorry. I didn't pay much attention then but as I later found out that wasnt no ordinary call. My mother called me about 3 weeks later and said you had stop to visit her in Dimmitt and she also said you had tried to contact me and talk to me about re-enlisting in the Army. By the time I tried to call you it was to late you had already signed and on your way back to Iraq. Man I wish I could've talk to you before that just 1 last chat, I wish I would had answer that phone call. Now only memories fill our hearts, your gone but are not forgotten. Stay up kid one day we will all reunite, peace.

August 16, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

July 23, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Dones and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Victoria Sanchez

January 23, 2007

I didnt know him personally but talked on the phone once....i knew his family....sorry for your loss. You will be in our hearts forever. Rest In Peace JJ.

Garnet Jenkins

October 20, 2006

Paying tribute to this Fine Young Soldier, Sgt. Jacob D. Dones, on this first anniversary of the day he gave his life for our Country, with a Great Amount of Thanks for his courage, service and dedication to our Country and for Freedom.
May Jacob rest, in the Loving Care of God and know that he Truly is an American Hero.
May God's Grace and Comfort continue to be with the Dones family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.

Hoping you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country remembers someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am deeply sorry for your loss.

"I will lift up my eyes to the hills-
from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth."
Psalm 121:1-2

Natasha Williams

September 10, 2006

I will always remember JJ. God Bless.



Tasha Williams

ROBYN GARSIDE

May 30, 2006

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR THE LITTLE ONE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI



A PROUD MARINE MOM

You are our hero and our best friend this is the way you will be remembered

April 30, 2006

Jesica Villarreal

April 30, 2006

JJ is like family to us. I had the honor of knowing here at Ft Irwin. He could always make us laugh no mater what mood we were in. You will be greatly misssed but we love you and you will live forever with in our hearts and in that of our son Drew.

jeremy madrid

March 22, 2006

hey little brother my heart sank to the floor to find out such terriable news. My heart goes out to your family i'll always remember the times me you and cura spent together in Iraq the first time for we are "dirty first"

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

January 24, 2006

My heartfelt sympathy to the Dones family in the loss of Jacob. I did not know Jacob, but my heart is broken and I am sadden for your loss of such a young man and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers.

I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.

Love and Peace

Tom



To live in the hearts

of those you leave behind

is never to die"

~Robert Orr~

Spc.Ricardo Torres

January 22, 2006

I miss u man. It hurts that your gone but knowing that u are in a better place eases the pain a bit. May the lord bless u and your family. Love u And you are always in my thoughts and preyers.

Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford

January 21, 2006

Psalm 23



1

The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.

2

He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,

3

He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

4

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

5

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

6

Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.



This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!



My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!



Also, the Moving Tribute is was beautiful! Cherish those memories forever!



If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!



Wife & Daughter of the Late

Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford

KIA May 23, 2005

SSG Joe&Leticia Juarez

November 27, 2005

First of all I want to thank each and everyone of you for keeping the family in your prayers.

My family is very proud of JJ and what JJ stood for.He was a very honest,loyal,loving man to both his family and his country.This hero can rest a sure knowing that he will never be forgotten.

We love you and miss you very much!

PS. Til we meet again

Your uncle & aunt

Priscilla Dones Rojas

November 22, 2005

Hi,I just wanted to tell all the soldiers that served with my brother thank you, thank you for being there for him when we couldn't. Thank you for writing and letting us know what type of person he was with all of you, his friends. I miss him so much; more than anything in the world; I know you will too. I would greatly appreciate it if you could e-mail me any pictures or stories of J.J. Once again, Thank you so much. I would also like to say thankyou to everyone who has helped us with our loss. Thank you greatly. We all appreciate your kindness.



[email protected]

Kevin Averre

November 21, 2005

I had the honor of serving with Jacob at Ft. Carson, CO and in Iraq. In all the things I have read that his family has written about him, I wholeheartedly have to agree, that guy was smiling all the time! He was a great person and friend, and I have never met anyone that could throw a grenade as far as he could. Our squad joked he would be carrying all the grenades when we got into Iraq. Jacob also had an iron will. When times were tough it never seemed to bother him. He'd spend those times cheering everyone else up. So long man, you will be missed. Please, to his family and friends let me share the photos I took of Jacob. feel free to email me and I will send them to you.

Jim Holt

November 19, 2005

I didn't know JJ in the real world, but as a Vietnam Veteran of the 11th ACR in 67-68 I know what he stood for and why he was serving his country.

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all his family and friends. Since I live close to his home, if there is anything I can do to help the family Plase let me know.



Allons,

Janel Beecher

November 9, 2005

On behalf of Sgt. Jacob "J.J." Doñes family. We would like to express many heartfelt thank you's for all the phone calls, prayers, and acknowledgements for our devastating loss of our beloved J.J.. We have acknowledged that he was doing a noble thing by serving our country and trying to preserve all the freedoms we hold so dear. Our family knows that we are being lifted up by all your prayers and that God will bring us comfort and understanding. Thank You!!

Walter Padilla

November 8, 2005

Sgt. Jacob Dones was my driver during his first tour in Iraq. He always wanted to get the job done and never let me down. I miss him like I miss my own blood, because he became my blood over time. I will never forget his smile or his laugh. We all liked having JJ around, and he spoke so highly of his family back home. My deepest sympathies go out to his family. I will never forget you brother.

Jolene Vereecke

November 8, 2005

I teach first grade in Higginsville, Mo (Adam Beck's hometown). Last year my class was fortunate to be able to write to Sgt. Dones. He was a fine example for my students. They were proud to be writing to someone that was fighting for freedom. My condolences to all who knew and loved Jacob.

Alex Beck

November 5, 2005

If you do not know me i am Pfc. Adam Beck's little brother. DOnes Adam said was always the one that showed Adam aroud in California and was the one there for him. Adam said he could've of never made it without Sgt. Jacob Dones.

Sincerely,

Alex Beck

Judy Tenneyuque

November 2, 2005

To all of J.J's family. I did not know J.J, but I do know his Great Aunt Marty and just knowing her I can only imagine the person that J.J was. May god be with each of you during this difficult time.. Now J.J can sing with a Band of angles and all the fixens..God Bless Our Troops!!

Chuck Casey

November 1, 2005

The nation lost a great warrior, but the good Lord recieved a "GUARDIAN". Someone that I know who will protect the gates of heaven forever. Bro you will always be remembered in my heart and mind. I will not forget the friendship that we had and all the good times we shared. Until I see you again ADIOS AMIGO!!!!!!!

From Sgt Chuck & Kim Casey

Ft. Campbell, KY AIR ASSAULT!

Sondra Millman

November 1, 2005

To the Family and Friends of Jacob::::



No matter how old or how young, one life lost, is one life too many. We are just getting our lives back in order after losing our beloved Granddaughter, A1C Elizabeth N. Jacobson, the First Female Security Forces Blue Beret, who lost her life in Iraq, 9-28-05. She is now guarding the gates in Heaven while waiting for Jacob, and we want you to know that he will not be forgotten and hope that you will be as proud of him for serving as we were of Elizabeth. Without our children this Country would not be what it is today, whether from the first War for freedom until today's wars, we give our lives so Freedom can be obtained. I wish it was different, but unfortunately, it is going to be someone's loved one. May G-d bless our troops, and hopefully, someday Freedom and Peace will reign, so they all can be brought home safely.



No matter what type of accident or act of war, a loss of a child or friend is very traumatic, I know that it isn't much consolation, I hope that you know that there are others that feel your pain.



Elizabeth's motto was "We're only on Earth for a little while, so live life to the fullest and carry a smile."

Lisa Sears

October 31, 2005

We will always remember JJ as A wonderful caring Person and a great Hero. May God Be With You Brother!



Sears Family

Lisa Sears

October 31, 2005

We will alwaya remember JJ as A wonderful caring Person and a great Hero. May God Be With You Brother!



Sears Family

Dana Gonzales

October 28, 2005

I will miss JJ. He was a great Christian and a wonderful man. He always had a smile on his face and he was nice to everyone.

Love

Dana

Brandi Robles & family

October 26, 2005

We will miss you.

Martina Dones

October 26, 2005

Jacob D. Dones known by family as "JJ" or "Spider Monkey" (by his deceased Uncle Thomas Falcon). We will miss our fine young man who loved to sing, dance & family get togethers & the Army.

Love, Your Great-Aunt "Marty"

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