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for Jose L. Ruiz
Carmen Rivera
May 26, 2015
This time of year is for us to remember all who dies for our country.
You were one of the best. RIP Love you
Andrea Mosquera
May 25, 2015
I give thanks to the Lord for blessing my family with the privilege to have met your EXTREMELY, especial parents. For the past 3/4 years I can imagine what a wonderful young man u were it shows in the eyes and unforgettable stories your parents so proudly share with us. Would have loved to at least shake your hand and tell you how thankful we are with your passion to protect your Country.
Michael Neel
November 19, 2013
Ruiz. It is too long i have waited to find a place to say goodbye to you. You were the kindest man I met in my entire 5 years in the army. I miss you man. I cannot tell you how hard it hit me when I heard the news. RIP brother. I have your name forever on my back with Ridgely, Mitts and T. I love you guys. I'll see you again. Watch over us now until we all get to rest. You were best of us.
Ariel Cruz
June 8, 2013
Yoo my ninja from another ninja I still have that wonderful montage you made w Reyes Doc and the rest of the crew on the FOB Singing oh baby you lol I still see you bro and love ya bc I know you had Reyes back and vice versa bro- We will catch up--RIP
Charlie Gili
April 10, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Ruiz Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
August 11, 2012
Jose, Te quiero mucho, y pienso en ti siempre. Give a kiss to Nala for me.
Damaris
Andrea Baptiste
August 7, 2012
I feel you around me and my family all the time, especially since i had my son...words cannot express the loss in my husbands life since you passed away. u are missed and thought of with joy and laughter in this house and i wish we had more time to know you.
Eduardo Delacruz
March 13, 2012
What up Homie, miss you... I think about you all the time. Having you inked on my skin isnt enough. Well until we meet again homie.... Love you
September 7, 2011
Te Amo Joe C Fist.
Damaris Bergas
August 16, 2011
JOSE I LOVE YOU................I am thinking about the HORSE SHOE CRAB incident....Spit in your face again fool.
Peggy Childers
August 15, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Jose L. Ruiz:
Please accept my remembrance of Jose on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Yvonne Robertson
May 30, 2011
you are not forgotten
August 17, 2010
Hey cuz
Just wanted to let u know that u are truly missed Luv u p.s tell Gigi,Nana and everyone up there I miss them to
August 17, 2010
Did I ever tell you how much I love you...
Peggy Childers
August 15, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Jose L. Ruiz:
Remembering Jose on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
November 10, 2009
I miss you, even now...I can't seem to stop wanting you to come back.
Vicki
Beth Edwards
November 7, 2009
To Jose's family,
I didn't know Jose but I did go to the same high school and college. I was caught by suprise on 10/27/09 at Southside Hospital when Jose' wife Alexa, beautiful 5 year old daughter and family came to take a picture of me and my new baby boy. My heart goes out to his wife, daughter, parents and the whole family. It was so loving that they took the time to come to the hospital while they are grieving from the loss of their loved one. I was speechless when they gave my family so many nice clothes and toys for the baby. I want to thank you and tell you that it was greatly appreciated. I pray that your family will endure during this difficult time. When you get a chance please read in your bible John 5:28, 29 and Revelation 21:3-4 it gives us comfort from the scriptures that one day our loved ones that fell asleep in death there is a hope of a resurrection and one day there will be no more death, sickness or pain. "God will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” and we can put faith in the scriptures because God cannot lie. (Titus 1:2) "upon the basis of a hope of the everlasting life which God, who cannot lie, promised before times long lasting."
Sincerely
Beth
Victoria Amadeo-Ellis
September 22, 2009
Hey Jose,
Been thinking about you a lot lately. Seems that you have been getting a lot of company lately. It eases me to know that they are with you. I miss you so much. I was thinking about the first time we shaved your head and you put baby lotion on it and you had that sunburn. Even that you took with such grace of character. I miss you. All that time we had and it still wasn't enough. Love you.
Vicki
September 20, 2009
Did I ever tell you how much I love you....
Eddie DeLaCruz
September 18, 2009
Whats up Homie, its been a long time. I just want to say I miss you. You where a great friend,husband, and father. I inked a mural on my right leg dedicated to you homie. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.... LOVE YA HOMIE....
alexa ruiz
September 3, 2009
It has been four years since you left this world. I miss you still to this day. Liana is getting bigger and missing you now more then ever. She saw a picture of you and jarod the other day and started to cry saying why did jarod get to meet you and not her. She is at a fragile stage in her life now and I promise that I will be their for her to walk her through these hard times. I love you! I miss you! I will see you one day! Lady Ruiz
Peggy Childers
August 16, 2009
To the family of Spc. Jose L. Ruiz:
Jose gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
June 9, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,550 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
April 5, 2009
jose I love you............
Carol Weber
April 3, 2009
> To Alexa Ruiz and the family of SPC Jose Ruiz,
> Deepest sympathy for your family's ultimate sacrifice from a group called "Prayer Shawls for Fallen Soldiers." We are a grass-roots ministry of 242 GROUPS of Americans who care very much about your loss, and therefore have sent over 2,800 prayer shawls to families of our fallen military in the past 1 1/2 years. If you or another family member would like to receive a shawl in Jose's memory, please contact me at [email protected].
With thanks and prayers,
Carol Weber
Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers
http://webpages.charter.net/ps4fs/shawls/
CARMEN RIVERA
October 27, 2008
STILL DO AND ALWAYS WILL THINK OF YOU. TODAY IS YOUR BIRTHDAY.
RIP
In Memory of Jose ~ (Debra Estep)
Debra Estep
August 15, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Jose, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
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Damaris Bergas
May 8, 2008
Papo,
Why must you make me emotional?
Jose is missed dearly daily and sometimes I forget that I can go on here and write and write and write and tell him how I feel. I talk to him all the time in my heard and my mind but their is nothing like reading notes from family to him.
Jose,
Alexa wants a washing Machine for Mothers Day can you make that happen? Can you pray to the Washing Machine GODs that she get that.
I love you more than I did yesterday! Oh wait thats not it ! It's" Did I ever tell you how much I love you" ! Yes I did and I do actually more than Alexa. Just kidding I love that MOM! Alexa Happy mothers Day!
franklin watkins
May 8, 2008
sad is what i feel today because i think of you and think about what we would be doing for mothers day but i know you would be doing somthing beautiful for your wife so i will let her know what a great mother she is to lil mama so dont worry up there ok and just tell nana and gigi Happy Mothers Day for me. miss u and i will see u agian love u
Papo
Victoria Amadeo-Ellis
May 8, 2008
Jose,
I simply miss you. I wish there had been more time. Miss you much.
Vicki
May 7, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Ruiz!
Damaris Bergas
December 27, 2007
Joe,
Typically I carry you in my mind and thoughs but lately. watching Liana grow and being related to your wife! I really really needed to write down how much I miss you! I can tell you I am sad to not have you here however; I am strong because I did have you in our lives. Thank you for Liana and I hope you are taking care of dad. I miss you as I know you are watching over.
Did I ever tell you how much I love you"
October 26, 2007
REmembering a beautiful person.
Rest in peace Jose.
NORMA ACOSTA
September 23, 2007
I MISS YOU JOE. THANK YOU ALEXA FOR BEING THERE FOR ME. MY LOVE TO LIANA AND D. GOD BLESS YOU.
-COKY
Chrissie P
August 15, 2007
Alexa, you and your family are in my prayers everyday. Today you mark the 2 year anniversary of Jose's passing. I can not imagine the pain you have felt. Know that Jose will always be alive in your heart and in your memories. Liana will know through you that her Daddy was a true hero. She will grow up to be proud of him. You are a very strong woman, and Liana is so lucky to have you. Your husband is watching over you from above. Never let his memory fade.
Lady Ruiz
August 14, 2007
Tomorrow will be 2 years since I lost you. I wanted to let you know that I still dream of you, think of you and miss you! See you soon, querido mio. Lady Ruiz
Debra Estep
August 9, 2007
Dear Alexa and family and friends of Jose,
I read a message you left on the site of a Fallen Hero Alexa and I was so touched by your beautiful words. Your reaching out to
comfort the family of another Fallen Hero brought me to tears.
I then noticed that is the month of your dear loved ones passing.
If you would please email me,
I would like to email you a copy of a picture of a soldier and angel drawing that I did.
I will gladly email the picture to anyone who requests it.
God has given me an artistic talent
and gifts are meant to be shared.
I will hold you all so very close in my prayers.
Warmly,
Deb
Proud Air Force Mom - Vinny - Korea
Proud Air Force Mother in law Dana - Iraq
sheila
August 9, 2007
I am so touched by reading the comments everyone has left. I am so sorry I never got the chance to know him. To his wife and child- I am sure he is proud of how you are keeping his memory alive. May he rest in peace.
August 7, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Sharrod
July 26, 2007
I can't front...I miss you, my dude.
Alexa R
July 23, 2007
OHIO - Thank you, for acknowledging a True American Hero. May God Bless us all as too many of our young men are still falling. Signed Lady Ruiz :)
July 22, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Ruiz and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Gary
May 3, 2007
A true American hero.God bless Jose and his family.
Carmen Rivera
March 5, 2007
Dear Little Man,
I know your grandma, my siister Gigi is surrounded with love and comfort up there with you, mami, papi, papo, Ron, Eddie and the other family and friends she has lost over her ifetime. I'm sure she's updating everyone. She was a lovinig sister and I'm so gratefurl that we were what sisters are suppose to be like before she left. Tell her I truly miss her and that I know what she wanted me to do.
She was loved more than she thought and that's why we chose a funeral. She told her great-grandson Justin "she wanted her ashes blown into the sky and that everyone no† be sad but happy." Justin will have her gurad dog by his side and have all his memories. He is truly missing her and will cherish her love for eternity. Aryanna, he great-granddaughter said "Mami, I'm gonna miss Gigi making me hot chocolate." I'll try and continue the family festivities. I love all of you will see you all when I get there;but could the gate rush slow down a bit, it sems to be getting a liile crowded. Love titi.
Carmen Rivera
December 26, 2006
Dear Little Man,
You are truly missed. Rest in Peace. Love Titi
mike drew
November 12, 2006
Alexa
I spoke to you at the cemetery today but never introduced myself (sorry). I am adding you and your family to my prayer list. God Bless all of you. Those of us that have served will never forget.
Mike Drew
Carmen Rivera
October 27, 2006
Dear Little Man,
Today, the day you were born 30 years ago, is the one I hold dearest to my heart. You are not here, but you are always around. You were God sent and your soul lives on. I still remember you as a child, and all the child like things kids do. As a man I didn't know you as well, but do know that you were a great person. A street was named after you near Brentwood HS and a flag was given to the principal, by our government to fly in your honor. You are not fogotten. You legacy lives on for Liana.. I love you always.
alexa ruiz
September 21, 2006
Dear Family and Friends,
I wanted to inform you of a special event taking place to honor my beloved husband.
On August 15, 2005, Spc Jose Ruiz (US Army) was killed in combat in Iraq. To honor his memory, a street leading up to the Ross Center at Brentwood High School, his alma mater, will be renamed Spc Jose Ruiz Avenue. I hope you will join me at 11:00am on September 25th at the main entrance of Brentwood High School, South 5th Avenue, Brentwood, NY 11717 for a ceremony and unveiling of the honorary street sign bearing Jose’s name.
The legacy of Spc Jose Ruiz’s courage and compassion will now adorn the path students take each day to and from school. This street will celebrate Jose’s memory, and insure his place as a role model of valor for all generations of Brentwood students to come.
I hope you can join me to honor the greatest sacrifice of one of our community’s bravest. Please RSVP to Caryn Lewi in my office at (631) 951-2210.
It is short notice however I wanted to make you aware of what is going on.
Jose's memory will always live on. Help support our Troops!!!
Carmen Rivera
August 17, 2006
Dear Little Man,
Tuesday was your memorial and I was unable to attend because Mikey was in the hospital. He was injured on Tuesday morning, the same day a yeart later that you were taken from us. I feel deep in my heart that you are the reason he is alive. I feel that you are the angel sent to him and you are still with him. Please take care of him and help him pull through. I'm so lost at this moment and will pray that all will
be well soon and he will recover quickly. It's in God's hands now. I love and miss you so.
Garnet Jenkins
August 15, 2006
Paying tribute to Spc. Jose L. Ruiz, with a Multitude of Thanks for his service and dedication to our country and our freedom..
May he rest, in the Mighty Hands of God and know that he truly is an American Hero.
May God's Loving Grace and Comfort continue to be with the Ruiz family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." - John 15:13
May the memories of your loved one live in your heart always.
"RAMBO" ---- ROBERTO FERNANDEZ II
August 13, 2006
As an ex Spec.Ops soldier I was trained to accept eventual losses during conflict but when you become close to a soldiers family, the rules of engagement change and the pain becomes your pain. I only knew Jose for a brief moment but was privy to his life through his wife and family. He "is" much loved. It is an honor to share a military legacy with this young man and am very proud to call him brother. "AIRBORNE" - "ALL THE WAY". WHOOAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Alexa Ruiz
July 16, 2006
SPC JOSE LUIS RUIZ MEMORIAL TRUST FUND
PO BOX 703
NEW YORK, NY 10040
If anyone is interested in sending donations please send to the above address. Thank you for your continued support and assistance.
Alexa Ruiz
CARMEN RIVERA
July 2, 2006
Dear MAY Little Man,
Yesterday we loss Eddie Mattei. You know he was your dad's best friend. Now he's there with you, mami and papi and his son Eddie. He was such a good person and he leaves his family and his friends so many memories to cherish. One day, one at a time we all will be there with all of you and be given a second chance as a family. MAY YOU ALL REST IN PEACE.
ROBYN GARSIDE
July 1, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR DAUGHTER. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Carmen Rivera
June 12, 2006
Dear Little Man,
Just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you today, and on Memorial Day, meant to write this, but couldn't. Yesterday was your grandmother"s 71st. birthday (and the 49th. Puerto Rican Day Parade). Papo, his family and I went to Schenectady, her new home to surprise her. We had a nice visit with her. She speaks of you often. I saw Liana and Alexa two weeks ago. Liana is the spitting image of you when you were her age. She is doing well and was running around and chasing my dog Forest. Your dad Jose, was in another world, just so happy to be with her. She is so loved by all of us. Looking forward to see her grow into a young lady. Will let you know as she does. We all miss and love you so much.
Patsy Giarrizzo
June 11, 2006
Hello I want to tell you that SPC. Jose Ruiz is in my heart will not leave. I have read a lot about this wonderful Hero. I have never met him but have served him. I am a MEDEVAC Pilot for the New Hampshire National Guard. I spent 12 months in Mosul ready at a moments notice to help our soldiers. My crew I flew with was a very well trained dedicated bunch of guys. I know and will not forget Jose because of a mission that I had to respond to a soldier that had been shot. I was told he had been brought in on a Stryker and it was very serious. The Stryker had got him to the Aid Station and SPC Jose had gone to God at that time. When we arrived I was told I was no longer needed, but I knew his fellow soldiers where there and as sad as I was. We took SPC Ruiz in spite of being turned back to base. It was time for him to go home and we felt part of him in our souls. I willl never forget this BRAVE MAN, I CAN NOT !! God Bless all who he has touched and remember he is not forgotten. Thank-You
Madeline Sanchez-Rosa
April 15, 2006
Wassup Jose! I miss making you crack up with my antics, but you just wait, soon you will be enjoying my stupidy! I hope I'm still funny in Heaven. (I might get serious, you know, naaaaa) Did you know that in Heaven 1 day is a year and 1 year is a day. Rest peacefully Jose, for we will ALL be together soon. You, Alexa, your baby, your parents, Xaxia, Damaris, Janette, Tito, Ramon, Monchi, Dennis, me, my mom, my kids, Jose, the entire family!! Anyway, let me say so long, because we will all be united when our time comes and we meet you up there. Some of us might take longer than the others, but believe me, Jose, we will see you again. Make sure you get lots of rest because you gonna laugh real hard when I get up there!!! Love always, Madeline Sanchez-Rosa.
Victoria Amadeo-Ellis
April 12, 2006
Jose,
Your are truly and sorely missed. There aren't enough words in all of the languages in the world to explain how much. I still can't believe that you're gone. You will forever remain one of those people who touched everyone you came across, even in death. I thank God that I did get to be apart of your life. See you in the next.
Love,
Vicki
thomas leftenant
March 25, 2006
my deepest condolences to the entire ruiz family. i met jose in junior high, east junior, 8th grade. we used to talk about airwolf all the time and our g.i. joe collections. the world will miss him horribly. he was a strong person. to jose: thank you so much for everything,its people like you that make life as we know it possible, i will never forget you, you will be my friend forever.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 26, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Ruiz family in the loss of Jose. I did not know Jose, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Jose little Liana's picture in her fatigues melted my heart. It is a little over 6 months since you were taken. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Carmen Rivera
December 25, 2005
Dear Little Man,
I'm thinking of you today and remembering that you were home last
Christmas seeing your little Liana for the first time. This year you are in heaven looking down on her. She is lovely girl.
I saw her at her first birthay party last month. It has very nice. She won't remember it, but there's lots of pictures to look back on. The older kids and adults had fun. Just know that she is well loved and has a big family. Love you and tell Mami & Papi I love them both and miss them. Until the next time. Titi
Neville Arjani
November 25, 2005
I recently read about Jose's last fight and his previous homecoming. It is not enough to say that I was touched. Jose was a true son of this land and we will all be eternally grateful for his service.
May God bless his entire family and may his daughter grow up to be proud of her father. His country always will be in his debt.
Rocio Calero
November 10, 2005
I want to send my love to the family. I met Jose through my sister Sephora. He was such a great guy, the thing I remember most about him was that he was always smiling and laughing. I left to the Air Force after high school in 99 and even though I was gone he would send a hello through my sister. I'll miss you Jose!
Javier Sanz
October 28, 2005
To the family of a great friend.
I met Jose when he sing for the Army. I was all so joining in the same office. I remember hem as a great person with a lot of dedication in hes eyes. Sadly I got the news the other day when I got the chance to stop by the recruiting station to say hi to my recruiter. Like always I ask for a few soldiers and specially SPC. Ruiz. They give me the sad news and my heart broke to millions of pieces. He definitely make a mark in my life and I'll will never forget hem. To hes family thank you for let him do one of hes dreams!
My heart goes out to all of you.
Javier Sanz
Carmen Rivera
October 27, 2005
My Dearest Little Man,
Today is not a day of celebration, but a day of remembrance. A day I will cherish
forever. The day you were born to leave your mark on this earth. You the srtong, loving and honorable soldier. You,who fought for what you believed; freedom for a country not yours. You, who showed compassion to and uplited the spirits of your comrades. You left you mark not once, but again when you gave us your daughter Liana. She will not have you in her life, but will know that you sacrificed your life so that we all could hope to live in a peaceful world. You have made us all proud to have the world know that YOU are part of US. I love you and lastly will always have the memory of our first dance.
ROBERT RUIZ
September 8, 2005
My deepest pain was not being able to have known you Jose, but now I do .Through your beauitful family Alexa & Liana , I know you as the warrior the soldier the husband and father. God bless you
Jose, Repect & Love for life . SGT Ruiz
brother at Arms.
GOD BLESS YOU ALEXA & LIANA
LOVE THE RUIZ FAMILY
Alexa Ruiz
September 8, 2005
I have the strength to say a few words now:
Jose's last voice mail to me was:
"I want you to know that I love you and have always loved you. You know they ask me here what is my greatest fear, its not the bullets and death that surrounds me. What I fear the most is loosing you. I can't bear to be seperated any longer it hurts and pains me. I need you so desperately every day the bear inside takes over just a little bit more. The bear sleeps deeply when I'm with you. I need you. I need your love. I need your heart. I need your touch. I need your hope. I've never needed you more then ever Alexa. I cant wait to enjoy our family and be together happily in our new home. I miss you and love you with all my heart and soul."
To My Family and Friends: Thank you all for the support you have given me for this has been the greatest loss of my life and I know things happen for a reason and god gives us only what we can handle. I am strong, I am a survivor and I will get through this.
Until our paths cross again...
Jose our love will transcend all time... and nothing, noone not even death can break that. I will always and forever be your wife, bestfriend and soul mate. You have made me truly and ultimately happy.
Alexa and Jose and his Graduation Day
September 7, 2005
The softer side of the warrior you all know
September 7, 2005
he found a little soldier that was all his
September 7, 2005
Once Jose and I got home and I unwrapped Liana (SEE NEXT PIC)
September 7, 2005
ROBERT/BEVERLY BROWN
September 3, 2005
WE FEEL YOUR PAIN YOU HAVE OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY WE WILL CONTINUE PRAY FOR HEALING SINCERLY.ROBERT/BEVERLY BROWN
Sara Gegenheimer
August 31, 2005
To Alexa,
My name is Sara, my husband was Jose's squad leader. I attended the memorial service last Monday here at Ft. Lewis. I just wanted to let you know the service was beautiful and the church was full of all of us who wished to honor your husband's life and grieve his loss. I know all too well the dread of hearing that knock on the door but I cannot imagine the pain of actually hearing it. My heart aches for you and your daughter. My husband and I will never forget Jose's sacrifice, your sacrifice or that of your family. Our prays are with you now and always.
GaWanda Slate
August 28, 2005
Our prayers go out to the family of this Hero!
Phyllis Norflett
August 27, 2005
My heartfelt sympathies to Alexa and the King family. I did not have the chance to meet Jose and I feel like I missed knowing someone very special. I know that his Mom and Dad, Julie and Ed, are very special people. May the peace that only Christ can give comfort you during this time.I thank Jose and all of our soldiers for their dedication in protecting our country. Think on the good times. God Bless You.
James Norwood
August 26, 2005
I would like to send my deepest condolences to the family. I am also a Brentwood High School Graduate who served in OIF 1. My prayers go to the family.
Sgt Norwood
USMC
Carlos Rodriguez
August 25, 2005
Alexa my deepest condolences for you and your family. I wish I could do more, god bless you & liana. Everyone here at NYPH is morning for you. I'm so sorry for your lost. C.J.
Max Boisrond
August 25, 2005
Jose
You were a friend and part of my family. You had become a brother, who grew up to become a man, then a hero to us all. We love you, miss you, and you will never be forgotten. Rest in peace my friend.
Max Boisrond and family!
Baptiste & Joseph family!
peter ashton
August 25, 2005
Love is the inspiration of all human effort. Jose, you have shown that inspiration to your Family and Country.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful Family..
Eileen and Bill Jeker
August 25, 2005
Our sincere deepest condolences are extended to the family of another fallen hero from two very grateful Americans. Jose, thank you and may you rest in peace.
David Mauricio
August 23, 2005
Although we have never met, he was my family and so I was sad to hear of his passing. His heroism is a tribute to our family and country. He was close with my sister, Gloria, and she speaks fondly of him. I wish his family peace and know that he is in a better place.
Jose's second cousin,
David
Ramona & Dawn DeLeon
August 23, 2005
To Alexa,
We are so sorry for your loss. Know that Jose is truly never gone. The love you shared will give you the strength for each passing day. There are many who love and care for you and Liana and will make sure Jose's legacy is protected and never forgotten.
Gloria Martinez
August 23, 2005
Jose,
I know I will see you someday in heaven. For now I would like you to know that your family will be loved and looked after. I will never forget you and the sacrifice you have made so we all may be closer to peace.
God bless you,
Gloria
STANLEY
August 22, 2005
* Wake will be held on Tuesday, August 23 @ R.G.Ortiz Funeral Home @ 4425 Broadway, New York, NY from 2pm-9pm. Funeral home # (212) 942-3700.
* Funeral service will be held on Wednesday, August 24 @ St. Elizabeth Church @ 187 Street, New York, NY from 10am-11am.
* Burial service will be @ Long Island National Cemertary @ 2040 Wellwood Avenue, Farmingdale, NY off Exit 49 on the LIE.
* Please call Stanley for futher info. @ (631) 664-0831
Norma-Rosa (Coky) Acosta
August 22, 2005
To my beloved Cousin/brother,
Joe, I know you're in glory with the Lord. You were at my side from my mother's belly and you continue to be. Now the entire world knows how dynamic you are. I'm blessed that we are of the same blood. I'll see you bro!
Your prima hermana,
Coko
Greggette Ashford
August 22, 2005
To the entire Ruiz family
I was heartbroken to hear of Jose's death. I haven't seen him since he was a baby but I remember going over to Jose's house to see his new baby boy and I remember how excited and happy he was. My prayers to the entire family and especially to Alexa and her daughter. I am Fernando Soto's eldest daughter and Jose is my cousin. Please know that we are praying for you and how blessed everyone was to have known him and to have had him be a part of their lives.
God Bless !
Keri Merchant
August 22, 2005
I want to extend my deepest sympathy to the Ruiz family. I am also a graduate of Brentwood. Your family will be in our prayers.
Keri Merchant (Hamilton)
SSgt, USAF
Eileen Urena
August 22, 2005
There are no words to say, only good thoughts and prayers and love. To the family of Jose and Alexa I send my condolences.
Marly Gonzalez
August 22, 2005
I had the pleasure of meeting you through Eileen a few years ago. Unfortunately, I never had the chance to meet Jose but I always heard great things about him. Alexa, remember that all of us love you and we are all here for you and your little princess. Jose will always be by your side, loving and protecting you. May god bless you all.
Andrea Urena
August 22, 2005
Please know that I Love You, and that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know that this will be a difficult time but take comfort in the fact that you have a wonderful support system, and we will all be here for you, and the baby.
Xaxia Sanchez
August 21, 2005
To My loving Uncle,
I am speechless, till today I still believed you are coming home. But I know now that you are home wit the family, in my heart, in my prayers and in my memories. I know how much you loved our family and I want you to know that my family no, I mean our family loves you with all our hearts. Your smile and Alexa's smile made us proud that you were part of us. Please remember that. I love you and I will always love you. Please remember that you will always live on in our family as a Hero and a Warrior because that is what you were and Liana is going to know that. She will know who you were and we will share all our great memories with her about her heroic DAD! She will always have you in her heart as her Hero. And don't worry about Alexa were going to take care of her, she is going to be safe and strong for herself and Liana. Well always keep our memories alive and Alexa will always love you and miss u. You are a big part of our family and we well never forgot about u. I love u and miss u and well always keep u in my heart for when I need to talk, or just want to say hi.
Love always Xaxia...Jose because of you were are all one big family, the Bergas family, the Ruiz family, the King family... We love and miss u... Stay close and watch over us and guide Alexa and Liana to the path of rightousness...like you our Warrior.
Love Xaxia.
Rose Kelty
August 21, 2005
My deepest Condolences to the Ruiz/King FAMILY!
I live a block away from them and they are wonderful neighbors and welcomed me and my daughters with welcome arms
I did not know their son Jose personally, but
his family has shown me much love since I moved into the neighborhood
I know for him the saying The Apple doesn't fall far from the tree is a true testament to who he is.
He protected his family as well as
the rest of us by serving his country,to make sure our freedoms stay in tact and we sleep safe at night
and that says much within itself!
His father called him their Hero
He is Ours as well
Jose Ruiz will be forever a Treasured Memory!
I love You Julie! Stay Strong
Jimmy Dahroug
August 21, 2005
My condolences to the Ruiz and King families. We are all grateful to Jose for his service to our country. My prayers are with you.
Kayla and Joe McClure
August 20, 2005
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. My husband was with him that day. If you need anything please don't hesitate to ask. May Jose rest in peace and may his family always know how much he loves them. And that Jose will always be looking out for you.
Teisha McClean
August 20, 2005
Alexa,
It's me Teisha from New York Presbyterian, my prayers are with you and I want to send my condolences to you and your family. God Bless you and Liana.
-Teisha
millie tipa
August 20, 2005
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. LOVE MILLIE TIPA.
Janine Franqui
August 19, 2005
Alexa,
I am so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express how I feel right now, the bond between you and Jose was so strong, you will be together forever. I Love You
Alex Romero
August 19, 2005
I went to junior high and high school with Jose and knew him to be a great, fun loving guy. On behalf of the Brentwood HS class of 1994, our condolences to the family of Jose Ruiz.
Beverly Saldivias
August 19, 2005
My prayers to the Ruiz/King Family. Although I never met Jose I feel as though I knew him. If Jose was an indication of his mom and dad I can safely say he was a man of Integrity and great Honor. The Kings have proven to be a Holy Spirit filled family and a great blessing to us at the Central Islip Church of Christ. Jose sits at the Lords table now where Jesus ascended .Jesus indicated in the Scriptures that He went on ahead to prepare that place for us. Hold on to Hope Alexa and family because the Lord has also made a way for you too to enter. I pray the Holy Spirit will lift, guide and protect you all the days of your life. God Bless you.
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