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Joseph Fedeli Obituary
JOSEPH DOMENIC FEDELI
On Tuesday, September 4, 2012 of Montgomery Village, MD. Loving Father of Mark Joseph (Amy) Fedeli, Matthew Richard (Cindy) Fedeli and Joanna Marie Fedeli; former spouse of 27 years, Ann Fedeli; beloved brother of Eydith Miller and Donna Adams. Six grandchildren and many loving nieces, nephews, cousins and friends also survive him. Joseph Fedeli was a nationally recognized juvenile justice executive, manager, and trainer who worked more than 30 years serving children and families at every level of the juvenile justice and social services fields. While in his 20s, Joe hoped to be a priest and entered the seminary. Asked decades later why he left the path toward priesthood, he responded, "I kept seeing myself with a family". He made his family, his work, and all his relationships his ministry. Friends may call at DeVol Funeral Home, 10 East Deer Park Drive, Gaithersburg, MD 20877 on Sunday from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at St. John Neumann Catholic Church, 9000 Warfield Road, Gaithersburg, MD 20882 on Monday, September 10, 2012 at 10 a.m. Interment Altoona, PA. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in his name to The Vincent Fund at www.vincentfund.org. Please sign the family guestbook atwww.devolfuneralhome.com
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Zach
February 17, 2021
He was an awesome loving, caring grandparent. We miss him so, so much.
Emelia Fedeli
December 4, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
October 7, 2012
Joe, You were like a lit candle in my life since we met and I will keep that candle light burning. This one is for you Joe. Love you always. E.M.E.
Maurice Nins
September 28, 2012
Joe was always somebody I looked forward to seeing and talking to at juvenile justice conferences. He was a caring and generous person who seemed to know everyone in the room no matter how many people there were or where they were from. My thoughts a prayer go out to the Fedeli family during this time of tremendous loss.
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Dianne Thomas
September 14, 2012
I remember first meeting Joseph at a Juvenile Justice Conference in Virginia. He was just as everyone has described him. He was one of the most generous and kindess person I had ever met. I remember after coming to know him, whenever he communticated with me, he would recite scripture. I so admired that about him. Because I too had once inspired to live a life of devotion to God. I too chose instead to raise a family. We will miss his physical presence, but I know that all whose life was touched by that presence, will also continue to be inspired by his spiritual presence. May God continue to bless the Fedeli family and associates of Joseph as you go through your period of mourning.
Shirley Replogle Hickey
September 14, 2012
Joe and I went to high school together and had a chance meeting or two after that. He paid me a special visit after the death of my father in 1962. Ever shy he brought a friend, Tom Frank, with him for support and as his spokesman. He wouldn't have needed Tom as his visit and gift spoke volumes. We met again years later at Family Court in Fairfax Va., where we both were representing at risk kids. His words of encouragement and support for my chosen field meant so much to me. I know his kindness and goodness will live on through all those whose lives he touched. Thank you,Joe, I am one of many who continues to cherish your memory.
Lisa Gallo
September 14, 2012
Although never having had the the privilege of meeting this great man, knowing the son he raised is proof that truly Joseph's mission to have a family was also Gods mission for him. We are privileged to know the son who will make his dad proud by carrying on the Fedeli name in such an honorable way.
Tom Gerstbrein
September 13, 2012
Joe was always a friendly guy when you met him. He would always say hi when you met in the hall ways at BG. It is sad to see him go, but is a reality we all must face.
Tom Kilcoyne
September 13, 2012
Joe was one of the friendliest guys in our '65 Bishop Guilfoyle class. My condolences to the whole family. Rest in peace, Joe.
Kienan Murphy
September 13, 2012
I knew Joe from Catholic Univ. What a wonderful person! My sympathies to the family.
Michele Surwit
September 13, 2012
Joe, you gave new meaning to the word, Mensch....a human being...... I think i would be safe in saying, from this point forward, that somebody is a "Fedeli" and those whose lives you touched would know it's meaning.. Joe, you were my dear sweet friend, my buddy. On your birthday you told me you turned 65 but felt 50...i said that I was 62 and felt 70. I'm not sure what the lesson was here, but if anyone is in a better place now, it's you. For that I am glad. I just wasn't ready for you to go there quite yet.
Carole (BG class of 65) Pipetti
September 13, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mary and Jim Sykes
September 13, 2012
Jim and I send our heartfelt prayers and condolences to the entire Fedeli family during this difficult time. We will always remember Joe's smile and warm greeting when we saw one another. The light of Christ was always reflected in Joe's eyes. He loved and was devoted to his family and he will be missed by all who knew him.
May God bless each one of you and fill you with His peace.
Cliff Karchmer
September 12, 2012
How will I remember Joe? He was always the first person to greet me at DSG--with the biggest welcome, the broadest smile, and the most genuine interest in how things were going. I was always touched by his warmth. You just do not find people like Joe in Washington anymore and he will be deeply missed.
Cousin Steve
September 12, 2012
Cousin Joe was our inspiration.
Joan Ledebur
September 10, 2012
I have been thinking of Joe so much in the last few days since I heard of his death. In his position with the Juvenile Court he was the person I worked with to support the Fairfax County Public Schools teachers in residential court facilities. When there were problems Joe would make things right. He cared so much about the students, the teachers, and, of course, the Court staff. He was a man gifted in the art of collaborating and coordinating...and he did it with that wonderful smile that let you know that things would be all right. My thoughts are with his family at this sad time. Joe will be missed by so many.
Mary Gies
September 10, 2012
I was lucky enough to work for Joe for many years. I learned many lessons from him that I carry with me today. He cared so much for others and I hope to follow his example. His death is such a loss for so many. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. God bless Joe.
Jessica Meyerson
September 10, 2012
I had the pleasure of working with Joe for several years at DSG. He was, without question, one of the kindest and most decent people I've ever known. I will never forget how he saw the best in everyone, and nurtured us all. He will be sorely missed.
September 10, 2012
I remember Joe from high school and am sad to see him gone so young. He was a good person and will be remembered for all the good work he did, I'm sure.
Lynda Trader
September 9, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Ed Latessa
September 9, 2012
Joe was a friend and a good man. He will be missed by all who knew him.
September 9, 2012
Joe Fedeli was a wonderful person. He was professional, knowledgeable, fun and clearly cared about people. Everyone should be like Joe. He will be remembered. Marion
Mark and Peggy Scolaro
September 8, 2012
Our hearts go out to Mark, Matthew, Joanna, and Ann for the loss of one of the kindest men in all the world. Joe made a lasting, loving impression on all who knew him and we will never forget the joyful times we shared with your family. May the peace of God, which passes understanding,comfort you in your time of sorrow.
Eileen Manuel
September 8, 2012
I remember Joe as a kind and caring man ~ a devoted advocate for children. My condolences to his family.
Jenny Pryphun
September 8, 2012
I feel lucky to have known Joe. Nicest, most caring person ever. The world will miss him.
September 7, 2012
I met Joe many years ago in the library of Catholic University. I was a visiting kid sister getting my first introduction to the man who would become my brother-in-law. From that point on, I was "Sweet Marie", a designation that never failed to make me feel special and good about myself. I will miss this gift. And I will miss Joe.
Danny D'Agostino
September 7, 2012
I met Joe 42 years ago and he immediately made a lasting impression. What a fine man! I enjoyed many good times with other colleagues, and his friendhip, charisma, athleticism, caring and loving ways, and the effervescent "bear hug" will truly not be forgotten. My sincere sympathies to the entire Fedeli Family, he surely will be missed - but always remembered.
Mary
September 7, 2012
Joe was an person who made everyone smile. He had a way to make you feel great about yourself and life in general. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Mona
September 7, 2012
I wish to extend my deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your loved one. Please find comforting that God is a refuge for you during distressing times and He will help you to endure.(Psalms 46:1)
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