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Kathleen Reed Obituary
KATHLEEN REED
Kathleen (Owen) Reed passed peacefully in her sleep on Sunday, December 10, 2023, surrounded by family. She was born on November 25, 1955 in Cheverly, MD, and is survived by her husband, John Reed (of 39 years); her three children, Shannon Reed, Cameron (Reed) Shields and Joseph Reed; and her two grandchildren, Aubrey Wiedel and Aiden Shields.
Kathleen, well known as Kathy, was a selfless, kind, loving and fiercely loyal mother, spouse and friend. As a dedicated member of the community, she served as Commissioner and later was inducted into the Hall of Fame for her volunteer work with the Western Howard County Softball programs.
She had many enjoyments in life including her family, friends, softball, bowling, reading, music and Coca Cola. Above all, she found great happiness bringing together those she held dear through her numerous celebrations. From July 4th to Christmas, New Year's Day and many birthdays, Kathy had a special gift for opening her heart and her home for all to feel welcome.
Kathy brought friendship, joy and a relentless drive to 'do right' to every encounter, including her lifelong career as a bookkeeper for the family business, and numerous positions held throughout her life â€"including at Clyde Dent carpet company, Jordan Kitt's Music, Shear Pleasure Salon and the Circus.
Kathy always lived by her own creed and rooted for the underdog. There was no challenge too big for her to overcome, and she never, ever quit. She fought the impossible fight and lived the impossible dream. She cared deeply for the ones who meant the most to her. And she left the world a better place. Her light will continue to bring peace to those close to her, as guardian angel.
The family is brokenhearted and would like to thank all those who played a role in her amazing life. Kathy did not wish to have a formal funeral service and asked that her loved ones instead commemorate her spirit by continuing a legacy of kindness.
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Jessica Kinsley
December 21, 2023
I handled the insurance for her husband and son. She always talked about much she loved being at home to be there for her family and having her grandchildren around. I was sad the day she told me she was sick. I'm so sorry for your family's loss.
Genevieve Hess
December 14, 2023
Sending our love and condolences
Pam Wensel
December 14, 2023
Kathy was my best friend at High Point H.S. I was so lucky. I'm only sorry for all the years we failed to stay in touch. Life takes you down different paths. Kathy will always live on in my heart. My thoughts are with you Johnny.
Laura Soehl Crespo
December 14, 2023
I worked with Kathy at Shear Pleasure, when I was in college. She was the best. She was always laughing, running next door to the pizzeria to fill up her soda cup, and talking so proudly about her children. She taught me to never drive anywhere without cash on me, in case I got stranded - I always think of her and that advice before embarking on a long trip.
Larry Thompson
December 14, 2023
A special lady who cared for all the girls playing WHC Softball! Don´t make them like this wonderful person anymore. God Bless the family and thank you for sharing her with us. She made a real difference!
Darrin Stolba
December 14, 2023
Sad to hear this news. Kathy was friendly, selfless and a hall of fame volunteer. We are all better for having known her. Prayers to the family.
Lindsay Sappah
December 14, 2023
Mrs Kathy was a huge part of my childhood. Her oldest daughter, Shannon, and I met in elementary school and from then throughout high school, Mrs Kathy would be a mainstay in my life. From coaching our softball team, sidelines in cheer and driving us from practice to dinner and the sleepovers, Mrs Kathy always did it and with a smile. I can still hear her laugh as she chuckled at us from the front seat.
Lynne Ruckert
December 14, 2023
Kathy´s kindness to me in high school was very special. I was only a mere sophomore and she was a senior when she invited me to her home. We sat and listened to her extremely talented sister play the piano. It just blew me away how she knew every song I asked her to play. I could tell Kathy was very proud of her.It was a moment I will never forget.
Judy Tarter
December 14, 2023
My favorite memory is we were racing home from Ocean City after spending Memorial Day there. I think we were 17. We kept passing each other on route 50. Don´t know how neither of us got pulled over! We were laughing as we would pass each other. Kathy won. She had the faster car! RIP Kathy
Dottie (McKenna) Kozak
December 14, 2023
Kathy and I played sports together when we were members of the College Park Girls Club. She was a great athlete and a great friend. I'm so sorry for your loss.
william l copperthite
December 14, 2023
she always had a great smile and we had so much fum back in the day, i will miss her, god bless
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