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MARGOT KELLY

1924 - 2021

MARGOT KELLY obituary, 1924-2021, Washington, DC

BORN

1924

DIED

2021

MARGOT KELLY Obituary

KELLY Margot Kelly Following a short illness, Margot J Kelly died at age 96 on September 2, 2021. While gardening she had been bitten by a mosquito infected with the West Nile Virus that caused her death. Margot was born on October 10, 1924 to Alfred and Else Sternagel in Dusseldorf, Germany. During a childhood she considered "idyllic" she frequently accompanied her parents on trips through Central Europe where she was introduced to theatre, art, grand opera, and alpine hiking and skiing - all of which were to become life-long interests. In 1934 the family moved to the Templelhof Airport neighborhood in Berlin. There Margot enrolled in an excellent Lycée school where she studied French and English language but witnessed the rise of Hitler and the Nazis and, beginning in 1939, experienced the terrors and deprivations of World War ll. By the time she graduated in 1943 Germany was losing the war and Allied bombing resulted in daily use of air raid shelters, food rationing, and mass destruction of infrastructure and buildings in Berlin. Citizen's fears worsened in 1945 when Soviet soldiers captured the city. Margot was quickly assigned to a street work gang clearing rubble from the streets. The attractive fraulein learned to avoid personal harm by using "survival skills' including no make-up and plain clothing. She, her family, and neighborhood were saved when Americans took over the airport sector when Berlin was divided up. Her mastery of English, organizational skills, and work ethic became obvious to the US Army Air Corps which in 1945 hired her to work as their airport translator and travel coordinator for officers and celebrities using the airport. That job was followed by others at American Oversea Airlines and the nascent International New York Herald Tribune. By 1950 the 26 year old Margot was looking for a new start and relief from war-weary Europe and managed to obtain a coveted job at West Germany's new diplomatic mission in Washington, DC. The day she arrived at Du Pont Circle the weather was sunny and warm, and her first job at what would become the new West Germany Embassy was to attend the cocktail party given by her boss for American diplomats. She couldn't believe her good fortune, and fell in love with her new city. In 1959 Margot bought her first house through Washington DC Realtor Millicent Chatel. When Chatel offered her an internship she agreed, and with an uncanny eye for a property's potential, attention to details, unflinching honesty, and hard work ethic, Margot became immediately successful. In 1967 she struck out on her own, bought an old historic but run-down Capitol Hill house on A St, SE which would become her home for life, and immersed herself in reconstructing the dilapitated, blighted, and mostly empty blocks near the Marine Barracks on 8th St SE. Margot's modus operandi was to buy, then meticulously remodel, architecturally interesting properties- one after another- and rent them to tenants who would uplift the neighborhood. While these formed the nucleus of the new community, she encouraged other potential investors and retail business owners, local churches, and even the Shakespeare Theater to join her in the over-all rehabilitation. In the early 1990's Margot established the Marine Barracks Business Alliance- collecting dues from businesses to support local beautification and other projects. She and others worked tirelessly with local police, politicians, and other activists- such as the Community Action Group- to beautiful the neighborhoods. Restaurants and retail outlet businesses poured in, and her efforts led to Eighth Street receiving Federal Main Street funding in 1998, and in 1999 to her receiving a Capitol Hill Community Achievement Award for her service - a fitting award for the de-facto mayor of Eighth Street. Though these many years and to the very end Margot enjoyed a private life that included a wide diversity of friends and activities. She was friends and the confidant of French premiers, US Supreme Court justices, congressmen and international diplomats, local police and military officers and with her neighbors both in Capital Hill and in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware where she maintained a beloved second house for over forty years. With them all she played poker, enjoyed major league baseball and football games, skied the Alps, attended theatre (especially Arena Stage- where for years she was on the Board of Directors), grand opera, and the Rehoboth beaches. Margot was a world-wide traveler, and went to both the Soviet Union and China before they became tourist destinations. She refreshed herself for two weeks every year at her Black Forest spa in Germany and loved attending and giving cocktail and dinner parties where she was expert at telling stories - with an accent that charmed. Nor did marriage escape her. In 1963 she married Fred C Kelly, Jr. - a retired engineer and technical writer, and became a surrogate mother for his two young daughters. Despite an eventual divorce, she and her step-daughters remained close and Margot is survived by them - Cassandra Spector and Michele Kelly, and their daughters - Alice and Simone L Spector, and Faye and Mary Cuneo. Margot's was an immigrant success story. She not only made a new life in Washington, but paid back that city and the country she loved by enriching both while remaining true to her values. There will be a private interment in Rehoboth Beach, and a Celebration of her Life at The Arena Stage on Wednesday, October 27. In lieu of flowers her family requests that donations be made in Margot's name to: Capitol Hill Village (capitolhillvillage.org) and to The Rehoboth Art League ([email protected]).In lieu of flowers her family requests that donations be made in Margot's name to: Capitol Hill Village (capitolhillvillage.org) and to The Rehoboth Art League ([email protected]).

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Published by The Washington Post on Sep. 18, 2021.

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TyraP

February 8, 2023

Thank you for your love of the arts and passion towards life.
Peace and comfort for your family and good wishes to them for keeping the memories close.

Martha Mihaly Black

October 28, 2021

So honored to have learned so much about Margot at last night´s tribute.

Nancy Silvester

September 23, 2021

My mother Gisela was a good friend of Margot's for so many years. A member of the girl's German group they would get together regularly for lunch and even on occasion were invited to Margot's beach home for a girl's weekend before it was even in vogue.

I too have a home in Rehoboth and often looked for Margot's house. Sadly I was never able to connect with her. I just learned of her passing as I was reading the local Rehoboth Cape Gazette. I am so very sorry to learn of your loss. May you find peace in knowing that she is still remembered and thought of.

Frank Titus

September 18, 2021

Can´t believe you are gone, Margot. RIP.

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