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MICHAEL JOSEPH O'DONNELL

Michael Joseph O'Donnell, 71, passed away on Thursday, June 16, 2022, with family around him, in Alexandria, Virginia.



Mike was born on October 16, 1950. He was in the first graduating class of Saint Louis Catholic School. He attended Gonzaga College High School and Washington and Lee University where he played linebacker on the football team and graduated in 1972 with a degree in history. His life-long passion for Civil War soldiers and their artifacts began when he kicked up a Minie ball bullet on the Saint Louis playground. After college, he purchased an early, home-made metal detector and began "hunting" on the Wilderness, Chancellorsville and Bull Run battlefields, and vast Civil War campsites in Stafford, Orange and Franconia, as the land was being cleared for suburban development. A lifelong Virginian, Mike said he could still see the trenches and felt the presence of those who fought and died there. He became an authority on Civil War buttons, buckles, artillery shells and insignia, and published many books describing and cataloging them, doing the writing, photography, layout and design himself. Mike, a natural raconteur, said "just make it interesting." He captivated nieces, nephews, brothers, sisters and others with his colorful historical stories. For at least the last two decades of her life, Mike took over the personal care of his mother, Dorothy Krafft O'Donnell, who predeceased him by six months in December 2021 at age 103.



He is survived by nine siblings, Mary Beth, Dorothy (Steve), Jack (Lynn), Denny (Shirley), Chris (Debbie), Patty (Richard), Mark (Susan), Regina (John), and Ellen (David), and numerous nieces, nephews and friends. His brother, Timothy, predeceased him by three months.



A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at Saint Louis Catholic Church in Alexandria, Virginia, on Wednesday, June 29, at 11 a.m. Burial will take place at Chestnut Grove Cemetery in Herndon, VA on Thursday, June 30, at 9:45 a.m. In lieu of flowers, a memorial gift may be sent to Saint Louis Catholic Church at https://saintlouisparish.org/.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jun. 26, 2022.

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John Parsley

March 12, 2023

Michael and I both had a consuming interest in Civil
War history, and relics, and as a former long time Civil War show dealer I remember dealing with him often. He was a great guy that I will always remember. His publications were always outstanding.
God bless him!

Denise

July 1, 2022

One of the high points of my experience as a civil war enthusiast was meeting and listening to Mike talk about his adventures. A great loss to everyone who knew him. Prayers for his family and many friends. Rest In Peace Mike.

Robert H.C. Alton

June 22, 2022

Michael J. O'Donnell was one of the kindest people I have ever met. Through his passion for history, his gift of teaching, writing, sharing and many acts of kindness he made the world a better place. It was an honor of my life to know him and be in his presence.

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Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

St. Louis Catholic Church

2907 Popkins Ln, Alexandria, VA 22306

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9:45 a.m. - 10:30 a.m.

Chestnut Grove Cemetery

831 Dranesville Road, Herndon, VA 20170

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5755 Castlewellan Dr., Alexandria, VA 22315

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