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PATRICK TROY Obituary

PATRICK R. TROY Patrick Ronald Troy, 76, of Alexandria passed away after a courageous battle with cancer. His family were by his side when he went peacefully to be with the Lord. He is survived by his beloved wife of 52 years, Bernadette, his children, Kathleen and Patrick, his son-in-law, Alan, daughter-in-law, Dow, and his devoted granddaughters, Mairead and Reyha. He is also survived by his brothers, Michael and Desmond. Pat was a native of Kilcormac, County Offaly, Ireland. He emigrated to Washington, DC where he worked as a butler serving the elite including The Kennedy Family. He appeared on "What's My Line?" in 1963. He was the host of The Irish Radio Show for 45 years. He spent 35 years as the proprietor of Ireland's Own Restaurant & Pub and was famous for "The Unicorn." Pat was also the owner of The Irish Walk import store. He was the founder of the Alexandria St. Patrick's Day Parade. He founded two divisions of the Ancient Order of Hibernians including the John F. Kennedy division 5 in Maryland and the Frank Herbert-Pat Cady division in Alexandria. He was a member of The Equestrian Order of the Holy Sepulchre of Jerusalem, member of the Order of Malta member of the Knights of Columbus Fitzgerald Council 459. He was involved with the Rose of Tralee for 20 years. Through his involvement with Project Children, he helped bring Catholic and Protestant children to escape the troubles in Northern Ireland to the United States for the summer. He also raised funds for a soccer camp in the North and a summer camp in Kilcormac. He was active in both the local and Irish communities, GAA, politics and the church. The highlight of his life was entertaining President Ronald Reagan at his pub in 1988 and meeting Pope Benedict and Pope Francis. He earned the City of Alexandria's title of Living Legend for his service to the community. He was the first recipient of the Irish Spirit award given by the Washington Nationals baseball team. Pat never forgot where he came from and went home annually to Offaly. He wrote a book titled I Have A Story To Tell. A celebration of his Pat Troy's life will be held in Alexandria. The wake is on Friday, April 6, from 6 to 8 p.m. at Demaine Funeral Home, 520 S. Washington St. A Mass of Christian Burial on Saturday, April 7 at 11 a.m. at The Basilica of St. Mary, 310 S. Royal St. Internment immediately following the mass at St. Mary Cemetery, 1001 S. Royal St. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Ann's Center for Children, Youth & Families, 4901 Eastern Ave., Hyattsville, MD 20782 and Christ House 131 S. West St., Alexandria, VA 22314.

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 25, 2018.

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Kathleen Troy

March 17, 2019

Thinking about Pat RIP on St. Patrick's day and his involvement in the parades over the years. May he enjoy eternal happiness in Heaven. Kathleen and family. Kilcormac

VICTORIA CURTIN

March 16, 2019

BERNIE, KATHLEEN & PATRICK: BIGGER THAN LIFE IS WHAT BEST DESCRIBES PAT. I KNOW YOUR HEARTS STILL ACHE FOR HIM, THEY ALWAYS WILL. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW BLESSED MY LIFE WAS TO HAVE KNOWN PAT AND ALL OF YOU. GOD BLESS YOU ALL

Helena Peters

April 12, 2018

Dear Bernie,Kathleen and Patrick,

I was very sad to hear of Paddy's passing. Deepest sympathy from Helena Peters (ne Troy) and all the Peters family xxx

Wallace Family

April 10, 2018

He always made you feel like you were the most important person in the room! A sad loss for all of us.

April 10, 2018

Bernie, Patrick and Kathleen,
So Sad to hear of Paddy's passing, Such an Honorable and good man. Will always treasure the memories of your 50th wedding celebrations in London with all our family and spoke with Paddy when Anita and I went home to see mother for her 98th in Kilcormac last month. He sung happy birthday to mother on the phone while very ill himself. What consideration he always had for others during his full life. A great human being who will be sadly missed by all our family. Farewell cousin and Rest in Peace.
Deepest Sympathy to you Bernie and Family. Sean Troy. Hitchin.

alison rosse

April 8, 2018

We miss his visits back to Birr Castle. He was much loved here and I have happy memories of him back to my teenage years when he worked here. A wonderful man. from Lord and Lady Rosse, Birr Castle, co. Offaly

Roxanne Fritz

April 7, 2018

May God bring comfort to all the family of this dear good man. He lived an exemplary life, stepping out to bring change, happiness and wisdom, especially of his beloved homeland. Those in the community like me who found his endeavors jewels in Old Town Alexandria wish his soul Godspeed, Amen.

Judi Hyde

April 7, 2018

To Bernie, Kathleen and Patrick,
My sincere condolences to you on Pat's passing. He was a pillar and a legend in the community. He had such Irish pride and with his grand personality shared it with others at Ireland's Own, at the Summertime Irish Festival and the glorious St Patrick's Day parade. Also a big thank you Pat for having the Irish flags up King Street during the month of March. The Christmas shows at Ireland's Own will never be forgotten. It was the start of the Christmas season for our family. Rest peacefully - you have done your best.

Sally Buikema

April 7, 2018

Bernadette and Kathleen,

Our most heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Pat did so much for others and for the city of Alexandria. He will be missed by many.

Our prayers are with you,

Sally Buikema, Susan and Kathryn

Colm and Joan Murtagh

April 7, 2018

Many wonderful memories of times at Ireland's Own.

April 7, 2018

Pat was a pillar of the Irish and Irish American communities. He will be sorely missed. I'll always have happy memories of our Rose of Tralee years! Much love - Ciara, Butch, Seamus and Pearse

Shane Mullally

April 7, 2018

Deepest sympathy from the Mullally family,in Galway.xxx.

VICTORIA CURTIN

April 6, 2018

Dear Bernie, Kathleen and Patrick
My heart goes out to all of you. Pat was one of a kind and the best of that KIND, always ready to help, he was bigger than life and always such a kind person. A character to say the least, he will never be forgotten. RIP PAT

Charlie Dunne

April 5, 2018

We send our deepest sympathy to Bernie, Patrick and Kathleen. Pat's passing has left a great void in the Irish community.

Joseph Castillo

April 3, 2018

Dear Ms. Troy,

I am so sorry for your loss.

Pat was an incredible man and will be greatly missed by his fellow Alexandrians, Hibernians, Knights of Columbus and Parishioners at the Basilica of St. Mary.

You and your loved ones are in my prayers.

God Bless You.

April 3, 2018

Dear Bernie.

Christine and I send our deepest sympathy to you and to the family on Pat's passing. He was larger than life and will long be remembered especially for his work for Ireland in Alexandria and the DC area and, of course, for his love of the Faithful County.

Sincerely

Noel Fahey

John Dowling

April 3, 2018

Dear Bernie
Our deepest condolences.
John and Michele Dowling.

Barbara FLAHERTY

April 2, 2018

Dear Bernie,
We are very sorry for your loss.
Accept our sincerest condolences.
God bless you,
Barbara Flaherty and family

April 2, 2018

Dear Berrnie, Katheen & Patrick,

Our deepest sympathy to the family. Pat was a great friend to our family through the years. I can remember so many great times together with my mom, dad, Bernie & Pat He will be greatly missed for sure.

All our love to you. Patti (Malone) & Randy Karn

Tricia Mahon

March 29, 2018

To Bernie Kathleen & Patrick and all Pat's family in USA & Here in Ireland
I got to know Pat when I was elected as Secretary on the second committee Pat formed to run the Kilcormac summer camp so kindly funded by Pat and yourself Bernie of which my Son & daughter Con & Ella including all the children in the Kilcormac area benefit from. He will not be forgotten. A great man. May Pat rest in peace
Tricia Mahon

Mary and Mike McGinn

March 29, 2018

Bernie and family You are in our prayers and thoughts during this very sad time.Pat was such a wonderful Irishman and will be missed greatly.St Peter was waiting for his arrival because they need someone to take charge of the St Patricks Day parade in heaven and Pat is the man to get it done right
Mary and Michael McGinn

March 29, 2018

Bernie
Our prayer and thoughts are with you and your family during this very difficult time
Pat will be greatly missed by so many but God bless him he will be greatly welcomed in by St Peter and all his friends who made it there before him.Now he will have to start the St Patricks day parade in Heaven.Mary and Michael McGinn

Jim Carmody

March 29, 2018

My sincere condolences to Bernie,Patrick and Kathleen. Pat left many memories on the minds of all those people me met over the years. His many friends will miss him. MAY HE REST IN PEACE.
Jim Carmody

Jimmy Cassedy

March 29, 2018

Great men come and go but Legends live forever, RIP Pat !

Kathleen Troy

March 28, 2018

On behalf of the Summer camp committee in Kilcormac I wish to convey sincere condolences to the family of Paddy- Bernie, Kathleen and Patrick.
A most generous and kind man. Always remembered in our prayers. Kathleen.

Macdara Mac Tigue

March 28, 2018

My deepest condolences

Theresa and John Cullinane

March 26, 2018

Deepest Sympathy to Bernie, Kathleen and Patrick on the loss of a wonderful friend. For his generosity to so many, our sincerest thanks. May Pat Rest in Peace with all of his friends that have gone before hiam. He will surely be missed.

Judy Wallenfelt

March 26, 2018

Bernie, Patrick, and Kathleen,
My most sincere and heartfelt condolences to you and your families. I will always have the fondest memories of my first employer. Hugs to you all.

Crystal Hunter

March 25, 2018

Dear Bernie and children:

I have never forgotten knowing and sharing music and laughter with Pat during my years in Alexandria. He was a wonderful, unique person who brightened the lives of so many people. I have thought of him, and of you, often since I left the area and was saddened to hear of his passing. GOd bless all of you.

Kathleen Troy

March 25, 2018

To Bernie, Kathleen and Patrick,
Paddy will always be in our hearts ands prayers- such a wonderful man. May he rest in peace. Pat, Kathleen, Maire and Poraich Troy, Curraghmore

March 25, 2018

All of us at Tyson's corner laboratory will greatly miss Mr. Troy. Always bringing with him a smile and a song. Into your loving arms oh Lord

March 25, 2018

Dear Bernie, Kathleen and Patrick, I just want to add my prayers and condolences to you and the wide,wide "family" that Pat touched and was part off for all his years in the Washington area. May he be greeted with a few Irish tunes as he entered the gates of heaven. Tom Mcgrane

Sharon Adams

March 25, 2018

I wish to convey my heartfelt condolences to the family and many friends of Pat Troy. He was not only 'a character' (outgoing, highly-energetic personality) but a man 'of character'! Thoughts and prayers!

Ita kelly

March 25, 2018

Pat was a member of our St. Cormac's A,C. before emigrating to America and a true OFFALY supporter all down the years. He and Bernie paid many a visit to the Offaly events in New York. He loved to sing and dance and truly helped all the Offaly teams when they visited New York. He will be sadly missed by his family and his many friends. REST IN PEACE Pat.

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