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DUBIN RICHARD N. DUBIN A self-made developer and philanthropist who charmed generations of family and friends with his gregarious laugh, his thick Boston accent, and his outsize personality, passed away on Saturday December 25, 2015, at the age of 79. From a modest start selling Bibles door-to-door in his native Boston, "Dickie," as he was known, went on to build one of the biggest development companies in the Washington region. His Bethesda-based firm, Dubin Development, built thousands of residential and commercial units in the region beginning in the 1970s, including major high-rise projects like the Grosvenor complex along Rockville Pike in Maryland. He and Liz Dubin, his wife of 54 years, were mainstays at Washington political, social, and charity events, and they gave generously to a wide range of charitable causes, including Children''s Hospital, the Wilmer Eye Institute at Johns Hopkins University, the Kennedy Center, and many others. But his true love was his family, including his three children, six grandchildren, and two Shih Tzus, Max and Sam, whom he regarded as his "other" grandchildren. Dickie would regal his grandkids for hours with family stories, and the children would anxiously await the moment during Passover dinners at his home when Dickie would announce that he had hidden the ceremonial "Afikoman" matzoh. (He would give all the kids five dollars at the end of the search, whether they found the Afikoman or not.) "Dick Dubin was a man of extraordinary integrity, goodness, and charity - loved by all that knew him and the thousands that he helped," said John Dingell, the former Michigan congressman and a longtime friend. "Many friends will remember this man with great affection and the hope to meet him in heaven, where we know he rests in God''s arms." Dickie was a proud lifelong liberal who contributed to many Democratic causes and candidates, but Liz, a Republican, would prod him to go along with her grudgingly to Republican events and to write an occasional check himself. He even became a big fan of President George W. Bush. "We seldom agreed on political philosophy," said Fred Malek," a friend and conservative Republican, "but his ebullient spirit, love of life and closeness to both his and my family never failed to lift my own spirits. He was one of those rare people who was too scarce in this town-a friend for all seasons whose force and sense of humor put a smile on all our faces." Another longtime friend, Alma Gildenhorn, the wife of the former ambassador Joe Gildenhorn, remarked: "He embraced life to the fullest, and his presence could light up a room." The lavish parties that Dickie and Liz hosted at their Bethesda home were famous and well-attended affairs, but Dickie did not like them to run too late; when he would come down the stairs in his pajamas around 10 p.m. or so, it was a not-so-subtle signal to his guests that the party was nearing an end. Dickie was born in Newton, Mass., on August 27, 1936. He graduated from Brookline High School and attended the University of Miami; he returned home before graduating to help care for his ailing father. The collapse of his father''s pharmacy business left the family with little money, and Dickie worked odd jobs at country clubs and elsewhere to make money, even selling Bibles in Boston and along the East Coast - a professional stretch for an observant Jew. After marrying Elizabeth Myerberg in 1961, he moved to Washington a year later and, with the early help of his father-in-law, Harry Myerberg, got a foot in the door in the real estate industry. He went on to start his own development company in 1968, embarking on a series of ambitious residential and commercial projects in Washington D.C., suburban Maryland, and Annapolis. Through the 1970s and 1980s, he often partnered with national financing organizations like the National Housing Partnership, buying vacant lots to develop or converting existing rental units to condominiums. He was famous for his attention to the smallest details, from the design of the units and the types of windows that would be used to the marketing and publicity campaigns once the projects were completed. Summing up his usual work week, he would say: "Build five days a week and sell two days a week." An avid boater, Dickie belonged to the Annapolis Yacht Club, and he was a member of Woodmont Country Club and Washington Hebrew Congregation as well. Suffering from renal failure for the last year, Dickie had been awaiting a possible kidney transplant, and each of his three of his children were tested just last week to see if they were a match to donate theirs; he passed away from complications from renal failure before the results were known. He is survived by his wife, Liz; his three children - Louis Dubin, Harry Dubin, and Robin Avram; and his six grandchildren. A funeral service will be held Sunday at 1 p.m. at Washington Hebrew Congregation, 3935 Macomb St., NW, Washington, DC. Interment Garden of Remembrance Memorial Park, Clarksburg, MD. The family will be observing Shiva and receiving friends at their residence following the services and on Monday and Tuesday from 2 to 9 p.m. (with Minyan services 6 p.m. each evening). Donations may be made to the Wilmer Eye Institute at Johns Hopkins University.

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Published by The Washington Post on Dec. 27, 2015.

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Yvonne Tilghman

December 21, 2021

What a powerful legacy -- just the thought of Mr. Dubin still brings a smile to my face. Thank you Mr. Dubin. Thanking God for Mr. Dubin's life and the lives he touched, like mine.

Jude Micheal Philippe Sebastien

November 22, 2016

His Love and appreciation will forever greatly miss!

Ken Luchs

January 3, 2016

Susan and I and our children, Jay & Julie, were always treated by Dickie like part of the family. He had the knack for easily making everyone feel special. His humor kept us laughing and his wisdom earned our respect and admiration. Wish we knew how sick he was so we could have let him know how we felt. We will treasure his memory and friendship.

Larry Harris

December 30, 2015

We send our condolences & healing prayers. Dickie was a positive & marvelous man with a delicious sense of humor. He will be missed. Sorry we are out of town & just heard, Susan & Larry Harris & family

December 29, 2015

Our condolences to you and the family.

Harriett and Jeff Schilit

Yvonne Tilghman

December 29, 2015

My sincerest condolences to the Dubin family. Truly, Mr. Dubin was an extraordinary person. Mr. Dubin had the gift of spreading joy whenever he was in your presence and after you separated from him, the joy lingered on. Mr. Dubin would let you know that every day was a great day. In our office, all of the administrative support staff would always, always, and always comment about how nice and sweet Mr. Dubin was. His smile lit up a room and Mr. Dubin lit up whenever he spoke about his wife.

Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. May the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob keep and comfort you today and always.

Gilbert Silwimba

December 29, 2015

My condolences to Mrs Dubin and the family, it was an honor to have known and worked for "Dickie". He was a great man indeed, I will never forget him

The Cresta's The Cresta's

December 28, 2015

Dear Mrs. Dubin, Louis, Harry, Robin and family,

We are so sorry to hear of Dickie's passing. He was an incredible man with such charm and charisma ....he lit up any room when he walked into it! Our family, especially Octavio, will remember him dearly for his kindness, generosity and great sense of humor. Washington will not be the same without him! Our deepest and heartfelt condolences for the entire Dubin Family.

With all our Love,

Humberto, Maria de la Luz and all The Cresta's

December 28, 2015

Dickie was truly great and will be missed for his being such a wonderful person and friend,Nancy and I send our most sincere thoughts of remembrance with deep sympathy to Liz and the family, John Mannes

Roger Winston

December 28, 2015

It was an honor to have known Dick for so many years. He always kept his cool which allowed/required others to remain civil. He had the unique ability to utilize his "eulogy virtues" to achieve good results in life and in business. Thank you to his wondeful family for sharing Dickie with us. Our thoughts are with you. We will miss him (and the Monday bagels he brought us for so many years!) very much.

Jackie Fox

December 28, 2015

I'm so sorry to hear this about Mr. Dubin, he was a very sweet, warm, and caring man. He will truly be missed by all those that have ever came in contact with him. If you were having a bad day just his smile could lift you up. It was a true honor just to have known him.

December 28, 2015

The Zax family sends condolences to Liz and Robin

Jan and Patrick O'Donnell

December 28, 2015

Oh Liz, we are heart broken for you and your family. We just learned of Dickie's passing, minutes ago...What a treasure he was, loved by everyone lucky enough to have known him. We're in Florida with our family and very sorry not to be with you, much love, Jan and Patrick O'Donnell

Kari Dern

December 28, 2015

Dickie was a shining star. Everywhere he went and everyone he talked to just lit up in his presence. He had such a fun, youthful energy balanced by an incredible amount of wisdom and authenticity. He was so wonderfully, truly himself and that quirky confidence just drew people to him. I am so saddened by this loss but will be forever grateful and positively changed for having the honor to have known Dickie. He will be deeply missed. My heart goes out to Liz and the whole family, you will be in my thoughts.

Always goofing around! He was so much fun.

Kari Dern

December 28, 2015

Lovely day on the boat with friends and family

Kari Dern

December 28, 2015

What a great guy!

Kari Dern

December 28, 2015

Great memories

Kari Dern

December 28, 2015

Larry Levitan

December 28, 2015

Liz. Dickie was the best. He had the unique ability to bring out best in everyone he dealt with I certainly enjoyed working with him over many years and will miss that. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Nancy Brinker

December 28, 2015

WE loved Dick and love the Dubin family. Dick was a friend to so mnay and this was the eternal gift he gave his friends , Nancy and Eric Brinker

Larry Levitan

December 27, 2015

Dickie was the best. He had a unique ability to bring out the best in everyone he dealt with and I enjoyed my relationship with him over many years He will be missed by all who knew and loved him and my thoughts and prayers are with Liz and his family.

Cindy Kolker Shuman

December 27, 2015

I am so sorry to hear of Dickie's passing. I remember his laughter and when he smiled, it seemed like his whole body smiled. Sorry for all your loss. He was a great man.

Beth Siniawsky

December 27, 2015

Dickie was a delight. My condolences to Liz, Robin and the rest of the family.

Donna Khalil

December 27, 2015

I am saddened and shocked to hear about Mr. Dubin's passing. You never think it will happen to those who are larger than life. I think of him often and cherish the years I worked for him. He was a great man who taught me so much about generosity and enjoying life. I will never forget him. My condolences to Liz, Louis, Harry and Robin. I pray that the fond and loving memories you have of him guide you through this very difficult time. The world lost a good one, but I know the heavens are smiling. Until we meet again my friend...

George Brady III

December 27, 2015

Dickie was a great friend of the Brady family, and he and Liz always brightened up the house when they walked in. He will be missed.

December 27, 2015

Dickie was a wonderful man .always with a smile .he will be greatly missed our thoughts are with you all Judy and bob Snyder

Ellen and Bruce Winston

December 27, 2015

Dear Liz and family..
Dickie was unique, authentic, and genuinely interested in our lives and our families. He was a wonderful friend to Bruce .We loved seeing you both at home and in Aspen. And we sure do love you both. Pleas know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. I'm
We were so lucky to get to hear his beautiful tribute this morning on WHC listen in....from Beaver Creek, 10 degrees...and enjoying Evan and Amy and the kids. Knowing how much you love your beautiful family...you can relate.
Sending heartfelt condolences. Love, Ellen and Bruce (Winston)

Jamie Ross

December 27, 2015

Liz, Dick and I were supposed to meet for lunch a couple of months ago but, it never happened because soon after my Dad died! I am so sorry I never got the chance to see Dick now. In the past year we hadn't spoke often but, I was glad I had a chance to catch up with him on the phone that day. Even though we didn't see each other often he always looked out for me. I will miss him and loved him dearly!
My deepest condolences are with you and your family.
Love, Jamie Ross

Lisa Greenberg

December 27, 2015

Truly, a wonderful, beautiful human being. He was sunshine on a rainy day.

Dina Zupnik

December 27, 2015

Uncle Dickie, we love you more than words can say and you will be missed greatly. I know you will be entertaining everyone in Heaven!

Mimi Matthews

December 27, 2015

Liz - Cheers to Dickie to all he was and all he did...And.... All our love ❤ to you for now and the future !
Mimi & Jack

Mimi Kress

December 27, 2015

Liz - Dickie made me laugh since I was a little girl. He was a true mensch, and will be missed in our community. I know he's pulling pranks with his buddies up in heaven!

December 27, 2015

Liz, John and I are deeply saddened by Dickie's death. Our heartfelt condolences on the loss of someone whose zest for life and smile that lit up a room were unforgettable. Please know you are in our thoughts. Betty and John Eichberg

December 27, 2015

Mr. Dubin began coming in to bethesda bagels when we first opened. For many years he would come in ask for a bunch of bagels in multiple bags since he was dropping them off to friends of his that needed a treat. Always a kind word, a smile and usually a touch and family "catch-up". We were new to the area in the '80s and he welcomed us to the area. Our condolences are with his family. He was a wonderful man, he will be missed.
Fondly, Fran and Steve Fleishman, Bethesda Bagels.

Gale Lee Gilbert

December 27, 2015

dearest Liz,
Ed and I were so saddened to learn of the untimely passing of Dickie.He was so very special to us.Dickie was always with a smile,helpful and full of love.He will be more than missed. ..And Liz, our arms are around you for we feel your tremendous loss.Our love and deepest sympathy is with you.Gale Lee and Ed

Stacy Burka

December 27, 2015

I, as many others will truly miss him deeply. He will live in our thoughts and heart always.

SHARYN & BOB GOLDMAN

December 27, 2015

Dickie was a special great guy always interested in everybody's family and children providing little surprises for them all. His always hysterical personality set the tone at every party and his radiant smile provided happy energy every where he went.

He had a wonderful Dr. -- Patient -- Friend relationship with my husband Bob Goldman, and always encouraged me in my Real Estate Career claiming I was the only Real Estate Agent he had ever paid a commission to. He said "that's your claim to fame !" I loved when he said it even though I knew it couldn't be true.

He will always be in our hearts -- Bob and I truly adored him.

We send our hugs and love to Liz and his beautiful family always .
EVERYONE will remember him forever !!!!'
Sharyn & Bob Goldman

ed and gale gilbert

December 27, 2015

Dear Liz,
Gale and I were truly saddened to learn of the passing of Dickie. He was the rarest of individuals who made one feel that he viewed you in particular as his special friend.I know how hard a struggle it must have been to deal with his profound health issues during his last year and how courageous he was in dealing with them. we share your sadness Liz, and yet his memory brings a sense of how special he was, a memory which will never die.
With our love, Gale Lee and Ed

Mark Riothman

December 27, 2015

Dick was a good neighbor and a good man. I live a block from him and never knew he was sick. I wish he would have told me so I could have said good bye. The neighborhood will not be the same without his smile driving by. He will be missed.

December 27, 2015

Dickie Dubin was one of the kindest and funniest people I've ever known. Dickie was a true gentleman and will be greatly missed by all that knew him.

Gil Hofheimer

December 27, 2015

Dearest Liz,

How Flo and I loved Dickie and you. For so very many years.
I was so touched to see you both in Novembet after Flo died.
My arms are around you every minute.
So much love to you Liz., Nan

Martin & Geralyn Lobel

December 27, 2015

We will all miss Dickie. He always marched to his own drummer and had his own unique perspective which always enlightened those who knew him.

The Sanford & Doris Slavin Family

December 27, 2015

A Great Man has passed. A man loved by thousands, but most importantly by his magnificent wife Elizabeth. Dickie Dubin has left a void which will be impossible to fill...

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