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Richard Charles Scalise

1945 - 2023

Richard Charles Scalise obituary, 1945-2023, Washington, DC

BORN

1945

DIED

2023

Richard Scalise Obituary

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Richard Charles Scalise (Age 78)

Passed away peacefully on November 1, 2023, with his children by his side, after a brief illness. Born in Erie, PA, in 1945, he moved to Washington, DC, to attend Georgetown University ('67) and then worked his way through Catholic Law ('70) as one of Clyde's first bartenders. Hospitality proved more attractive than law, and he moved to New York City after law school where he tended bar at the legendary Maxwell's Plum. He hung up his bartending shoes in 1973 and settled back in the DC area where he became a successful real estate attorney who established one of the largest title companies in Northern Virginia. His true passion was horses though, which he owned and raced at local tracks in the 1970s and 80s and continued to follow until his passing. He also loved cooking, helping others, and telling a good story. His big laugh, wide grin and twinkle in the eye endeared him to friends and strangers alike. He possessed a genuine interest in others which was reflected in his favorite saying, "We are all Children of God." He was dedicated to many worthy causes, including So Others May Eat (SOME) and the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society (LLS) where he was formerly the Washington, DC area president. Spending time with family and friends brought him the greatest joy in life - whether attending kids' games, going on trips or gathering for a good meal.



Richard was predeceased by his parents (Frank and Ann) and sister (Maria). He is survived by his children Maria (Chris Kelly), Nikolas (Michelle) and Anthony, and four granddaughters (Sophia, Ava, Lyla and Tessa).



Visitation will be held at 10:15 a.m. with a Mass of Christian Burial to follow at 11 a.m. on Friday, November 10 at St. Luke Catholic Church in McLean, VA. In lieu of flowers, the family respectfully requests that donations may be made to www.some.org.

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Published by The Washington Post on Nov. 5, 2023.

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Lisa Bush

March 5, 2025

I was just thinking about you today. I miss you very much Richy.

Linda stuchinski

November 18, 2024

Many good times at the racetrack with Richard. He was always so funny. He use to steal my hand sanitizer all the time. I always knew who it was. We had a good you will be missed forever Richard. Your friend Linda

Linda

February 3, 2024

RIP Richard. Condolences to the family

Lou Gatti

November 18, 2023

RIP old friend. Many good times back in the day...

Alberto Van Der Mije. Class 72 GU

November 12, 2023

Richard had great charm & humanity an old school Gentleman of Georgetown, definitely will be missed. Alberto van der Mije

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JP Duchange

November 6, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tony and Cynthia Marinelli

November 5, 2023

Dear Lord
Please assign your two grumpiest angels to Richard. He will have them laughing in no time.

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St. Luke Catholic Church

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