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ROBERT "Terry" PAVLAK

1946 - 2020

ROBERT "Terry" PAVLAK obituary, 1946-2020, Washington, DC

BORN

1946

DIED

2020

ROBERT PAVLAK Obituary

ROBERT PAVLAK "Terry"
Colonel US Army (Retired)

Colonel Robert "Terry" Pavlak, US Army Retired, passed away peacefully April 7, 2020 surrounded by his devoted wife and children after a valiant battle with Parkinson's Disease.

Terry was born December 19, 1946 in Eau Claire, Wisconsin to the late Robert (Master Sergeant, USA, Retired) and Lavonne Pavlak. Terry moved several times growing up, but considered Spokane, WA his hometown until retiring in Northern Virginia.

Terry graduated from the American High School of Tehran, Iran and enlisted in the Army in 1966. He was selected for Officer Candidate School at Ft. Sill, OK and commissioned as a Field Artillery officer in 1966. He had four battery commands across Korea, Ft. Sill, and the 1st Cavalry Division in (Airmobile) Vietnam before age 21. Following Vietnam, he married the love of his life, Kathy (nee Struble), and earned his bachelor's degree at Washington State University. Terry served 26 years in the Army, achieved the rank of Colonel, earned three master's degrees, and served in increasing levels of command and responsibility. His career included battalion command in the 9th Infantry Division and culminated with service in the White House. He was known for his calm demeanor, outstanding judgement, and genuine love for his soldiers. Terry earned several awards including the Defense Superior Service Medal, Bronze Star Medal (2 OLC), Meritorious Service Medal (4 OLC), and the Air Medal. After Retiring from the Army, he continued his service as a defense contractor.

Terry was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather. He loved traveling with Kathy, cheering on his grandchildren at various sporting and music events and teaching them how to fish. He loved a good joke and making others smile. He participated in multiple clinical trials to better the lives of Parkinson's patients and he and Kathy participated in Fund a Fellow program at Georgetown University. He was focused on helping doctors find a cure and demonstrated unwavering grit and grace through all of it.

Terry is survived by his wife of 48 years, Kathleen, his children Kimberly (Todd), and Robert (Amy), his five grandchildren Michael, Andrew, Katherine, Benjamin, and Hillary, his sisters Peggy (Jon), and Patricia. His nieces Shelley and Jonna, and nephews Patrick and Michael. He is predeceased by his parents Robert and Lavonne, and nephew Jeffrey. A funeral with full military honors will be held at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Parkinson's Foundation of the National Capital Area in Terry's name.

A funeral with full military honors will be held at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Parkinson's Foundation of the National Capital Area in Terry's name.

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Published by The Washington Post on Sep. 27, 2020.

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Liselotte Edwards

May 3, 2021

Mrs Pavlak I just found out about your husbands passing, I’m so sorry . He was always so pleasant and a gentleman. My condolences to you snd your family. Lisa(hygienist)

John Haugen

March 18, 2021

I served with Col Pavlak in the mid 80s at Ft. Lewis during his 3-11 Battalion command. I was a first Lieutenant and XO of a firing battery. I lost touch with him after I left the Army, but he had a lifelong impact on me. He always held the moral high ground!! He always chose truth and right over convenience or self interest! RIP Colonel!! I will always be grateful to you!!

Gary Hoekstra

December 28, 2020

I served under then Capt. Pavlak at Ft Sillin the late 60’s/early 70’s. I am truely to hear of his passing.

George Kolesar

September 30, 2020

I only served with Terry for a short time, but I saw how he set the example for all around him while maintaining a demeanor that made everyone love and respect him. An outstanding man and officer.

marty linsky

September 29, 2020

Kathy,
I was sad to read that Terry had passed away. Liz and I knew him from our support group at the Virginian. We both liked him a lot. We lost a good man.

Marty Linsky

Bill Houck, USA (Retired)

September 27, 2020

Kathy,
Sonia and I are so sorry to hear about Terry's passing. As you know, my experience in working with and for Terry goes back to the late-80s in the White House and later at CEXEC. As an Army officer he was one of the best that I have known and as a leader he set the example for all with his caring manner and guidance in all area of his expertise, both in the military and his civilian employment. He was always on top of his game. May God rest his soul.

Dave and Kathy Grover

September 27, 2020

Kathy, we will miss Terry. Our prayers are with him, you, and the kids.

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