THOMAS COLOSI
1934 - 2020
BORN
1934
DIED
2020
FUNERAL HOME
Henry W. Dabney Funeral Home - Ashland
518 N. WASHINGTON HIGHWAY
Ashland, VA

Thomas R. Colosi  
A longtime DC area resident who was a pioneer in the establishment of the practice of negotiation and mediation. Tom committed his life to conflict resolution and peace building. Tom, 85, passed away at his home in Glen Allen, VA, on January 5, 2020 with his wife, Susan Shearouse, at his side.  Tom was brought to DC in 1971 by the Ford Foundation to establish the Center for Dispute Settlement, and later moved on to the American Arbitration Association. In his storied career, he worked with a wide range of US government agencies, trained United Nations delegates, and settled disputes and provided mediation support in more than 20 countries. The son of Italian emigrants from Sicily and a graduate of Cornell University, Tom had a soft spot for meatballs and sauce, Ford Thunderbirds, horse racing, and sweets of just about any kind. He is survived by Susan, his wife of 23 years; his children, Jennifer, Thomas, Christopher and Samantha; his stepchildren, Jennifer and Eli; six grandchildren; and one great-grandchild. His stepson, Jacob passed away in 2018. A memorial service followed by a reception will be held on January 18, 2020, at 5 p.m. at Duncan Memorial United Methodist Church, 201 Henry Street, Ashland, VA. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that memorial contributions be made to Circles Ashland, P.O. Box 247, Ashland, VA 23005 or www.circlesashland-va.org.
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Published by The Washington Post on Jan. 12, 2020.
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Duncan Memorial UMC
201 Henry Street, Ashland, DC
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Dear Jennifer, Tommy, Chris and Samantha,
How sorry we were to learn of your dad's passing. He was charming and humorous and a wonderful friend. Although, sadly, we lost touch over the years, we have thought of your family often and would love to hear from you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Our sincerest sympathies.

Ann and Larry Williams
301-320-4667
Ann and Larry Williams
February 11, 2020
Terry and my deepest sympathies Susan on the passing of your wonderfully intelligent and clever husband, Tom, whom I met while we worked together and travelled with Dr. Robert Maurer on our Environmental Negotiations seminar for the Navy. Tom was a delightful colleague and friend and the two of you made such a magnetic couple, and both Terry and I have fine memories of the time we spent together. Tom's big heart, intellect and sense of fun will always be remembered very, very fondly.
Rick Landers
February 11, 2020
My condolences to the family, and deep gratitude to Tom. He was generous with his time, insightful with his advice, and lighthearted in company. Unlike many established professionals, Tom did not neglect people who were starting their careers (as I was when we first met). I will always appreciate that. Rest in peace, Tom.
Steve Weiss
Acquaintance
February 9, 2020
My thoughts and prayers are with your family as you remember your love one. May God provide comfort and ease your sorrow through the power of prayer and the hope of his Kingdom to come with all of its promises. Matthew 6:9, 10; Daniel 2:44
January 19, 2020
My deepest sympathy to the family of Thomas Colosi. May you be comforted in knowing that our Heavenly Father cares for you. He will give you strength and courage to cope with your grief.
Psalm 94:17-19
N. S.
January 18, 2020
Tom and I worked together in the 70s and 80s. I worked for the US Conference of Mayors' Labor-Management Relations Service. He helped us develop and deliver training programs for state and local government executives. I view Tom as one of my most significant mentors. A true professional.
Roger Dahl
January 16, 2020
As Toms care giver,he was a pleasure to give care to. His family treated me like Family. He will truly be missed!
NATHANIEL BOWEN
January 14, 2020
I am so sorry, Susan. I barely knew Tom other than knowing that he was a giant in the field, a pioneer, and a man who shared his knowledge with hundreds of others. The world is a better place for his life.
Frank Dukes
Friend
January 14, 2020
Deepest condolences to your family. From the Youngquists.
christine youngquist
Friend
January 13, 2020
Susan, I am so, so sorry for the loss of your husband. I can tell he was very special. Thinking of you as you grieve and adjust and wishing you peace as you cope with this loss.
Deb Motto
Friend
January 13, 2020
Dear Jennifer, Tommy, Chris and Samantha,
I am sorry to hear of the death of your father. I spent many happy hours at the home in Bethesda and working with your father doing dispute resolution. He was fun to be around and helped me build the Science Room in the Bannockburn Nursery School with Wayne and Mario Tama. So many memories. Aaron and Justin send their condolences as well.
Vera (Vee) Smith Gerovac 301-641-4046 if you wish to call me.
Vee Gerovac
Friend
January 13, 2020
I still hear Tims voice in my mind talking about ethical principles of dispute resolution. A pioneer and giant in the field. Rest In Peace Tom. You will be remembered and missed.
Dan Dozier
Coworker
January 13, 2020
Tom was a master of his craft; but above all he was a generous mentor, colleague and a special friend. Bill and Roger
Bill and Roger Hockenberry and Kaplan
Friend
January 12, 2020
Tom was a 'special' friend. He was 'unique', his friendship unconditional. It was my privilege to be part of his journey. Sincere condolences to Susan and family
Alex McKenna
Friend
January 11, 2020
Saddest of news...Tom was a wonderful friend, colleague, teacher and mentor. Love to the family.
Bill and Cathe Hockenberry
Friend
January 11, 2020
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