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SLAY WILLIAM DRAKEFORD SLAY "Drake" William Drakeford Slay of Alexandria, Virginia passed away unexpectedly on December 31, 2011. He was the fiancé of Jean Clark of Silver Spring, Maryland and the former husband of the late Rosalind Jewett of Baltimore, Maryland. Drake, as he was affectionately known to his family, friends, and colleagues, was born at Marine Corps Air Station Cherry Point, North Carolina on March 21, 1950, the son of the late Colonel Robert Duncan Slay, USMC, and Jane Mulherin Slay. He attended The American School in Dreux, France and graduated from Petersburg High School, in Petersburg, Virginia. He was an alumnus of both Virginia Military Institute in Lexington, Virginia and the University of the South in Sewanee, Tennessee . In 1980, he married Rosalind Jewett. Together they had two daughters whom they brought up in McLean, Virginia. Drake was a dedicated father, always ready to lend his skills to building everything from snowmen to entire playgrounds. His love of nature shined through in the numerous trips to national and state parks that he organized for his family. He and Rosalind divorced in 1995, but he remained a very present part of his daughters' lives. His daughters remember especially fondly his keen ability to show them the humorous side of anything. Drake began his long and distinguished career in construction and real estate development as a carpenter, which took him to several southern states and for a short time Saudi Arabia. Drake went on to become a project Manager for Asset Quality working for numerous companies, including Cort, AIMCO, and his latest position with UDR, Inc. Drake was well known as the man who always had a "Plan B" and encouraged others to have one as well. Drake met his fiancée Jean in 1998. They traveled extensively together, and loved to play golf, cook, grill, laugh, and do the crossword puzzle together. They were planning a September 2012 wedding. Besides his fiancée, he leaves behind his mother, Jane Slay of Newport, Rhode Island; two daughters, Francesca Slay Molnar and Lily McLeod Slay of Charleston, South Carolina; and two brothers, Dr. Robert Slay of Palos Verdes, California and Commander John A. Slay, USN (Retired) of Harleston, Mississippi. The funeral service will be at Christ Episcopal Church, 4001 Franklin St in Kensington, MD on Saturday, March 31 at 2 p.m. Interment immediately following the church service will be at Parklawn Memorial Park, 12800 Veirs Mill Rd. in Rockville, MD. A memorial reception celebrating Drake's life will follow at Homewood Suites, 14975 Shady Grove Road in Rockville, MD. In lieu of flowers, donations to his memory may be made to Virginia Military Institute Class of 1972 Scholarship Fund, P.O. Box 932 Lexington, VA 24450.

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 11, 2012.

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Michael Gentry

March 14, 2012

I too am an old classmate at Dreux who remembers Drake''s exuberance, his sharp tongue at times but always with a dash of Southern charm. He always looked great in the latest button-down pastel shirts.
I've got great memories of his descriptions of his pranks and foolery in various romantic European settings. Sorry I didn't stay in touch with him better over the years. My condolences to his family and all his friends who I know will miss him a lot.

Chris Cafferata

March 14, 2012

I went to school with Drake in Dreux France. I remember him well, with a wonderful sense of humor and a good all around guy. My Deepest Sympathy to all his family.
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Coby FitzHugh

March 13, 2012

My roommate at VMI and a friend for life! I've never laughed so hard!!!

March 12, 2012

Sorely miss you big brother! Thinking of you all the time...

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