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Xandria Lecky Obituary

LECKY, XANDRIA ELAINE (Sandra)

On Wednesday, January 19, 2005, loving mother of Xavia Hawkins; beloved daughter of Alric (Valrie) Lecky and Carmelita Banton. She is also survived by cherished sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, many other relatives and friends. Ms. Lecky will lie in state at Plymouth Congregational United Church of Christ, 5301 N. Capitol St., NE on Friday, January 28, 10 a.m. until hour of service at 11 a.m. Interment Fort Lincoln Cemetery. The family requests that expressions of sympathy be in the form of contributions to The Xavia Hawkins College Fund, c/o Countrywide Bank, Attn: Joan Grant, 1199 N. Fairfax St., Suite 500, Alexandria, VA 22314. Services by JORDAN FUNERAL SVC.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jan. 27, 2005.

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Deidra Williams

May 3, 2022

Xandria I will never forget your heart in how you comforted me during my trials. You told me to "trust the process", and we recognized that it is, His process. Thank you Sis, I will forever carry your words in spirit, in my heart. May God Bless your daughter and your family. In Sincere Sympathy, Deidra Williams

Saundria Davis

February 21, 2005

As a fellow Merl Grovian, my sympathy to the family and friends of Xandria (Sandra) who are grieving. You are all in my prayers. Xandria...gone too soon but will never be forgotton.

Nerine Vendryes

February 18, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know just how it feels to loose a love one.

stacey palmer

February 17, 2005

deeply saddened doesn't even begin to express how i felt when i heard the news. Xandria will be greatly missed. to her family, i pray you will keep her spirits alive in her daughter. God be with you all through this time of bereavement.

Donna Levy

February 17, 2005

As a Merlgrovian myself I am truly saddened to learn of another loss. Even though I did not know Xandria, the mere fact that we are all from the same "Family", is enough to cause grief. May the good Lord continue to bless and strenghten the family and friends left behind and please be encouraged to live on the good memories of Xandria. To her daughter Xavia, you will survive come what may. You will never suffer or go hungry or feel neglected; just contact the MGHS Group if there is a problem and I can assure you that somewhere somehow help will be on its way. That is how strong the MGHS Family ties are and you are a part of this Family. God Bless You All.

Olive Mc Clymont -Callender

February 17, 2005

To Xandria's family, friends and fellow Merlgrovians my deepest sympathy. May God's mercy and love bring consolation and comfort.

Sharon Hamilton

February 17, 2005

To the Lecky family, your sympathy is shared, and I know that someday you will meet with Xandria again. May God richly bless your family and may his face shine upon you and give you peace.

Shirley Fender-Clarke

February 16, 2005

Words are never enough to express one's feeling about a sudden loss or any loss, but to the family of Xandria, keep on smiling and remembering that Xandria would have wanted it that way... God bless you all.

With much love and sympathy.

Meva Black Rhooms

February 16, 2005

I would like to send my sympathy to the Leckie's family for the sudden loss. I knew Leckie very well. She was full of fun and laughter during the five years we spent at Merl Grove. I just hope and pray her child will continue with her smiles. God bless the family.

Tanishea Dennis

February 16, 2005

Rest in Peace Xandria

Blondelle Simmonds-Chang

February 16, 2005

To the grieving Family, Friends, etc.

"May the God of hope fill you all with joy (for the life of Xandria) and peace...that you may overflow with hope (that you will indeed see her again at the resurrection) by the power of the Holy Spirit".



Walk good!

Dionne Blackwood-Proulx

February 16, 2005

As a fellow Merl Grovian and mother, my sympathy to the family and firends that's currently grieving. Please know that her time spent with us all was amazing, so cherish the memories and celebrate her life.

Dionne Henry

February 16, 2005

To Xandria's family ,friends, fellow Merl Grovians and ESPECIALLY Xavia, my deepest sympathies. The lives she has touched and the love she has given is testament that her time with us though short was well spent.

Xavia you will be in my prayers.

Love Dionne

dahlia beckford

February 16, 2005

i didnt know xandria but as a past Merl Grove student who heard the news by email I am deeply saddened. My best wishes go out to the family. Remember the good times now. God bless.

Denise McCallaCreary

February 16, 2005

To the family,

I am a fellow Merl Grove past student. My deepest sympathy. I recently lost my youngest brother in a similar tragedy in Washington D.C. He too had young children. One can only believe that while we have our own plan, God have a better plan.

Marsha Bertram

February 16, 2005

I am a past student of Merl Grove High School and I knew Xandria. We were not in the same year group but as a Merl Grovian everyone was family. My heart goes out to her daughter and family. It hard when we loose our love ones but in spite of everything God knows what's best and I know she is in a better place. Keep her memory alive. Xavia you will always have an angel watching you.

Dionne Walker

February 16, 2005

As a fellow Merl Grovian, I wish Xandria's love ones solacement at this unexpected distressful moment in their lives.

Tanya Campbell-Gooden

February 16, 2005

Xandria, may your soul rest in peace my dear, in the midst of life we are in death and you are only gone ahead of all of us and I am sure your are a bride of christ. I remember your smile from MGHS days in Ja. God never leaves his children unprotected so Xavia be strong and remember your are never alone. To the family grieve not for her as she is FREE.

ROXANNE WILLIAMS

February 16, 2005

I DID NOT KNOW XANDRIA DURING MY TIME AT MERL GROVE, BUT I AM DEEPLY SADDENED AND TRAUMATIZED BY THIS SUDDEN AND FIERCE DEATH OF MY SISTER IN FAITH. MY HEART GOES OUT TO HER FAMILY, ESPECIALLY HER DAUGHTER XAVIA. TO XAVIA, I WILL SAY THAT YOU WILL NOT SUFFER NOR BEG FOR BREAD, AS THE LORD GOD ALMIGHTY IS YOUR PROVIDER, PROTECTOR, LAWYER, DOCTOR AND FRIEND, HE WILL SEE YOU SAFELY THROUGH AND BEYOND THIS BRIDGE THAT YOU HAVE TO CROSS. MAY GOD'S RICHEST BLESSINGS BE WITH YOU ALWAYS.

McDonald-Black Andrea

February 16, 2005

On behalf of the North East American Chapter of Merl Grove High School Past students association, I would like to extend our condolences to the family of Xandria, known to many as Sandra. My brother was a co-worker and good friend and I am only sorry I did not get the chance to meet Xandria, from all accounts she was a wonderful woman and friend. May God's blessings be extended to all of her family. Sandra rest on the laurels of a life well led.

Andrea

Claudette Cameron

February 9, 2005

Though I did not know Xandria, as a Merlgrovian, there is that connection. The entire worldwide Merl Grove family shares the pain of her own family (particularly her daughter) and pray for your peace.

Kimberlyn McDonald

February 4, 2005

I attended Columbia Union College with Xandria we actually had 2-3 classes together. Our last class together was in July 2004 before I graduated.



Xandria was very determined to attain her degree and always striving for the best. She always talked about how much she loved Xavia.



My Deepest Sympathy,

Cathy Gayle

January 28, 2005

My prayers goes out the family, and especially to Xavia. I could tell by just the way Xandria interracted with her daughter that there was nothing but pure unconditional love. Xavia, rest assure that you have your personal angel watching over you from heaven.

Denise Gordon

January 28, 2005

Xandria.............the last time I saw you, you were beaming, I know that whatever caused you to be in another place today, you are beaming even more since the light that shines on you now is the only

light we all have to look forward to..........Xavia, there's always two sets of footprints in the sand.........even when yours fade the other will be there to carry you.



One Love

Veda McCoy

January 28, 2005

To Xandria's Family,

My deepest sympathy to you for losing Xandria. You do not know me, but I bet I know something about each of you!! Xandria loved her family and talked about them all of the time. I grief for my friend and mourn her loss. I met Xandria at Entergy, and although I only worked with her for a few months, we've remained friends over the years. I remember her contacting me to help her write a tribute for her grandmother when she passed. I remember her emails of encouragement and inspiration. I remember that she truly trusted God and believed that he would cause her to TRIUMPH over any injustice or unfortunate circumstance. I remember that she LOVED her daughter and worked tirelessly to provide the very BEST for her. I ran into Xandria the week before her death -- she was excited about her new home that she'd recently purchased. I was glad that my friend was "getting a break". Little did we both know that God had even BETTER plans. Rest in peace Xandria, I will miss you dearly.



Love Always,

Veda

Katurah Glover

January 27, 2005

I'm so sorry Xandria had to leave us this way. I've known her for over 10 years, and she was a good friend. I'm really going to miss her. I pray for Xavia. I think about her everyday. May God be with Xavia and the rest of the family. I know she is in a better place. I thank God that she knew the Lord.

Cheryl Lewis Hawkins

January 27, 2005

On behalf of the staff of Prosperity Media and the Summer Media Arts Program, we send our most hearfelt sympathy at this very sad time. Our prayers are with Xavia and the rest of the family. And we wish you all God's peace.



Peace, light and love,

President & CEO

Linda Simpson

January 27, 2005

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. I met Sandra when Xavier attended Our Lady of Sorrows School.

Deidra Williams-Simms

January 27, 2005

Xandria touched my life with her faith. This was a woman who had a zest for life and who knew that God was the source of her life. I can't express the sorrow that I feel for this lost of life and the child (Xavia) who is without her mom. I believe that God has an awesome purpose for Xavia's life and will keep her as He says in his word Psalm 68:5

A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling.

Juanita Britton

January 27, 2005

My heart goes out to the entire family and espically her baby girl. God Bless us all!

Deborah Tremble

January 27, 2005

Joan & family,



With sincere sympathy. We will keep you in our prayers.



Debbie & Family

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