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Thomas Betchwars Obituary

Betchwars, Thomas

Thomas Betchwars passed away May 4, 2017, at the age of 61. A Family Celebration of his life will be held at a later date.

On September 4, 1955, Frank and Dorothy Betchwars welcomed Thomas into the world. Soon after, he became big brother to Pete, Mary, and Mike.

Tom married the love of his life, Roxy Belgram, on March 25, 1995, and became the loving father of three beautiful children. He loved spending time with his family and they were always at the center of his life.

Tom was an avid golfer at the Merrill Golf Course where he was a daily presence, always 'stirring the pot' for his close friend, Mike. He enjoyed fishing with his family, reading, and kayaking. But his favorite past time was cooking for family and friends.

Tom owned a partnership in Millwork Specialists, Mosinee. He worked passionately to ensure quality service for all his customers. He was blessed to have formed many close friendships along the way.

Tom was a member of St. Anne's Catholic Church, Wausau. It gave him much joy to serve the community through the various acts of selfless kindness. He touched the lives of many as a steward of the Lord.

He will be will loved and remembered by his wife, Roxy; his children, Jaime Belgram, John (Casey) Belgram, and Eric (Ginger) Belgram; his grandchildren, Amber, Darian, Christian, and Bernice Grace; his siblings, Mark (Lori) Ballard, Colleen (Karl) Holm, Craig Ballard, Mary (Charlie) Sunder, Mike (Julie) Betchwars, Cathy Ballard, and Sandy Betchwars; his father in law and mother in law, John and Jean Slominski; sister in law, Norma (Wayne) Berens; and nieces and nephews, Katie, Lindsey, Giana, Scott, Mitchell, Frank, Luke, Tony, Jacob, Jenny, his special Sarah, Bryan, Paul (with, Jodi), and Keith (with, Brenda).

Tom is preceded in death by his parents, Frank and Dorothy; his second parents, Dick and Jan Ballard; brothers Pete Betchwars and John Ballard; and his granddaughter, Lily Rae Ann Belgram.

The Taylor-Stine Funeral Home & Cremation Services, Merrill, is assisting the family.

Online condolences may be made at www.taylorstinefuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Wausau Daily Herald on May 6, 2017.

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Pete Taddei

May 8, 2017

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Tom. We grew up together and he was one of my closest friends. He was a star athlete. Not many could hit his left-handed curve ball. One of the best left-handed hitters from Jordan. I have many fond memories.

Jan Klosinski

May 7, 2017

Roxy and Family, We are so sorry for your loss. I (Jan) remember all of the lovely flowers Tom sent Roxy when we worked at St. Matt's. We was a loving husband. You remain in our prayers and thoughts. Mic and Dr. Jan Klosinski

Jeanne Lang

May 7, 2017

Roxy and Family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Tom. May he Rest In Peace and may God grant all of you peace as you mourn. I will hold you in my heart and in my prayers during this difficult time. Jeanne and Denis Lang

Terry & Beth Iczkowski

May 7, 2017

You will be missed by many Tom, what a wonderful man! Our deepest sympathy to the entire family especially to my cousin Roxy! You and all family are in our prayers!

Jane Flynn

May 6, 2017

Thinking of Tom always brings a smile to my face. Lots of fun memories! Truly a wonderful man.

Jane & Larry Flynn

Eileen Hoy

May 6, 2017

My heart is broken, I have so many great memories of Tom from his childhood, I was the babysitter. Tom will be forever in my heart and prayers. Heaven now has another angel.
Love and prayers, Eileen

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