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John Pulaski Obituary
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for John Pulaski
Jay Montalbano
July 12, 2025
Dear Phil and family, I just learned of your brother´s death. I´m sorry I never had the pleasure of meeting him. From reading his obituary, I can see he was a wonderful person who lived a very good life filled with service. May his soul rest in peace. And may you and your family have many wonderful memories of him to comfort and sustain you. In deepest sympathy, Jay.
Cindy Miller (patient)
July 2, 2025
I just learned of Dr. Pulaski's passing throught his eye practice.
I became his patient at Gaylord hospital after sustaining a head injury with multiple symptoms and deficits.
He was the kindest, most empathetic and understanding doctor I ever had. Im am forever grateful for his care and treatment.
He was truly the best.
I am sincerely sorry for your loss.
Jim Casey
June 30, 2025
To Sharon and John's family-
Please accept my condolences on John's passing. I just learned of his death from my daughter, whose own daughter was under John's compassionate care to correct a visual issue. I always heard great and encouraging words following Maeve's visits with Dr. John.
Like John, I was born on 3/2/52. I, too, graduated with you both from Fairfield University in the class of 1974 and sang with the university's glee club- the "Ambassadors of Song", for all 4 years. During our time at FU I found John to be the "real deal", a gentleman with an engaging smile and laugh. A fun man to be around. I feel your loss and wish you peace and strength on his passing.
Gina K.
June 30, 2025
We just learned of Dr Pulaski's passing. Our son Anthony was his patient for many years. He's now 19 and was going to see him one last time before college. We will miss Dr Pulaski. In the words of Anthony on a card he wrote him when he was little that that still hung on Dr Pulaskis office door
when he was little "Thank you for treating my eye "mussel" condition. Our condolences,
Carolyn Finch
June 30, 2025
Friend, patient and fellow kinesiologist. We met when we were working in Nursing Homes in the Waterbury area and he was doing Kinesiology with a patient. I was a Speech Pathologist and used Kinesiology at times also. John was excited to know I had spent a lifetime doing eye exercises and didn't wear glasses any more. I switched eye doctors as soon as I met him. Such a caring, joyful, lovable, brilliant part of my life and oh so many lives. Thank you Lord for John Pulaski. My prayers and love to you Sharon, family and office staff members who were like family. I found out today when I realized the office was empty and I was in Waterbury.
Phil McBrien
May 21, 2025
Sharon and family: My deepest condolences. John was a sweetheart.
Laura
May 18, 2025
Our family is in shock to learn of Dr. Pulaski´s passing.
Dr. Pulaski was a very kind man and wonderful doctor. He understood my special needs daughter and helped her greatly with her vision problems.
We will miss him.
Our deepest condolences to go out to his family and friends.
Amy Mondschein
May 14, 2025
Dr. P has been my eye specialist since 2016. He was an absolutely amazing person, an expert in his field, a truly spectacular man. He always had a smile on his face and was so genuine and kind. He will be missed by so many. My deepest condolences go out to his family, his staff and those whom loved him.
Tanya M.
May 12, 2025
I just drove to the office this morning not realizing Dr Pulaski has passed. My 12 year old son was in shock. Very sad, both of us, to hear the news. We talked about Dr Pulaski, and how he's helped everyone in our family and shared his expertise and knowledge in such thoughtful and positive ways. But mostly how he made us feel so important and seen. My daughter, now 16, has seen him since she was 5. She couldn't write her name in grade 1. She couldn't read till 3rd grade. All because Dr Pulaski helped her in unconventional and effective methods and "met her where she was". She is now a sophomore in high school and in honors and AP classes. She's reads 250-300 page books "A DAY!" I know, we know, my daughter knows, that his support, interventions opened up a whole world of reading to our beautiful daughter. This summer she was accepted into a rigorous summer college program for aspiring creative writers. And my son, 6th grade, who has many peripheral eye challenges was treated by Dr Pulaski...he is now top of his class and scores off the charts on state tests for reading, comprehension and writing. And for me, the mom Dr Pulaski was always sharing insights, warm kind words and tips of what to do at home with my kids. He was part of our village and will always live inside of us....and be part of the story of our lives and the beautiful people who helped us grow and thrive in our lives. We are so so grateful to him.... Thank you Dr Pulaski for your incredible support, spirit, knowledge and kindness. We will forever be grateful to you.
Judith Dudek
May 9, 2025
I absolutely loved seeing DrPulaski as a patient of his. He was so kind and spent time with me to talk and share what we were concerned about. I will miss him so much. He was a true blessing to many people.
Judith Dudek Granby, CT
Matt Apuzzo & Family
May 7, 2025
My family and I just heard of Dr. Pulaski´s passing and are heartbroken. We met Dr. Pulaski when my son was at Gaylord 14 years ago and continued seeing him as a private patient. I always looked forward to seeing him. I think my son did too though he always gave Dr. P a hard time. He was one of the best doctors my son has ever had. He never got upset when I would send him a text when he was on vacation-always seemed to be bad timing on my part. He was always patient and always asked about my daughter. He would always say hi to us at Gaylord when we ran into him. I can´t tell you how much we are going to miss him. I know he loved his family deeply just by all the photos in his office. I am so sorry for your great loss. We will always remember him as the caring, brilliant doctor that cared deeply for each of his patients. You don´t get that often now a days! You all will be in our prayers as will he! We are going to miss you Dr. P! Thank you for the great care you gave Matthew all these years! We were very fortunate! God bless you!
Corrin Burke
May 2, 2025
I learned of Dr. Pulaski's passing yesterday and am so deeply saddened. He was the most amazing Dr. He helped my daughter's and I so much. His brilliance shined through and his care of how his patients we improving was so heart warming. We were never just a face coming in for an appointment. He was so wonderful as we would talk a bit about the scoop of the world and what was going on and saw eye to eye on so much. We would inform each other of the goings on. He felt like an anchor to me in a sea of chaos during covid and through the years. My heart goes out to his family. I am sending so much love to you all. He was certainly to young to leave this world and his enormous presence will be missed so much.
Melanie Barocas Mayer
April 30, 2025
Dr John Pulaski was one of my favorite people in the whole world. Over the years every time I went to see him with my children or for myself, he treated me like an old friend. We´d laugh as well as talk about serious things. I´d bring him fresh organic eggs for my farm. I´m just learning of his passing just because we were trying to get in touch since my husband´s glasses never arrived. John was such a blessing and such an honorable and lovely person.
Beverly Shapiro Feldman
April 23, 2025
I am the sister of Dr Abe Shapiro who spoke often of John and their friendship. My sincere condolences to the family. Beverly Feldman
Gloria R Barry
April 23, 2025
Dear Sharon and family,
I am so sorry for the passing of a great gentleman..
I have to thank you both for when my husband passed away,
You saved my life by giving me a job...
Without that I
probably would have went crazy..
I am sending you all lots of love and sympathy.
Love Gloria
XOXO
Janet DeLeo
April 22, 2025
My deepest condolences to John's family and friends. I am very sad to hear of his passing. He was very kind and always generous with his time. I would travel two hours one-way from RI for my annual eye exam because he could write the perfect complicated prescription. I would have my glasses made in RI. They were done incorrectly. Last year he had them made, an eight- hour trip for me and worth every minute. Well done, Dr. Pulaski. May he rest in peace.
Vin Sacco
April 22, 2025
Words can not express the sadness I feel in my heart in the passing of my best friend. My heart aches for Sharon and his beautiful family. He will be terribly missed by all of us. I will miss the many seasons we spent together attending UConn games and the long nightly phone calls while we were watching the games on TV. I will always remember the Syracuse Big East triple overtime game when we were on the phone for three hours until 2:00am in the morning. John was a great friend, a devoted husband and a wonderful dad. He was a man of deep faith. I will cherish the memories and times we spent together over the fifty years of our friendship. May God bless him and his family. He will always be in our hearts forever.
Yitzchak Goldfinger
April 22, 2025
Dr. Pulaski was an incredibly dedicated, patient, and talented doctor whose expertise was a big help in my children's improvement in school. He was always very friendly and genuinely supportive of our community. He will be sorely missed.
Yitzchak and Toba Goldfinger
Joe and Roswitha cusick
April 21, 2025
It´s been an honor to know John , he has always been kind, thoughtful , and fun to to be with .
He will be missed by all his friends. Condolences to the family, gone far to soon.
Dr. Frank Forgnoni
April 19, 2025
Shocked and deeply saddened to learn of the passing of Dr. John Pulaski.
My heartfelt condolences go out to his family, friends, and all who were blessed to know him.
I was honored to call him a friend and colleague.
We shared many fond memories over the years at the College of Syntonic Optometry meetings.
He led a life filled with love and light, and his remarkable legacy lives on in everyone he touched.
Linda (Martino) David
April 18, 2025
Dear Sharon, I am shocked and so saddened to hear about John. I am very sorry for your loss. I treasure my memories of John and you from our Fairfield days. He was an amazing person, a fun and caring friend. I´m happy you and he enjoyed so many wonderful years together. I am heartbroken for you and your beautiful family. Love and prayers going out to you all. You will continue to be in my thoughts.
Sue
April 18, 2025
My condolences to the family. Dr. Pulaski changed my life with the glasses he made for me. They enabled me to suffer less and enjoy more of my life. He never gave up on me, was kind, respectful, and kept putting up with me even though I have a very complex situation. He is on my list of only a couple of doctors who I looked forward to seeing (out of probably 100 ) because I knew I would get treated well and helped. He was an incredibly smart man and will be greatly missed!! RIP.
Quianna JordanStewart
April 17, 2025
Dr. Pulaski has been my eye doctor for 29 years as well as my children´s eye doctor . He was a Kind and compassionate human being who created authentic connections with his patients. Dr. Pulaski, we celebrate! You will be missed. Heaven has gained a gem.
Debbie Mane
April 17, 2025
I was a patient of his and I always marveled at the way he took time with each and every one of us. You never minded waiting because of that. One of the kindest man I have ever met. I will miss him.
Olivia and the Bucci family
April 17, 2025
My 16 year old daughter unfortunately has over a dozen doctors right now and Doctor Pulaski stands out as bringing nothing but great joy hope and optimism to her. I found him to be a great man who up until her last appointment a few weeks back used his great skill and compassion to keep working on healing her. No and never was not in his vocabulary. Your family is very lucky to have him. He talked about you guys and your vacations a lot. We will always remember him as a kind smart loving compassionate man and doctor. One of the best!!! We send our condolences.
mario zezima
April 17, 2025
Great Dr. and person just so kind to everyone. he will be missed .
Adina Higgs& Sylvia Russ
April 17, 2025
"I'm speechless and truly heartbroken. Having him as our eye doctor for my entire life. Dr has been so much more than a medical professional to our family - he's been like a member of our family. His tireless work ethic and compassionate care will be deeply missed."
Annie and Jay DeMayo
April 17, 2025
Words cannot express our sadness over the recent loss of our dear friend John. His love of family, friends, and life, and his amazing spiritual strength, will never be forgotten. He is truly a role model for all of us. Our sincerest condolences to his lovely wife Sharon and his beautiful family. Love and blessings to all of you, Annie and Jay
John Ruffino
April 16, 2025
John was a great friend at Xavier, and a wonderful and compassionate doctor. He helped my daughter when we were at a wedding in Vermont several years ago. She had a bad reaction to some food and was swelling up and getting short of breath. It was after hours in small town but John came to the rescue with some benadryl. May he rest in peace. My condolences to Sharon and his entire family. He will be greatly missed.
John Ruffino, Xavier High School 1970
Rosemarie Carrafa
April 16, 2025
My condolences and prayers for the Pulaski family.
I was a patient for many years. Dr. Pulaski was a very caring person. He will be missed!
Sincerely, Rosemarie Carrara
Carl and Bernadette Rubano
April 16, 2025
We were long time patients of John as well as golf buddies. His best characteristic was his care and concern for his patients. Our prayers are with Sharon and his family.
Judy DelSasso
April 16, 2025
I have been going to Dr. Pulaski for many years and he was so devoted and took such great care with all patients and always followed up on my eyes which I so appreciated. He was devoted, kind and "One of a Kind". Will miss him very much. He will be hard to replace.
Patrick Zailckas, Esq.
April 16, 2025
Sharon,
I am so saddened to learn of John's passing, of your and our loss. His dedication to you and family, and to his work and patients, was boundless. He leaves behind a legacy of true joy and caring, and will be greatly missed by all who were fortunate enough to have shared paths with him in this life. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family in this time. He is truly enjoying the rewards of a life well-lived!
Anne-Marie Ianzito
April 16, 2025
So shocked and saddened to hear of Dr Pulaski´s passing. My family and I have gone to Dr Pulaski for about a decade. He was an `old school´ doctor who extended himself to help, really cared about his patients and it was clear that his work was his vocation and not just a way to make a living. Dr Pulaski was an amazingly kind and decent person who will no doubt be missed by his family, friends, colleagues and patients.
Thinking of his family at this very difficult time.
Jerry Anastasio
April 15, 2025
Sharon, Colleen and I were so sad to hear about Joh's passing this week. My memories of John are from our time living on Loyola 3. My next door neighbor on that floor, he was always warm and friendly. Just a great guy! Please know that John, you and your family are in or daily prayers. God grant you all comfort during this difficult time. Jerry and Colleen
Curt Baxstrom
April 15, 2025
Annual meeting of NORA with colleagues-Mary Van Hoy, Curt Baxstrom, Brenda Montecalvo and John!
BJ's Optical
April 15, 2025
Condolences to the Family and all those whom will dearly close to him. The Optical community will miss him. Patients always spoke well about his professionalism and willing to go above and beyond for his patients. -BJs
Ken Burke & family
April 15, 2025
Dear Sharon & family, Our hearts are with you during this time of mourning for John. He was a true friend who loved humanity, always faithful and sharing the greater good. He was a beacon in our profession, an insatiable learner always searching for new ways to help and encourage others. His love for the Lord is his compass so Heaven has welcomed a faithful servant. We will miss John´s wit and engaging smiles,and his legacy will live on . Praying for peace and love in our world. Thank you John for sharing your life with us. God bless. Ken Burke & family
Louis Lombard
April 15, 2025
Sharon,
Lori & I were both shocked and deeply saddened to hear of John's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He was a wonderful guy and I know he had a deep faith. We will keep you in our prayers.
Lou
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