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Mary Jo Shade

1928 - 2019

Mary Jo Shade obituary, 1928-2019, Quincy, IL

BORN

1928

DIED

2019

Mary Shade Obituary

QUINCY -- Mary Jo Shade, 90, died Sunday Oct. 13, 2019.

A Quincy native, Mary Jo was born Oct. 23, 1928, to Joseph J. and Helen Fussleman Schulte. She married another Quincy native, James W. Shade, in 1950.

Mary Jo was a devoted wife and mother. As a child she was a member of the Flying Beckman dance and acrobatic troop. She loved to dance, ice skate and bowl. She also participated in the mentoring program for elementary school students and was active in Community of Christ Church.

Survivors are her children, Debbie L. Deiber of Fulton, Mo., Karen L. James of Granbury, Tex., and Randall J. Shade of Quincy, Ill.; eight grandchildren; and six great-grandchildren.

She was preceded in death by her parents and her spouse.

Per the decedents wishes her body has been cremated and the family will be holding a private memorial service.

If you would like to honor Mary Jo, a donation of time, money, or goods to the local animal shelter would be greatly appreciated. She always loved dogs and would visit the shelter frequently.

Mary Jo Shade will be missed by her family and all who knew her. She was a very strong, kind, wise and courageous woman.

Condolences may be expressed online at whig.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Herald-Whig from Oct. 18 to Oct. 20, 2019.

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Mary E. (Andrews) Winkeljohn

October 24, 2019

My heart goes out to Mary Jo's family. I am very sorry for your loss. I have had such admiration for this special lady all my life, starting when I was preschool age and she was my Sunday school teacher! She was such a wonderful, sweet person and will truly be missed.

October 24, 2019

Mary Jo is my mother, Minnie Fusselman Hunter's second cousin. I remember Jay and Mary Jo coming to our home to visit often. As an adult, I always enjoyed visiting with her. I loved her soft spoken voice and she was a very gracious lady. I will miss seeing her. Dee Hunter Lee

October 20, 2019

Mary jo was a good neighbor and will be missed by all who knew her. My sincere sympathy to the family.
Karen Blair

Cheryl Westhaus

October 20, 2019

Mary Jo was such a JOY to be around. I would join the cousins a Steak & Shake.
Her smile & soft voice was so loving & warm.
(I m Helen Volm s daughter)

Eric Finney

October 18, 2019

My condolences to Mary Jo's family. As a neighbor, she was an inspiration and role model of "class" to all of us. I enjoyed visiting with her and seeing her spending time with her Golden Retrievers she loved so much. She always brightened my day to see her coming down the street with her dog, either walking or in the car.

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