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Barbara Fleming Obituary

Barbara Chesley Fleming, 62, a resident of Acton for the past 30 years, died Friday, July 30, 2010, at the Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center in Boston. She was the beloved wife of 37 years of Jonathan R. Fleming. She was a native of Rahway, N.J. and the daughter of the late Dr. Henry and Rosaline Grzybek Chesley. Mrs. Fleming's early years were spent in Rahway and Clark, N.J. She was a graduate of Emmanuel College in Boston, class of 1970, with a B.A. in biochemistry. She met her future husband, Jonathan, at the wedding of mutual friends. Following their marriage, the couple lived at M.I.T. while Mr. Fleming continued his studies, then they moved to Belmont where their son, Ethan, was born. A research scientist early in her career, she was also the former Director of Human Resources at Repligen Corporation in Cambridge. She continued in the corporate human resources field with her own consulting firms, most recently as Co-President of Catalyst Consulting Group of Lexington with her partner, Lauri Vinick, of Brookline, specializing in management consulting and organizational development. Mrs. Fleming enjoyed gardening, cooking, knitting, and especially loved cats including her own Feynman, Sorcia, Polly and Rosie. She is survived by her husband, Jonathan, of Acton; their son, Ethan, of Brighton; her aunt, Tillie Ratynski, of Peabody; two brothers, Carl Chesley and his wife, Lois, of Virginia and Paul Chesley of New Jersey; and two nephews and their families, Bruce Chesley, his wife Julie, and their daughters Abbey and Alex; and Daryl Chesley, his wife, Kate, and their sons, William and Luke, and a daughter, Sidney. She is also survived by a number of cousins and other relatives. A memorial service was held Thursday, August 5, at 3 p.m. at the Emmanuel College Chapel, 400 The Fenway, Boston. Please omit flowers. Memorial contributions may be made to the Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, either 7 Feldberg -- earmark for patient comfort Attention: Christine Garabedian; or BIDMC: attention Dr. David Avigan Research Fund. On-line guest book at Legacy.com.

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Published by The Boxborough Beacon from Aug. 4 to Aug. 11, 2010.

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Lilian Eng

October 12, 2010

To the Fleming Family-
We send warm prayers of peace and love to you. Barbara is very special to us. Her dear son Timmy is the Godfather to our son. Our daughter still has the doll blanket Barbara crocheted for her, and she is now 16 years old. Barbara, you will be missed. Godspeed.

Deb Schmitt

August 31, 2010

Barbara, Your light, your love, your laughter will never be forgotten. Your friendship, kindness, and sincerity will not be lost. And your memories will never dim.

Ann Cardoni

August 8, 2010

I first met Barbara in homeroom, freshman year at Holy Trinity High. She was smart, brave, outspoken and FUNNY! We had great times meeting at her house in Clark. We loved hearing Barb play the piano. She was so talented. We didn't see each other often since high school, yet whenever we did, the years fell away. She was a wonderful person.

Nick Davis

August 5, 2010

I have had the extraordinary good fortune of knowing this wonderful, funny and very smart woman since we were both in college. Being her husband's fraternity brother brought me into close contact with her many times, and I am a better person for it. In the time since school, we only saw each other a few hours a year, yet I am so glad she was a part of my life.

August 4, 2010

Barbara was both a wonderful Business Partner and dearest friend. Her humor, intelligence, and sensitivity made her very special to me and all who knew her. She will be missed every day! Lauri Vinick,(Brookline)

rich ceisler

August 4, 2010

barbara was a really sweet person and my sisters best friend she will be greatly missed- Rich Ceisler

Patti Seymour

August 4, 2010

Barbara was such a pleasure to be around. She always had time to listen. She will be missed very much. My thoughts are with her family during this sad time.

Howard Levine

August 3, 2010

Barbara was a long time friend and work colleague who will be deeply missed. She was one of the most warm and thoughtful people I have known; her cheerful smile and friendly attitude always brightened a room.

August 3, 2010

Barbara was a wonderful sister-in-law to me -- always there with a smile and a laugh and a thoughtful remark. I will miss her deeply.

Diana (Fleming) Bouchard

James and Kathleen Blackwell

August 3, 2010

Barbara was a warm and very caring person who always had a little extra time to make a special connection. She will be missed by her colleagues and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Gwyn Helie

August 3, 2010

Just a wonderful friend -- wise and grounded . . . and so much fun too! There is now a big hole in our hearts and our group of friends, the Knitters.

Susan Jones

August 3, 2010

Barbara was always a pleasure to work with-she always had a smile and a kind word for everyone she knew. We will miss her presence in our lives. Our hearts go out to her family at this sad and tragic time.

Sue Cooper

August 2, 2010

Barbara was the nicest woman I ever knew.

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