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John Patenaude Obituary

John M. Patenaude TROY - John M. Patenaude, 23 of Hughes Avenue, died suddenly on Saturday, March 23, 2013 at his residence. Born in Troy, he was the son of Mark Patenaude and Sharon Rotelli Patenaude of Troy. Raised and educated in Troy, he was a graduate of Troy High School, class of 2009. John worked at the Hilton Garden Inn in Troy. The memory of his vitality and exuberance for life will remain with us well into the future. Survivors include in addition to his parents Sharon and Mark, include two brothers Christopher Patenaude and Cody Patenaude both of Troy, grandfather John M. Rotelli of Brunswick, aunts and uncles Donna Islip (Dave), Ruth Forcinella (Kevin), Trina Patenaude (Grandvil Martin), eight cousins and his dog Sadie. John was predeceased by his grandparents Blanche Rotelli, Richard and Heather Patenaude. Relatives and friends are invited to attend the Mass of Christian Burial at 11:00 a.m. on Wednesday, March 27, 2013 at Our Lady of Victory Church, North Lake Avenue, Troy. Burial will follow at St. Mary's Cemetery, Troy. Calling hours will be held on Tuesday from 4 to 8 p.m. at the McLoughin & Mason Funeral Home, corner of 109th Street and Third Avenue, Lansingburgh. Donations in John's memory may be made to Crohn's Foundation, Upstate Northeastern New York Chapter, 103 Patroon Dr., Guilderland, NY 12084, would be appreciated. To light a candle and offer words of condolence visit mcloughlinmason.com

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Published by The Record from Mar. 25 to Mar. 26, 2013.

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Jenn Clapper-Smith

October 18, 2024

Happy Birthday ya old man ! I miss you so much !

Jenn Clapper-Smith

March 23, 2024

Love and miss you!

Jenn Clapper

March 23, 2023

They say time heals all wounds and things get easier as the time passes. I can say it doesn´t. Still think about you every single day. I can´t look over at my passengers seat and not see you riding shot gun in my red focus even tho I don´t have that car anymore. This day will never get easier. I miss you so much bestie. Rest easy. Keep looking over me and my babies! I love you. Forever and always. Til we meet again.

Your friends

March 30, 2014

Patenaude family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. There are no words, wishing you peace at this difficult time.

Matthew Howard

March 20, 2014

I love you buddy forever will be my best friend hope your doing ok up there...thinking back to the summer of 07 ill never forget

Michael Lombardi

May 4, 2013

I was friends with John back in the day. I remember when he came to hang at my house when we were in the 4th grade. I always remembered him as being a great guy. I found out of his passing when I saw his picture at a gas station on Hoosick street today. Condolences to his family and friends.

Carol Talbot

April 13, 2013

Sharon and boys,
We just learned of John's passing today. We are so sad to hear of this. May your find peace and comfort in the love and support from your family and friends. Rich, Carol, Erik and Brady

Sean Edwards

March 30, 2013

So sorry to hear about your loss, if any of you need to talk please call. Love Sean and Rickey

March 30, 2013

sharon mark chris and cody standing in my front yard talking to matthew on the morning of the funeral and seeing tears stream down from under his tinted sunglasses showed just how much matthew cared and loved the friendship of a best friend i have never seen this side of my son and showed me how much johnny p has made an impact on are hearts and souls johnny p rest in peace john

Donna and Manny Ned and Family

March 30, 2013

Sharon and entire family. Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you at this most difficult time.

Thomas M Riley Sr

March 29, 2013

May you rest in peace. God bless to you and the family.

Thomas M Riley Sr

March 29, 2013

My thoughts and Prayers are with you during this sad time. God bless!

March 29, 2013

Sharon, Chris & Cody,
Our sincerest condolences. Please know that we will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers in the days ahead.
John, Julie, Kerianne & Ryan Squadrito

Rosie and Tony Carelli

March 29, 2013

Sharon and Mark,
Everyone's grief is personal; but we do know the devastating heartache of losing a child. We can't do anything to heal your broken hearts. but we can be here to listen and talk. Please don't hesitate to call us any time, day or night.
Sincerely,
Rosie and Tony Carelli 279-3470.

March 27, 2013

RUTH AND FAMILY, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. LOVE MARY MASTERSON

Yolanda Caola

March 27, 2013

Sharon, Mark, Chris, Cody, John, Ruthie, Donna and families. What a beautiful funeral service was held today to honor and remember your loved one. I was so touched to see how many young friends of Johns's attended the funeral and how deeply sadened they all were. He is with his beloved grandmother now and she will watch over him and all of you in the days ahead. God Bless each and everyone of you.

Yo and Ransen

John,Mary, Chris, John Dufresne

March 27, 2013

Sharon, Chris and Cody, our hearts broke when we heard of John's passing. we will always remember him with his smile and a wonderful laugh. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Buzz McArdle

March 27, 2013

Sharon, I am so sorry to hear your son has passed. I am praying for you, my friend.

Sandy Kershaw

March 27, 2013

Sharon I am so incredibly sorry for your family's loss.

Michele Kaye

March 27, 2013

Sharon,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son John, no words can describe what you and your family are going thru. If I can do anything to help you, please let me know... My thoughts and prayers are w/you and your family.

Sue & John Cardinuto

March 27, 2013

To Sharon,Chris,Cody,and Rotelli family:
We are deeply saddened to hear about John. He was the closest to me. John was in my wedding before he was even born. Sharon, I have always known you to be a friend with great faith and strength. You have to dig deep into your faith now and know that John is with your mom and grandparents giving them joy as he gave to you. We will be praying for you & the rest of the family. We love you and your family will give you strength as always.

Waters Family

March 27, 2013

RIP...may the love and support of others guide your family through this time.

Karen Page

March 27, 2013

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Heather Konieczny

March 27, 2013

RIP John :(

CATHY BURDICK

March 27, 2013

SHARON, CHRIS, CODY I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT JOHN,S PASSING. I KNOW HOW HOW HURT YOU ALL ARE. I WANT TO SEND MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO ALL OF YOU.MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYS ARE WITH YOU ALL.

March 27, 2013

Fly High dude.

Sabrina,Mark, Adison Johnson-Cole

March 26, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. May God watch over you and help you through this difficult time. My prayer are with you.

John Dougherty

March 26, 2013

My deapest sympathy to the Patenaude family, John has touched so many lives in his short journey here. His smile and humor would brighten everyones day. He is going to be greatly missed at the Hilton Garden Inn, He will forever be in our hearts.

"Fly High Our Gardian Angel. Til we meet again."

Beth Macey

March 26, 2013

Sharon, Mark, and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of John's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Macey Family

March 26, 2013

May your memories bring your family peace at this very difficult time.
Bill & Jan Patenaude
Montana

Kathy Matthews

March 26, 2013

Sharon, I am so shocked and sorry to hear about your son. I remember how you made me laugh with your stories of the boys when they were young. He will always be watching over you all from heaven .I will pray for you and your family at this difficult time .

kris ryan bennett

March 26, 2013

May God be with each and every one of you. I am so truly sorry for your pain now and in the days to come. Please know you are all in my thoughts as you experiecne this tremendous loss and heartache.

Michael Riley

March 26, 2013

Sharon,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know john is looking down and smiling. He knows he is missed and how much you will always love him. My prayers are with you and your family.

Mary Ryan

March 26, 2013

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Judy Barna-McKay

March 26, 2013

Sharon and family,
So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you at this most difficult time!

rachel hogan

March 26, 2013

Sharon, Chris, Cody, and family,
My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you in this hard time. Words can't describe how great of a person John was, and all of the fun times we had in high school, he will remain in all of our hearts forever.
All my prayers and all my love,
Rachel

March 26, 2013

Fly high John.

Heidi Joe Nick Paul and Vinnie Pontari's

March 26, 2013

Sharon Chris and Cody, with heavy hearts our boys mourn your loss..may you be strong and know although Johns stay here on earth was short it was meaningful ....he touched many hearts prayers to you all in this time of tragedy.

March 26, 2013

Sharon and Family,
Please know that my heartfelt sympathy is with you all. Prayers for you all.

Toni Murray Dolan and Family

Tom Hart

March 26, 2013

Sharon, Chris and Cody,
It is never easy to understand why certain things happen especially in death. You need to be strong for each other. You will have all be in my prayers, I pray for John's peace with god.

Pam Badolato-Doyle

March 26, 2013

Dear Sharon & family,
There are no words to express how sorry I am for the loss of your son. Please know I will pray for strength to help guide you thru this most difficult time. Fondly~ Pam Badolato Doyle & Family

Joe Lockrow, Sr.

March 26, 2013

Sharon and family so sorry for your loss johnny alway's had a smile on his face.Never forget all the little league games with him.He will be missed.May god bless him and your family.

March 26, 2013

Sharon and family sorry for your loss. Johnny was one of the politest kids I had ever met. Alway's had a smile on his face.Never forget all the little league games with him.God bless him.He will missed.

March 26, 2013

Sharon, Chris, Cody and family,
We are so sorry to hear of John's passing. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may the love and support of family and friends bring you comfort and peace. John was loved, and will never be forgotten. He will be with you always. You are in our thoughts and prayers,
Lisa, Peter, Lauren and Ben Gardenier

March 26, 2013

Sharon & Family -
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Fran & John Gallagher

Bob Weaver

March 26, 2013

Sharon, Sorry to here about the loss of John. No words can express the loss of a son or daughter. Prayers are with your dad and family on this sad loss

Steven Naples

March 26, 2013

Sharon I am so sorry to hear of your Son's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family and may GOD BLESS

Christine Coonrad

March 26, 2013

To the Patenaude and Rotelli Families:
I'm am so sorry to hear of John's passing. John and the rest of Ruthie's family go on the annual NiMo bus trip to NYC every December, and he and his brothers always help Ruthie pass out prize money to the winners. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

Marianne Gratto

March 26, 2013

Rest in paradise Johnny P. you will be missed dearly. Your smile always brightens a dull day. Shine down and watch over your family. Fly high kid!
My condolences go out to Sharon and family. So sorry for this tragedy.

matt howard

March 26, 2013

Rest easy brother I hope you how much everyone loves and cares for you..till we meet again

Alyssa Livolsi

March 26, 2013

Sharon, Chris and family, I was so saddened to hear of John's passing. He was such a sweetheart, I knew him from working at Price Chopper! He always knew how to make everyone laugh. You and your family are in my prayers. He is and always will be your angel.

Joann O'Brien

March 26, 2013

So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family of John P.
Joann & Mike O'Brien

March 26, 2013

Sharon, Chris and Cody: Words can't express my deep sorrow for you and your loss. My heart is so heavy. I watched you grow up with my three children. My kids were crushed when you left Tamarac but they've still have been friends all these years. All great kids, young adults our kids are. John was always a happy, cheerful young man, always so polite when we talked. My heartfelt prayers are with John, and you Sharon, Chris and Cody. May Gods tender care and your love and support of one another be your consolation during this hearbreaking time and all the days that follow. Love, Peace and Prayers, Collen Reynolds (Oswald)

Tina,Joe,Matt and Dan Hart

March 26, 2013

Sharon and family, Our thoughts and prays are with you and your family. We are so sorry for you loss. John could light up a room with his smile and was such a thoughtful and sweet boy. He is now in heaven and will be your guardian angel watching over you and your family.

Romeo & Theresa Naples

March 26, 2013

We will always remember John being with us all at Saratoga race track. He was a sweet young boy and full of energy. We are so sorry for your loss and we will miss his beautiful smile. Our prayers are with all the family .

March 26, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. Just know he will always be with you. John was great fun and a good friend and all of us in Tamarac will never forget him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, may your memories bring you comfort and peace.

Stephen Struss & family

Kathryn Hickey

March 26, 2013

Sharon & family,

I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. He always had a smile on his face whenever I saw him. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this incredibly difficult time.

Ruthie Teta

March 26, 2013

Sharon & Family...

your son will forever be looking after you as you have done for him for the past 23 yrs...he will guide you..love you and most of all keep you strong at this very sad time..whenever you see a rainbow..it will be John letting you know that he is ok....god bless

Dan Plumley

March 26, 2013

Sharon & Family

Sorry to learn of your loss their are no words but please know that i am thinking of you and your entire family at this sad and trying time.

Maureen Brier

March 26, 2013

So sorry for your loss Sharon. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Ann Smolen

March 26, 2013

Sharon,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.

Lapham(Deerfield) Family

March 26, 2013

So sorry for your loss! You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers!

Ann DiStefano

March 26, 2013

Sharon, Chris & Cody: John will always have a special place in my heart. I will miss his smiley face and his hugs he would always give me. Many, many wonderful memories will be cherished forever. May he rest in peace now. Thinking of you all. Love, Ann

Robert Lucey

March 26, 2013

There is nothing i can say to ease the pain but to off my deep apologies and i hope everything looks up. John was to good of a person to go so young and nobody will be able to forget him. Rest in peace bro but please dont rest to long theres people who need you to look after them

Lisa Badolato-Allen

March 26, 2013

To the Patenaude and Rotelli Families:

You have my deepest sympathy at this most difficult time.

sarah labombard

March 26, 2013

my thought and prays go to your family and all your friends. i know we all keep telling are self this not good bye its see later.

Emily Dooley

March 26, 2013

John, you were such an incredible guy always full of laughter and joy and a friend to everyone. You will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

Jean, TJ, Brandyn, Jaime and Adam Vooris

March 25, 2013

Sharon and family, We are so sorry for your loss of John. He was a great person and will be deeply missed by everyone who had the pleasure to met and get to know him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Robin Fuller

March 25, 2013

So sorry for your loss Sharon. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

peter standhart

March 25, 2013

you were just too young to go yet.. i am so sorry john.

john christian co.worker

March 25, 2013

Rest in peace.

Kayla Crosier

March 25, 2013

Fly high sweet angel My condolences to your family.
Saying goodbye is never easy, your are such a great coworker, friend & person in general so this is not goodbye this is until we meet again.
Your smile & personality remains forever & your in our hearts & prayers always John.
See you tomorrow sweets <3

Julia Forner (McKay)

March 25, 2013

Thoughts and prayers go out to all of the friends and family of John. You will be missed.

tammie Cox

March 25, 2013

My prayers go out to the family of john patenaude. He was always down to have fun. He will never be forgotten

March 25, 2013

Sharon and family, We are so deeply sorry for your loss. John had an amazing smile and a sweet personality. Your are in our thoughts and prayers.

Ron,Kim and Josh Micklas

March 25, 2013

R.i.p john p

Jeannette Mercer

March 25, 2013

Miss you Johnny P. light up heaven with your killer smile, and rest easy. you will always be remembered.

shari candelario

March 25, 2013

Sharon prayers with you and your family ........

Stephanie Harris

March 25, 2013

My prayers are with the Patenaude family during this difficult time. R.I.P John. I know you will be missed by many.

ANGELA MALONEY

March 25, 2013

Sharon, my prayers are with you and your family. Johnny will be missed... Johnny rest in peace.

Erica Mazula

March 25, 2013

Rip John you were a great friend,you will be missed so much. Never goodbye , always see you soon.Fly high.

Sue, Alissa & Adam Kinner

March 25, 2013

We are so so sorry to hear such sad news. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Amanda Taylor

March 25, 2013

RIP John.... You will be truly missed </3

Bob and Velvet Bariteau

March 25, 2013

Sharon,Mark and family our thoughts and prayers are with you. John was a fine young man and will truely be missed. Until we meet again John you will always be in our hearts.

Patty Hart

March 25, 2013

All my love and prayes are with you and your family.

Christopher Mansfield

March 25, 2013

Couldn't have asked for a better friend than the one I've had in John. My deepest prayers go out to the family and everyone impacted.

Patty Harbinger

March 25, 2013

Sharon, Mark and family - our deepest condolences during this time. Please know your family is in out thoughts and prayers. Kyle, Patty, Robert and Kody Harbinger

Donna Owens

March 25, 2013

Oh Sharon we are so deeply sorry for your great loss. You & yours are in our hearts and prayers.
Your cousin

March 25, 2013

R.I.P. JP. Mr.B

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