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Frederick Barstow Obituary

Frederick C. Barstow, 84, died peacefully and surrounded by his family on Monday, April 6, 2015, at the Maine Medical Center in Portland after suffering a stroke. He was born on October 13, 1930, in Massena, N.Y., the son of Ray and Helen Barstow. His father worked in the family hardware store, and he had two brothers and a sister. He was a proud Eagle Scout. He graduated from Dartmouth College in 1952 with a degree in geology. At Dartmouth he was co-captain of the ski team and developed into one of the nations finest alpine ski racers. He would continue racing well into his 60s, and he remained devoted to Dartmouth his entire life. It was at Dartmouth that he met his wife, Dorothy Doffie Tibbott of Newton, Mass., then a student at Mount Holyoke College. They married in 1953 and shared the next 61 years. After graduate studies at McGill University in Canada and a few years of service in the U.S. Army, he eventually settled in Concord, Mass., where he raised his family, attended the Trinitarian Congregational Church and worked for nearly 30 years at the Polaroid Corporation. He collaborated closely with Polaroids co-founder, Dr. Edwin H. Land, and he was part of the team that developed Polaroids popular SX-70 camera. He earned several patents for inventions related to film and film processes. After retiring, he and Doffie moved up to Maine, living in Bath, Brunswick and finally Cape Elizabeth. In addition to alpine and cross-country skiing, he was an avid cyclist, sailor, hiker, fly-fisher and canoeist. He adored taking photographs, especially of his family. He patiently hand crafted beautiful furniture in his garage shop. He also carved some of the most elegant giant slalom turns ever seen at Wildcat Mountain in New Hampshire. No one ever made a better bowl of popcorn. More than anything, he enjoyed teaching those he loved most the things he loved best. He was predeceased by five beloved canine companions | Cindy, Rufus, Annie, Sammie and Toby. He is survived by his wife Doffie and his four children, Brewer Barstow and Polly Wanzer, both of Portland, Maine; David Barstow of Glen Ridge, New Jersey,and Chris Barstow of Bethel, Maine. He is also survived by his brothers Tom and Russell and by his seven grandchildren: Tricia Rose, 26; Dylan Barstow, 24; Maeliosa Barstow, 20; Lucy Wanzer, 18; Sam Wanzer, 14; Lucas Barstow, 8, and Rosie Barstow, 6. He also left three daughter-in-laws -- Jean Barstow, Debbie Barstow and Nancy Barstow -- and a son-in-law, Steve Wanzer. A celebration of Fred's life will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, May 2, 2015 at First Parish Church in Brunswick, Maine. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Freds name to the Mid Coast Hunger Prevention Program, 84A Union Street, Brunswick, Maine, 04011. Please visit www.jonesrichardhutchins.com for additional information and to sign Freds online guest book.

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Published by The Concord Journal from Apr. 10 to Apr. 17, 2015.

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Christine Bensley Drain

April 24, 2015

Dear Barstow Family - I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. What a wise and accomplished man! Blessings to all of you, from an old Concord friend.

April 18, 2015

Dear Barstow Family, may the peace of God comfort your family at this time. Take comfort in knowing that both God and Jesus care. 2Th 2:16, 17

April 17, 2015

Those that live long lives have special mightiness. May your fond memories comfort you as God strengthens the family during this time of great sadness. (Psalm 29:11; 90:10)

Amy Walker

April 17, 2015

I was so very, very sad to hear of Fred's passing. Much of my childhood was spent with Polly and the rest of the Barstow family in Concord and as a frequent guest at their house in Jackson. Fred taught me to ski, something I will always be grateful for. A quiet, kind and gentle soul with a winning smile. There was nothing he couldn't build or do and I was in awe of his athleticism. So many fond memories. I truly thought of him as a second father. My heart and thoughts go out to Doffie, Polly, Brew, David and Chris, their spouses and his grandchildren.
Amy (Blodgett) Walker

To A Life Well Lived

Martha Agan

April 13, 2015

April 13, 2015

Dear Barstow family, I so wish I could have been a part of Fred's celebration at village on this past Saturday, however I had already made arrangements to be away on a women's church retreat. I want you to know how much Fred meant to me, he was always so loving, considerate and had lots of integrity. I will forever remember talking with him and him coming to get candy from my desk every day after lunch. Great, great man! Love Lisa Gove.

Charles Wanzer

April 12, 2015

Dear Barstow Family, Condolences to you all. Fred was a wonderful man and will be missed. I remember some of the old Concord days and the Barstow crew was terrific.... I liked the warm and creative tone of the obit. Hugs to Doffie and Polly

Tom and Gail Barstow

April 11, 2015

Dear Doffie,Brewer,Polly,David, Chris and families, please know that our thoughts and prayers have been with all of you this past week. As Tom's "big brother," Fred has always been his idol and mentor. His communication, contact, and support will truly be missed. Love to you all,
Tom and Gail

Maeliosa Smith

April 11, 2015

Dear Doffie ,we are very sad to hear the news. Fred left a lasting impression on everyone he knew.He was a true gentleman.We have many fond memories such as when you both joined the Tour de France here in Ireland or when you took the Irish ski amateurs on that hair-raising ski trip in Jackson!!
Love from Maeliosa Brian Julie and Tara

Lesley mcateer

April 11, 2015

Thinking of you all at this sad time, we all have very fond memories of Fred, He was such a gentleman.

Tom & Melissa Barstow

April 10, 2015

Aunt Doffie,
We're so sorry to hear the sad news. We still enjoy the photos that Fred took at our wedding and it was nice seeing you both our trips to Maine. You're in our prayers.

April 10, 2015

"Doffie" and Family,Dennis and I were so sad to hear about Fred's death.We really enjoyed talking to you both at many Merrymeeting Wheeler's bike functions.Fred was an amazingly talented and very kind person who left a lasting impression with everyone who was lucky to meet him.Know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.......Nancy and Dennis Lemieux,Brunswick

April 10, 2015

Thank you for your service.

Caroline Dave Shauna and melanie keating

April 10, 2015

With yr winning smile you calmly sat our family into a sitting pose in your wild flower garden to take our photo.
Doffie arrived with lemonade and chicken wraps on the deck!!
A perfect day! Thank you!!

Bill Ginty

April 10, 2015

Sorry to hear of this Doffie. I enjoyed many short conversations with Fred, Doffie, and Toby on their daily walks around the neighborhood. Our dog would often walk into your yard looking for Toby. I also enjoyed riding on Pleasant Hill road one day with Fred. Please take care!
-Bill Ginty

Rick Smith

April 10, 2015

Doffie - Sorry to hear about Fred's death. I enjoyed speaking with Fred during our MWBC cycling events as he was very interested in how Dani (Dartmouth 15')
was doing.

April 10, 2015

Doffie, I am so sorry to hear this news. I knew you both through the club but got to know Fred better the last two years he rode. We rode together most of that time. His wonderful can do attitude was an inspiration to me. I will remember both you and him as long as I live.

Jenn Berube

April 10, 2015

Doffie, I am so terribly sorry to hear of Fred's passing. He was a wonderful man and I will hold dearly the friendship we established over many Saturday morning bike rides. My thoughts are with you and your whole family. Jenn~

Russell & Rosanne Barstow

April 10, 2015

Our deepest sorrow for Doffie and sons Brewer, David, Chris, daughter Polly and their families. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. A year older, Fred was a true big brother. He took me for my first day of school; through his assurances, I no longer feared boating; and he taught me the Alberg technique he learned from a small booklet published by the Northland Ski Company. Growing up in Massena he enjoyed boat building, hunting, carving his own set of duck decoys and enjoyed the Stillwater Hunting Club. He was instrumental in the formation of the first ski team at Massena High School. He will be missed for sure.

Gay Folland

April 10, 2015

Doffie--I'm so sorry to hear of Fred's death. Although it's been many years since I've seen you and Fred, I have fond memories of the old Masters racing crew. I can picture Fred in his red warm-ups and blue CB jacket, riding the lift at Wildcat. He was a terrific skier, and always a tough competitor, especially in Giant Slalom!
I'm glad that he lived a long and full life, with loving family.

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