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Priscilla Rand Obituary

Priscilla Whitehouse Rand, Lincoln Resident, Champion of Children's Theater 1927-2014 Priscilla Brooks Whitehouse Rand passed away peacefully on April 25 at the Bridgton Health Care Center in Bridgton, Maine. She was born on August 30, 1927, the first of three children of Brooks Whitehouse and Anne Bradstreet Darling, of Portland Maine. Priscilla spent her early years between Portland and the family camp on the shores of Panther Pond in Raymond, Maine. From April to November, the family lived at the camp and Priscilla would drive with her father to Portland each morning to attend school, returning in the evening. During her teenage years she lived in Portland with her paternal grandmother and suffrage activist, Florence Brooks Whitehouse, where politics, art and literature were part of daily life. Priscilla graduated from the Waynflete School in Portland and went on to graduate from Smith College in 1949. During her years at Waynflete and Smith, Priscilla became active in the theater, which grew into her life-long passion. In the late 1940's Priscilla and her sister Anne worked with the Portland Children's Theatre, which gave performances from a mobile stage that was moved around to different city parks. Priscilla met her husband, William McNear Rand, Jr. (Bill), at the wedding of her Smith College classmate Elsie Janeway, who married Bill's Harvard classmate William Apthorp. After six years of courtship, Priscilla and Bill were married in Portland, Maine on February 6th, 1954. They moved to Lincoln, Massachusetts shortly thereafter where they raised four children, Louisa, David, John and Matthew. During more than three decades in Lincoln, Priscilla shepherded the family through seemingly endless, joyful seasons in the community with all sorts of projects and pets, tennis lessons, Buddy Werner Ski Team practices, driving lessons and gracious parenting through the lures of youthful indiscretion. Priscilla enjoyed the communities of St. Anne's Episcopal Church and the First Parish Church in Lincoln. Summers were spent with family at Panther Pond and in Cundy's Harbor Maine, and later included vigorous racing of the Friendship Sloop built by son John, in the waters around Friendship, Boothbay and Rockland, Maine. Winters were marked by New Years gatherings and epic charade games with family and friends at the Farm in Raymond, and the annual ski race at the Drifters Ski Club in Jackson, New Hampshire. Throughout these years Priscilla maintained an active role in several different theater companies. She was the founding director of the Boston Children's Theater Stagemobile, a summer theatre on wheels that toured Boston and surrounding community parks and became very popular. She taught theatre classes in the Dorchester School afternoon programs each week in the late 1960s and early 1970s. She directed many theater productions including The Importance of Being Ernest with the Lincoln Players, several productions with the Boston Children's Theatre main stage, including Charlotte's Web for which she corresponded with E.B. White about adapting the book into a script, The Wind in the Willows with the Lincoln Public Schools, and The Music Man, a joint production by the Dana Hall School and Noble and Greenough School, which received rave reviews in the Boston Globe. In the 1980s, Priscilla earned her teacher certification and became an English Teacher at Lincoln Sudbury Regional High School in Sudbury, Massachusetts, where she worked for several years. In 1987, Priscilla and Bill moved from Lincoln to the Whitehouse family farm in Raymond Maine where they spent their final years. Priscilla was a member of St. Ann's Episcopal Church of Windham, Maine. She also became very active in the Loon Echo Land Trust, working to protect open land in the lakes region of Maine. They enjoyed mid winter ski trips with fellow Drifters, summer cruises on the Friendship Sloop and countless gardening and tree farm projects around the Farm lands. In addition to New England adventures, they traveled to Alaska and Europe with friends and family. Priscilla considered herself blessed by her two loving extended families and many close lifelong friends. She is survived by her sister Anne Whitehouse Gass of South Paris, Maine, her brother Brooks Whitehouse, Jr., of Portsmouth, New Hampshire, her daughter Louisa Rand Moore of Freeport, Maine and Waitsfield, Vermont, her son David Rand of Barrington, Rhode Island, her son John Rand of Raymond, Maine, and her son Matthew Rand of Richmond, Vermont, her children's spouses: Peter Moore, Kristi Wharton Rand, Lori Denis Rand, Pennie McEdward Rand; her seven grandchildren: Katie Rand, Allison Rand, Annavitte Rand, Ian Moore, Laura Rand, Julia Rand and Karin Rand; and many Whitehouse and Rand family members. She will be deeply missed and remembered for her genuine caring and fun-loving spirit. A memorial service will be held at Saint Bartholomew's Church, 396 Gilman Road in Yarmouth, Maine on Saturday, May 31 at 2:00 PM. Those wishing to remember Priscilla may make a memorial donation in her name to the Loon Echo Land Trust, 8 Depot St #4, Bridgton, ME 04009. Or if she were with us now, she might just suggest inviting some children to a wonderful play!

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Published by The Lincoln Journal from May 13 to May 20, 2014.

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Sally Baker McAllaster

May 12, 2014

I didn't finish my thoughts about my former Waynflete classmate and dear friend. I hope the first part was not lost in computer space.
I will just finish by sending my best wishes to the family and saying that I would love to be at the service to say "goodbye" in person.

Joseph Antognoni

May 11, 2014

Condolences to the family.I got to know the Rand's through my Concord H.S. best friend.Bill Herman who married Emily Rand..I still keep in touch with Bill and Emily in Maine.

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