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Jack De Vries
February 10, 2024
Still think of Gene & Judy often. Miss them.
They were The Best!
Andie & Jack De Vries
February 10, 2021
Fondly remembering Gene on this anniversary of his passing. A wonderful giving person with a Big Heart willing to help anyone in need. With the passing of his dear wife Judy in June, the world has felt the loss of this wonderful couple. They both set an excellent example for each of us to follow. God Bless them both. We miss them.
Marty Roberts
February 10, 2020
Gene smile is still warm and strong in my memory even 5 years after he left us.
Linda Ambrosavage-Prescott
March 18, 2015
Mrs. Jacobi,
So sorry to hear about your husband.
Andie & Jack De Vries
March 5, 2015
Judy: We were so saddened to hear the news about Gene.
He was one of the "true Good Guys," always with a warm smile and kind heart. A real gentleman .
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
We will be in touch..
Ruth & Skip Sigler
February 27, 2015
We're in California, Judy, just happened to pull up Wicked Local and were so sorry to read the news. Are thinking of you and will make a contribution in his memory.
Ruth & Skip Sigler @ The Seagull Inn
Judy Foster
February 24, 2015
Dear Judy,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on Gene's passing. He was truly a gentleman in every sense of the word. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.
Jill Anderson
February 23, 2015
Gene was one of the few and far between who had love in his heart to share with many. His presence just made you feel blessed, his smile made you smile. He will never be forgotten,and Judy he will always be at your side.
Love Jill
Christine Nuccio
February 22, 2015
What a wonderful tribute to Gene yesterday. I can see him smiling in approval - the music, the prayers, the thoughtful remembrances were all perfect - just like Gene :).
I will miss him dearly but will feel his presence in so many ways in our wonderful community.
We are here for you Judy.
Love,
Christine
Burke Fisher
February 22, 2015
Dear Judy,
I'm sorry to hear about Gene. It's been a long time since I've seen both of you but I still have a lot of wonderful memories visiting the two of you as a child. Your loyal friendship has always been cherished by my family and will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
karen tobin
February 22, 2015
Dear Mrs.Jacobi, I was so sad to hear of Mr.Jacobi's passing. I will always remember his kindness and the beautiful photos he took of our family and special events. I am thinking of you and want you to know that I feel blessed to have known him. Much much love, Karen
Beverly and Bill Clark
February 21, 2015
Personable, witty, incredibly generous when it came to donating his time, talent and heart. We will never forget him.
Pam & TJ Rogers
February 21, 2015
Dear Judy and family,
What a wonderful tribute to Gene today. He was a remarkable man, friend and neighbor. He will be missed dearly. We will always be here for you Judy.
Love, Pam and TJ
barry phelan
February 21, 2015
I remember when Gene and Judy moved back to Marblehead and how much Lynn and I missed them. We got to be close friends. Barry and Gene worked closely together in their last work assignments . Gene was gracious, caring and just an all around great guy!!GOD bless him!
Lynn and Barry
Tom & Brooke Saltsman
February 21, 2015
Judi-
What a beautiful love story you had for 51 years with such a kind and generous man. May the joy and love you and Gene shared for each other and so many others bring you comfort and peace during this difficult time. He was blessed to share his life with someone as special as you. We are thinking of you and offer our deepest condolences.
Grace Cole
February 20, 2015
Judy. My heart breaks for you! I loved Gene! All my love.
Sharon & Michael Thibodeau
February 20, 2015
Such a loss to Marblehead and to everyone who came in contact with him. Gene was such a wonderful man, so kind and friendly, so warm and engaging. Though we didn't know him well, he made an impact. Our sincere sympathy on his passing.
Mike Tontini
February 20, 2015
Always a Gentleman. God's gain is our loss. Deepest condolences to his family.
Chris & Erin Fisher
February 20, 2015
We have so many happy memories of Gene and you that we often refer to even though years have passed. Both our chidlren's christeninng parties, the many dinners and laughs we shared; not to mention our introduction to tag sales and gardening and "parlor games!" There have never been better neighbors than you two. We are with you in spirit and you will be in our prayers.
February 20, 2015
Dear Judy (Miss Remig),
Just learned of your husband's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
With deepest sympathy,
Ruthann Hickman Dougherty
(Brookside School)
Billy English
February 20, 2015
Ever since I reconnected with you, I occasionally look at the "Marblehead Reporter" webpage and was so saddened to see this. You have my deepest condolences and I am so sorry for your loss. God Bless.
Brett McCarty
February 20, 2015
It was an honor and a privilege to know Gene. Blessings on you dear Judy. Namaste
February 19, 2015
Dear Judy:
He was a good man and may He rest in pease . May God bless You and your Family .
With love and prayers .
Palo A Peirce ll
Meredith Morris
February 19, 2015
Dear Judy,
I am so sorry to learn of Jean's passing. He was such a kind man,like you, always doing things for the town.Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
May your many wonderful memories sustain you during this very sad time. God bless.
February 19, 2015
Judy, We are very sorry to hear of Gene's passing. He was a very nice person, one of the best. He will be missed by all who knew him.
Patti and Richard Cuzner
Joanne Schwind
February 19, 2015
My deepest sympathy to the entire Jacobi family upon their loss.
Gretchen Vona Pierce
February 19, 2015
Dear Judy, I am so sorry to hear of Gene's passing. You both have done so much for the town. He will be sorely missed. A kind and gentle man with the love of a kind and gentle woman.
Clyde Elledge
February 19, 2015
So sorry for you loss. You are held up in our community in prayer. Clyde Elledge, St. Andrews Episcopal Church, COA Board
Ryan Fisher
February 18, 2015
Dear Judy,
I'm so sorry to hear about Gene. I have so many wonderful memories of you both, from staying with you in Marblehead, to learning to play skee ball at the Shore. Gene will be greatly missed and I feel lucky to have known him.
With love, Ryan
February 17, 2015
Dear Judy
I am so sorry to hear about your loss, Gene was one of the nicest person I have ever met. He was always smiling, and he always had a good word for you. He will highly missed around the town.
You have my deepest sympathy.
Ed Demski
February 17, 2015
Judy,I am so sorry to hear about your loss, Gene was one of the nicest persons I have had the pleasure to meet. I remember him as always smiling and doing things for others. He will be highly missed. You have my sympathies Judy,
Judy Jacobi
February 17, 2015
Liebe Judy,
mit tiefer Erschtterung nehmen wir zur Kenntnis, da unser lieber Cousin Gene von uns gegangen ist. Er war ein toller Mensch.
In stillem Gedenken Ingrid, Kathrin, Ruth und Renate mit Familien aus Deutschland
Patty Pederson
February 17, 2015
Judy,
Gene will be missed by many. Sending you lots of love and strength during this difficult time.
Patty Pederson
February 17, 2015
Dear Judy
My words are most inadequate to express my very sincere and deepest sympathy you and to the memory of Gene, a most helpful and devoted neighbor for many years, a truly wonderful friend. You both became like family to me, particularly since Jeff passed on . The thoughts of him will most certainly live on in my thoughts and prayers.
Bobbie
George Derringer
February 17, 2015
I am so sorry to hear this news. Gene was everybody's friend and an all-around good guy. You have my sympathies, Judy.
Karen and David Rosenberg
February 17, 2015
Dear Judy and Family,
Please accept our heartfelt sympathy on the passing of your beloved husband, Gene, and know, full well, that you may lean on us today and anytime in the future.
Sue Dempsey
February 16, 2015
Judy--so sorry to hear of Gene's passing, He was always very nice to me, and I know You will miss him terribly
Pam Giblon
February 16, 2015
Dear Judy,
I am so sorry for your loss. Although I only had the pleasure of meeting you that evening at dinner with Bobbie at 5 Corners, not meeting Gene is most regrettable as all I know of him is nothing but amazing. You are fortunate to be surrounded by so many friends who care so deeply for you.
Most sincerely,
Pamela Giblon
Doug Knowles
February 16, 2015
Judy, on behalf of the Marblehead Firefighters please accept our deepest and sincere condolences. " Mean Gene" was the man at every event, a friend with a gentle smile. He will be missed.
February 16, 2015
Dear Judy,
I am so sorry for your loss.
My sincere condolences,
Carm
James (Jack) Marotta
February 16, 2015
Dear Judy:
We were very shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Gene. Since our move to Florida, we always talked about returning to Marblehead and surprising you and Gene with a visit. We will always remember the fun times that we shared with you and Gene at the Marblehead Arts and the Counseling Center especially when Gene and Jack were campaigning and putting up signs for your re-election. Jack was so proud to be part of it. God Bless you Judy and even though we are not in Marblehead, our thoughts will always be with you.
Carol and Jack Marotta
February 16, 2015
I am so saddened to learn of Gene's death. Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy. I always loved to see him....smiling, handsome, witty & wise. Always, Anne Rumpf
Bob Baker
February 16, 2015
I had all of 3 or 4 half-hour conversations with Gene -- it felt like a friend I'd buddied with since high school. He radiated intelligence, selflessness and ... fun. God bless you Gene -- catch you later.
Bob Baker, Marblehead
February 16, 2015
Judy Dear, Although we regret not being able to be with you in Marblehead, we must tell you how heartbroken we are for you and your family. We will always treasure our friendship with you and Gene and are equally grateful for the endless contributions you both made to Marblehead. Memories keep the heart warm. May God Bless and comfort you.
John and Josie Crowley
Marcia Sweeney
February 16, 2015
Judy, I know the pain that you are feeling. Many times we spoke about how similar our lives were, married to our high school sweethearts for 50+ years, our involvement with education and our husbands involvement in our Town. And now we share the loss of our loved ones. You will need some time to grieve. When you are ready to talk, call me.
February 16, 2015
Judy,
Our heartfelt condolences on the loss of Gene. You have lost a wonderful man, we have all lost a friend and the community has lost a great contributor and leader.
John Lindahl & Fawn Choate
Joe and Caroline Mirabella
February 16, 2015
Dear Judy,
Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss. May the happy memories of your life together and the love and concern of family and friends sustain you through this difficult time.
Deborah Greel
February 16, 2015
Dear Judy,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your dear husband. He was an incredible person and will be sorely missed. I will always remember his love of opera.
Barbara Schneider
February 15, 2015
It is hard to imagine Marblehead without Gene. He will be so dearly missed by so many. My deepest sympathy to you, Judy, and all his loved ones.
Loretta Tenaglia
February 15, 2015
My deepest sympathy to Gene's family. I consider my self fortunate
To know him. He was a role model in every way.
Heather Tobin
February 15, 2015
In memory of a dear and beloved family friend, Mr. Jacobi. We shall miss you beyond measure....
Heather Tobin
February 15, 2015
Dear Mrs. Jacobi,
There are no words to begin to convey this tremendous loss. How I have adored you both since I met you as a child. Mr. Jacobi was the kindest, most altruistic, dear gem of a man. I will never forget his laughter, the incredible freshly baked bread he would bring over to Mom and Dad's house, and the exquisite photographs he took at my sisters' weddings. My heart aches for you. During this most difficult of times, may you be embraced by the adoration and support we have for you. I love you so very much, Heather
February 15, 2015
Dear Judy,
Sending our love and sympathy. We remember Gene and you at the Jersey shore, the garage sales and happy dinners together. He was a " Man for all Seasons". May our Lord comfort you now.
Angela and Alex Scott
Kathy & Bill Woodfin
February 15, 2015
Gene was a gem of a man. He was kind and, most importantly, genuinely nice. You know, when you're a selectman, if you're truly invested, you become close with your colleagues. You spend a lot of time with them and often disagree on one issue or another but usually the disagreements only extend to the issue at hand. We try to walk out as friends and we know each other's spouses and families. Judy and I were very close and we always worked together frequently. As a result, I met and talked with Gene hundreds of times. I used to call him the Town's 'official photographer' as he took pictures of the Board at almost every event. He often took pictures of my family and daughters at parades and at Christmas time would send us a few candid shots that we always enjoyed. Because of Gene, I have the best and one of the few good pictures I have with my late dad, Ben. I cherish it. Gene was the kind of a man that you always enjoyed seeing because he was soft-spoken, a kind soul and loved the old Town. I used to kid him and Judy about being 'New Jerseyite' off-islanders but there were not two people (regardless of family lineage including Headers) who loved the Town more. Judy and Gene visited and bought their house during the Blizzard of '78 as I recall when the Town could hardly move. Somehow it's fitting that he passed his mortal coil during all this snow as this is how he first recognized his love of the Town. You know, the older you get, the more you appreciate people in your life that are positive - Gene was one of those people. It's fitting that Hospice of the North Shore eased his passage from life to the ethereal realm because he and Judy volunteered much time to that organization which is a God-send to whoever has used it. Dying is different things to different people but Hospice is like a mariner with a compass when you are in rough seas, not sure of your course heading and need help to navigate the winds and waves of a perilous journey. He and Judy made a difference for that organization and it's fitting that it helped Judy and Gene navigate HIS journey. Native Marbleheaders are a notoriously stubborn, proud and bull-headed group as a whole on the outside but most are very soft on the inside especially about the love of this singular place that (at least to them) represents home, hearth and family. We have a tendency to rebut people who are from away and set our lineage above a lot of things when it comes to the dear old Town. You didn't have to do that with Gene and Judy because you knew they had the best in heart for a Town for whom we are only temporary custodians. Although it's not within my power, the best compliment that I could bestow on Gene is that of being a true 'Marbleheader' because that is what he was. Kathy and I will miss him and the spirit he lived every day. He was a good man and what more can anyone achieve. If your listening Gene, look to the horizon, set your sail, man the tiller, check your heading and aim for the light dear friend. A calm sea shall accompany you and hopefully we will see you on the other side. God Bless. Judy, we are always there for you and you know that. A promise made is always a promise kept.
Anthony and Jo Ann Silva
February 15, 2015
Dear Judy,
Anthony and I are deeply saddened by your loss. Gene was a true gentleman, always a pleasure to spend time with. He was always willing to give of his time and skills to benefit others, especially here in his beloved adopted home. We know how each of us in Marblehead will miss him. Our hearts are with you, who will miss him most.
John and Zaxaro Bennett
February 15, 2015
Dear Judy,
There are no words to express the sadness we feel for you and your family. We will forever cherish our time spent with Gene, and treasure the wonderful photos he took of our boys throughout the years. He was truly one of the kindest people we've ever known.
Much love to you!
Laura Ward
February 15, 2015
Judy:
The world is dimmer with Gene's passing. His humor, curiosity, intellect, generosity and bit of the devil made him the perfect match for you and friend for all of us.
You're in my thoughts and heart.
Laura
Sharon Russell
February 15, 2015
Dear Judy,
Webb and I are so sad to learn of Gene's passing. He was such a kind soul. He was always there to take pictures for me at any Marblehead Museum and Historical Society event. The best pictures that Webb and I have of the two of us were taken by Gene. We will miss him. Our sincere condolences to you.
Fondly,
Sharon & Webb Russell
Laurie and Morris Tobin
February 15, 2015
Rest in peace, our dear, dear friend.
Liz & Bert Michaud
February 15, 2015
Dear Judy,
Gene was so very special and touched the hearts of everyone he met. His generosity to Marblehead and to the many organizations that he was involved with is legendary. Bert and I will miss his warm smile, good humor, sage opinions and candid camera shots. We are sorry we will not be here to show our respects in person but our thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Laura Ward
February 15, 2015
Judy:
The world is a dimmer place with Gene's passing. His humor, curiosity, intellect, generosity,and occasional bit of the devil made him your perfect partner and our perfect friend.
My heart and thoughts are with you,
Laura Ward
Marty Roberts
February 15, 2015
Dear Judy,
We will miss Gene's warm presence and engaging smile in so many places around Marblehead. Marty and Tom Roberts
Nancy Graves
February 15, 2015
May you rest in peace, a true gentleman! My deepest sympathy, Judy. Nancy Graves
Diane St.Laurent
February 15, 2015
Judy,
Gene was such a special friend and will be so missed. My thoughts are with you at this time. Know I will be here and thinking of you should you need a shoulder.
RIP Gene,
Diane St.Laurent
February 15, 2015
What a wonderful human being. He gave so much to our town. He will be dearly missed.
Rens & Rita
February 14, 2015
Judy,
Our heartfelt condolence. We'll miss our favorite photographer.
Godspeed Gene.
Wayne and Kathy
Robert F. Martina
February 14, 2015
One could rarely find a better brother, brother-in-law, or uncle to our children than Gene. In addition a knowledgeable person with a wide spectrum of interests and civic involvement
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