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Isabelle Ray Obituary

YORK Isabelle C. (Bowens) Ray died Sunday, August 17, 2008, at Colonial Manor Nursing Home. She was the wife of the late George Ray, Jr. A Celebration of Life Service will be held at 11 a.m. Friday at Shiloh Baptist Church, 629 S. Pershing Ave., York. Viewings will be from 7 to 8 p.m. Thursday at Heffner Funeral Chapel & Crematory, Inc., 1551 Kenneth Road, York, and from 10 to 11 a.m. Friday at the church. Burial will be in Susquehanna Memorial Gardens. Mrs. Ray was born March 16, 1925, in York. She was a daughter of the late Walter and Florence (Giles) Bones. After completing school in Washington, D.C., she returned to York for a short time before moving to Brooklyn, N.Y., in 1945 where she lived for 39 years. While in New York, she worked for Western Electric and then continued her career at East New York Legal Services in Brooklyn until her retirement in 1979 due to illness. Mrs. Ray rejoined her family in York in 1982 and became an active member of Shiloh Baptist Church. She was also a member of AARP national and local chapter #3060, the Democratic Club, and served as President of the Block Association and PTA in Brooklyn, N.Y. Mrs. Ray enjoyed traveling and loved spending time with her children and grandchildren. Mrs. Ray is survived by a son, Vincent A. (Chink) and wife, Mary L. Bowens of York; a daughter, Deborah M. and husband, David J. Barton of York; a stepdaughter, Diane Neely of Philadelphia; 12 grandchildren; 31 great-grandchildren; four great-great-grandchildren; a sister, Viola Everette; and several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by a grandson, Tru S. Ray-Barton, who passed away in 2006; and a sister, Clara Chambers, who passed away in 1999. Memorial contributions may be made to Shiloh Baptist Church, 629 S. Pershing Ave., York, PA 17403; or to VNA/Hospice Services, 218 E. Market St., York, PA 17403. Send Condolences at BestLifeTributes.com

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Published by York Daily Record on Aug. 20, 2008.

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VALERIE HANDY

August 21, 2008

DEAR COUSIN CHINC & FAMILY,

OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU IN YOUR TIME OF GRIEF.

MAY YOUR BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES OF HER BRING YOU COMFORT.

IN LOVE AND PRAYERS,

TRAV, AUNT GERAL & LORNA

VALERIE HANDY

August 21, 2008

DEAR COUSIN CHINC & FAMILY,

PLEASE KNOW YOUR MOTHER IS SAFE AND RESTING PEACEFULLY WITH THE LORD IN A PLACE GREATER THAN WE CAN ONLY IMAGINE.

OUR FAMILY WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOUR FAITH AND STRENGTH TO GUIDE YOU THROUGH THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME.

LOVE,

VAL HANDY & FAMILY

Faye E. Oberlander-Brabham

August 20, 2008

To the family,

Please accept my sincere sympathy in the loss of your mother, grandmother, and aunt. I know this is a difficult time for all of you, but remember that God is a loving God and in His plan for her, it was her time to come home to Him.

Remember all the joyous times in your lives with her. She was a really great lady and I really admired her. God bless each of you.

CHARLES BRABHAM

August 20, 2008

I ESPRESS MY SYMPATHIES TO ALL THE FAMILY OF THE RAY FAMILY. MOM AS I CALLED HER WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY THOUGHTS. SHE
WILL BE MISSED.

Rosalyn Woodyard-Sharp

August 20, 2008

Where do I begin? I've only knew Ms. Isabelle for a few years through working with her. But oh my!!! She was such a wonderful woman!! I looked at her as my third grandmom!! She was such a strong person all the way up until her last days. I don't know how many stories we've sat and shared over our short time together. I'm gonna miss Ms. Isabelle. To the family: my deapest condolences go out to all of you. My prayers are also with you during this most difficult time. I know it's hard, but trust in the Lord, for he will see you through. And know that Ms. Isabelle isn't in any pain anymore. She's smiling down on all of us!!!

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