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John D., Julia A. and Langon R. Goodman

John D., Goodman Obituary

YORK John D. and Julia Anena (Frisby) Goodman and their son, Langon Robert Goodman died Sunday morning, November 2, 2008, at their home. A Celebration of Life Service will be 1 p.m. Thursday at St. Matthew Lutheran Church, 839 W. Market St., York, with the Rev. Kevin T. Shively and the Rev. Diane G. Wenthe officiating. A visitation with light refreshments will immediately follow the service in the church fellowship hall. Burial will be private. Heffner Funeral Chapel & Crematory is in charge of arrangements. Julia was born June 10, 1969, in York a daughter of Robert C. and Virginia (Koller) Frisby of York. John was born December 20, 1968, in Baltimore, Md., a son of Philip L. and Sharon K. (Barden) Goodman of Hanover. On January 13, 2006 they celebrated the birth of their son, Langon Robert. Julia was a 1987 graduate of West York Area Senior High School and in 1991 earned her Bachelor's of Science Degree in Geo-Environmental Science from Shippensburg University. She continued her education at Shippensburg and in 1993 received her Master's Degree. She went on to serve as the Assistant Zoning Officer for the City of York and later, West Manchester Twp. She had also been employed with CS Davidson in York and most recently worked with the Lancaster County Planning Commission. She was also a graduate of Leadership York and volunteered with the York Heritage Trust where she served as a Dosent at the Gates House and Plough Tavern. She was a member of St. Matthew Lutheran Church. In addition to her parents, Julia leaves her brother, Robert W. Frisby and wife, Joanne of York; two sisters, Virginia 'Ginger' Meisenhelder and husband, Dan of York and Christina Anthony and husband, Thomas of York; and 14 nieces and nephews. John was a 1987 graduate of South Western School District and in 1991 also earned a Bachelor's of Science Degree in Geo-Environmental Science from Shippensburg University. While in both high school and college, John was a member of the schools' swim team. He was a surveyor working with Gordon Brown Engineering and then LSC, Inc., in York and later with Strausser Engineering in Lancaster. He was an avid fisherman and enjoyed spending time on his family's farm. Along with his wife, he attended St. Matthew Lutheran Church. In addition to his parents and nieces and nephews, John leaves two sisters and his maternal grandmother. In addition to his grandparents, great grandmother, aunts, uncles and cousins, Langon also leaves his dog, Tika and his cat, Tearin. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Matthew Lutheran Church, 839 W. Market St., York, PA 17401 or to a charity of your choice. Send condolences at BestLifeTributes.com

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Published by York Daily Record on Nov. 4, 2008.

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MKT

June 11, 2024

Julie, John, and Langan - it has been just over 15 years and you are missed each and every day. Love you. -MKT

Michelle (Dawson) Bentzel

November 30, 2008

Frisby & Goodman families,

I was friends with Julie during high school, we waited for the bus together each day.... She was a dear, sweet and kind person. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Jen Deyarmin

November 28, 2008

Uncle Bob and Aunt Ginny, Ging, Bob, and Tina-
It's been nearly a month already and it still seems so unreal. All my siblings live out of state, and you never failed to invite me to family gatherings (like the one yesterday). I was always treated as family, although I am "just a cousin". There are no words to express your loss, or enough to find consolation. Most families would be envious of how close you all are. May you find some peace in knowing God loves us all, no matter what. Thank you for making room for Mark and myself as part of your family.

November 17, 2008

It's been 2 weeks and you all are still in hearts and prayers. I did'nt know any of the family but like so many grieve and sympathize with all family and friends. There may never be answers to the questions but there is only one question we need answered and already know the answer, they all have their wings and in the arms of god and each other. Forgiveness was already in hearts as well as love, comfort and eternal peace. God bless all and sleep well John, Julie and Langon. We all love you and have made you our family too.

Christie Scuka Lawrence

November 15, 2008

My heart aches for your family, Ginger. All of my love and prayers.

Scott Berger

November 14, 2008

To the Goodman and Frisby families.........Our deepest and heartfelt sympathy in your loss.
I was roommates with John in my final 2 years at Shippensburg University. During that time, I got to know Julie as well. She was a sweetheart. They were always smiling and enjoying life to the fullest. I competed against John in high school swimming and was honored to call him a teammate on our water polo team and during our time at Ship. You guys will always live in my heart.

Vicky Dawson

November 12, 2008

To the Frisby and Goodman Family,

Words cannot express how deeply my heart aches for your families. My daughter Michelle and Julie were friends at WYHS. In fact we lived right down the street. Julie was always such a sweet girl and a pleasure to have around. Please know that your families are in my prayers. May God provide a strength and peace for all of you.

Todd Kiick

November 11, 2008

Sharon,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

John and Carol (Owen) Villarose

November 11, 2008

To Ginny, Bob, Bob,Jr.,Chris We are so sorry for the loss of your precious daughter and grandson and sister and nephew. We certainly can feel your pain as you know we just lost our son, John. God Bless All of You.

Kimberly Mislevy

November 10, 2008

Ginger and Dan I'm so sorry for your loss. May God Bless You all durning this time of loss and always.

November 9, 2008

I did not know this family but their story breaks my heart. I am a current employee of CS Davidson and everyone that remembers Julis speaks very highly of her. May God be with those who were left behind. I hope you can find some peace in His love. God Bless

Sam & Janet Mumaw

November 8, 2008

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Terry (Gibson) Ruby

November 7, 2008

My heartfelt condolences to both the Frisby and Goodman families. I worked with Julie at the York County Planning Commission. Julie took me under her wing when I first came to work there and we shared many great times as "partners in crime". I was just talking about some of those times last week to another co-worker. Julie, John and Langon will be sadly missed.

Amy (Lease) Bogden

November 7, 2008

Please know that you are all loved by so many, even those you've never met. My grandparents know Julias parents are are so sad for all of you. May you find comfort in the LORD and know that he has you in the palm of his hand.

nancy

November 6, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Bob Reck

November 6, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this dificult time, John was a great freind growing up and will be missed deeply. Your family is in my prayers. Sincerely,

Heather Radziewicz

November 6, 2008

To both families.
Julie and John were customers or ours at Den's Service Center, they brought their vehicles in often. I work in the office and had just seen and talked to Julie at the end of October, and had referred her to my babysitter for care of Langon, she said she didn't like daycares. I broke down in tears when I heard the news, we take time here to know our customers and they were one of my favorites. I remember them both as such nice people, John being such a big but quiet guy and Julie with her friendly smile. God bless all three of them, my thoughts and prayers with you all.

November 6, 2008

I went to West York High School and although I didn't personally know Julie, I do remember her. She was a nice girl with a pretty smile. She and Langon are with God and they are at peace. My prayers are with her family.

Amy Riley

November 6, 2008

I've never met anyone in your family, yet I sobbed when I heard of this tragedy. By reading these entries I sense that you know our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, and that he will be your strength. My family and I will pray for you all, that God will help you through and make the days to come more bearable. I am so sorry.

Dianne Popik

November 6, 2008

Sharon, Phil, Andrea and Cori,
I would like to express my deepest condolences over the tragedy of your loss. My heart reaches out to you. I swam with John for many years and was always impressed by his hard work and dedication in the pool. He certainly made the rest of us look lazy at times. We lost touch after high school, but I always remembered the kindness of your family. I wish you peace and comfort during this most sorrowful time.

The Family of Paul & Cecilia Bahn

November 6, 2008

Words cannot express the deep sorrow that our family feels for your loss. May God be with you and your family.

November 6, 2008

God bless you in your loss. Our children will miss him.
Parent from Langon's School

D. Manning

November 6, 2008

The Goodman and Frisby Families,
I was a neighbor of John and Julie's on First avenue. Julie and I would walk in the evenings together. John and Julie always were a happy couple. My children will never forget how John wore shorts while shoveling the snow. We always joked about it being really cold outside because John would be in pants. My thoughts and prayers are with both families at this difficult time.

Cindy (Fanton) Knaub

November 6, 2008

Julie was my friend from 4th grade onward. Though I lost touch with her, I will always remember her as the smart, funny, beautiful person she was. My sincere condolences to all who loved her and her family.

Stacey Marendt (Jones)

November 6, 2008

To the Families of John and Julia,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I grew up with the Goodman "kids" - lived down the dirt lane and have memories of standing at the bus stop with them, walking around the woods and pond, and playing at their house. Everyone that comes into your life - touches it in some way- Remember the good memories.

Lisa Frigm

November 6, 2008

I was so saddened to hear of the passing of Julie and her family. Julie sat behind me in homeroom all through jr. and sr. high school and I remember her as the kindest person that I ever met. My deepest sympathy to both the Frisby and Goodman families.

kmart-4420 k-cafe employees

November 5, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Troy Stewart

November 5, 2008

Phil,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. We are praying for you and your family and hope you can find the strength to make it through this very difficult time.

Troy, Erica, Ashton and Jackson Stewart

Michelle Higgins Mills

November 5, 2008

Dear Goodman's,

We are very sorry for the tragedy your family is suffering through. Our prayers are with you. Growing up with your children, we know you are a good family with strong morals and values. Rely on your faith to get you through this most difficult time.

To the Frisby's,

Your loss is without explanation and our deepest sympthy goes to you also.

As you mourn, the community mourns with you. Keep your faith strong as only God can help us through these times.

Deb Green

November 5, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

November 5, 2008

Phil,

We are very sorry for your loss; our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Steve, Jerry & Tom

Robin Rohrbaugh (Kessler)

November 5, 2008

To the Goodman Family, I am sorry to hear of the loss of your family. Your family will be in my prayers for healing. I, too graduated from Southwestern and remember both Andrea and John being the sweetest of people. May God bless you.....

nancy

November 5, 2008

Dear Phil, Sharon, Andy, Cori and your families,
It's difficult to express into words how deeply saddened we are for you and your family. May God, be with you and comfort you and all who know you, John David, and his family. Love Nancy and Don

November 5, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this trying time. Julia and Langdon are at peace in the arms of God.

Rodney Gross

November 5, 2008

Phil and Sharon, Please know that my prayers are with you and your family.

November 5, 2008

Dear Families, I am so sorry for your loss. Please rely on God to ease your pain. They will never be forgotten.

November 5, 2008

I don't know any of your family,but my heart goes out to each and everyone of you. No one could ever explain any of this. Just know that they are in better hands now and God will help you through this very diffcult time. God bless each and every one of you. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Trixy Bailey

November 5, 2008

The Goodman family,
Although it's been many years since I've seen your family, I have wonderful memories of spending time with you all. I just wanted to let you know you're in my thoughts and prayers.

Sue and Lee Miller

November 5, 2008

Dear Sharon, Phil, Andrea, Cori and your families,
We are so sorry for your loss, and cannot find the words to express our feelings. Please know that we have all of you in our prayers and hope that God will some how comfort you at this time. Try to remember all the good times, we remember the girls having so much fun at our house.

Gloria and Tom Single

November 5, 2008

Dear Sharon, Phil and Family,
We are deeply sorry for you loss. You are in our prayers at this difficult time. May you and your family find strength to get through this storm. May God be with you all.
With much love,
Gloria and Tom

Mary Bixler and family

November 5, 2008

To all of you who loved this family,
My heart just breaks for all of you. God only knows why this happened. I taught John in grade school and later my former son-in-law was on the swim team at Shippensburg with John. My daughter, Angie, attended Ship and knew John and probably Julia also.
Please know that so many people have you in their thoughts and prayers at this terrible time. May God bless all of you and give you what you need now and always.

Nina Rupp

November 5, 2008

To everyone in both families. You are in our prayers in this most difficult time. Julie, John and Langon you will be forever with us.
Love, Nina & Bud

Vicky Lake

November 5, 2008

Phil & Family,
We are so very sorry for your losses.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jim & Vicky Lake

Pam and Woody Berwager

November 5, 2008

Sharon, Phil & Family,
May the comfort of friends and family be your strength now and in the days ahead and may God hold you in the palm of His hand and comfort you with His everlasting love.
May time and love bring you peace.

Loni (Miller) Kamman

November 5, 2008

To the Goodman family:
It's been a long time since I saw any of you, but I just keep thinking of all the fun times I had at your house coming to spend time with Andrea during our school years. I hope that the happy memories of the past can help you through this most difficult time. You have all been in my thoughts and prayers, since I found out on Monday morning. May God hold you in the palm of his hand and get you past the pain. My deepest sympathy to all involved!

Jeremy, Kate & Jackson Hartman

November 5, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the families of Langon, he was in the same class as my son at their day school and he will be greatly missed!

Heidi Lombardi

November 5, 2008

To the Frisby & Goodman Families: I did not know them but my prayers go out for both families during this sad time. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Donna Marsh

November 5, 2008

Dear Ginger and Dan,
May God comfort you through this difficult time. Both families will be in our prayers.
Ken, Donna , and Becky

Annette Roth

November 5, 2008

The Goodman Family:

I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. John was a classmate of my brother Phil's. He spent alot of time at our house. He was always smiling, very respectful and a very nice guy. Please accept my sincere condolences at this difficult time.

Melissa (Gillespie) Miller

November 5, 2008

Julie
We have been best friends and inseparable since high school, the thought of not seeing you, John, or our "little man" Langon is unbearable. We were just discussing last week how blessed our lives are even in the midst of hardships. This is one hardship I never could have imagined. I know you are at peace, you're hearing those wonderful words we all look forward to hearing, "well done, good and faithful servant". Our tea dates may be over for now, but we will have them again. Have the mugs and hot water ready, we will have a lot to catch up on. As always give my "little man" a kiss and tell him Aunt Missy loves him. I love you J.
Bob, Ginny, Phil and Sharon, our love and prayers to you.
Keith, Melissa, Barbie and Hope.

Tom and Debbie Hammel

November 5, 2008

We are praying for you and your family. We pray that God's love and peace will support you during these difficult times.

Jim and Andrea, Phil and Sharon - let us know if we can help.

Much love,

Pam Shellenberger

November 4, 2008

My heart goes out to the families of John, Julie & Langon. May your many cherished memories bring you comfort in the days ahead. I was one of Julie's co-workers at the York County Planning Commission and we remained friends over the years. She was a very special person and I will always remember the fun times we shared. May God bless you all in your time of sorrow.

Kim Jones

November 4, 2008

Dear Sharon, Phil, Andrea, Cori,

Most of my memories of John are when he was a young boy. I always thought he was so lucky to live and play on a farm! May God be with you all.

Steve Shue

November 4, 2008

Sharon & Phil Goodman, Andrea, & Cori,
I had the fortune of swimming with John for a few years in high school. Those grueling practices were made more bearable by John's presence. I've always told people that John was the best swimmer I have ever known. I'll never forget the night he went five flat in the 500 to beat Zacharda. I know that I never cheered like I did that night for anyone before or since.

Kevin Garrett

November 4, 2008

My condolences to the families. I can not imagine the pain your are suffering. My prayers are with you all.

Shirley Hallacher

November 4, 2008

Dear Ginger, Dan and Family
May you find peace and comfort in Gods love.

Kirstin Stump

November 4, 2008

To the Frisby & Goodman Families:
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. I attended West York Area High School with Julie and bumped into her at one of our first high school reunions. She had not changed a bit. Beautiful, vivacious and spirited. I'll cherish my memory of her.

Dawn Williams(Wildasin)

November 4, 2008

Mr and Mrs. Goodman, Andrea, & Cori,

May God bless you and your families.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Carol Kebil

November 4, 2008

Sharon, Phil & family,
Words cannot express the deep sorrow that our family feels for your loss. May your memories give you strength in coping with your grief. May God be with you and your family.
-The Roth Family

November 4, 2008

I don't know your family, but please know I said a prayer for your heart today. God Bless you.

Teresa Yakubowski

November 4, 2008

Please know that prayers are with you all at this time. I worked with Julie at C. S. Davidson and I will always remember the smile that was forever on her face and her hearty laugh which we heard quite often. You didn't even have to know what she was laughing at, you would just laugh at her laughter because she was so full of joy. She most certainly will be missed by all who knew her as will John and Langon.

Chad Albrecht

November 4, 2008

Dear Goodman Family,
I wish that I could have stayed in touch with more people from my childhood. I will always remember your son as my friend and teammate from high school. I am so sorry for your loss and my deepest sympathies are with you and your family during this very trying time in your lives.

Brian & Melinda Hamsher

November 4, 2008

Such tragedy leaves one speachless - our hearts and souls weep for you-all we can do is have faith in our Father that they are at rest and peace with Him until we can meet them later. All our love

Julie Sweisford-Bloomer

November 4, 2008

Sharon, Phil, and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

November 4, 2008

To the Frisby Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know you will be in our thoughts and prayers. It's so hard to imagine.... We offer our deepest sympathies.
Anne, Scott, Caitlin and Grace Ramsay

Bonnie & Jim Winlund

November 4, 2008

Dear Bob, Ginny and Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of great distress, loss and grief. I remember Julie as a little girl so full of life and always a big smile. Although Jim and I cannot be there in body we will in spirit over the ensuing days. May our Lord and Savior give you comfort and bring you peace.

Chita Brenneman

November 4, 2008

Bob, Ginny & Family
I am so sorry for your loss. Bob & Ginny if you need anything just contact Philip or I at the office. John and the girls also convey their sympathy.

Diane Frey

November 4, 2008

Langon was a precious child in our Sunday School Nursery Class. He will be missed by his friends and teachers. Thank you for touching our lives Langon. You and your mommy and daddy will be missed. Always remember Jesus Loves You! Rest in peace in the arms of our Lord for He said, "Let the Little Children come to Me." Love, Miss Diane, Phil, Sarah & Naomi Frey

Mary-Jo Herr

November 4, 2008

Sharon, Phil, and Family...
There are no words that can express my feeling for you all at this terrible time in your lives, please know my heart and thoughts and prayers are with you. I love you Sharon, and truley know your family are your life.. I hope peace finds you soon

Diana Geiser

November 4, 2008

I am so sorry. I love you so very much Aunt Ginny and Uncle Bob.
You were so very proud of them and they brought you so much joy. I pray for comfort and peace to you all.

Alberto A.,Isabel C., Alertin & Kiki Fuentes

November 4, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

David Leppo

November 4, 2008

Sharon, Phil, Cori, Andrea,
I cannot imagine how you are feeling right now. Take care, and I'll keep you in my prayers.

Brian and Kathy Yohe

November 4, 2008

We are so sorry for the loss of the Goodman family, our prayers are with you, I also have graduated in 1987 at Southwest, my husband too. I remember him. Our prayers are with you.

Mary Gattis-Schell

November 4, 2008

I will forever remember seeing John and Julie after work one day walking down the street in Lancaster, holding hands, talking and laughing with each other as if they had just found new love. Of course this was years after they were married! They shared something very special. I feel blessed to have known them.

Terri Michael

November 4, 2008

To the ones left behind, may you heal through this tragic loss and know that they were loved by many. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Jane Knaub

November 4, 2008

Ginger, Dan and family
We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Jane, Harry & Cameron Knaub

Joan & Rick Geisler

November 4, 2008

Dear Ginger, Dan and all of your family: We are so sorry for your terrible loss. I know God is with all of you and will be there to comfort all of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Linda Sanders

November 4, 2008

Sharon, Phil, and family,

I am deeply sorry for your loss...I can't find the words to express what I'd like to say but please know you are all in my prayers.

Joe and Deb Rhodes

November 4, 2008

Sharon, Phil, and family

We are deeply sorry to hear of your loss. We are thinking of you during this difficult time. Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

With love and hugs!

Missy and Sid Jaffe

November 4, 2008

To the Frisby and Goodman families
No words can take away the pain you must be feeling at this time of loss. I pray for your families and for your healing after this tragic event. God Bless you all and put His arms around you and console you. Love and prayers,
Mary Theresa Aulbach Jaffe and family

Scott Davis

November 4, 2008

To Bob, Ginny & family-Words cannot express your loss. My thoughts are with you in this time of sadness.

November 4, 2008

MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILIES AT THIS TERRIBLE TIME OF TRAGEDY,
GOD BLESS ALL

DAWN STIFFLER

November 4, 2008

Dear Ginger and Dan,
My deepest sympathy for you and your family at this time. I will keep you in my prayers.

Andrea Stalnecker

November 4, 2008

Julia graduated a year ahead of me at WYHS and I don't remember her ever having anything but a smile on her face and a kind word for those she met. I'm sure her darling son had inherited her kind heart. At this time I can only pray that God grants the families and friends comfort, strength, and understanding as they try to make sense of this all and face the years ahead.

Mark Stivers

November 4, 2008

John, Julie, and Langon will be greatly missed. Though I don't know why this happened, I do know that I loved them and will miss them. I pray that all family and friends know the strong presence of God in this time of great grief and loss.

Niki (Puente) Miller

November 4, 2008

Ginger, Dan & your entire family ~ I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts & prayers. Thinking of you...

Heather Snyder (Seymore)

November 4, 2008

Sharon, Phil and the entire Goodman Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Tom O'Hara

November 4, 2008

Our sincere condolences at this time of trouble for the families of John, Julia and Langon. The O'Hara Family of Hanover; Tom, Barb, Coleen, Tim and Erin.

b m

November 4, 2008

I do not know this family, but I am truly sorry for your loss. At this tragic time in your lives, just know that prayers and thoughts will be with you, over time the pain will get easier to deal with. god bless the families in pain.

November 4, 2008

God bless you all family and friends of this beautiful family. No words, only tears.. with deepest sympathy. Sleep well... in the arms of jesus.

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