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for Matthew Hershey
Carolyn Travers
September 26, 2020
Matt was not only a friend but also a former co-worker of mine at Scholarly Resources. His comedic side is absolutely legendary, and his love of God, family, and friends will always be among many of Matt's forever endearing qualities. It's truly hard to believe that it's been ten years, but Matt is still fondly remembered and always will be missed--Carolyn Travers
October 4, 2010
The touching and heartfelt service and celebration of life were exactly what Matt wanted and especially what his family and friends needed. The tribute to him was full of love, faith, hope, and humor, all of which were part of Matt's amazing and inspirational life--Carolyn Travers, New Castle, Delaware
Steve Feeser
October 4, 2010
Matt lived a few doors up the street from me when we were kids. I have lots of great memories playing softball and football and riding skateboards. We fell out of touch in junior high school, and I have often wondered about him. I pray for his family. He was a nice guy who will be missed.
Julie Ulrich
October 3, 2010
I only knew Matt in high school, and I remember him as an incredibly kind, smart and talented person. I see from his inspiring poetry and posts on melanomaforum.org that as a grown man he was still just as kind, smart and talented. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.
MIF Melanoma International Foundation
October 3, 2010
We would like to honor Matthew's memory by posting a link to some of his poetry and thoughts he posted the past few months of his life.
Go to: www.melanomaforum.org and put PAPoet in the SEARCH box. He gave so much to our melanoma community in such a short time.
Melanie Wilson
October 3, 2010
I moved away from PA in 1985 when I left for college and then relocated to Minnesota. I hadn't talked to Matt in years. I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Matt's passing. I will always remember him as a great guy, always positive and always bringing laughter to a room. My thoughts are with all of you as you navigate through this difficult time.
Nedra Johnstone
October 2, 2010
One can't say enough nice things about Matt to do him justice. He was smart, genuine, kind and extremely funny. I knew Matt since the 7th grade. I fell out of touch with him after high school but am gratified to see how wonderfully his life turned out and that he was such an amazing husband and father. My sincerest sympathies go out to his family and closest friends. Matt is someone who will be missed by many.
Catherine Poole
October 2, 2010
Matthew was a wonderful addition to our forum at the Melanoma International Foundation, in fact we started a poetry column at his suggestion and published some of his work which was compelling. We will miss Matthew and I personally feel honored for our long conversations we had. I wish his family much comfort during this terrible time for them.
Steve Heinrich
October 2, 2010
I credit Matt directly for my survival of the Jr. High/High School years, where his friendship and council helped me make it through the rough times. Wish I would have stayed in better touch in the time since. Perhaps, could have returned the favor.
Taking Dan's lead, searched through my old photo albums for a good shot of Matt. The best I found was Matt's 7th grade picture. Hopefully, it will help rekindle some memories to help keep him alive.
Safe journeys, brother.
Becky Silva
October 2, 2010
Too many years and memories to try to be original, so I'm going to quote Anne of Green Gables: "'I want to be quite silent and quiet and try to realize it. I can't realize it. Half the time it seems to me that Matt(hew) can't be dead, and the other half it seems as if he must've been dead for a long time and I've had this horrible, dull ache ever since...' Matt(hew), whom she'd loved so much and who had been so kind to her...She could see Matt(hew)'s face, as he had smiled at her when they parted...She could hear his voice..."
Kathy Myer
October 1, 2010
Dear Judy & Dick,
I am so sorry to hear of Matt's passing. You & your family will be in my thoughts & prayers during this hard time! May all the memories of him give you comfort & may you know that God has his arms around you thru the love & hugs of those around you! Thinking of you! Kathy Myer
Amy Silar
October 1, 2010
Aunt Judy & Uncle Dick,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Matt. He will be missed by all. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Mark Robinson
September 30, 2010
Very thankful for having known Matt when we worked at Scholarly Resources. I pray for Kathy and the girls that they may find comfort in knowing that Matt was a special person and touched many lives.
Bill Hohn
September 30, 2010
Matt has left an enduring impression on me. I’m thankful for having the opportunity to share time in his life as fleeting as it was. I found him to be someone who one could make an immediate connection with. What a funny guy with a zest for life that we all can learn from and strive to practice each precious day. My prayers are with his family.
Carl Hirschman
September 30, 2010
I didn't keep in touch with Matt after High School, but I have on several occasions wondered what he was up to, and how he was doing. I was very sorry to hear about his passing away.
I played Matt's older brother in our Senior Class play, Ketti Fring's adaptation of Thomas Wolf's "Look Homeward Angel". One memory of Matt that keeps playing over and over in my head is this scene:
http://books.google.com/books?id=qgevd87JlhMC&printsec=frontcover&dq=look+homeward+angel&source=bl&ots=3INAvvdRr1&sig=tAuY-WozfipmTAC0KhDqEMZkApU&hl=en&ei=-iekTPL4Hor6swPl2ZH-Dg&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=6&ved=0CDQQ6AEwBQ#v=onepage&q=listen%20to%20me&f=false
where my character Ben, grabs his character Eugene, and says "Listen to me..". It was supposed to be a serious scene, but we kept cracking up in rehearsals. I can't believe we managed to keep straight faces during the performances.
Matt was a funny guy, and had a great sense of humor. My sincerest condolences go out to his wife and kids, his family and friends.
Dan Escaro
September 29, 2010
This man was my best friend and I consider him my brother. One of the greatest blessings in my life has been being connected to him and his wonderful family. He was the greatest husband and father I have ever seen, and he was truly an inspiration to me in these roles. I know his family will miss him dearly, and my heart goes out to them at this difficult time.
Marcia Gallagher Martin
September 29, 2010
I was saddened to hear that Matt lost his battle with cancer. I'm sorry I didn't know Matt personally but he must have been a truly wonderful son, husband and father. May God who is our refuge in times of sorrow and trouble continue to give you strength as you grieve your loss.
Cheryl White Carson
September 29, 2010
Everyone says the same thing about Matt: What a great man. Sending up prayers for the family for continued strength, peace, and to be surrounded by love as you honor Matt's memory.
Scott Krenzel
September 29, 2010
Truly a remarkable person and great friend. I will miss Matt. He will live on in my memories and my heart forever.
Steve Davis
September 29, 2010
My prayers are with all the Hershey family and everyone who knew Matt. You were a kind friend, Matt. I always looked up to you and always will. God bless you.
Scott Krenzel
September 29, 2010
Truly a remarkable person and great friend. I will miss him. He will live on in my memories and my heart forever.
Melissa Ferris
September 29, 2010
to family,,,you are all in my prayers and love you all very much..
Kim Bove
September 29, 2010
I will always be grateful to Matt for treating my daughter Jordan like his own. She called him Fred and he was ok with that. He was truly a wonderful man full of many endearing qualities. I thought of him more than just a neighbor but as a friend. I will miss his camp outs and his impromptu bonfires and his smile. He will be missed but remembered forever. As a family we planted a cherry tree in our front yard as a tribute to him. We will watch it grow and flower every year and try to re-create the cherry jam he made so deliciously for us. All our love to the Hershey family.
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