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Raney Fleck Obituary
lung cancer on Thursday, April 10, 2008. She was a wonderful mother, wife, daughter, sister and friend. Raney was born to Jerry and Wanda McCullar on July 4, 1976 in Mesa, Arizona. Raney lived in Mesa her whole life, and married her high school sweet heart, Chris on May 1, 1999. Raney earned her Bachelors Degree at Arizona State University in 1998, and was a Certified Public Accountant for seven years. Shortly after the birth of her oldest son, Raney was able to fulfill her desire of being a stay at home mother for her two boys. Raney was preceded in death by her grandfathers, Frederick Grafe and Lou Eaton, as well as her grandmother, Evelyn Grafe, and her uncles Gary Grafe and Jimmy Grafe. Raney is survived by her husband Chris Fleck; her two sons, Jaren Christopher and Conor Geordan; her parents, Jerry and Wanda McCullar; her sister Riley McCullar-Speltz; her grandmother Beatrice Eaton, and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, and in-laws. Raney's love of travel allowed her to create lasting memories for her family. She was an amazingly intelligent, witty, and fun person, and everyone that knew Raney appreciated her kind ways, her selflessness, and her thoughtfulness. Raney fought her disease courageously and her legacy will continue to live on through her sons, and in all of our memories. Throughout this battle, Raney never gave up hope, and she was such an inspiration to so many lives. She will be deeply missed, and her memory will live on in our hearts forever. Visitation will be Wednesday April 16, 2008 at Bunker's Garden Chapel, 33 N. Centennial Way, Mesa, Arizona, 85201, from 6-8 pm. Services will be Thursday, April 17, 2008, at Sun Valley Church of Christ, 1015 N. Recker Road, Gilbert, Arizona, 85234, at 10 am. There is a Memorial Fund in Raney's name set up at Desert Schools Federal Credit Union.
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for Raney Fleck
Mandy Pope
April 11, 2009
Well, there are so many things to say about Raney. She was the most amazing person in my life. I was so lucky to have her as my best friend, how lucky is that?! Anytime I had one of those silly questions, she always had the perfect answer. Raney was the kindest, sweetest, most non-selfish person I know. As she found out about her cancer, she still worried about other people, she called me to see how my Dad was doing instead of worring about herself. I have been so lost without her and have missed her so much. I am so thankful for all of the memories I have with her. Going to Disneyland with her family, playing everyday in the summer, spending the night one night at her house, the next at mine, cleaning eachohters houses to earn money and just to do something together. What a wonderful women, that I can only dream of being half of what she was. I will think of her everyday, love her and miss her. I will try to be there for her family just like she was always there for me.
Love ya girl
Mandy
Wanda McCullar
June 8, 2008
Ran was one of those people God only made one of. We are so thankful that she was given to us. We will miss her gentleness and absolute goodness all the days of our lives.
We love you Sister...Mom & Dad
christine muir
May 6, 2008
raney leigh fleck had to be the most beautiful, and caring woman i ever met. her love for her boys was so obvious and evident, it made me smile. i lost my mother too at a young age as well, and the sight of a loving mother always makes me happy... now, i didnt know raney as well as her sisters, cousins or any close family member but as the boys age i will always remind them of how much their mother loved them. i prayed for raney everynight, and as it may appear to be that she left alot behind, she was wanted and needed terribly by god as an angel; and as the boys grow and mature we all need to assure them that shes always watching them and hoping to guide them through life....
im moving to arizona on june 24th, i will always be available to the fleck family for any help needed.
we were all so blessed to have raney in our life as we did- even if it wasnt for an extended period of time, like my situation.
Katie Muir
May 5, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Raney. May her memory and inspiration live on in those lives she touched.
faith muir
May 5, 2008
I can now sit and finally after a little time has passed say something. Raney spent the time after her diagnosis living instead of dying. Chris, Wanda ,Jerry, and Riley were the keystones for that to occur by their encouragement and help with everyday things. The way all of you kept a focus on life "staying normal" was incredible. The courage and pursuit was Raney's. There is no life that she touched that she did not leave that person the better for it. That includes her physicians, those who stood with her from the beginning and those who only met her in the last week she was here with us. She was and still remains a gentle ,kind inspiration. A selfless person cut from the same cloth as her grandmother. Nothing in this life remains the same even for one second . Although it seems that Raney is lost, like tears in rain, nothing is ever really gone. Everything has a permanence. What has been is never lost. She will walk beside me all the days of my life . I will hear her voice and see her radiant beautiful smile.She will continue to light my path and follow me through my journey till it's end .As her physicians put it there are those people who cross your path that will never be forgotten. She will not be forgotten by anyone who knew her nor by those who only knew of her. Her selflessness will forever be an example for me to try and follow and I have heard many others say the same. Chris,Jaren,Connor,Wanda ,Jerry, Riley: You are my part of family and I do love all of you. I wish I had been able to do more to keep Raney's disease at bay. There is nothing I would not have done for her. She will walk with us all if we let her . Listen and pause a moment, she will be there , I will hear her and feel her . She remains.
Heather Earnhart
April 26, 2008
Raney you have always been so sweet, kind, generous, and loving, yet also able to tell it like it is. What a great combination to have in a person. Our family will have a large void to fill without your presence. I'm so glad we were able to spend some time with you on your last visits to Chicago and at Riley's wedding. Please know that Ella smiles when I tell her you are in heaven with her Great Grandma and Grandma Earnhart. We will see you there someday. My son was born a few hours before you passed from this life and I will never forget that. You were wrong though--it's a boy, not a girl! Chris, Jaren and Conor--we love you and you are a part of our family--we want to see you in Chicago soon!
Love,
Heather, David, Gabriella and Nicholas Earnhart
Cliff Richeson
April 18, 2008
Raney was one of a kind. She had an inner beauty that was very special. Raney always was one thought ahead of me. She always thought things through. I loved to ask her questions and watch her come back with an answer. Smart, outgoing, religious, thoughtfull, great mom, understanding, and much more. Remember the fun times, such as Raney, Mandy, Kenda on the grass on the corner looking at the stars, going to school with Raney, Mandy and Cliff driving jerry's truck, they looked a little scared at first.so many good memories. Thank you Raney.
Cindy Grafe-Anderson
April 17, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I know Raney is in a better place without pain, suffering, or illness. She was a sweet girl with a great personality. God is with her now and forever. May God be with you and the family and May God give you the strength and peace that surpasses all understanding.
Love You All!!!
Michelle Provence
April 17, 2008
Chris, I have not seen you for years. You were my D.H. in paint. When I heard this news I was in aw. I am so very very sorry to hear of your family's loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Lauren Gallagher
April 17, 2008
I had the pleasure to work with Raney for several years and was deeply saddened to hear of her passing. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Marianne King
April 17, 2008
Deepest sympathy to all of Raney's family. Heaven is blessed to have such an Angel, as all of you are blessed to know and love her.
With Love,
Marianne
Bernadette Lukasavitz
April 17, 2008
Chris,
Although it's difficult to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Chris Galm
April 17, 2008
Wanda and Family, I was truly saddened to hear of Raney's passing. Though I never had the pleasure of meeting Raney, Krista was honored to participate on my behalf in the Relay for Life last year. It was through this experience as well as many conversations with Wanda at InfraSource, that I feel I witnessed Raney's courage and spirit. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family Wanda.
Leonel & Jeri Anderson
April 17, 2008
We have had the great pleasure of living next door to your family for the past year and a half, and have grown to love and respect you all. Our thoughts and Prayers are with the entire family. We are here to give any help you might need anytime. Jaren & Conor always remember how much your mom loves you both.
Beth Leabo (Molander)
April 16, 2008
Raney, I have looked up to you since we were 12 years old. You have always embodied compassion, integrity, and class. Thank you for being my friend. I will hold your memory in my heart and I wish your family blessings.
Tammy Walker
April 16, 2008
Chris i am so very sorry ,Raney is in a better place now ,My prayers are with you and the boys .God Bless You !!
Carmen Sepulveda
April 16, 2008
I will always consider it a true honor to have met Raney. She was one of the strongest and most couragous women I have ever had to opportunity to meet. My prayers are with your family at this difficult time.
The Young Family
April 16, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in this difficult time. May God bless you and your family.
Darell Hudson
April 16, 2008
Jerry, Wanda and family, we were saddened to hear of the passing of Raney, our prayers and deepest sympathies are with you and your loved ones at this time. Love the Hudson's De, Darell Darlene and family
Patty Casey
April 16, 2008
The sadness will never actually be gone but you will think differently.I am so sorry and pray you all find peace.
laura morales
April 15, 2008
My prayers go out to Chris and his family through this difficult time. I am truly sorry for your loss.
God Bless,
Pam Snow
April 15, 2008
Wanda and Jerry,
It's been years since John and Raney were preschoolers on Spur. I've lost touch over the years and was shocked to read of Raney's death in today's paper. Just a few weeks ago I was looking through John's scrapbook and there was a cute picture of Raney at his 4th birthday party in our back yard.
Your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers. The loss of a child is such an intense grief. We lost our son Paul last May in an accident and it still seems like a bad dream that doesn't end. We do take comfort in the assurance that we will see him again.
May God Bless and Comfort You.
Pam Snow (Ornelas)
peggy ebert
April 15, 2008
Raney you are such a beautiful, kind and special person and i will forever keep you in my heart. rest in peace
pretty angel. love you and miss you
dearly. My thoughts and prayers are
with your family now and forever
love peggy
Stacey Dawson
April 15, 2008
My prayers are with you all. Raney was a beautiful person.
April 15, 2008
Our deepest and most Sincere thoughts and prayers go out to You and Your entire Family.
Sincerely, Rose & Bill Ball
Suzanne Gherkins
April 15, 2008
What an honor and privilege to know and work with Raney for several years. I know from our many conversations how much she loved her family. May your family feel the comfort and support they need at this most difficult time. Your family will be in my prayers.
Shannon Beck
April 15, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family at this difficult time. The thing I will remember the most is that Raney was such a fighter and such a sweet person. She will be missed by all who knew her.
Becki Pinckard (Infant Swimming Resource)
April 15, 2008
Raney - I am so thankful that I was given the chance to get to know you over the past 5 years. You were an amazing mother & I looked forward to seeing you each swim season. Don't worry - I will make sure those boys keep swimming just like you wanted each summer! I know that you were so loved and everyone will help take good care of your family until you all can be reunited someday. You are already missed so much The angels are lucky to have you as their friend now.
Rachel & Brad Raburn
April 15, 2008
Raney was a beautiful person, inside and out. Her selfless spirit and love for others was a great example. She will be missed.
Debi Stover
April 15, 2008
I had the pleasure of working with both Raney and Riley and am deeply saddened to hear of her passing. She was a very loving courageous young woman and it was my pleasure to have known her. She will always be remembered. My thoughts and prayers are with the Fleck and McCullar families. God Bless all of you.
Carol (carolhg)
April 15, 2008
I met Laney on the Lung Cancer Support Community web site. She was very helpful and inspirational to me and I know to many others. My sincere condolences and prayers to her family.
Lisa Bowman
April 15, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family.
Rudy and Tiffany Pulido
April 15, 2008
You will be missed. Your beautiful boys will always know that your love was there and will be there through their lives. We love you and are so glad that your suffering is over. Your strength is inspiring.
Tammy Austin
April 15, 2008
Raney's love for life and her family is an example to us all how to live life to its fullest and never take our blessings for granted. We will remember you with much love.
Ed, Tammy, Mikayla, Hannah and Tyler
Drew & Elizabeth Speltz
April 15, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends at this difficult time. Raney, you have touched a lot of people with your strength and courage. You will live on forever in everyone's hearts and memories of you.
KeriAnne (Thompson) Zimmerman
April 15, 2008
While I haven't been in contact since high school, I am very saddened by the loss of Raney. My heart is with the entire family. Please know that I am praying for your comfort.
Susan Fillippeli
April 15, 2008
Raney was a valued and much loved member of the Lung Cancer Support Community. Her courage and warmth inspired many other individuals battling the same disease. She will be remembered for her courage, for her spirit and for the love she had for her family.
Please accept my deepest condolences.
Mary Snyder
April 15, 2008
Raney was a quiet and gentle lady who I had the pleasure of knowing and working with. I will hold dear those memories of her in my heart.
Riley McCullar
April 15, 2008
Such a beautiful life, you will be remembered in everything we do. I know you're happy now, and we will be with you again. Until then, you live on through all of us, especially Jaren and mom!
Heather & Tommy Haught
April 15, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Jodi, Bruce, Jadyn & Ryan Ocken
April 15, 2008
You will be deeply missed; however, your memory will live on in our hearts forever.
You will always be remembered.
Gwen and Jim Manguso
April 15, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
From the Staff of Bunker Family Funeral Homes
April 14, 2008
We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.
Cindy Hyatt
April 15, 2008
You are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart goes out to you
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