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Shirley Sharpsteen Obituary

GROTON < Shirley J. Sharpsteen, 63, of Peruville Road, Groton, passed away Thursday, Sept. 18, 2008, at Auburn Memorial Hospital surrounded by her loving family. Shirley was born Aug. 10, 1945 in Auburn, a daughter of Frank and Jane Cruthers Andrews and was a former resident of Moravia, Cortland and North Carolina. She had lived in Groton for the past 20 years. She was a graduate of Moravia Central School, Class of 1962; The Auburn Hospital School of Nursing, and had been employed as a registered nurse with the Howd Nursing Home, Moravia and Cape Fear Valley Hospital in North Carolina. She was most recently employed with Challenge Industries in Ithaca until her illness. She enjoyed flowers, watching and feeding the birds, antique hunting, and was an avid fan of sports, mainly NASCAR, golf and tennis. But mostly she enjoyed spending time with her immediate family and her grand- and great-grandchildren. She is survived by her longtime companion, Howard Makela, of Groton; two sons, Steven (Dawn Reeves) Sharpsteen, of Locke, and Jeffrey (Susan) Sharpsteen, of Cortland; a daughter, Kimberly Sharpsteen-Hooper, of Locke; seven grandchildren, Nicole, Heather, Jessica, Samantha, Christina, Kelsie and Kaden; five great-grandchildren; her mother, Jane Andrews, of Moravia; brother, Robert (Linda) Andrews, of Scipio; sisters, Glenda (Tom) Brown, of Weedsport, and Marlene Marks (Jim Salva), of Auburn; and several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her father, Frank Andrews; a brother, Richard Andrews; and a sister, Lorraine Andrews. Funeral services will be held at noon Tuesday, Sept. 23, in the Wade Funeral Home, 22 Church St., Moravia. Burial will be in Bird Cemetery, Locke. Calling hours will be held from 10 a.m. to noon Tuesday, prior to the funeral service. Memorial contributions can be sent to The Audubon Society or Victory Junction Gang Camp. (address available at funeral home) To send a message to the family, sign our guest book at www.auburnpub.com and click on obituaries.

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Published by The Citizen on Sep. 21, 2008.

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louise mead

September 30, 2008

so sorry for your loss Shirley always had a smile for you We Lived next to her at central street, have a lot fo good memories Louise (Defendorf) Mead

Judy Volbrecht (Wade)

September 28, 2008

Jane & family, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Shirley, we had some good times in school and out of school. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you. God Bless You all.

Noreen Tracy Flynn

September 28, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember many fun times with Shirley in our years at Moravia. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless, Noreen Tracy Flynn

Cindy Story-Ackles

September 27, 2008

I'll always remember Shirley as being bubbly,fun loving and a joy to be around.

Pam & Bob Hadley/ Blauvelt

September 26, 2008

Death, be not proud

Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou art not so;
For those whom thou think'st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy pictures be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul's delivery.
Thou art slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell,
And poppy or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke; why swell'st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally
And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die.

By John Donne
The Poetry Foundation

Pam & Bob Hadley/Blauvelt

September 26, 2008

To Mrs Andrews, Tom & Glenda, Marlene & Jim, Steven and Kim.
Our hearts go out to you at this difficult time. We will never forget the generous hospitality you extended us when we visited Howard & Shirley. You always included us in the family gatherings. We will never forget those fun times. We sincerely thank you all from the bottom of our hearts. Shirley will forever be in our thoughts.
Bob & Pam

Duffy & Lynne Defendorf

September 26, 2008

So sorry to hear about Shirley, Duffy and I both have fond memories of good times in high school with Shirley. God Bless

Tammy & Bill Brewer & JoLynn, Melissa, & Kaitlyn

September 24, 2008

Jesse, KJ, Maddyson & Family:
Sorry to hear about your gram. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Jim & Dawn Hurst

September 23, 2008

Steve, Dawn & Family,
Words can't express how sorry we are for your loss.
Our deepest Sympathy

Sara & Gary Flick

September 23, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of Shirleys passing. We talked about her often at our class reunion meetings this year and wanted so much for her to come. Blessings and God's Peace to all of her family and friends. Sara and Gary Flick

Elizabeth Glanville

September 23, 2008

So sorry to hear of Shirley's passing our prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Rick Byrd

September 22, 2008

So sorry to read of the passing of our pal Shirley. Many thoughts and memories of our times at MCS at this time. My condolences and sympathies to Shirley's family and friends.

Richard Green

September 22, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

MARYRUTH Shields(Defendorf)

September 22, 2008

to Shirley's family
I have a lot of fond memories of growing up with Shirley on Central St. My prayers and thoughts will be with you all.

Elaine Strong Leavy

September 22, 2008

I have soooooo many wonderful memories of growing up with Shirley. I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with her and her family.

Bob Weeks

September 22, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Joanne Bean Weeks

September 22, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

John & Darlene Burke

September 22, 2008

Please accept our sincere condolances on the loss of your loved one.

Jan Olmstead

September 22, 2008

A very sad passing. As a high school classmate Shirley will be remembered for her gracious smile and spirited energy. My thoughts remain with her loved ones.

Cyndy & Ron Howe

September 22, 2008

Bob/Linda--Glenda/Tom and all the family,

So sorry to hear Shirley's passing. May all the fond memories of her help to make this sad time alittle easy to cope with.

Our deepest sympathies,

Jen RN

September 21, 2008

Howard and family-I am so sorry to hear of Shirleys passing. What a wonderful lady. I truly enjoyed our many talks and hugs we shared and am saddened to hear of her passing. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Pete Johnston

September 21, 2008

Shirley was a great gal and classmate. Her family is in my thoughts and prayers!!

PEARL BARBER

September 21, 2008

JANE AND FAMILY SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT SHIRLEY, YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS SHIRLEY AND I GRADUATED FROM NURSING TOGETHER 40 YRS AGO GOD BLESS EACH OF YOU

2nd memorial(amh) 3-11 shift

September 21, 2008

we are ALL very sorry to hear about your loss. it was very hard for all of us after having shirley in our lives for so many years. are thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. please stay in touch and know we are all here for you. Stay strong for each other now!!

Linda Law

September 21, 2008

Shirley was a great gal and athlete.
She will be missed by all.

Carol Farkas

September 20, 2008

I am so sorry for our loss. You will be in my prayers. With my love, Carol Farkas

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