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Frances Vatter Obituary

WEEDSPORT < Frances "Kay" Vatter, 64, of Tanner Road, Weedsport, died Thursday, Nov. 15, 2007, at Matthew House. Kay was born in Auburn on Aug. 14, 1943, the daughter of the late Frank and Ethel Weaver Burns. A 30-year resident of Weedsport, she grew up in Auburn, attended local schools and was a 1964 graduate of the Auburn Memorial Hospital School of Nursing. After graduation, she was employed with Auburn Memorial Hospital and later, with the Auburn Nursing Home. Kay"s most recent employment was with the Cayuga County Health Department. She was a communicant of St. Joseph"s Church in Weedsport; a member of its Altar Rosary Society and was a volunteer with Matthew House. Kay enjoyed quilting, spending time with her family, especially her grandchildren, and her many dear friends. She is survived by her beloved husband, Lawrence "Larry" Vatter; her daughter Lisa (Rich) Mabbett, of Auburn; her two sons, Lawrence Vatter Jr., of Weedsport, and Jason Vatter, of Syracuse; her three grandchildren, Aiden, Owen and Connor Mabbett; her sisters, Betty Matzen, of Jacksonville, Fla., and Patricia (Don) Langtry, of Moravia; several nieces and nephews. Kay also leaves behind several very close friends and her pet dog, Bernard. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her sister, Mary Ellen Smith. She will be sadly missed by all those that she enjoyed sharing her life with. A Mass of Christian burial will be offered for Kay at 10 a.m. Monday in Holy Family Church, followed by interment in St. Joseph"s Cemetery, Fleming. Friends are invited to visit with her family 4 to 7 p.m. Sunday at the White Chapel Funeral Home, Auburn. In lieu of flowers, Kay"s family would like to encourage donations to Matthew House, 43 Metcalf Drive, Auburn. To send a message to the family, sign our guest book at www.auburnpub.com and click on obituaries.

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Published by The Citizen on Nov. 18, 2007.

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former coworker and friend

November 24, 2007

I'm so sorry to hear about Kay's passing. I hadn't seen her in many many years. I worked with her at Auburn Nursing home on the overnight shift. There was a lot of time sitting, talking and knitting and crocheting. What I remember most about her was her talking about her family. She treasured her family. She was a very nice person. I hope your memories of her will help ease your pain.

Rich & Lisa Mabbett

November 21, 2007

To all of you that have shared in our loss, we would like to say thank you for all of your loving support. Losing Kay has been a trying and sad time for the family, and we certainly appreciate everyone's condolences.

Dot McAuslan

November 20, 2007

Dear Larry & Family,

Am so sorry to hear of Kay's passing. She was a "dear'person. My husband & I had many good times with she & her family. Dot McAuslan Mexico,NY.

Susan Sharpe

November 19, 2007

Dear Larry and family,
I was so sorry to hear of Kay's passing. May your loving memories sustain you during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Susan Weaver Sharpe

Bonnie Gundell

November 19, 2007

I am so sorry to hear about Kay's passing. I worked with her for several years at the nursing home and she was always so much fun to be around. She was a great person. She always had a smile and great sense of humor that could make us laugh. I am so sorry for your loss.

Sharon LaPorte

November 19, 2007

Larry & Family,

May God Comfort you, as you go through this difficult time, may you be aware of his love every step of the way. "God Always hears and answers prayers. Though storms obsure the day, His love shines through the darkest clouds, With Hope to light the way."
May God Bless and keep you strong, during this time. Larry I'm here for you.

Lorri St John

November 19, 2007

Larry, our sympathies are with you.
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KAREN ESPOSITO

November 18, 2007

TO KAY'S FAMILY, YOU DON'T KNOW ME, BUT I WORKED WITH KAY AT THE NURSING HOME YEARS AGO, AND SHE WAS A SWEET PERSON, THOUGHTFUL, ALONG WITH HER SENSE OF HUMOR. I AM SO VERY SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOSS, SHE'LL BE WITH US ALL, IN OUR HEARTS.

Mapley Family

November 18, 2007

Our thoughts are with Kay's family as we remember the days you were on Francis and we on Bradford St., and working together at Auburn Nursing Home, and with the CCHA.

Barbara Genova/Hunt

November 18, 2007

To Larry and everyone in Kay's family,
I was so sorry to learn of Kay's passing. She was a wonderful person and will be sorely missed.
I didn't realize how ill she was. My deepest sympathy to all of you.

Amy Walsh-Underhill

November 18, 2007

God Bless your family in your time of loss and sadness. I went to elementary school with Larry. My parents are just about the same age and I can't imagine how life would be without them. You'll be in my prayers; especially during this holiday season.

Bob Popyk

November 18, 2007

Larry, sorry to read about your loss. I know this is a difficult time and just wanted to extend my deepest sympathy.

Jeanne & Gregg Goon (Stanton)

November 18, 2007

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Margaret (Reisman) Guarino

November 18, 2007

So sorry to hear about your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Margaret(Reisman)Guarino

Susan O'Dell

November 18, 2007

Dear Larry,Larry Jr.,Lisa,Jason,
I am so sorry about the passing of Kay.My memories of her and your family stretch back especially to the time when you lived on Francis Street and we would come visit.I remember Kay's sense of humor and warmth. One of the things I especially remember about Kay was when she was taking care of my grandma at the nursing home. I felt "reassured" knowing Kay had a handle on everything going on. I also remember her coming by from working to have a cup of coffe with my Mom. I am so glad they have had each other through the years.
I will be holding you all close in prayer,that you will feel the very near presence of God during this difficult time. God Bless.
Love,Susan,Norm,Nick and Nathaniel O'Dell

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