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Bonnalyn L. "Bonnie" Shafer

Bonnalyn L. "Bonnie" Shafer obituary, Coldwater, MI

Bonnalyn Shafer Obituary

Bonnalyn L. "Bonnie" Shafer Coldwater Bonnalyn L. "Bonnie" Shafer, 79, of Coldwater went to be with the Lord on Friday December 11, 2009. She was born on August 30, 1930 in Bluffton, Indiana to Orville and Lillian Roberts Gray. She was a realtor for over 25 years with the former Steffey -Youtsey and Fireside - Steffey Real Estate Companies. She was preceded in death by her son, David Lynn Smith, husband Joseph H. Shafer, father Orville Gray and two brothers Stanley Gray and Robert Gray. Surviving are her mother, Lillian Gray of Delton; her children, Charlie Smith and wife Song of Battle Creek, Dennis Smith and wife, Claralyn of Battle Creek, Denise Marie Gardner and husband, Rick of Coldwater, Steve Smith and wife, Jennifer of Coldwater, Mark Smith and wife, Kristie of Battle Creek; two brothers, Bill Gray and wife, Bonnie of Wayland and Kenneth Gray and wife, Dana of Delton; 19 grandchildren and 13 great-grandchildren. Bonnie's Life will be celebrated on Tuesday, December 15, 2009 at 11 a.m. at Coldwater Wesleyan Church, 25 North Michigan Avenue, with one hour of visitation prior to the service, with Rev. Dan Wheeler officiating. Interment will be private at Floral Lawn Memorial Gardens in Battle Creek. The family will receive friends on Monday December 14, 2009 from 2 - 4 and 6 - 8 p.m. at the Putnam Funeral Home, 11 East Chicago Street, Coldwater. Memorials in Bonnie's memory may be made to Relay For Life of Branch County. You may leave an online tribute by visiting www.putnamfuneralhome.com

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Published by Battle Creek Enquirer on Dec. 12, 2009.

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Vicky Morse

December 6, 2024

I sure missed the long talks we would have when I was your very young sister-in-law. You were an inspiration to me. You worked hard to be where you wanted to be. Going through abuse as a young wife. Raising your children as a single mom and no support financially. You pulled yourself up as a worthy person and took charge of your life. I admired you for who you were. A caring, loving and strong woman. May you rest in peace Bonnie, until we meet again.

Vicky Morse

December 13, 2009

Vicky Morse

Hi Kids,
My heart goes out to each of you.

Your Mom was the greatest.
Such a good sister-in-law to me. She taught me a lot as a young person, Ready to become a Mom myself.
I spent many nights drinking coffee and talking with your Mom. We had so many good conversations.
Bonnie was a very strong person. She did so much, to make sure all of you kids were raised as best she could,strugling many times, as a young Mother, to make ends meet.
May you all take comfort knowing that your Mom is at peace and no longer in pain.
Take comfort, in all the wonderful memories, that you have. Always talk of the good and fun times you have had.

God Bless all of you
Aunt Vicky

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