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Audrey Gunther Obituary
Linda Slobodian, Calgary Herald Published: Thursday, October 19, 2006
Grief swept through the halls of St. Mary's Senior High over the news Wednesday that "the heart" of the school had been killed in a tragic traffic accident.
Audrey Gunther -- a choir teacher who once led 20 of her students onto the stage of New York's Carnegie Hall to perform -- died after being struck by a Smart car in southeast Calgary late Tuesday.
"It was extremely difficult to tell the students and the staff. It's a rough day," said an emotional Chris Herard, a music teacher at St. Mary's and a colleague for six years.
"She was the heart of our school. You wouldn't find a more kind person," he said.
Gunther, who had three children with her husband, Garth Gunther, taught thousands of students over the years, he said.
"And thousands of students loved her. I can't express how tragic it is for our school."
The accident occurred as Gunther, in her early 50s, and an unidentified woman were crossing Bow Bottom Trail near 137th Avenue S.E.
They were in the crosswalk when they were hit by a northbound car.
The impact shattered the windshield and carried Gunther 10 metres.
The investigation is still underway and charges are pending against the driver, said Acting Sgt. Mark Enright of the traffic section.
The crosswalk is in a posted 60 km/h speed zone. Enright said it has "not particularly" been one of concern.
"Not more than any other in the area," said Enright, who noted it is in an area well lit with street lights and lights from surrounding businesses.
Meanwhile, waves of shock spread throughout the school community.
"I worked with Audrey on a number of projects. She was a very dedicated teacher and mother," said Kevin Wilms, band leader at Ernest Manning High School.
Gunther taught Brenda Ell's eldest daughter, Lindsay, now 23.
"We've met some amazing teachers over the years. Audrey stands out," said Ell.
"It was her dedication. She had a quiet persuasion that was able to get loads out of these teenagers."
Gunther was also the one responsible for 20 students having an experience of a lifetime in 2001 on the Carnegie Hall stage graced by the world's greatest performers.
"She was the one that got the invitation to bring her choir there," said Ell.
She was also the one who stood up to the Calgary Catholic School District, which almost cancelled the trip because the invitation had come too late in the school year for approval.
"That experience brought all of us so very close together," said Ell.
Carnegie Hall was but one of countless examples of how the dedicated Gunther championed for her students.
"She had such a generous spirit," Ell said.
Meanwhile, area residents expressed mixed views on the safety of the crosswalk.
"I cross every day. Twice. Morning and evening," said Erin Hitchcock, 18.
Like so many others, Hitchcock crosses and makes her way up a long wooden staircase that leads into Parkland.
She's had only one close call, when an elderly motorist nearly hit her.
"I'm not surprised this happened. There needs to be lights here."
Alex Pelletier drives through the intersection every day.
"Everybody is familiar with the intersection. The only thing is they don't sand the turn in winter. Drivers slide and do a 360," she said.
237 Entries
Oz Villaroman
February 9, 2011
It's been four years after the tragic accident and I find myself here; scrolling through this guest book, through the Legacy of Audrey Gunther. Back then I would have wrote about the impact this one woman had on my life, and it would have been true. But through the years I have developed a full understanding and appreciation of the gifts that Mrs. Gunther gave us. The gift of music... of feeling... and of life. It is all this, and more, that she instilled in us; her students, her friends, and her family. It is all this that has steered me through life, towards success and happiness.
High school was honestly some of the best years of my life, thus far, and it was because of choir, because of Audrey Gunther. In high school music became my salvation. To this day it still is. It was in choir where a lot of us broke out of our shells. It was because of choir that some of us learned to laugh, to love, to cry, to feel. And through the majority of the time I was in choir Mrs. Gunther was there every step of the way, to teach us and to mold us.
I thank God for giving me the chance to know Audrey Gunther... a teacher and mother to me and all those she taught.
To the Gunther family:
May God bless you and bring you comfort. May the love you share with each other grow stronger each and every passing day.
Mrs. Gunther... because of you music will always live through me. Thank you for everything and please watch over all of us. Rest in peace.
C. M.
September 27, 2010
May the God of all comfort, bring comfort to the family and friends of Gunther. We look forward to the time when sickness and death is a thing of the past.
Michael Andrada
November 11, 2007
Ms. Gunther was my homeroom teacher for 3 years. She was very dedicated at what she does. I will truly miss her.
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Cynthia Kwong
October 15, 2007
Deep condolences to all friends and family of Mrs Gunther. May she always remain as a sweet, loving and cherished memory, watching over us all. God bless
Katrina Kosyk
November 13, 2006
I would like to express my condolences to the family and friends of Audrey Gunther. She was not only a great teacher, but a great friend to me. She has deeply touched many who have known her. Audrey was a remarkable person, and will always be in my prayers.
Karolina Borkowska
November 8, 2006
Mrs. Gunther taught me for the three years I spent at
St Mary's High School. She was not only a great pedagogue to whom one could go with any problem; she
was also an intensely passionate musician who inspired those around her to develop artistically. She helped me shed my inhibitions and find joy in performing in front of large crowds and expressing my emotions through music.Whether it was a small performance during mass or a grand extravaganza,
I could always feel goosebumps being sent throug my body. Under Mrs Gunther's expert guidance, the
beautiful sound that our choir had created left audiences filled with emotion. I’m sure they too felt
shivers run up their spine. All we had to do was look at Mrs gunthers gigantic smile as her arms moved from one side to the other as she led us, and we knew that everything was perfect.
I mourn the passing of the great pedagogue, friend,and musician, and I extend my most sincere condolences to the Gunther family.
Thank you for your knowledge and passion, Mrs Gunther.
Anna Cartmell (Class of '03)
November 4, 2006
Words really cannot express the impact that Mrs. Gunther made on my life. She always made sure that everyone in the choir was doing the best that they could. She made sure she knew everyones name, and always had a smile for everyone who walked through her door. She will be sorely missed by all of her students past and present. Thanks for being you Mrs. Gunther.
November 2, 2006
My sympathy go to the Gunther family. I have made it a point to read every entry in this Guest Book and can't believe why such a wonderful lady like Mrs. Gunther was taken from her family, friends and students so early in life. She still had so much to do. However, like her sister said - God needed the best choir director in Heaven and he knew that she was the very best. I have never met her, but every time I pass the area where the accident happened, my heart feels so sad and it always will when I pass this area.
Again, my sympathy to Garth and his family,
A resident of the area
Taylor Hodgkinson (Class of 2006)
October 29, 2006
Lord God, hear our prayer,
Keep us in your love and care.
Be our guide in all we do,
Bless all those who love us too.
Mrs. Audrey Gunther is the reason I sing. She had a large role in shaping who I am today. It has been mentioned how she had that affect on her students, how she put a love for music in them, and encouraged them to do their best, and how she never turned anyone away from music. I was, and still am in a way, one of those students. When I joined choir in grade 10, I really would not believe you if you told me I would be where I am today. And this phenomenal teacher and warm, loving lady had a lot to do with that. When I started choir in grade 10, one of my good friends and I joined pretty much because a friend in choir asked us to. The reason we stayed was Mrs. Gunther. Through 3 years I grew to love music, and singing, and I truly believe I am much better off for it. This wonderful woman inspired in me the love of music, which I will continue to grow upon for the rest of my life. She more importantly taught me how to be a better person. She not only taught me notes and rhythms, time signatures and keys (although I never really did the theory, she never really made you do something you didn't want to). She taught me to feel the music, to enjoy it. And above all, more important than the music, she taught me how to care for other people, how to forgive, to be patient, and how to be a genuinely good human being.
I will deeply miss this woman, and all the joy and light she brought to my life , as well as the countless other peopleshe touched. My most heartfelt sympathies go out to her family, and to the school, and anyone else who ever met this fabulous person. She will be missed.
Thank you Mrs. Gunther. For everything you gave me. I love you, and I will miss you dearly. I hope you are enjoying your new life, and I will see you again some day. =)
Bob Kaupp
October 29, 2006
Dear Audrey, My sincere sympathy to your parents Dorothy and Bert
Strain and Family, and to your husband Garth and your children.
A beautiful. talented lady. You
will be remembered always. Cousin
Bob Kaupp
Chris Gulinao, (choir 05 - 07)
October 27, 2006
Joan Uhrich ( sister of Mrs. Gunther) said to the choir, " God needed a new choir director, so he came and took the best one".
Its still very hard for the St. Marys community to believe that such a wonderful and kind hearted women who loved music could be so tragically taken away from the ones who loved her so dearly. At the funeral service on monday, the choir came together and at the end of the service and sang a joyfully spirited Siyahamba. It was great to sing together with the choir as one. Some day we will all sing together with Mrs. Gunther.
Deepest Sympathies to the Gunther Family.
S. Connelly
October 27, 2006
I was never a student or even the parent of a student of Audrey's, but I met her once, at Carnegie Hall. Her radiant smile, firm handshake, kind words, and incandescant sincerity reflected the pure inner and genuine love she had for life itself. Per Ardua Ad Astra Audrey -- rest with the choirs of angels.
Helen Mina
October 26, 2006
Mrs G, you always inspired me. You inspired me to use my gifts and talents to glorify my Creator. You taught me not only to love music, but to adore it. You showed us all love, and brought us together as a family. (I'll never forget the time another conductor asked how you created a family out of your choir, and you told him "well for starters, try smiling at them!!") You created a safe haven for your students, and gave comfort to anyone who came to you. Your door was always open, your smile always ready, your hugs always warm, and your direction always sound. I'll never forget all the blessed memories you gave each one of us, and the beautiful music you created through love and encouragement. Thank you for all you've done, and thank You God for such a wonderful person! Mrs G, you're always in my prayers.
Jennifer Hemstock (Class '06)
October 26, 2006
First and foremost my condolences to the Gunther family. Audrey was the most generous and truly caring person I know. She was inspiring to all her students. Audrey was most warm and welcoming to everyone both in and outside of her choir.
She was not only a role model for me but also a wonderful friend, and mentor. Audrey was my guide throughout my high school years and even though she's gone, her memory has continued to spark my musical ambition. If it weren’t for her, I would not be here, in school continuing to study the music that both her and I love.
We must hold our heads high in this time of sorrow, for Audrey is in a better place now.
I will dearly miss Mrs. Gunther, the most beautiful teacher a student could ever know.
Kim Lambrecht
October 26, 2006
Dearest Audrey,
You were a beautiful and devoted wife and mother, an AMAZING teacher, and a wonderful friend. You truly were a gift to everyone who knew you, and those who did know you were touched in some way by your loving and caring spirit.
Thank you for the joy you brought to others. You were always so generous with your time; you always gave so much to your students, your family, and your friends.
Thank you for your warm friendship. What a wonderful, loving individual you were. I feel so blessed having known you and having been able to call you my friend. Thanks be to God for the gift of you. You are dear; you are loved, and you are missed.
I am so sorry that your life was cut short. You had so much more living to do. I’m sorry that you weren’t able to retire with Garth, that your children won’t have their “mom” and that your future grandchildren won’t have their “Grandma”. I’m sorry that more students won’t experience a learning relationship with you, that your colleagues won’t see your smile or hear your laughter, and that I won’t have a continued friendship with you.
God bless and keep you, Audrey. May Garth, your family, and your friends be filled with strength and peace.
With love, from your friend,
Kim Lambrecht
Loving thoughts of you and prayers for your family also from Kristin, Cally, and Michelle Nurkowski
Alexis McDonald
October 26, 2006
Words cannot even begin to describe how blessed i feel to have known Mrs. Gunther. She was truly a remarkable teacher in the way that she passionately inspired each of us to discover our own voice. And while she gave me the chance-and the courage-to sing, i believe that to her it didnt matter whether or not you could hit a note, for she recognized the gift of song in whatever way one's song might manifest. She applauded her students for their accomplishments, and more importantly, for their efforts. She did not ask for perfection, but rather investment. She encouraged us to be our best, but loved us all the same when we were not. For her gift of commitment, generousity, passion, and unwavering faith, I will be forever thankful. There is no doubt in my mind that she is now leading a choir of angels in joyful song.
Casey Giovanetto
October 25, 2006
I had the pleasure of being one of Mrs. Gunther's students at St. Vincent de Paul. I chose St. Vincent because it offered a band program, and I couldn't have imagined a better experience, and at the time, I didn't know how profoundly music would affect my life.
Junior high was a strange time for me, and I remember the one thing that kept me smiling was the fact that I had either music class or band practice, both of which Mrs. Gunther was so passionate about. She did whatever she could to make it fun for us. She booked out of town band trips, she opened the music room up to us at lunch hour, and she even took on pieces of music that she knew we'd like. Being a drummer, I was especially happy that we had "Wipe Out" in our repertoire.
I can remember her cheery voice and glowing smile as if it were yesterday. She was there for so many people during an awkward time in their lives and offered each of us a way to feel right at home with music, whether it was in music class, the band, or the choir. Her patience, passion and dedication were so contagious and live on in everyone she touched.
She would have been so proud of the way the choir performed at her funeral. That beautiful music brought her right back to the room, smiling bigger than ever.
My deepest condolences to her family. If she meant this much to a student, I can't imagine the sadness of your loss. Please know that you are in all our prayers as we mourn Mrs. Gunther's passing.
Kenny Co
October 25, 2006
I know that i've posted before, but I wanted to say thanks to everyone who attened on sun and mon. I saw a lot of people that I haven't seen in a long time, and it was nice that everyone got together, but im sure it would have been a lot better if mrs. gunther was here to reminisce the good times we all had together with all of us. I hope that we can all come together on a happier occasion and relive our moments with the most amazing woman i ever knew. I know that they Gunther family appreciated it especially the choir. It just goes to show what kind of an impact that mrs. gunther left on all of us. she will surely be missed.
Hilda Morales (Class of 2000)
October 25, 2006
Dear Mrs.Gunther,
Infinite thanks for all the wonderful memories that I will carry with me for the rest of my life. Being in high school choir is absolutely my best high school memory, and it never would have been without your warm smile, your dedication, and your contagious love of music. You even made it easy to get up early for practise in the mornings! And how because of your contagious spirit, the choir grew and grew, and before long, being in choir was the popular thing to do!
Thanks for Seattle, and Orlando, and countless performances which gave each and every one of us such a tremendous pride and sense of belonging, so dearly needed during the high school years. I'll be singing for you!
Leila Sebastian
October 24, 2006
To Erin, Corinne, Brett and Mr. Gunther - so sorry to hear about your mom. My prayers have been for your family and for your healing.
Marcie Schuster
October 24, 2006
I am thinking of the Gunther family and hoping that you will be comforted in this time by the wonderful memories of such a wonderful woman! The news has hit me pretty hard considering I'm currently complelting my music education degree, a path I took because of the influence Mrs Gunther had on me while I was in choir at St Mary's. It is sad to think that she will not be around to make more beautiful music but I know those of us who knew her will continue her legacy by embracing music in our own lives as she did in hers. I wouldn't be where I am today if it wasn't for you Mrs Gunther, I am eternally grateful to you for all you gave of yourself. Your love of music was infectious, I'll never forget you...
Lynn and Pat McGuigan
October 24, 2006
My sincere condolences to Mrs. Gunther's family, friends, and students. I only met Mrs. Gunther a few times at music concerts which my nephews were in, but I still think of her every time I listen to music from CDs I have from my nephews’ days in the St. Mary’s Choir. I remember my first time at one of her concerts being so moved by the beautiful music, but also by the abundance of joy I saw in each and every student performing. I remember thinking how blessed these students were to have a teacher so obviously talented, but more importantly a teacher with such great compassion for her students who could bring the best out of each and every one of them. I was happy knowing that all of these students knew that they had created something so worthwhile. I even remember telling my sister-in-law that I was going to write a letter to her to let her know I wished there was at least one teacher like her in every school in the world. I regret that I never did write that letter, but I truly believe that she does now know how much she touched the lives of so many people. My mother, who attended many performances, feels the same as I do and sends her condolences.
Janet Small
October 24, 2006
I feel so blessed and honoured to have taught with Audrey so many years ago in Leduc and to call her my friend. I will treasure all the memories we shared over the past 24 years. She was so gentle, kind and loving and touched everyone she came across. She will be deeply missed, but will live forever in our hearts.
My deepest condolences go out to Garth, Corrine, Erin, Brett, all your extended family and the students and staff of St. Mary's High School. I will keep you in my prayers. God Bless
Anna Springer(Marra)(class of 97)
October 24, 2006
My deepest condolences go out to Mrs.Gunthers family. Mrs.Gunther taught me English in grade 11 in 1996 and its seems like it was yesturday. When I heard that it was her who was in that terrible accident I could not stop thinking about her it has brought back so many wonderful memories.She was such a wonderful lady she made the class so enjoyable; Eventhough it has almost been ten years since that time I can never forget the most inncredible teacher I had. She was so amazing and I will always have her in my thoughts and prayers.My Deepest Regards,
Leo Casuga
October 24, 2006
Condolences to the Gunther Family. I have been singing for the past 10 years. It is such a huge part of my life and has defined the person I have become. I have sung for the University of Calgary Jazz Ensemble, sung in CBC Specials, Sung with local bands. But it would all be for nothing if I had not met your mother, wife and My teacher Audrey. I was one of the Boys she recruited when she had only a handful to teach. I never knew I could sing. She not only showed me how to sing, she taught me how to perform and share a piece of my soul. I can never repay or tell her what she has done for me but for every note I sing I'll sing it in tribute to her. Thank you Mrs. Gunther! We'll meet again one day!
Martin Fuhrer
October 24, 2006
My sympathies go out to Audrey's family during this difficult time. Audrey has touched the lives of hundreds of students through her choral music, and I like to think that fragments of Audrey's caring, enthusiasm, and dedication continue to pour out across the world, from wherever her students have ended up. It was an honour and pleasure to be in her Audrey's choir ten years ago, and memories of our local outings and trip to Quebec City seem like they just happened yesterday.
Colin
October 23, 2006
My sincerest condolences go out to Mrs. Gunther's family; I had the distinct pleasure of being a student of hers throughout highschool, and will never forget the unfailing kindness she showed to myself--and to all, with an ernestness and enthusiasm the like of which I know I will never see again.
Amber Goulard
October 23, 2006
My deepest sympathies are with your family,
I had the priviledge and honor to sing for Mrs. Gunther all through High School. Her boundless enthusiasm for music and her ability to foster this enthusiasm in her students is a gift that will be sorely missed. Every time I sing I think of the beautiful gift that she has given me and I am so thankful.
Sincerest Regards,
Kenny Co
October 23, 2006
Music expresses that which cannot be said and on which it is impossible to be silent
-Victor Hugo-
Mrs. Gunther was more than just a teacher. For me she was a mentor, and a friend. For three years she was there for me and guided me to become a better person. I was never the best singer, and I’ll be the first to admit that, but Mrs. Gunther never saw your faults, she would always make you work to your potential and unlock talents you never thought you had. She was a big part of my life, and she changed my life for the better. I wouldn’t be the person I am today if it wasn’t for Mrs. Gunther. I wouldn’t be singing or dancing if it wasn’t for Mrs. Gunther. Sadly she was taken from us; on Tuesday October 17, 2006 she was struck by a car and died from her injuries leaving me and all those who knew her in despair. She touched our hearts, inspired thousands, and changed all of our lives.
I decided to go back to the school on Friday October 20th. It was a kind of weird feeling to walk back into St. Mary’s that day. Walking through the halls, I had all of these memories rush back to me. I got to see a lot of the teachers that once taught me, I even saw teachers that never taught me or knew me, and they all knew that there was only one teacher I was looking for. There were quite a few alumni there that day, and just as if we never left high school, we found ourselves sitting in the choir room. When I walked into the choir room, everything was there as if nothing had ever changed, just as it always had been…her desk, her piano, the piles of marked/unmarked assignments, pictures, and music everywhere. It was our safe haven from everything else that was going on in the school. I used music to escape everything that was going on in my life and I still do, but yesterday was different. I couldn’t sing a song to escape reality this time. There were people there that I didn’t know, but at the same time it seemed like we all knew each other for years. We were all there for the same reason, and eventually, we gathered around the piano that we were so used to seeing and just started singing…and as much joy as I get from singing...it hurt this time...it hurt because she wasn’t there to conduct us anymore. And what hurts even more, is seeing that empty choir room where she used to grace us with her music, only to know that she’s not coming back when this tragic event shouldn’t have happened in the first place.
Music is very important to me and it is a vital part of my life. Mrs. Gunther is the reason why I have such a great appreciation for music. I find that music can express things that I want to say when I can’t find the right words.
Today, Monday October 23rd, 2006, we sang in your honor. you helped bless us with the gift of music and though you weren't there to direct us in person, i felt you directing me in spirit. i wish that i could sing along side you once more, that you can direct me once more, but for now i have to be patient because i know that the day will come again where we will be reunited and singing together once again. until then God bless. I will miss you forever.
I just want to take the time and personally thank Mrs. Gunther:
Mrs. Gunther, you taught me more than I could have ever hoped for. You were always there for me when I really needed someone and you always made time for me. Your passion for music and your love for you students inspired me and helped me grow as a person, an individual, and as a musician. I never thought “Praise His Holy Name” would be the last song I would sing with you. I never got the chance to thank you for everything you’ve done for me. I love you. You mean so much to me. I will miss you and carry you in my heart forever. May you continue to inspire me and stay in my memories forever. Thank you…for everything. May you rest in peace.
“God in heaven hear our prayer,
Keep us in Your love and care,
Be our guide in all we do
Bless all those who love us too”
To Garth:
My deepest condolences. audrey was a very special woman to me and to all of her friends and students. she will surely be missed by all. God Bless
To Corrine, Erin, and Brett:
I've never met you before, but I wish that I had. I know that your personalities embody those qualities of your mother. She inspired me to be better and to strive for the best and I'm sure she did the same with you. I now hold her in my memories and in my heart and I am deepy sorry for you loss. I will miss your mother greatly and so will all that knew her. We now not only sing for her but for your family. God Bless you all.
To all her students:
Mrs. Gunther hasn't left us, but the contrary, we all have a part of her with us, her spirit flows through us and she will be with us forever. Everytime you sing, she sings with you, every time you take direction, she's there helping direct you. So do not be sad, but be glad that you have a piece of her everyhere you go and that she is helping you spread the gift of music to everyone that listens.
Kenneth Vincent Co
Saint Mary’s High School Choir 00 - 03
George Ibrahim
October 23, 2006
Dear Garth and the Gunther Family,
Even in her passing Mrs. Gunther continues to bring people together through the many fond memories and songs she left us. My condolences to you in your time of grieving. She will be greatly missed.
Eric Nosal
October 23, 2006
Hands down, Mrs. Gunther was the most generous and caring person I had the pleasure of knowing. Be it moral support to calm the nerves before a big performance, or advice to get you through the day, Mrs. Gunther never failed to take time out of her busy day to help. My deepest sympathies to the entire family.
Julie Soares
October 23, 2006
My sympathies are with Mrs. Gunther's family. Although I never had her as a teacher, she was always smiling whenever you saw her in the hall. She had a caring aura about her, and brought wonderful music through the choir to all our celebrations.
Cassandra Uhlenberg
October 23, 2006
My prayers go out to Mrs. Gunther's family and friends. She was a wonderful teacher with so much love and joy to pass around to all of her students! I felt so privileged today to be able to sing her favourite songs with her current choir and past alumni. I know she was there today directing us in our hearts. She brought out the best in all of us and I am so blessed to have had her as a teacher and mentor. She will live forver in our hearts. God Bless Mrs. Gunther and thank you for everything!
Kim Nowosad
October 23, 2006
My deepest sympathy is with your family.
Karen Ullman (Rawluk)
October 23, 2006
Garth,
Please accept my deepest sympathies. My thoughts go out to you and your family at this difficult time. May your memories bring comfort.
Tonnie Leatherdale
October 23, 2006
Having met Audrey a number of times through her dear friend Sandi,
I know she was a very special lady with a wonderfull passion for music and her students.
My sincerest sympathy and prayers go out to her family during this very difficult time. Tonnie Leatherdale
Jermyn Voon
October 23, 2006
Even I though I never had and/or knew Mrs. Gunther personally, please accept my deepest sympathies to the Gunther family.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Nathan Tam
October 23, 2006
Honestly, singing was never my favorite - but I absolutely loved being a part of Mrs. Gunther’s choir. Every time I think of her, I smile. I remember how excited she would get at the beginning of choir practice and how her face would light up whenever she saw any of her students in the hallways; we were always just as happy to see her.
I will continue to pray for her and for her family. Mrs. Gunther was an amazing person - she touched so many people and we are all so thankful.
I miss you, Mrs. Gunther.
David Coates
October 23, 2006
Erin
and Corrine and to the rest of the Gunther family. Your mom was an
incriedable person. Its no wonder you all turned out how you did. It
was an honor to do her hair for so long. My deepest feelings are with
you.
Keyrillos (Keyro) Rizg
October 23, 2006
Mrs. Gunther, There's not much I can say except that your passing has left a great void in the community. Your warmness and cheerfulness was always eminent in your dealings with others. Your love and compassion for you students was always limitless, and your encouragment was nothing far from impeccable. Despite years away from Calgary, I can hear the voices of my friends in your choir, knowing that they are a wonderful product of your legacy. With deepest sympathy, I would like to extend my condolences to the family. Although you are gone, your beautiful sound will always resonate within us. God bless.
Dennis Bragas
October 23, 2006
Mrs. Gunther was one of the nicest teachers I have ever met. I am pretty sure that all the students at St. Mary's share the same sentiments that I do when I say that she will be greatly missed by all. Thank you Audrey Gunther for everything that you've done for all your students.
Shirley Blundell (Class 02)
October 23, 2006
Audrey Gunther was an amazing woman who touched many lives, especially those of us who were priviledge enough to have her as a teacher and friend. Her kindness and joyful spirit was refreshing in a crazy high school world. She was always there to listen or help with a smile on her face. Thank you for all your love and guidance. You will be missed but your tremendous spirit lives on.
Dwayne and Kim Sharun
October 23, 2006
Garth Gunther and Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Garth, Kim and I never met Audrey but it sounds like she touched everybody she met in some special way.
Hutcheon Emily
October 23, 2006
You helped me to sing again Mrs. Gunther, and you didn't hesitate to help when I came to you. We loved you.
Nathan Marchuk
October 23, 2006
Mrs. Gunther was a person that offered constant support and guidance. She was always ready with inspiration or understanding, depending upon what the situation required. More than that, I will always remember her quiet courage and ability to instill confidence in people. I’m saddened to say that until this tragic event, I never realized the impact she had on my life, both professional and personal, helping spur me into the profession of education with energetic words and gentle advice. Mrs. Gunther will be missed this day, and in the days to come. I would like to offer my sincerest condolences to you Mr. Gunther, and to your family. May you all find peace and comfort in your time of sorrow.
Ian Hindmarsh
October 23, 2006
I had the privilege of working with Audrey at St. Marys High School from her appointment until my retirement in 1999.
As a teacher Audrey was the consummate professional and in her dedication to both her students and the choral program she set an excellent example for all teachers to emulate.
She was a warm, caring and supportive colleague who was really generous with her time. It was easy to consider her a good friend.
I was always envious of the relationships she was able to engender with her students that could draw from them such a commitment to and an enjoyment of choir. but, I did not envy her the many, many hours outside normal teaching time that she willingly spent on choir practice and performances as well as the myriad 'behind the scene' tasks that are a necessary part of running an extra curricular program at such a successful level. This was all time that could otherwise have been spent with her family.
St. Marys High School students, teachers and alumni have suffered a great loss, but it is difficult even beginning to imagine how devastating Audrey's loss as a wife and mother is, and will continue to be for her family.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
Ken and Gwenda Alecxe
October 23, 2006
Garth and family,
Gwenda and I were very saddened to hear of Audrey's passing. We remember both of you very well. We were young couples back then, and we are not surprised that Audrey accomplished so much in her life and career, and shared so much with so many. Gwenda recalls going to synchronized swimming classes in Regina with Audrey, and of course you and I thumped around the basketball court. Good memories of good people.
Our hearts are with you and your family.
Florence Chan
October 23, 2006
Dear Mrs. Gunther -
Thank you for being a mentor and a friend. I will always cherish the experiences and knowledge you helped us to develope.
Edward Ng (Class of 2002)
October 23, 2006
The opportunities and the experiences that Mrs. Gunther gave to me will always be cherished. Being a part of the choir and the vocal ensemble gave me the chance to learn about music and the beautiful emotions it brings along with it. Mrs. Gunther created a healthy atmosphere in her classroom where everyone was welcomed. It was no surprise how great music is at St. Mary’s and that credit could be given to Mrs. Gunther. The choir was more than just a choir, thanks to her, we were a family. Thank you Mrs. Gunther for everything, you will most definitely be missed.
Elaine Ho
October 22, 2006
On behalf of my son Jonathan, we would like to offer our sincere sympathy to the family of Mrs. Gunther. Even though I had never met her I felt deeply saddened when my son told me about her death. It touched him deeply as I am sure it did all the students and teachers at St.Mary's. She will always remain in all our hearts.
Sarah Keller (class of '02)
October 22, 2006
Mrs. Gunther was my homeroom teacher for three years, and a stellar one at that. She was such a soft, joyous presence in the morning; you couldn't help but love her. She will be dearly missed, and fondly remembered.
Brettney Savoie
October 22, 2006
To the Gunther family;
The impact that Audrey had on everyone was amazing. I had hardly known her when she was assigned my group to chaperone in our choir/band flordia trip last year, and she was anything but hesitant to open up and treat me as if I was a student of her own. She was one of those people that no matter how you know them, their life makes some sort of impact on your own.
Rest in peace, our angel of song and music.
Bobbie and Bruce MacKinnon
October 22, 2006
Garth and family. We are truly sadden by your loss. Words can not even begin to express are shock and remorse for you and your family's loss. We will be in attendance on Monday and thoughts are with you and your family.
Bobbie and Bruce MacKinnon
Lethbride Alberta
Renee Willmon (Class of '03)
October 22, 2006
Mrs. Gunther was an angel- not many people in this life contribute as much as she did to the people around her. She shared her love of music with thousands, and she will live on in the songs of many forever. I will never forget walking through the halls on the way to band practice, and hearing the first choir members laughing and singing in the choir room. Her choirs leant an ethereal quality to school masses, and you could not only hear choristers enthusiasm in their song, but read their love for music and for Mrs. Gunther on their faces when she led them in concert. She was an incredible gift to the St. Mary's community, and to the families and friends of her students who heard the fruits of her labour. Always there for anyone who needed a hug, she was one of the sweetest women I'll ever know.
My deepest condolances to her friends and family, and the students at St. Mary's who must try to carry on the music without her.
Although we will miss you here on earth Mrs. Gunther, the angels have inherited a special gift- and when I hear them sing I'll always know it's you leading their music.
Ivan Golub (grad 2002)
October 22, 2006
Dear Mrs.Gunther, thank you for all the great years and just being so wonderful. Mrs. Gunther was my English teacher and also my TA for three years. I had the great opportunity to get to know her and find out that, she's the nicest most caring person i have met.I just want to thank you for being the great teacher and friend that only Mrs. Gunther could be. You will be dearly missed!
My deepest condolences go out to the Gunther family.
Bruce Hazell
October 22, 2006
Garth, my sincerest condolences to you and your family. It has been many years since we worked and played basketball together in Regina.
Those days, and the evenings we spent socializing with you and Audrey and our other friends were some of the best in my life.
I well remember Audrey's smile, so captured in the many pages of testimonials here before my entry, and her soft spoken, but always positive attitude.
You were a picture perfect couple then and I am sure remained so for the past 30 odd years. There will no doubt be a huge hole in your life. Know that your friends will miss Audrey too, and that we are here to share time and to lean on, as best we can.
Velia Castro
October 22, 2006
In my life I have met only a handful of people like Mrs. Gunther. She was a great teacher, but more she was an amazing person. She accepted you whether you were a great singer or not, she always encouraged, and never judged.
Mrs. Gunther was my choir teacher and she was a big part of making my High School years memorable.
As I sit here and try to summ up my feelings and try to think of something say to a lady that touched so many lives, including my own, all I can say is, THANK YOU!
To the Gunther family, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless.
-Class of 99-
Alan Cheung
October 22, 2006
Who are we?
We are the product of all the external influences in life - from circumstance, choices, and other people. Some of these factors, small or large, can affect the entire outcome of your path in life. Some call it destiny... some call it fate. Have you ever thought back and imagined what you would become, had you chosen another path? Your choice of friends, place of schooling, food you eat, activities you do... they all make up who you are now. You can try to change, andyou can try to erase history, but it is always there. We are merely puppets of time and our external influences. Its the choices we make to accept or deny these things that give us the seemingly little control we have on our lives. Given more thought, we are simply intertwined to the inner workings of time and life - it cannot be altered, as frustrating as it may be.
Of all these influences, it is other people who have the greatest hold of your past, present and future... your destiny. Parents, siblings, family, teachers, and friends have shaped you like the clay in the hands of an artist. They are the inner workings, and foundation to which you have grown on. They point you in the right direction when you are lost, they pull you up when you fall down, they inspire you to grow and change, they are the wealth of information to mysteries of life, and they are the warmth to your heart. Some have a bigger influence than others, and some, you cannot live without. These people can show you a world that you thought could never exist, and give new meaning to life itself. As you age, you manage to give yourself proper footing to navigate the adventures of life, letting go of these foundations, always knowing that they are there in times of need.
Over time, these foundations crumble and fade away and will have given you valuable knowledge to pass on to future generations. Unfortunately, some fade sooner than expected, leaving you only memories and a yearning for their wisdom and inspiration.
Mrs. Audrey Gunther was one of these people. She had given me light into a world I didn't know existed, and has inspired to develop a part of me which has become a vital part of my life. She did not only teach music, but she gave me a reason to love it. On Tuesday, October 17th, she was struck by a car, and she died from her injuries. This news was a shock to me and to all those who have witnessed her incredible personality and warmth. She has changed the lives of thousands of people with her inspiration, and her love to teach us music. She was the smile that greeted us at 7 in the morning for choir practice, and the powerful director who guided us in concert at night. She has given me priceless memories, and a reason to keep music a part of my life.
For those who did not know her, she was one of the sculptors who had a direct influence to who I am today. For those who did know her, I'm sure that you can say the same for yourselves. Its sad to know that you think of someone when they are no longer here. Take some time into thinking about who has affected you in this way and appreciate them for being there. I took them for granted, and never took the time into thinking hard enough about their impact on me.
Who am I?
I am the product of all the external influences of my life - from circumstance, friends, family, and Mrs. Gunther. Too soon have you left us behind in this world. May you be the fire and warmth in our hearts, and in stay in our memories for the years to come. May you rest in peace.
Breanna Carnduff
October 22, 2006
To begin, my sincerest condolences to the Gunther family. Mrs. Gunther was one of the best teachers I've ever had. She helped make grade 10 and 11 two of the best years of my life. Though I was never in choir, I spent a great deal of time in the choir room watching them rehearse. I was able to observe Mrs. Gunther's contagious enthusiasm and the joy she found in music.
It was no different in the IB music classroom. I had the priveledge of being in her IB music class, and she was always so deeply involved in any of the music we were listening to.
I remember going to the opera with Mrs. Gunther and some fellow classmates in grade 11. she had always told us that opera was her favourite because it incorporated theatre, choral, and instrumental music. This was my first experience with opera, but Mrs. Gunther made it an unforgettable trip, and instilled within me an even deeper appreciation of the performing arts.
she will be sorely missed. One less gigantic smile in the hallway, one less lover of the arts.
We love you Mrs. Gunther.
October 22, 2006
Dear Gunther Family
You have been in my thoughts and prayers ever since passing the accident scene about 9:30pm Tues. Even though I have never met you, the moving stories in the Herald about Audrey's life and your family life together has touched my life deeply. Every day I drive past that intersection on my way to work and say a prayer for you. My deepest sympathies.
- A Resident of the Community
Edward Juan
October 22, 2006
Mrs. Gunther was an one my fondest memories during my highschool years,even though I was enrolled in other extra curricular activities. I made time for choir cause something made me want to good for her. She always expected the best out of us. Possibly cause she wanted the best for us. We see by the lengths she went to for us to perform in extraodinary places. She will be sadly missed.
Jim Wilkie
October 22, 2006
Garth Gunther and family.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your grief. Audrey has left a legacy that all will remember thoughout their lifetime.
May God be with you and your family in this most difficult time.
Jim & Linda Wilkie and family.
Kelsie Lauinger (Grad '06)
October 22, 2006
When I heard about Mrs. Gunther, tears rolled down my cheeks, my heart was broken. Such a beautiful, kind-hearted woman, and an excellent teacher. Mrs. Gunther cared for each and everyone of us, and even got through to the some of the tougher students.
I was in Mrs. Gunther's class in grade 10 and 11, thinking I had no chance considering I failed the previous class. But I was wrong. She taught me to love poetry, and she helped me improve my writing. I really enjoyed english with her and I learned so much! I can definetly say she was my favorite teacher. I will truly miss her, and there will always be a place in my heart for her.
I give my deepest sympathy to Mrs. Gunther's family, I am so sorry for your loss, and I want you all to know that she will be in my prayers every night.
Mrs. Gunther: Although you arn't here with us in person, I know your spirit is still here. You will be greatly missed by so many people, and we were all so lucky to have known such a wonderful, genuinely, kind person.
Until we meet again Mrs. Gunther, thank-you so much for everything.
Steve & Lorraine Blackwell
October 22, 2006
Not all students have the good fortune to come under the influence of a superb teacher like Audrey Gunther. Mrs. Gunther treated her students with love and respect and showed them that hard work leads to great satisfaction for themselves and the team they are part of. Her spirit will live on in the self-respect and self-confidence that she instilled in every student she touched. Our daughter is one of those students and we are truly grateful for the part Audrey played in her personal development. Garth, our thoughts are with you and your family. Audrey was a wonderful person, never to be forgotten.
October 22, 2006
Always loved; always cherished.
Lindsay Bach
October 22, 2006
Dear Mrs. Gunther,
You were the teacher that always gave everyone a chance to shine. I feel lucky to have known you and been able to share you love of music. Thank you so much for always being there and for teaching from the heart.
"but I'll miss you most of all my darling.. when autumn leaves start to fall"
Rochelle Class '05
October 22, 2006
My greatest sympathy and condolences to the family of Mrs.Gunther. She is the mentor with the kindest heart and will definitely always be remembered by the whole st.mary’s hs community. Nobody can equal her gift of handling the choir. Thank you Mrs.Gunther and God bless you. You will be deeply missed.
anonymous
October 22, 2006
I wish to send my condolences to the entire family and the school. Our school this year also suffered from a fatal car crash and are still grieving over the loss. May God be with you in this time of need.
Elaine Case
October 22, 2006
I was away from Calgary on vacation and upon returning home today was devestated to learn of Audrey's untimely death. Having taught Audrey and her daughter Corinne singing, I am very aware of the huge hole that her absence will create both for her friends and family and for her students, past and present. Audrey endowed all who were fortunate to be in her presence with a sense of dignity and self worth. Her grace and warm smile were unforgettable and her genuine goodness will inspire me always.
Carmen Tsang
October 21, 2006
I am a grade 12 student at St. Mary's High School and I have had the great pleasure of having Mrs. Gunther as a choir teacher for two years. I cannot say in words how much of an impact she has had on my life, whether it be making new friends, learning new songs, creating new memories, or performing. Many of my best times occured in that choir room or on numerous choir trips. This year I decided that I wouldn't have time to join choir for the third year instead I needed to spend more time on my studies. I terribly regret quiting this year. Choir practice always relieved the stress in me after a long day at school. As much as i dragged going to practices, i loved it to death. Mrs. Gunther made me enjoy music that much more and i thank her for that.
My deepest condolences go to the Gunther family. God Bless. You will be terribly missed.
Mandy Smith
October 21, 2006
Mrs. Gunther
I was really sadden to here the news. Even though I had you only for one subject you still made an impact on me. There was that connection being in the music. I learned a lot from you. And I felt proud that you were one of my teachers. You will be missed. (class of 2001)
October 21, 2006
Dear Gunther family
I am so very sorry for your loss. I am also very sorry for the loss of such a wonderful teacher and mentor. Mrs. Gunther made such a difference in my daughter's life in St. Mary's. She went from being scared and a bit lonely to someone who truly enjoyed her high school years. She loved being in the choir, and sometimes now I catch her singing in her room just for the joy of it. I truly believe Mrs. Gunther had a huge impact on my daughter's confidence and self-esteem and I am ever grateful to her. God Bless your family. Cathie Dallas
David DiBenedetto
October 21, 2006
Dear Gunther family,
Though I didn't know Mrs. Gunther personally, I knew of her. She was an inspiration to many and will be greatly missed by all. My sincerest condolensces.
Tim Foran
October 21, 2006
Dear Gunther family,
I wish to extend my sincere condolences in your time of sorrow. Despite losing touch with Ms. Gunther nearly ten years ago, I still remember her vividly. She was a formative influence and a source of tremendous good in my life.
Ms. Gunther knew me at my worst – a petulant, self-important, over-privileged child (very much like “Joseph” of “The Amazing Technicolored Dream Coat” variety). Yet she saw something good in me and – more importantly – encouraged me to see good in others.
I am a better person for having known her.
Sincerely,
Tim Foran (St. Mary’s, Class of ’97)
Shelly Kalladanthyil (Kunnathu)
October 21, 2006
Mrs. Gunther was my teacher from the 7th grade until the 12th. She taught me in may subjects including language arts, religious studies and of course her passion, music. She is the reason I love music. Over the 6 years she became less of teacher to me and more of nurturer. She was like a "Mom at school". What I remember most about Mrs. Gunther was her grace and patience and that lovely smile. She loved her students and was wasn't afraid to show it. I am saddened by her passing but I trust that her spirit lives within each of us that she touched so deeply.
Trisha Gray (Debert)
October 21, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Crystal de Guzman
October 21, 2006
Mrs. Gunther,
We were really saddened when we found out what had happened. It was really shocking. You were a great choir teacher. You made classes so enjoyable, and we will continue to everything you taught us to. We know that whenever we have a performance, you will be with us, singing along, and watching over us.
-Crystal de Guzman and Jessica Diep
Jackie Reeves
October 21, 2006
I'd like the Gunther family to know that my 13 yr. old son and I prayed the Divine Mercy Chaplet prayers for the soul and family of the injured when we drove past the accident scene last week. We are sorry for your loss.
Rita Yarn
October 21, 2006
I will be forever grateful to Audrey for instilling a ‘love of music’ in my daughter. Audrey was a wonderful person, a gift to her students and the parents of her students. We feel blessed for having known her. Our prayers go out to Audrey's family.
Jessica Pfitscher
October 21, 2006
To the Gunther Family:
My deepest condolences. Mrs. Gunther was a Fantastic choir teacher and St. Mary's will miss her very much. She taught me some great techniques for singing and i plan to use them for the rest of my life. I will miss Mrs. Gunther very much and So will the rest of the school. She was and still is "The Best!"
Kelly and Justin Williams (Joel)
October 21, 2006
I have such wonderful memories of Audrey. I especially remember her enthusiasm for nature and music. On the weekends she would organize family trips to local outdoor conservation areas. She loved to go hiking and had such an appreciation of the outdoors. At Christmas time, she would encourage us to go caroling in the neighbourhood and when we came back home she would play the piano and we would sing. I will never forget these times. She was such a special person. My condolences go out to the Gunther family. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Juliana Miller-MacPherson
October 21, 2006
Dear Gunther Family, Colleagues, and Past-Present Students of St. Mary's,
"No bond is as great as that between a parent and child."
Audrey, you consistently provided Unconditional Love towards us all. It is with your words that guided me to stay home with my own two sons. Thank you.
My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Juliana Miller-MacPherson
(Art Teacher, St. Mary's H.S.)
Daniel Khalil
October 21, 2006
Mrs. Gunther was my Grade 7 English and Music teacher at St. Vincent de Paul. Her contagious and perpetual smile would always brighten my day. She loved all her students and treated us as if we were her own children. I moved on to St. Mary's and remember one day hearing a familiar voice calling my name as I was walking to class. Rest assured it was Mrs. Gunther, with the same smile I could never forget. Her dedication to her students was unmatched and she will truly be missed by the thousands of us she has touched over the years. God bless you Mrs. Gunther as you watch over us from above the same way you did when you were among us.
Mark Khalil
October 21, 2006
When I received the news about Mrs. Gunther I was shocked to hear that the world had lost such a great and influential person. Her smile was contagious. I know she is smiling down on us with that same bright smile from the heavens above. May God grant her family the strength and unity to get through this hard time...but for them to rest assured that she is truly in a better place watching over us.
God Bless you Mrs. Gunther!!!
James Nason (Class '03)
October 21, 2006
I can not share any direct stories of Mrs. Gunther's immeasurable kindness and generosity, but I will still extend my most sincere condolences. I know for a fact she touched many many students present and past at St. Mary's, and such positive influence can not be measured, much less forgotten.
Katie Partridge
October 21, 2006
I am someone whom Audrey might not have known that she touched. She used to come to the store where I worked to buy music for her beloved choral programs. I always looked forward to Audrey's visits because she was one of the few customers that had a true love and appreciation for music. She will be greatly missed.
Const. Mike Higgins
October 21, 2006
My condolences to the Gunther family. When I was the School Resource Officer at St. Mary's I had oportunities to talk with Audrey about music and the students that would participate. We both agreed that music played a great part in calming their lifes. It was evident she loved her job and the people she worked with just by watching her work. She will be missed.
School Resource Officer
Presidednt Calgary Police Chorus
Calgary Police Service
Jane FitzPatrick (Class of '98)
October 21, 2006
Mrs. Gunther exuded a kindheartedness and humanity that was overwhelmingly contagious. Her devotion to music and love of life was most inspiring. I'm richer to have known her, and consider myself lucky to call her my teacher. Mrs. Gunther's death is a great loss to all the students who benfited so greatly from her erudition, passion and kindliness. Thank you for everything Mrs. Gunther, the world needs people like you, I'm so sad you are gone.
"A teacher affects eternity; he can never tell where his influence stops." Henry Adams
David Latos
October 21, 2006
I have the following to say:
The name of the woman who died in the pedestrian collision on Tuesday was Audrey Gunther.
Audrey was married and had three children. She taught Choral Music and English at St. Mary’s High School.
Mrs. Gunther was a very special lady. She had a passion for music that inspired her students to share that passion. Her optimism was unparalleled. Even when we did not believe that we were ready for a performance, she would always be there to tell us that it didn’t matter whether or not we were perfect, and that we should never wait until we were, because it would never happen. People would love listening to us even if we made mistakes. She was extremely dedicated to her students, and she always put us before herself. She would come to school early and stay late as well as give up her lunch hours to rehearse with us.
She could always tell when someone was having a bad day and she knew how to make them feel better. I know that there were many times when she had uplifted me after a such a day. Her infinite joy of life and unending positive attitude were contagious.
She was always ready to sing, and I am very grateful to her for the music that she shared with all of us, her students. It was one of the greatest gifts that she gave. Her encouragement and dedication were contagious and made us work hard.
Her hard work really reaped the rewards last spring in Florida. We attended the Heritage Music Festival in Orlando where she drove us to win gold and silver awards in choral music. As well, in conjunction with the band, allowed us to bring home the Orlando Heritage Festival Sweepstakes award, which we earned by having the highest total score between band and choir combined. It also happened to be the biggest trophy on the table!
I had to bring it home on the plane, so I can definitely say that it was huge! I remember running through Toronto Pearson International Airport, carrying the trophy, feeling as though the music to “Chariots of Fire” should be playing as we ran to catch our connecting flight to Calgary.
After we had found out about her passing, when we were praying and remembering her, one of my peers had said, “I didn’t know Mrs. Gunther very well, but seeing so many people mourn for her so deeply is a testament to the kind of person she was and the kind of life she lead.”
Mrs. Gunther was also quite a culinary artist. Every once in a while, she would bring baking to early morning choir practices. We often had tasty cookies or muffins. Even after the school board wanted only healthy foods for snacks in schools, she would always find a way to make her baking more healthy.
She never turned anyone away from choir, and would always welcome any person that came with open arms, encouraging them to sing. Many students said that they had never sung in a choir before high school, but Mrs. Gunther took those people and turned them into choristers. The choir room was a place where you could be relieved of the stresses of the day. If you’d just come from a test that you didn’t like or were nervous about one coming up, getting lost in the music was extremely uplifting.
Mrs. Gunther was like a second mother to all of us. She took care of us in a way that was very much like the way our own mothers took care of us. I remember when I was in grade ten, there was a small group of choir students and a parent, along with Mrs. Gunther, and we were heading out to the Alberta Youth Choir at Camp Caroline. We stopped in a town along the way for lunch at a Tim Horton’s and it just so happened that I didn’t have any money with me, so Mrs. Gunther bought me lunch and she said, “I’d hope that anyone would do the same for my kids.”
She taught us the importance of independence and interdependence at appropriate times. She would always encourage each person to bring their music home and learn their part independently, and of course, when we got together as a group, she showed us how to teach and help each other.
She took such good care of herself that it was impossible for her students to determine her age. All we knew was that she looked far younger than she was. She always ate healthy and went for runs when she had preps.
Earlier in the week, I remember that we had come across a passage while reading Hamlet. The basic idea was that once you came to love someone, a part of you goes with them when they leave you. This is most certainly true of all of her students.
Mrs. Gunther had a prayer that she always said before we had a performance. It went like this:
God in heaven, hear our prayer,
keep us in your loving care.
Be our guide in all we do,
bless all those who love us, too.
I always appreciated the simple but powerful message that this prayer offered, and I always smiled whenever she recited it.
One of my teachers said, “If you have been successful in this life on earth, you will know, because when you die and leave this world, everyone will remember the kindness and generosity that you have given them.” Mrs. Gunther has most definitely been successful.
Nolan Kowalchuk
October 21, 2006
Garth and family:
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Audrey. Although, at such a time as this, there is little one can do, I hope it helps in some small way to know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. So sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family.
Wendy Arnold
October 21, 2006
Audrey had given me a book that contained special messages about friendship and in it she wrote, "Dear Wendy, Hope you'll enjoy these little messages and remember me. Love, Audrey(with an eighth note)" . . . Always and forever, dear friend, always and forever. . . and when I lift my hands to direct my choir on Sunday morning, I know that you and Our Father will be there to hold them up.
Our love, thoughts and prayers go out to Garth, Corinne and Graham, Erin and Ali, Brett,Tawny and Diva, the Strain family, the Gunther family and Audrey's many friends, colleagues and students . . . and to the gang from Alexander Drive.
Love and God Bless,
The Arnold Family (John, Wendy, Scott, Michael, Vicki and Dugan)
Jason Asis (Class '02)
October 21, 2006
I read the many entries posted from former students and parents that have been graced by Mrs. Gunther's presence and see how much each and every one of these people really loved her, yet I cannot find the words to express how much she really meant to me.
All I know is that I will always remember our trip to New York, I will always remember that you called me "Noel" and I will always remember that you were more than just a teacher, you were a mentor and a great friend. I'll miss you so much Mrs. Gunther. God Bless.
Jessica Mooney
October 21, 2006
How do so many students and staff deal with the loss of such an amazing women? It's not something that any of us were ready for. Mrs. Gunther was an insperation to so many of us kids. The passion and love for music that she had was brought into practices every single day was beyond incredible. Even when we didn't want to be in choir, she had a way of making it more exciting and more fun than the last time! She touched everyone who's ever been a part of her life, from her students inside her choir room, to the students and staff at the school, even to all the parents of her students. Mrs. Gunther was the most kind hearted, loving teacher i've ever had the privilege of knowing. She has shaped my love of music and i will forever be grateful to her! You will never be forgotten and you will always be missed!
Ben Leung
October 21, 2006
I had the distinct honor of having Mrs. Gunther as my teacher twice, first at St. Vincent, and again at St. Mary's when she joined us.
I can still remember the excitment the few of us from St. Vincent had when we realized Mrs. Gunther was coming to St. Mary's, and how we looked forward to having her teach us again. She had the most infectious enthusiasm, and most optimistic outlooks that you couldn't help but smile.
Jr. High and High school was never the easiest time in life. A lot of transitions but many of us knew that if we need to be cheered up, Mrs. Gunther was just down the hallway.
In later years, whenever I would visit St. Mary's, she was one of the teachers I would first visit. I remember the joy she had in hearing our success, success that she in no small part helped us achieve.
Her legacy will live on in all the students she taught, and all the lives she has changed.
Until we meet again
Beth Worsfold
October 21, 2006
Garth and family, I was devastated to hear about Audrey; I am not at all surprised with the legacy she has left. I loved her for her kindness, her wonderful sense of humor, her love of music, and most of all for her zest for life. My friend Audrey and our relationship defines friendship to me. My childhood and school years are defined by things Audrey and I did together and the thoughts and feelings we shared. I am so glad Audrey and I were able to reconnect over the last few years. When we did, I remembered why she was my friend for so many years and why I loved her so much. There is much I could write about Audrey and still never capture how much she meant to me and how much I will miss her. I think Helen Keller said it well, "With the death of eery friend I love..a part of me has been buried..but their contribution to my being of happiness, strength, and understanding remains to sustain me in an altered world." My thoughts are with you all, and I know Audrey is in heaven wishing we will rejoice her life,rather than let sorrow over come us. I am trying so hard to do that. Love Beth
Denise G
October 21, 2006
Mrs. Gunther, I will never forget your patience, dedication and kindness. I pray that your family will find comfort during this difficult and challenging time.
Kari Allen
October 21, 2006
Mrs.Gunther had the ability to make the grumpiest person smile. She could teach someone without a heart to love and make the most unmusical person in the world, sing like an angel. She had the ability to touch every person she came in contact with in some way or another. Whether it was her passion for music, her love of her students or just her never-ending zest for life.
The day of her passing, as I cried an amount of tears I never thought possible to come from a human being, I was asked several times if I was close with her. My reply was always the same, "It was impossible for you to be in choir and not be close with her." She made an unbelievable connection with all those who were lucky enough to encounter her on their paths of learning. She kept the spirit of music alive in everyone's hearts.
She was my "park chaperone" in Florida, and I remember that we had the opportunity to go to Universal Studios for two days, so for the first day, we were to go to the more "educational side" of the park with the learning of all the Universal pictures, etc. We, however, ended up going to the ride section of the park and all day, simply couldn't figure out why we didn't see anyone from the rest of our school. It hit us as we headed over to the other section of the park for the Mardi Gras parade, and all we could do was laugh.
She had the amazing talent for making you cherish the things we do, remembering them, and, in alot of situations, she taught us how to fo that through music. She taught us that music wasn't just a hobby, it was an art from the soul, and the lessons that she taught us will never be forgotten. She was like a second mother to all and will continue to be an inspirational light to us all.
My deepest regrets to her family and friends, she will be greatly missed. God Bless.
Maria Kwong
October 21, 2006
Ms. Gunther was a very talented teacher with lots of patience for all her students. Both of my daughters, Jennifer and Cynthia, were very fortunate to have her as their music teacher. I enjoyed all the concerts and appreciated her hard work especially those at Stage West and Jubilations. I had the opportunity to get to know her more during the Edmonton Trip in April, 2005. She was like a personal friend since then, what a lovely lady! I'll always miss her and her smile.
My deepest condolences to the Gunther Family and Mr. & Mrs. Strain.
Daniel Mulhall
October 21, 2006
Audrey Gunther was more then just a teacher, she was a friend.
She gave us joy when we had only sorrow.
She gave us light when there was only darkness.
She may be gone, but her teachings of love and joy will go on forever.
Mrs. Gunther was an amazing teacher, she was passionate and cared for every one of her students. She was a second mother to many of us. She always had a smile on her face. If you had a bad day she would always cheer you up.
RIP Mrs. Gunther, you were truley an amazing person.
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