Patricia Bolinder

Patricia Bolinder

Patricia Bolinder Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 13, 2008.
SANTA ANA, Calif. —

Patricia Ann (Loetterle) Bolinder, born Nov. 24, 1930, in Santa Ana, Calif., peacefully crossed over into God's Kingdom on July 8, 2008.

After attending Whittier Union High School, and Pasadena City College, she graduated from United Airlines Stewardess school in Wyoming, and flew for United Airlines for 2½ years.

Pat enjoyed traveling, exploring and experiencing all places and nature wherever she went. Her greatest love was being a wife and mother. She was a lapidarist, and for 23 years, co-owner with husband, David, of Pat's Gems and All Cape Craft Associates.

Pat is predeceased by her husband, former Harwich Police Lt. David T. Bolinder; her daughter, Jeanette (Bolinder) Williams; and her parents, Lillian (Toni) and Clarence (Dutch) Loetterle, initially from Ruskin and Deshler, Neb., and Whittier and Capistrano Beach, Calif.

Pat is survived by two daughters, Joyce Grace of Yarmouthport and Carrie Bolinder-LeClair of Rhode Island; a son, Richard Bolinder, of Falmouth; her sister, Beverly Ruthve, of San Diego; and many grandchildren, great-grandchildren, in-laws, nephews, nieces, cousins and close friends from Tennessee, Nebraska, Oregon, California, New Hampshire and Massachusetts.

A memorial service will be held at St. Peter's Lutheran Church, Route 137, in Harwich, on Saturday, July 19, at 10 a.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to St. Peter's Lutheran Church, Home Hospice Care of Rhode Island or the Alzheimer's Association.

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July 31, 2008

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Joyce Grace

July 31, 2008

Oh Mom, I miss you sooooooo much. Thank you for being my mother. You were always there for your children. You always listened and never judged us. You gave us unconditional love. My only comfort is knowing you are in Heaven with GOD,Dad,Grama and Grampa,Grampy,and Jeanette. I will always look back on all the happy memories and remember your beautiful smile. Love, Joyce

Heidi Bolinder

July 19, 2008

Grandma,
You were always wonderful and treated me like gold. I miss you so much. I'm thankful you're with Papa, Auntie Jeanette, Grampy and God now. I love you always.

Donna Lee Gomes

July 17, 2008

I will remember you as a woman whose exceptance of all people, was truly felt. You excepted me and this i will never forget. I was a teen and you welcomed me with open arms then an even as the years passed. You will be truly missed.

Danielle Sykula

July 14, 2008

Dear "mom", thank God that I was able to enjoy having you in my American life. We have shared such good times together in Maine, Rhode Island and on the Cape. I feel sad I was never able to say goodbye. Love, Danielle

Carrie Bolinder-LeClair

July 13, 2008

Mom, my beloved mother and best friend. Thank you for being you-for who you are-Everything that is all good. As I promised you, your goodness and love will continue to be carried on while we remain in this world. Never have I loved someone so much as you, Mom. Thanks be to our Lord for answering so many of our prayers & being with us for your peaceful crossover into God's Kingdom. We are Blessed.

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