Charles F. "Chuck" Stanley

Charles F. "Chuck" Stanley

Charles Stanley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 23, 2008.
CUMMAQUID — Charles "Chuck" F. Stanley of Cummaquid passed away peacefully on July 21, 2008, at the Cape Regency in Centerville.

Born in Somerville on June 28, 1919, to Walter S. and Lottie L. Stanley, Chuck grew up in Medford and was an active student at Medford High School, serving as a class officer and captain of the hockey team. After graduation, he attended Dartmouth College, where he was again captain of the hockey team. In 1940, Chuck enlisted in the Navy and attended Annapolis, where he became an officer. He served during World War II aboard the destroyer USS Upshure and also completed flight training at Pensacola. He became a naval aviator fighter pilot. He obtained the rank of lieutenant commander.

After the war Chuck and his wife, Joan C. (Cunningham), moved to Centerville, where they opened their first restaurant, Ye Olde Cape Codder. They then owned and operated the Skipper Restaurant in South Yarmouth. In 1950, Chuck embarked on his building and developing career, building many fine homes in the villages of the Town of Barnstable. During his 35 years of building, Chuck passed along his trade and high standards to his sons, one of whom maintains the business with his sons. He was one of the original members of the Cape Cod Amateur Hockey League and played hockey into his forties. He obtained his captain's license in his sixties, and enjoyed his boat, Whimsy, Sunday drives in his convertible, and maintaining his property.

After 58 years of marriage, his loving wife, Joan, predeceased him in 1999. He is survived by his son Mark A. and his wife, Lenore; son Brian R. and his fiancée, Nora; daughter, Nancy J. O'Neil and her husband, John; and son Dean F. and his wife, Pamela, all of Centerville. He was predeceased by a son, John S., in 1988. He is also survived by 10 grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren.

Funeral services will be held in South Congregational Church, Main Street, Centerville, on Thursday, July 24, at 10 a.m. Burial will be in Beechwood Cemetery, Centerville.

Visiting hours will be held in the John-Lawrence Funeral Home, 3778 Falmouth Road (Route 28), Marstons Mills, on Wednesday from 4 to 7 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, donations in his name may be made to the Hospice and Palliative Care of Cape Cod, 765 Attucks Lane, Hyannis, MA 02601.

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Gail Sylvia

July 25, 2008

I will always remember the good times on Oak Hill Rd. My family lived in one of the houses "Chuck" Stanley built. My deepest sympathies to all the children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Joyce & Bob Gregoire Jr.

July 25, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family. I'll always remember the Blueberry Muffins on Sunday mornings at church, he was such a sweet man.

Rosemary

July 25, 2008

"Chuck" was a dear person who came to our store (shaw's) for years and was a friend to all of us. We have missed seeing him every day. Our deepest sympathies to his family.

Kristen Farrar

July 23, 2008

Warm Summer Sun

Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.

By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation

Kerry Shank

July 23, 2008

To all the Stanley's,

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. "Chuck" will be missed greatly by all who knew him.

Jimmy Coughlin

July 23, 2008

To the Stanley Family,
Sorry to hear of your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers!

Jimmy Coughlin

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