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Raymond S. Jefferson
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Raymond Jefferson Obituary
He was the beloved husband of Diana E. (Owen) Jefferson and the son of G. Raymond and Carol A. (Vaughan) Jefferson.
Ray's family consisted of many people outside of his immediate family. He will be loved and remembered by his friends and colleagues who enriched his life.
He was the loving father of Dylan R. Jefferson; loving stepfather of Zachary R. Lenahan; brother of Cheryl A. Pichel and her husband Philip; and uncle of Philip and Taylor Pichel. He also leaves his best friend, Jeff Harris, who he loved as a brother, and his devoted dog, Dash.
His funeral service will be held on Friday, at 10 a.m., in the Thomas & Walter Quinn Funeral Chapel, 2435 Warwick Ave., Warwick. Burial will be in Agawam Cemetery in Wareham, Mass. Visiting hours are Thursday from 4 to 8 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, contributions to the American Heart Association or the American Diabetes Association, both c/o 222 Richmond St., Providence, RI 02903, will be appreciated.
For information and guest book, visit thequinnfuneralhome.com.
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Michael Petit
September 20, 2008
Hi Diana,
I wanted to let you know that I think of you and your family often and hopeful if their is a benefit fundraiser in Rays memory you will think of asking me!
In my thoughts,
Michael Petit
Lisa Baldwin
September 19, 2008
Hi Diana,
I would like to send my sympathies to you and your family. My thoughts an prayers are with you.
Sincerely
Your former employee, Lisa Baldwin
September 11, 2008
I've had the opportunity to work with Ray on several projects, most recently we provided talent for the CVS shoot that he worked so hard on. I was shocked and saddened by the news of his passing. He was always upbeat, a true professional and a really nice guy.
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family, friends and coworkers at Addventures.
Robin (Donahue Models)
Lou Leta
September 6, 2008
I just wanted to pass on my condolences to everyone who was touched by Ray. He was not only a client but a real friend who I really enjoyed work with and for--a real pro who was dedicated to his craft and his family and friends. I just returned from a 10 day vacation that I was going to cancel so I could attend the wake and funeral. But thanks to everyone who convinced me to go, knowing Ray would have wanted me to. I spent many sleepless nights thinking of him over the last 2 weeks and will continue to use his joy of life, family and work to guide me the rest of mine. Ray we'll miss you forever!
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Charlie Clark
September 5, 2008
Diana,
My families thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Charlie
Stephanie Paquette
September 3, 2008
Diana, Z and Dylan...
Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am. Ray always knew how to put people at ease with is quick wit and practical jokes. May times, he was the one who knew just what to say to make me smile. I know he had that affect on many. I'll never forget the "5:01 Club" or the sharing of dog/kid pictures.
I hope you find peace from the many memories you have. He will be deeply missed. Stay strong! Our thoughts are with you and your family!
Rhonda Feldman (CVS)
September 1, 2008
Diana,
I just wanted to express my deepest sympathy to you & your family. May you find warmth & peace in your memories.
Anne Leddy-Smith
August 31, 2008
Diana
I am so sorry for your loss.I'm not sure if you remember me,but I'm the person that sold you your house and my son-in-law's parents live next door. It seem like only yesterday that you were pregnant with Zach. You've been through so much in such a short time,but you a very strong person and you will get through this too. May God bless you and the boys.
Anne
Margina Dennis
August 30, 2008
Diana, My heart goes out to you and the boys. Know that he loved his family dearly and will be watching over you from above.
Tom Chartrand
August 30, 2008
Diana and Family,
I will never forget Ray's ability to put everyone around him at ease and making the seemingly impossible seem simple. He taught me much during my early days, but most importantly he taught me to keep it simple from the tech world and from life in general. "Follow the signal flow....." he would say. I hope the Bruins finally crush the Habs for him this year too. A true friend who would do anything for you....and I'm so happy for you, Zach and Dylan that Ray found what I knew he always wanted...true love and a family.
Jason Sweet
August 30, 2008
Ray was a terrific man. Family functions were always alot more fun with Ray around. One of my favorite memories of Ray was the total joy on his face as he ran around celebrating the Giants Super Bowl win. While it drove us Pats fans crazy, the pure passion for his team was the same that you could clearly see he felt for his work, his home, and especially his family. The pride he felt for Diana, Dylan and Zack could be seen by all. Hopefully his sudden passing will remind everyone he knew to appreciate the time we all have together.
Lynne, Daniel, Aaron, and Marc Rosenthal
August 29, 2008
Diana,
Today you had to do something that no young bride should have to do:bury your spouse. Although your grief and anguish was apparent on your face, you carried yourself with strength and dignity as you accomplished your task: with Zach standing courageously at your side, you sent your husband off on his journey with a celebration of his life that he would be proud of. He is smiling down on you with love and appreciation. That smile you will see when you look into Dylan's eyes.
We will miss his kind and generous nature, but our lives are fuller for having had him in our lives.
All our love and support for you and your children.
GLENN HANSEN
August 29, 2008
CHERYL: I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, GOD BLESS YOU ALL. GLENN HANSEN
Tammi Gardner
August 29, 2008
Diana and family,
I didn't know Ray very long but I would see him every morning while dropping Dylan off, and although he was only there a few minutes he somehow put a smile on everyones face. He will be deeply missed, and if there is anything I can do just ask.
Miss Tammi
Sharon Gruttadauria
August 29, 2008
Diane,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family for the sudden loss of your husband Ray. Take comfort in the wonderful memories, and may God be with you to remain strong for the days ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Andre White
August 29, 2008
Diana, My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. You will always be in my prayers
Mike Morin
August 29, 2008
I, too, had worked as a performer with Ray on a recent video production. His demeanor was always one of patience and nurturing. The crew loved him and his ability to direct on-camera talent was remarkable. He certainly left this world a better place for those whose lives he touched.
Joe, Annette & Melissa DiTraglia
August 28, 2008
Diana,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your memories help you through this very difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Bonnie Eastham
August 28, 2008
Diana,
My heart aches for the loss you, the boys and your extended family have suffered. May God give your hearts peace and a life of happy memories.
Mary Foster
August 28, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I only saw Ray when he would drop Dylan at the daycare, but only being there for a few minutes, he could always bring a smile to my face. I wish you and your family the best.
With Love
Miss. Mary
Staff at A & M Productions, Inc
August 28, 2008
Our Deepest sympathies go out to the family of Raymond. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
To the staff at addventures, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Dave & Mary LaChance
August 28, 2008
Diana, Zacchary & Dylan - Ray was a precious gift; a great dad; an excellent and thoughtful husband; and the kind of neighbor who made our little cul-de-sac on Tampa Street feel safe and inviting. He will be greatly missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers constantly.
Kathy
August 28, 2008
Diana,
Ray was such a great addition to our family and his passing is the biggest loss. I am so glad that he was a part of your life and that you have his son Dylan. We will all miss him so much but I know in my heart that he will always be there with you.
Maryann and Bob Owen
August 28, 2008
Ray has been our Son-in-Law for only three years. In this time we have grown to love him dearly. He was a wonderful father and stepfather. His kindness, quiet sense of humor, and strength of character made us proud to have him as part of our family. Our hearts ache at the loss.
Jack & Judy Rametta
August 28, 2008
We would like to extend our deepest sympathy to Ray's family. He had a big smile and always a kind word. He was a creative professional and we will miss him and remember him.
RM Worcester Cleaning Service
August 27, 2008
This message is sent with our deepest sympathies. Over the past 10 years, we have had many chance "run-ins" with Ray and no matter what time of the day or day of the week, we were always greeted with his engaging smile and outgoing personality. His dedication and excitement were always evident. His happiness was contagious. The early morning/late night crossings will truly be missed.
Rick and Melissa Worcester
Jerry Gibbons
August 27, 2008
I've had the pleasure over the past few years of working with Ray on several projects... and I could always count on him for two things: his talented professionalism, and his ability to make me laugh. To say that Ray's passing is a shock is to make one of the great understatements of all time. I will miss Ray as a colleague... and more importantly, I will miss Ray as a friend.
I extend my condolences to both Ray's immediate family and to his extended family at addventures.
Lenny
August 27, 2008
When Ray shook your hand you felt his honesty. When he smiled you knew his friendship. When our families joined you felt honored. Whenever I hear his name my heart will weep but my face shall have a loving smile.
Denise and Steven Votolato
August 27, 2008
To us, Ray was one of those people you did not see often but would definitely call a friend. He was easy going, good hearted, kind and talented. The last time we saw him, oddly enough, was walking in the woods with Cheryl, the kids and the dogs. We had not seen him in quite a while but it felt as if no time had passed at all. That is how easy it was to be friends with Ray. To his wife Diana, Cheryl and all his family and friends, our deepest, deepest condolences. Ray was a great person and to know he has passed brings us such sadness. May peace be with your family and all that knew and loved him.
Steven and Denise Votolato
Michael Petit
August 27, 2008
To the Jefferson Family~
I have had the privelage of knowing Ray on a personal level, as well as a professional level. He was someone with great passion and always had that infectious smile and laugh whenever we would speak or meet!
In these difficult times please know how saddened I am for your entire family, and that I will think of Ray often with the "big smile".
My thoughts are with you all!
Michael Petit
Joe and Terry McMahon
August 27, 2008
Diana,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the entire Jefferson family both blood and extended. We love you all.
Joe and Terry McMahon and Family
Malcolm McDowell
August 27, 2008
To The Jefferson Family: I join many here in Harwich and the Harwich Police Department, in particular, in extending our condolences to your family at this time of your loss. The sting of death is always upon the living, especially loved ones and friends who were close to Ray. May you have courage and faith to meet the days ahead in the comfort of a reasonable and holy hope, in the joyful expectation of eternal life with those you love. May Raymond be received into the arms of our merciful God and into the blessed rest of everlasting peace.
Yours in the fellowship of Christ,
The Very Rev, Malcolm McDowell
Chaplain, Harwich Police Department
Jo-Ann Gaidosz
August 27, 2008
To all of Ray's family who loved him so dearly - I am so very saddened to hear of Ray's passing. Being great friends with Cheryl, I have met Ray on several occasions and always thought he was a friendly, sincere and down to earth guy who had a great smile. Hang onto the memories since that is what will get you through this difficult time
Debra Valle
August 27, 2008
To the Jefferson family ~
My thoughts and prayers are with each and every one of you to help you through this tragic, heartbreaking loss. Wishing you all comfort, peace, and healing with God's grace -- and may you each find ways to celebrate Ray's life!
Marla Rubenstein
August 27, 2008
My name is Marla - you don't know me, but I'm one of the actresses who was working with Ray on the CVS video he was in the middle of producing when he passed away. I was so shocked and saddened by the news, and wanted to share a memory with you. It was an overnight shoot, and very exhausting because most of us had not slept in a long time. I walked in and immediately Ray greeted me with a friendly smile, recognized me as the 'single mom' I was playing in the video, and made me feel relaxed. In this particular scene, I had 3 lines to deliver. Ray overheard me practicing with another actress. He helped me understand that although I might be a happy, perky person, the 'single mom' wasn't so happy when she approached the CVS pharmacy counter at first, but left happy after realizing how easy it was to pick up her 'prescription.' Ray helped me learn that character development needed to occur over the course of just those 3 lines. It was a simple, but valuable lesson for me to be reminded about. By 430am, now going on close to 48 hours without sleep, I said :"Ray, you won't have to worry anymore about me seeming too perky!" we got a good laugh. I only knew Ray for a few hours, but he will leave his mark on me, and seemed like a wonderful, warm person. In the Jewish tradition they say, that a person has truly died only when their memory dies, so as long as you all share stories and memories with each other, Ray can live forever in your hearts.
Bill Irvin
August 27, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
Jackie St. Jean
August 27, 2008
Diana,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
God Bless,
August 27, 2008
My heartfelt sympathies go out to Ray's family, his wife and children.
His passing is a shock and saddens anyone who knew him.
Ray was a mentor to me at the beginning of my career. I couldn't have asked for a more upbeat, energenic and encouraging boss.
I always admired his optimistic outlook on life and his positive spin on even the most challenging circumstances.
I am so grateful for having the opportunity to know him and learn from him.
I hope his children know how many people their Dad touched and what a great guy he has always been!
He will be remembered - and missed -by many.
May God Bless Ray and his loved ones.
Kelley McGee
Susan D'Agostino
August 27, 2008
Diana,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. During this time of sorrow, try to remember the good times and that you and the boys were blessed to have Ray in your life. Some people are never given the opportunity to have found the love you shared. That love will be with you always! I love you and will be here for you always. Sue
debbie blake
August 27, 2008
Diana,
I was very saddened to hear the news of your husband. My prayers are with you, Dylan, Zach and your entire family. You are very strong Diana, and you will get thru this difficult time. Keep hold of your memories together.
God Bless
Karen Davis
August 27, 2008
I had the honor of having Ray work on several of our projects. He was a wonderful person with exceptional talent. Those of us at Hasbro that had the opportunity to work with him are heartbroken by his passing. Our deepest sympathy to his family and many friends.
Alan & Holly Monti
August 27, 2008
Dear Diana, Zach and Dylan,
Our thoughts and heart felt sympathies are with you. I will always remember Ray for the great spirit he is. I am happy that he got to see his Giants beat my Patriots in the Super Bowl. Peace and Love, Al & Holly
Michelle Dubois (Cuevas).
August 26, 2008
Dear Diana, My thoughts and prayers are with you, Zach, and Dylan. Try to remember the strong woman you are and always have been. God Bless.
The Ferlands
August 26, 2008
Dearest Diana, Zach, and Dylan, We are so sorry for the loss of such a special person. He made all of you so happy. Remember the great times all of you shared. Love you, Jen, Doug, Chris, and Alyssa
Deb DeCosta
August 26, 2008
Ray, I was so saddened to learn about your son's passing. My heart goes out to you and your family. I can not imagine lossing a child.
Pam Souza
August 26, 2008
Diana-
Please accept our most sincere condolences. We will keep you and your boys in our thoughts and prayers.
Pam and Adam Souza
Sheryl Colwell
August 26, 2008
Diana...Dylan & Zach...my heart aches for you, your family and for Ray....may you find comfort in your beautiful memories....with all my love...Sherry and family
Karolyn Saccoccia
August 26, 2008
Diana, Dylan, & Zachary,
I am so very sorry for your loss. During this very difficult time remember you will always have an angel on your shoulder. I love you guys.
God Bless
Love, Karolyn Saccoccia (ALC)
August 26, 2008
Dear Diana,
We are so sorry for your loss. Ray was a good man and I don’t know why it was in God’s plans to take him way before his time, but you can be certain that he will continue to watch over you and the boys. Zachary and Dylan can be proud of their dad, who would always go out of his way for his neighbors on Tampa Street. Ann and I will miss the mornings when we would drive by the house and Ray, the boys and Dash would send us off to work with a wave and a smile. Many times, that turned out to be the best part of our day.
It’s ironic that Ray’s death was caused by a weak heart, but that’s probably because it was always working overtime.
With Deepest Sympathy
Bob and Ann McGarry
Bob and Ann McGarry
Aug 26, 2008
West Warwick, RI
Martha Marcotte
August 26, 2008
Diana,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your boys in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Susan DelMonico
August 26, 2008
Diana, Zachary and Dylan
You are in my thoughts and prayers. If you need anything, please let me know.
Troy Ruff
August 26, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Gena Bianco
August 26, 2008
Diana, Dylan & Zachary:
My deepest condolences. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Mike DeAngelis
August 26, 2008
Diana,
My deepest sympathies. Ray was a great guy. All of us at CVS have you in our thoughts.
David & Debbie Valois (CVS)
August 26, 2008
Diana,
This was shared with us when we lost someone close, and hope it is helpful to you also....
"Perhaps they are not just stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love our lost ones pour through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy....."
Much love to you and your family....
Love, David and Debbie Valois
Kate Burt
August 26, 2008
Diana: I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and your children. May the love of family and friends strengthen and comfort you in the days ahead. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Courtney Guertin
August 26, 2008
Diana - I am so sorry for your loss. Ray-J was one of my dearest friends at addventures and he'll be deeply missed.
Gloria St. Onge (CVS)
August 26, 2008
Diana,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. May the Lord be with you all and comfort you through this difficult time.
Psalm 28:8 The Lord is their strength; and he is the saving strength of his anoited.
Jason and Leslie Maceda
August 26, 2008
Di,
Leslie and I wanted to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Ray was a wonderful person and he was always so kind and considerate to us that we welcomed spending time with him. He will always remain in our hearts and our prayers. May God bless you and your family.
Christalyn(cvs) Ferri
August 26, 2008
Diana,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Stacey Hinchliffe(CVS)
August 26, 2008
Diana,
I'm so deeply sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
emma doyle
August 26, 2008
Diana,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Emma and Madison Doyle
Donna Costa
August 26, 2008
Di,
The Costa family is very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sandra Marchand
August 26, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Donna Chakhsi
August 26, 2008
Diana,
I want to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time.
Joan and Allen White
August 26, 2008
Dearest Di,
Please know at this time, you are in so many thoughts and prayers. Your Love One has left behind a thousand of moments, that will live in your heart forever.
jina smith
August 26, 2008
Diana,
Pete and I wish to express our deepest sympothy to you, the boys and all of Ray's family. You are kept in our thoughts and prayers through this most difficult time.
All our love, Pete and Jina
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