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J. O'Brien Obituary
Brighton: August 6, 2008, age 92. Predeceased by his wife, Jane Carhart O'Brien. He is survived by his children, Greg (Agnes) O'Brien, Patty (Dick, predeceased) Ames, Cherie (Robert) Hanson, Marcia O'Brien (Randy) Makoski, Sara O'Brien (Brian) Stancampiano; grandchildren, Chip, Chris, Sean, Colleen, Lisa (Jay), Carrie (Geoff), Hannah, Katie (Schad), Kerry, Lily, Andrew, Sam, Noah and Nikki; great-grandchildren, Abby Jane and Sara Coyne, Sophie, Jack and Molly; brother, Thomas J. O'Brien. A life-long resident of Rochester, Coyne acquired countless friends, colleagues and admirers through his 67 years practicing law.
Friends may call TODAY, 4-7 PM at the funeral chapel (2305 Monroe Ave.). Friends are invited to bring a written memory or favorite photo of Coyne for the family's Memory Book. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated Saturday, 9:00 AM at Our Lady of Lourdes Church, 150 Varinna Dr. Interment at White Haven Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, please consider contributions to the Foundation of the Monroe County Bar Association, 1 West Main St.,10th floor, Rochester, NY 14614 or the Al Sigl Center,1000 Elmwood Ave. Suite 300, Rochester, NY 14620.
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Memories and Condolences
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Peter Ujlaki
August 28, 2017
I am coming very late to this guest book, having been out of touch for decades, but I felt strongly that I wanted to add a note of my admiration for Coyne, and my condolences to the whole wonderful family. If Greg or anyone else in the family reads this, I would love to get back in touch.
Joseph Interlichia
August 28, 2008
It was my honor to have worked for Mr. O'Brien when I was a young college and law student. He was the consumate professional and the epitome of a gentleman. His loss has created a void; his life set an example for all of us.
Linda Giroux
August 12, 2008
Dear Patty, my prayers, thoughts and heart are with you.
Love, Linda
Lewiston, ME
Ginny LaCour
August 11, 2008
It was indeed an honor to know Coyne. I worked for his brothers, W. Smith and Robert in the mid-seventies and vividly remember Coyne sharing stories at O'Brien & O'Brien gatherings. He will be greatly missed. He was an inspiration to many.
Ruth (Haffey) Parente
August 10, 2008
My sister and I extend our deepest sympathy to the O'Brien Family. Our father was a client of Mr. O'Brien for many years. Mr. O'Brien always treated him with the same personal attention, courtesy and respect as if he had been a wealthy or prominent client. After Daddy died, Mr. O'Brien was very helpful and supportive. We shall always remember his kindness. May God bless you with the comfort of memories of a truly wonderful person.
M. Thurston
August 8, 2008
Dear family of Mr. O'Brien,
I did not know your Dad, yet want you to know ...as a friend and client of Stuart Levison; that he has shared with me how very essential your Dad's guidance, mentoring and example of a gentle, caring man has contributed to the man and attorney Stuart is today. God Bless and comfort each of you.
Kate Bauer
August 8, 2008
Cherie, Bob, Katie and Kerry, We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Dan and Kate
Kathy Chipperfield
August 7, 2008
Dear Katie,
You will be in my prayers during this time. God Bless!
Kathy Chipperfield
Dave and Anne Birkenmeier
August 7, 2008
Katie, We are sorry to hear of the loss of your grandfather. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
felicia lawrence
August 7, 2008
Dear Marcia,
So Sorry to hear about your dad. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. Love,
Felicia Lawrence and Family
JoAnn Ingraham
August 7, 2008
Marsha, I'm sorry for the loss of your father. I know how much he meant to you.
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