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Richard Ahern Obituary
East Rochester: August 25, 2008 at age 74 after a short but intense battle with cancer. He is survived by his loving wife of 51 years, Aurelia; his daughter, Pamela (Lynn) Larsen of East Rochester; sons, David (Heidi) Ahern of KY & Douglas (Cassie) Ahern of Malta, NY; twin brother, Douglas (Teddy) Ahern of Penfield; his 9 beloved grandchildren, Jessica, Mallory, James & Eric Larsen, Alexandra & Brooke Ahern and Nicholas, Maddilyn & Michael Ahern; 5 nephews, Mitchell, the late Mark & Chris Ahern, Gregg & Tim Wicktor and a niece, Lisa Wicktor.
Richard was a US Army Veteran who proudly served his country. He had his own business, AMD Advertising for many years. One of the great joys of his life was to serve for 19 years as the public relations director for the Hill Cumorah Pageant. Richard's life was devoted to God, his family and his friends. He appreciated the simple things in life and loved music, looking for seashells at the beach, gardening and animals. He spent many happy hours with his family and dear friends in Nantucket.
Friends may call THURSDAY EVENING 6-9pm at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, 460 Kreag Road Fairport, NY where Richard's funeral service will be held FRIDAY at 10:00am. Interment in White Haven Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Nicholas Ahern's Mission Fund, care of Bishop David Morgan, 70 Benedict Road, Pittsford, NY 14534 or The Shepherd Home, 1959 Five Mile Line Road Penfield, NY 14526.
"Our family would like to thank Dr. Rena Pine, his longtime doctor & friend; all the angels at the Shepherd Home, especially Ann Raas & Anne Romano for their gentle love & care; his hospice caregivers, Judy & Jill and all of his dear sweet friends for their constant love & support."
HARLOFF Funeral Home
586-5948
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Toni Mitchell
August 21, 2019
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Sending Prayers to to Rell, and all your childern
Valary White
September 15, 2008
I remember Brother Ahern directing a road show that won our ward the highest accolades. He was patient and professional and set a great example. He had a good sense of humor about me actually believeing that he was secretly in the mafia; thanks to his own sons. Brother Ahern shared his voice, hitestimony and his life with us. We will miss him.
Hilary Jimenez (Anderson)
September 15, 2008
Dear Aherns- I'll always remember his amazing, clear voice. I was 14 when he sang at my mother's funeral, but he sang often and shared his talents. He taught you all to do the same. I haven't thanked you enough for sharing your talents at my brother's funeral. You are a beautiful, and beloved family. We love you.
Tracy (Anderson) Harris
September 14, 2008
Rel, Pam, Dave, Doug, and family,
I am so saddened to hear of the passing of your wonderful husband, father and grandfather. I remember when your family joined the church so long ago, and all the times a beautiful baritone voice brought the spirit into our meetings, including at our mother's funeral. I loved being part of Pageant and helping others to "Come Feel the Savior's Love." You are all beloved friends and my prayers are with you.
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Charity Anderson Herald
September 13, 2008
Sister Rel Ahern,
I pray that the truths of the gospel and the service and love of friends, family, and church members will bring you and your family comfort and peace, now and in the coming years. Your family was so sweet to bless and comfort my family one year ago at my brother's funeral - Thank you again for that. All the Andersons love you!
Ann (Meister) Crisafulli
September 3, 2008
My brothers, Bill & Gene, let me know of Dick's passing. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Childhood memories are strong and Dick, Doug, Ernie and Madeline made a lasting impression on the little girl next door. May God bless and guide you through this difficult time. Ann Meister Crisafulli
Rhonda Rankin
August 29, 2008
My sympathies to the entire Ahern Family. I met Bro Ahern during my short time in NY a few years ago. He is a special man. You are all in my prayers.
Joe & Ginny Lambdin
August 29, 2008
Dear Rel and Family;
We were so sorry to hear the sad new about Dick. We have so many fond memories of time spent with your family. Dick was a wonderful person, so talented and loving. He will be greatly missed.
Your sorrow is shared by everyone who knew and loved Dick.
Our love to all of you.
Kim Sorensen
August 28, 2008
Dear Rel and Pam,
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kim Sorensen
(worked with you at the Cumorah Mercantile store in Palmyra)
Toni Mitchell
August 28, 2008
Dear Rel,
I'm so sorry for your loss. At times like these, there are no words. I have fond memories of the times our families spent together in the 70's. You all are special people. Dick will be missed by many. I'm happy you all have crossed my life. Please know you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care. Be well.
My love to you all, Toni
Jeff Slichta
August 28, 2008
Rel-
Marcia and I are in Seattle now and just learned of Dick's passing. I want you to know what a profound influence both of you continue to have in my life as your example provided such a solid foundation for my conversion to the Gospel. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Jeff Slichta
John Lambdin
August 27, 2008
Ahern Family,
While sitting at a stop light today I received and email from Blair Beavers title Dick Ahern. My heart sunk because I knew exactly what the content was with out reading it. The first thing that comes to my mind is Dick's friendly smile and the love he had for the youth. Even though we've been way from Rochester for many years I know he'll be deeply missed in the church and the community.
Cheryl and Jeff Ganoe
August 27, 2008
As my thoughts went over the years we spent serving at the Hill Cumorah and our association with Dick, many fond memories came and they made me smile. I remembered thinking the first few years I was there that Dick knew everyone! He was so supportive of the workcrew and always made sure they were taken care of. Whenever I wear my Cumorah pin I will remember how excited he was to make sure each one of the workcrew boys received one. He was a great example of service, missionary work, and the Savior. We are better because of our association with him, and although we will miss him, we know all the work he must be engaged in now will continue to build the kingdom. Our love is with Rel and all Dicks family. His values will live on through another generation.
love
Diane Morley
August 27, 2008
I've always thought of Bro. and Sister Ahern as 'pillars' of the church in this area. Mike and I would delight to ask Bro. Ahern about the behind the scenes of the pageant with the work that he did with public relations. He was wonderful. I didn't even know he was sick. I feel sad that he has passed on. I really appreciate him.
Coleen Daniels (Lambdin)
August 27, 2008
Rel -- I can hardly believe it. It has been years since you were my YW leader, when I really grew attached to you and your sweetie. Years later, I STILL talk about you and Dick and the fun and laughs we had, talking about how Dick fell asleep on the stand on Sundays, and the amazing examples you have been to many. I still remember the day he sang and cried -- because he always cries right! - at my mission farewell. He will truly be missed - a true gentle giant. I am so grateful for the knowledge that relationships will last forever. My love and prayers are with you and your family.
Ginger Hulet
August 27, 2008
It is hard to think about NY and the Pageant without thinking about some wonderful people. Rel, you and Dick are on that list. You are in my prayers and certainly my thoughts. With much love, Ginger Hulet
Maria Reed
August 27, 2008
Dick is one of those special people who is able to light up a room when he walks into it. He is always very positive, confident and he has a way of making people feel special. Heaven is a lucky place to have such a bright spirit return. We miss him terribly.
Don & Marilyn Moyer
August 27, 2008
Rel - You and Dick were two of those faithful members that made life so rewarding when we lived in Cumorah land. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Tim Whitcomb
August 27, 2008
Brother Ahern has been a part of my life in the church for many years. His laughter, his song and his kindness have been powerful examples to me. He showed his love for life and his ability to relate its experiences every time I saw him.
He will be gaining new experiences now and will be sharing those with those who have gone before us. I look forward to hearing him sing with the angles and thrill me with the power of what he has done in the life he now lives.
Roger & Diane Adams
August 27, 2008
He made us all look good during the first critical pageant years. We will miss our soup suppers together. I will never put on "Paul Sebastian" withour thinking of him. Rel, we will have to go to the market with you.
Troy and Lucille Hall
August 27, 2008
Our love to the family of a wonderful friend and brother in the gospel who we will always hold dear in our hearts. He will be remembered as a talented, kind brother who gave freely of his gifts. Our lives have been enriched because we knew him.
Brent an Janet Harris
August 27, 2008
We will all miss Dick's ready smile and enthusiasm. We so appreciated his tireless efforts in behalf of the Pageant. Our deepest condolances to all who were close to him.
Leslie Stever
August 27, 2008
We were deeply saddened to learn of Dick's passing. He has long been one of our best & most favorite customers. Always ready with a story about his family... especially his grandchildren! We will always remember the back stage tour he gave to us at Hill Cumorah, how very proud he was of that amazing pageant.
Blessings to all his family, our thoughts are with you.
Leslie & Kevin Stever
Harriet Sutherland
August 27, 2008
I was deeply saddened to hear of Dick's illness and passing. He was responsible for helping me write an article for the New Era, and I shall never forget his kindness. He will be deeply missed.
Wayne and Carolyn Lehman
August 27, 2008
We will always remember the service Dick rendered to the Hill Cumorah Pageant. His knowledge of the advertising business allowed many to become acquainted with the pageant and feel the Savior's love.
Thanks Dick for all your hard work and dedication.
Carol Greene (Weisschadel)
August 27, 2008
Dear Ahern & Larson Families,
My heart is full with the joy of Bro. Ahern's new mission call and that he will share his testimony with more family and friends that are still waiting. I am sad that he is away from all of you for awhile. I know that the Lord has an eternal plan for all of us and Bro. Ahern completed the earthly part of that plan/mission.
I pray that Heavenly Father will bless you with comfort and love during these difficult days of loss. Hold tight to the love, memories and examples Bro. Ahern shared with all of you and us.
He was a wonderful man that will be missed dearly by all those who loved & knew him.
I will miss his smile whenever I saw him.
Thomas Brighton
August 27, 2008
Dear Ahern Family, We wish to express heartfelt sympathy on the passing of our friend Richard. We have many happy memories of Hill Cumorah Pageant meetings and materials he created. He was a great friend of the Pageant. Warm regards from Beijing China. Elder and Sister Thomas and Linda Brighton
Doug & Carol Workman
August 27, 2008
We were deeply saddened to learn of Dick's passing. We have many fond memories of time spent with him. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
"Uncle Bobby's" family
August 26, 2008
Dearest Friends,
Your gift to us is a lifetime of memories...................
We will continue our friendship into the eternities..............
Mike and Rachel Newcomb
August 26, 2008
We will miss one of our "adoptive" fathers and his deep tenor voice greatly. Many wonderful seminary memories.
Love,
Mike and Rachel Newcomb
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