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Thomas Sullivan Obituary
Honeoye Falls: Suddenly, October 10, 2008, at age 58. He is survived by his mother, Helen Sullivan of Webster; sisters, Mary (Kevin) Kirk of Farmington, Joan Sullivan of Webster; brother, Lawrence (Caroline) Sullivan of Rosemont, MN.; son, Eric Pankratz of Rochester; daughters, Vicki Pankratz of Rochester and Sara (Jim) Fugate of Honeoye Falls. Grandchildren, Brooke and Braden. Several nieces and nephews.
Friends may call Monday, October 13, 2008, from 2-4 and 7-9 pm at the Merton H. Kays Funeral Home, Inc., 59 Monroe Street, Honeoye Falls. His Funeral Mass will be held Tuesday, October 14 at 10 am in St. Paul of the Cross Church, 37 Monroe Street, Honeoye Falls. In lieu of flowers memorials to the American Heart Association, 2113 Chili Ave., Rochester, NY 14624.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Sullivan
Barb (Pascucci)Wilder
November 9, 2008
Tom,
I only hope you know how much your life has impacted others.Your memory will never be forgotten.I know you are with the one you loved and the two of you will always be all of our guardian angels.Like they say gone but never forgotten.Until we all see each other again.
Love,
Barb Wilder
Linda Gerstner Chalkley
November 8, 2008
Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some people move our souls to dance. They awaken us to new understanding with the passing whispers of their wisdom. Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon. They stay in our lives for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never the same. I don't know what happens when we leave this world. I only know that somewhere the one you love is smiling over you, hoping you're okay, wishing you strength and courage in the days ahead. I share your sorrow, and wish you all the comfort and love you need to get through this sad time. It's been a long time since I saw Tom last, but I can see he has not changed and has touched many lives. God's love be with you and my dear friend Tom.
Marilyn Gerstner
October 30, 2008
Tom was a very sweet guy. He was one of my brothers best friends, Gary Gerstner and even dated my sister Linda. I will always remember his smile and his hot cars.
JEFFERY AMOS
October 16, 2008
IF I LEAVE HERE TOMORROW WILL YOU STILL REMBER ME ,WELL TOM YOU LEFT WAY TO SOON AND I WILL REMBER YOU,RIDE ON BRO
Barb Wilder
October 15, 2008
Tom,
You are going to be so missed by all.What can I say you were always there for my sister & the kids. We will never forget you.Say hi to Meri.Maggie,Mike & myself will always look after the "kids".
Love,Barb & Steve & Brian Wilder
Jan McMindes (Barnes)
October 15, 2008
Tom, we were friends since high school. The last time I saw you was 6-7 years ago and you were the same as always, big smile on your face. You were a hero to many in Penfield and the BEST mechanic I ever met. I will miss you my friend. God bless you and your family.
Kelly M Hider
October 14, 2008
Tom has been such a sweet and generous man in my life and my family's for the past 5 years. Tom, I loved seeing your treehouse, off-road rides through the paths on your property, and having your company at my family's on Christmas Eve every year. I'll put up a Christmas stocking for you this year, like I promised. Thank you for being such a great friend to my sister and to my Mom and Joe. And to me. You're in my heart. I'll never forget your kindness and will keep it with me. Rest well and be happy.
ALAN PECKHAM
October 14, 2008
Tom was always a man of his word. when ever I went over to his house he always had something for me to do while he talked with my mom.The thing I loved most about Tom was he always tried to do things himself before he asked anyone for help. I still remember the first time I went over to his house, my whole family went and I was riding Toms minibike and burned my leg twice.I remember when I was young he used to strap me in the T-bucket truck and race me down the street. Also I remember when he taught my sister Amanda how to drive in his lot car he had. The next thing I liked about Tom was he started me with my coin collection. My favorite thing about Toms house was his cat, Tom Tom, and how I would fill the sink in the bathroom with water and Tom Tom would jump up and drink from it. I just wanted to say thanks to Tom for everything he did for me, my family, and all the people he loved. Also, I wanted to thank Tom personally for being my god father and getting me started with coins. So thanks Tom for not just being my life line but also you were every ones life line who needed one. I love you Tom and I always will for ever and ever.
SALLY AMOS
October 14, 2008
TOM,YOU WERE THE BEST GODFATHER TO MY SON ALAN,BUT ALSO THE BEST FRIEND TO MY WHOLE FAMILY,ALL 6 OF MY KIDS HAVE GREAT MEMORIES OF YOU AS I DO ALSO,YOU WERE MY LIFELINE WHEN I WAS DOWN AND I KNOW FOR ALL THE TIMES YOU HELPED ME AND MADE SURE THE KIDS WERE TAKEN CARE OF GOD WAS WITH US THEN AND NOW YOU WILL REST IN PEACE WITH YOUR BELOVED MERI,SARA VIKI AND ERIC,ALWASY REMEMEBER HE LOVED YOU ALL AND NEVER EVR WENT A DAY WITHOUT TALIKINBG ABOUT YOU AND HOW HAPPY HE WAS TO HAVE YOU IN HIS LIFE ,I LOVE YOU TOM AND I WILL MISS YOU SO BAD REST IN PEACE MY BEST FRIEND
Maria McNulty
October 14, 2008
Tom you were the best Friend anybody could ever have due to our long friendship and always your help i met the Man that i now call my Husband Thank you for your everlasting Friendship I;ll miss you Very much
Maria of Penfield NY
Debbie Stricklin
October 14, 2008
My mind is filled with memories of time spent with Tom in recent years as well as back 40 years when we first met. He is one person who always made time to connect with me when I get back to NY. We would talk about the old days on Woody lane, the drag races and always cars! Mary, Helen and Family, I wish I could be there for you. Helen, I will fondly remember the protecitve way He watched over you, his date, at the wedding last year. To me, that was the kindness that was at the core of Tom in all he was. My love to all of you, Debbie
Dave Mahoney
October 14, 2008
Tom was a long time friend that taught me, and many others, alot about cars and just being friends. I never saw him without a smile on his face. He will sadly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Tom and his family.
Dave Carmer
October 14, 2008
Tom
You were alway's one of the "good guys"You will be missed.
Mike Pascucci
October 14, 2008
I`m so sorry to hear about Tom,he was one of the most down to earth guys I ever met. He will be missed by everyone.My heart goes out to you Vicky,Sara,and Eric.
KB
October 14, 2008
Tom,
You are our John Milner
You are missed
KB
Bob & Jennifer Arnold
October 14, 2008
Tom you will be missed very much. You took on a job most men couldn't.. Raising 3 wonderful kids(Sara, Eric,& Vicki) and being a great father for them. Thank you for being there for Aunt Meri through all of the ups & downs. You were a God send. You can now be with your soulmate. God Bless you for all the kind and generous things you did while you were with us. We love you and we will deeply miss you. May your legacy live on.
Jennifer Santiago (Brennan)
October 13, 2008
Sara, Vicky, Eric, Jimmy, & kids -
I am so sorry to hear of Tom passing. He always did take great care of all of you. Please take comfort knowing that the "soul" mates are together once again. I love you all and please let me know if there is anything I can do. You are in my prayers.
Jen, Chewy, AJ & Shawn XXXXOOOO
Gerry Battoglia
October 13, 2008
Our deepest sympathy and prayers for you and your family from one of the guys from the old Woody Lane gang. We all had mini bikes that we built ourselves from bicycle frames, we enjoyed riding around with you in your 1st car, a 1958 Chevy with no floor boards that we would put our feet on the pavement at the lights. How about those nights in the 70's when we would all get together for a cruise with our muscle cars. I think you were always the fastest! God Bless you!
Aaron Grace
October 13, 2008
Tom you were a great man and an even better friend. You did so much for me and for the family. You will truly be missed. Tell Mari I said hi......
My Grandpa Tom
Sara Fugate
October 12, 2008
Tom life isn't the same without you....it won't ever be. You were so many things to me. You were the man who finally made my mom smile again, my knight in shining armor when she died, my guidance when i needed direction, my friend, my cheerleader, and my daughters hero. I take comfort in knowing you are happy and at peace now, and finally reunited with the girl you loved so much. I promise to keep you a part of Brooke and Bradens life and teach them what a special person you were. I love you Grandpa Tom....say hi to Grandma Meri for me.
P.S. I'll take good care of Tomtom for you Grandpa. Love Brookie
Jimmy Fugate
October 12, 2008
Grandpa Tom, who will fill your shoes....... You were so many things to each one of us. For some you were a mentor,and others a top notch wrench, to me you were everything and to everyone you were a beloved friend. Each and every one of us had our own reasons to love you. You will never be forgotten, you are in a better place now and that gives us peace.
We will all see you again someday, in the meantime fix some stuff up there, and Ill raise hell down here for you till then ! Love Jimmy,
Scott@Mel Fitt
October 12, 2008
Tom we will all miss you and keep you in our hearts.
Dave Press
October 12, 2008
Tom will be greatly miss. I remember the good old days working at Carrol's and drag racing at the track with Tom. Tom was always an inspiration and someone to look up to.
Dave Press
October 12, 2008
Tom will be greatly missed. I'll never forget the good old days at Carrol's and drag racing at the track with Tom. He was always an inspiration and someone to look up to.
Maggie Lynch
October 12, 2008
Tom,
you will be very sadly missed.You were such a wonderful Friend,Father,and Confidant to all of us. You took wonderful care of Meri's Kids,our neices & Nephew.Your now with your Soulmate forever.You will always be in our Hearts & thoughts.God Bless You for all the Thoughtful things you did for so many over your years here.
We Love & Miss You.
John & Maggie Lynch
Lima,NY
elizabeth waldock
October 12, 2008
A Beautiful Person, The Best of Friends one could ask for, The Kindest, Most Honest, Never A Judge of Others, Always Giving 1st, 2nd & 3rd Chances. The Center of Many Circles of Friends, Your Great Smile and Your Passion for Coins, Cars & Engines, TreeHouses & Fun Will be indeed Missed. Many of us will be unable to forget the ways you touched and enriched our lives, just by being who you were, your Beautiful self. I love you, The RedHead.
John Tullio
October 12, 2008
Even though a great distance seperated us , you were always just a phone call away and I thank you for that. Tommy you will sadly missed and never forgotten. My sincere condolences to your family and friends.
victor bay
October 12, 2008
tom u will be missed
wells turner
October 12, 2008
he was a kind and generous man, the kind of person to doanything for a friend that no matter what you did he'd always be there. all who knew him will greatly miss him.
John & Maggie Lynch
October 12, 2008
Tom ,
You will be so sadly missed by everyone who knew you. You were the Perfect Friend,Father figure and Confidant to many.Sara,Vicki& Eric were so lucky to have you after the loss of their Mom,Meri,Your Soulmate in life. Thank you so much for being there for All of us back then.We'll miss you so much.You'll always be in our hearts & Thoughts.
Joe & Sandy Brennan
October 12, 2008
We will always have a great void in our hearts by not having you in our days. There isn't possibly enough room on this page to try and put into words the scope of the loss we all are feeling. You were the best neighbor anyone could have been blessed with, but beyond all that Tommy, you also became a great friend. I don't think I have ever met anyone like you. I appreciate all the advice and help, and all the long talks we have had. You are, and will be, so missed. A part of you will always be with Sandy and myself. God bless on your continuing journey. Thank you for everything. Till we meet again, my friend.
Tammy & Scott Lenz
October 12, 2008
Uncle Tom you are going to be missed very much. We love you and wish we had more time to spend with you!
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