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Castellano, Thomas
Henrietta: Unexpectedly from natural causes on Saturday, September 15, 2007, at age 38. He is survived by his daughter, Bianca Tantalo; son, Nicholas Castellano; girlfriend, Amanda Wohlers; mother, Luisa Castellano; 3 brothers; 1 sister; many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.
Friends may call Monday evening, 6-9 at Lucey-VanVoorhis Funeral Home, 301 West Main Street, Victor.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Sep. 23, 2007.

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Tracy Reeves

October 22, 2007

Dear Kathy,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You and Tommy were such a Loving Couple. Hold on to All of Your Great Memories. Cherish your Son Nicholas ... AKA: Tommy the Second! Love that was shared between The Two of You will REUNITE again! I will hold You, Nicholas and Your Family in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless.
Love,
Tracy and all of your Friends at SMH.

Karen Hubert

October 4, 2007

Dear Amanda,
Your Canadian friends are so sorry to hear of your loss. Unfortunately we did not meet Tommy but know he was very special to you.
Please know that we are thinking and praying for you and your family.
Love ya kiddo!

Kathryn Dobles

September 29, 2007

Amanda we are so sorry for your loss. You and Tommy were great together. He definitely lit up your face. I'll never forget the first time you introduced him to me. Just remember Amanda that just because you can't see Tommy doesn't mean that he's not with you. Hunnie he loved you so much he'll always be with you. We love you Aunt Kathy,Uncle Chris,Billy,Keith,Samatha and Olivia

When You Miss Me, Just Remember To Smile!!!!!

Julissa Echevarria

September 27, 2007

To My Dearest cousin, You will always be in my heart. Thank you for all the great memories. Te querio mucho. A smile like your is everlasting. Please know that God will take care of your children. Love You God Bless!!!!!!!!!!!

Will Rodriguez

September 26, 2007

Dear Nicholas,
I'm so very sorry to hear about your daddy. We know how much you love him. Remember that your daddy loves you very much and now he is watching over you. You and your mommy are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love Your Friend,
Will

Jamie Trieste

September 26, 2007

Dear Bianca,
I am very sad to hear of your loss! I pray that GOD will give you peace.You are in my prayers litle cuz!!! love you cousin Jamie

Mary Anderson

September 25, 2007

Dear Kathy,
I'm so sorry that You and Nicholas have to go through this terrible pain. It seems just like yesterday when we were all having so much fun at Your and Thomas' Wedding. Than came along Adorable Baby Nicholas. Thomas was so happy to have a Baby Boy. He loved You and Nicholas so very much. You two were the ideal couple. Thomas was always bragging about how beautiful his wife is and how much he loves you. He also bragged about how smart and advanced Nicholas is. I remember when we all took that trip back in May 2004. We had so much fun. Thomas was so funny, he made all of us laugh so hard because of his funny sounding laugh. Kath, Just remember how much Love that You and Thomas shared. Hold on to all of those Special Memories. Always know that Thomas is a Guardian Angel now watching over You and Nicholas Forever. God Bless You and Nicholas. Be Strong like You always are, especially for that adorable little Nicholas (Thomas the second!) I'm here for you and will hold you in my prayers.
Love,
Mary

Nancy Lee

September 25, 2007

Tommy,
You touched Amanda's, Patrick's, and my lives so briefly with joy. A strong link of genuine love will bring a meeting in the future. You and your family are in our prayers.

debra Cooley

September 24, 2007

i am so sorry nicholas for ur loss. your daddy will always be there to watch over u and guide you and bless you. right now things may not be so good but daddy will always be smiling down on youand keeping tabs on you. may god bless and you both keep him in ur hearts for always. love deb deb

debra Cooley

September 24, 2007

i am ss for ur loss kath and nicholas. u r both in our prayers and hearts will u know we r here if ya need us. may god bless u both and thomas will always be there looking out for u. love as always deb

Lori Schmidt

September 24, 2007

Dear Amanda,

We are all so sorry for your loss. There are no words that can take away what you are going through right now. Just know that your friends are here for you. Cherish the memories that you and Tommy had made together, no one can ever take those from you. Take comfort in knowing you now have a Guardian Angel watching over you.

Lori, Cecelia, Diahanna and Heather ( from ESL )

Paulette VanSice

September 24, 2007

We are so sorry and shocked to hear about Thomas. Our sympathies and prayers to all of you at this time.

Michelle Castellano

September 23, 2007

Dear Tommy,
The last time we saw you was at our wedding in 2002 we all had such a good time. We are so glad we got to share that day with you. Danny and you we more than cousins you are like a brother to him. We miss you and love you so much. Always know that you are in our hearts and we know that your in heaven right now smiling down on all of us. Love always Your brother Danny, cousin Michelle and your little cousins Anthony and Angelo Castellano. WE WILL MISS YOU!!!!

Vincent shattuck

September 23, 2007

Tommy
Will always miss your smerc and your deviant laugh. You are the most devoted person ill ever know and ya took care of who ever need it when it came down to it.Will always miss busten chops & workin to hard.
much love bruda

RoseMarie Clausen

September 23, 2007

Thomas,
You will always be remembered as part of our family and the good times that we all shared.The holidays,how happy you were when you and Kathy got married and the happiness and love you showed when you got your baby boy Nicholas.the cookouts,the parties will stay on our minds and in our hearts.
You will be in my prayers.

Dear Daddy, I will love you forever. I miss you very much. I'm sending you great big hugs and kisses. Love, Nicholas Anthony-Thomas Castellano

September 23, 2007

Nichole Gonzalez

September 23, 2007

Thomas,
You were always more than a father, but a friend. You were always by my side when i needed someone there. Thank you and I love you. I will always remember the good times and carry you with me forever.
Love,
Nichole

nicholas castellano

September 23, 2007

dear daddy, i sent a letter to heaven for you i wish that you were here with me and mommy i want to give you a hug and kiss i miss you daddy love nicholas

Nicholas Castellano

September 23, 2007

dear daddy,
i love and miss you. i am sad that i can't give you a hug. love nicholas.

Daddy and Nicholas taking a nap 2000

September 23, 2007

Bonnie Thieleman

September 23, 2007

Dear Tommy,

We will miss your smile and your silly laugh. You made Amanda's World so wonderful and memorable. For that, you will always be remembered with love and prayers for eternal peace because there is no one more deserving. I am so glad that you were a part of our lives. We lift up our hearts, from sadness, to celebrate your Life.

Thomas, May You rest In Peace My Love. I will hold you in my heart forever. Love, Kathy. Thomas & Kathleen Castellano

September 23, 2007

Kathleen Castellano

September 23, 2007

Tommy,

Nicholas and I will love and miss you. You are in our hearts for eternity. The years that you and I shared as husband and wife were the best years of my life. Our son, Nicholas Anthony-Thomas Castellano, is truly our gift from God. Nicholas looks just like his Daddy. He will forever carry on all of our memories of you. Nicholas will also carry on the Castellano name. We love you always and forever ... Until we meet again my love, Rest In Peace. May God Bless You and Your Entire Family.
Love Always,
~Kathy and Nicholas Castellano~

Debra Cooley

September 22, 2007

Sorry for your loss.

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