Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
Sandy DeFisher Obituary
Gates: Surrounded by family, Sandy passed from the loving arms of her husband to those of the Lord on September 21, 2007. Sandy finally lost her courageous and determined battle with cancer.
Sandy's smile could light up any room and even in sickness she was always upbeat. She loved her family above all, and all who met her liked her immediately, all who were lucky enough to know her loved her and counted themselves blessed.
She was predeceased by her brother, David Smith; and her dad, Ron Latz. She is survived by her loving and devoted husband of 20 years, Norris; son, Jason (Ellen) Roelle; stepdaughters, Carrie (Brad) Miller, Kelly DeFisher, Christine DeFisher; mother, Dorothy Latz of FL; sister, Patricia (Bill) Gregory of NC; father, Elwyn (Evelyn) Smith; stepsister, Linda (Don) Parkhurst; stepbrother, Dennis Latz; 10 grandchildren, Cody, Alyssa, Drake, Kevin, Jenna, Ian, Jace, Morgan, Abby and Gavin; her faithful companion, Murphy; many friends from work, euchre and camping.
Her husband would like to thank her sister Pat for her many visits from NC during her illness; her best friend, Joanie Coons for all her loving support; the entire staff at Pluta Cancer Center, especially their nurses and Dr. Yirinec.
Friends may call at the Leo M. Bean and Sons Funeral Home, 2771 Chili Ave., Monday, 4-7 PM. Funeral Mass Tuesday, 9:30 AM at St. Helen's Church, 310 Hinchey Rd. In lieu of flowers, contributions to the American Lung Association.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Sandy DeFisher
Linda Durgan
September 26, 2007
Norris (Lee)
You may or may not remember me, but I met you 20 years ago at Tuts. I saw the notice of your wife's death in the paper and I was saddened by your loss. I am glad that you had so many years of happiness in your marriage,but I know it doesn't offer much comfort now. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Michelle (Shelly) Tullock
September 26, 2007
Sandy, this is not goodbye, it's so long for now. You have touched so many lives in so many ways. There will come a time when we will meet again, and I would like you to be my forever bingo caller. We will miss you dearly. I WILL REMEMBER YOU
Patricia Gregory
September 26, 2007
Norris,
She was the best wasn't she?
Love
Pat
Carol & Jeanne McAdams
September 25, 2007
It was an honor to meet Sandy during her visit to Hendersonville last year. Patricia and Bill have been such good friends to us. You are each in our hearts and our prayers.
Lynne McWilliams
September 25, 2007
Dearest Norris
May the Lord wrap his arms around you and comfort you at this time of grief. Even though we know we will see Sandy again, we miss her being with us now. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and with the whole family.
Julie Wood
September 24, 2007
Norris, This is a prayer that I have said nightly since I was in high school: "Remember Oh most gracious Virgin Mary that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intersession was left unaided. Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you Oh virgin of virgins my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. Oh Mother of the word incarnet, dispise not my petition, but in your mercy, hear and answer and me AMEN."
I love this prayer. It will help to bring you peace and solitude with your loss.
Sandy is with the Lord and we now have our own "Guardian Angel".
Your cousin.......Julie
Mark Hubbel
September 24, 2007
God our Heavenly Father, look kindly upon the soul of Sandy and have mercy on her soul. And may the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace, AMEN.
John Wasula
September 24, 2007
Norris:
I was truly saddened to hear of Sandy's passing. I know that she always meant the world to you and knowing her I understand why. She will be missed by all.
Heather VanGrol
September 24, 2007
Norris and Family,
I'm very lucky to have had Sandy in my life as a dear friend and co-worker. I shared special times with both of you at Cristmas parties, super bowls and more...I hold you both close to my heart and in my prayers. I will miss her dearly!
Pete Marr
September 24, 2007
Norris,
You don't know me, but I am another Bosch associate. Sandy was a joy to know and I can only offer my prayers for you and the rest of the family that you see healing will come in time. God bless...
Peggy Elliott
September 24, 2007
To the Family of Sandy - I did not know Sandy but it sounds as if I missed knowing a kind, warm, sweet and funny lady. I am a friend of Patricia (Gregory) from NC and wanted to extend my deepest sympathy to the entire family. May you be lifted up knowing she is in the hands of the Lord who has wiped away all pain and taken her under his wing. Peggy Elliott
Tim & Patty Auwarter
September 24, 2007
Norris,
My family has been blessed by having the opportunity to meet Sandy on one of her visits to NC. Pat is a dear friend and Sandy was so full of joy and happiness when we met her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Augie Misiurewicz
September 23, 2007
Dear Norris,
I thank God that I was able to know Sandy and was able to talk with her about her challenge with cancer and so many other subjects. I hope I always remember her smile as we talked. If I can help in any way please let me know.
Debbie & Bob Hampton
September 23, 2007
Norris, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Sandy, she was the most loving person that we ever met. From the first day I met her she always made me feel special & cared about. Her smile you could see a mile away, it was always a smile to say "Hello", &"I am your friend". Even while going through her cancer she still had that special smile on her face.
God bless you, & we love you,
Debbie & Bob Hampton
September 23, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Joan Coons
September 23, 2007
I loved Sandy with all my heart and was blessed to have her for my best friend. She was the most caring/giving/sweetest/funniest person I know. She will be truly missed by all who knew her and ever met her.
Cole and Donna Townsend
September 23, 2007
Norris, and Sandy's family,
Our hearts go out to you. We loved Sandy, and will always cherish her memory. You are in our thoughts and our prayers.
To Sandy,
There are no goodbyes for us. We know you are with the Father, but you will surely always be here with us, in our hearts.
SHARON (LARRY) SWARTZ
September 23, 2007
THE DE FISHER FAMILY, OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHIES ARE WITH YOU AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME.
SHARON (LARRY) SWARTZ
September 23, 2007
JASON, ELLEN,& CHILDREN KEVIN, IAN, ABBY,
OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHIES FOR THE GREAT LOSS YOU ALL HAVE SUFFERED. MAY YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES COMFORT YOU ALL AND GIVE YOU STRENGTH DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME. YOUR MOM, NANI, AND BEST FRIEND WILL LIVE IN THE HEARTS OF EVERYONE SHE TOUCHED, ALWAYS. OUR LOVE AND PRAYERS ALWAYS
Showing 1 - 19 of 19 results
Make a Donation
in Sandy DeFisher's name
Memorial Events
for Sandy DeFisher
How to support Sandy's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Sandy DeFisher's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
