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James Slater Obituary
Rochester: October 4, 2007. An employee of Action for a Better Community, Inc. He is survived by a son, Jamel Slater; his mother, Lacey "Lessie" Slater; sisters, Rochelle Slater & Gloria (Thaddeus) Naudan. Uncle of Tunisia Bradshaw, James Brandis Reynolds, Sharon, Thaddeus Jr., Benita and Sharonda. Also survived by many other aunts, uncles, other relatives and friends.
Calling hours, Thursday, 12 - 8 PM at Baber AME Church, 550 Meigs St., where a Funeral Service will be held on Friday at 11 AM, Rev. Marlowe V.N. Washington, Pastor, officiating. Donations may be made to "James C. Slater Foundation" at M&T Bank, c/o of Mr. Joe Wilson, Titus Avenue Branch.
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Melissa
August 29, 2023
Still thinking about you.
Suprena Dennis
June 30, 2021
Gone too soon! I will miss James forever, as will the family. However, we will see each other again.
Former and first fiance,
Leslie Ruth Dixon
October 28, 2008
Jimmy, Jimmy, Jimmy. I miss you so much. We lost a giant but God loved you the best. I was so proud of all of your accomplishments and the love that your community showed for you. I know you are doing your thing up there and hey save a spot for me. I know I will see you again. I love you, your favorite cousin. Leslie
lisa dixon
January 8, 2008
In memory of my dear cousin. I look forward to seeing you up in heaven with our Lord and Savior!! I know you are with him! Don't worry about Aunt Lessie, Nikki, Jaymes Brandis, and Rochelle. They are always in my prayers and you know I will on on 380 soon!! I thank God for giving me a cousin, a great man of God who is loved by all! MUCH RESPECT!!
Your cuz, LEO
Regina Cooper
December 27, 2007
Jimmy,
You will always be in my prayers. You always had the utmost respect for me, and for that I love you.
I'll see when I get there.
My deepest condolescences go out to the Slater Family.
Regina Cooper
Regina Cooper
December 27, 2007
Jimmy,
You will always be in my prayers. You always had the utmost respect for me, and for that I love you. My deepest condolescences go out to the Slater Family.
Regina Cooper
tunisia "NIKKI" bradshaw
December 25, 2007
Merry Christmas Uncle BUD "Jimmy" :)
I know today is the Lord's Birthday and "we" should be glad and rejoice in it. But, today isn't the same without you. Now, you know I normally cook that BIG Christmas day brunch. Well, not this year, my heart just wasn't in it. Maybe, next year, it'll be different. We miss you like crazy, especially Simbah. He has no one to sit on the porch with at 3 a.m. Hopefully this time, my letter to you will go through. 'Cuz the last one I tried to send wouldn't go through. I think you did that on purpose. Well, let me go, I LOVE YOU UNCLE BUD.
Your Boo
December 22, 2007
In memory of your birthday James, we all have a beginning and ending date. It is the dash which represents our life and how we have lived. James your dash has left a legacy that shall live on in those who were lucky enough to get to know you or whom you touched with your efforts to make the place they are in their lives better. I miss you James..my friend and confidant but I know your spirit lives on. You’ll always be apart of me. Thank you for the wonderful memories… they keep me smiling.
Audrey Snowden
November 19, 2007
Jimmy, not a day goes by and your not thought of. The holidays are coming near and its going to be difficult for alot of us. You'll forever be in our hearts. I'm still making that cheesecake that I promised you, for your family for Thanksgiving. Again may you rest in peace. Missing you Always. Audrey
JoeAnn Countee
November 16, 2007
To the mother of James Slater, my Aunt Harriett DuVall Ponds called to tell me that my cousin died. I asked what cousin, and she said "Jimmy". I replied, I do not know him, and had no idea that my Uncle Melvin (only saw my uncle once) had a son. I am Virgie DuVall-Countee's daughter. My mom died in late 1969. I wish that I had met my cousin, he looks just like my oldest brother Theodore, they can pass for twins. I will add the Slater's name to the family tree. God bless you and your family. May his soul rest now in peace with God.
Mychell Sneed
November 9, 2007
I wish to extend my heartfelt sympathy to the Slater family on the loss of your beloved son, father, brother and uncle. James and I had the pleasure of meeting at Shaw University and our love and friendship for each still endured although we lost contact. "Rock" was a devoted father and son who cherished and respected life. He was a wonderful human being with a heart made of gold. He will truly be missed.
Wheat
October 19, 2007
James your nick name the “ROC” describes the type of friend, family member, and co-worker you were. You were a cornerstone for so many and one we could count on. My friend, you stood by me in good times and in bad. I truly miss you and I shall always hold dear your words of inspiration, moments of comfort, and fun times we shared (Not the Band). You shall always be a part of me and my thoughts of you shall always bring forth a smile. I celebrate your life and that which you have given. Thank you for being the kind-hearted ,hard working, loving person who touched so many lives. I have become a better person having share this moment in time with you. You will be remembered for all the sacrifices you made but for me I shall remember the warm feeling you left behind with your smile. May the peace of God’s be with you Momma, Rochelle, Nikki, Jermel, and Lucky. James loved you all so much!
Audrey Snowden
October 17, 2007
I've known Jimmy for many years. We had a very special relationship. He was more than just a friend he was my everything. He will truly be missed. If you ever wanted to meet someone who was truly pure in heart, this was Jimmy. He will forever be in my heart, mind, body and Soul. He will never be forgotten. He was my Best Friend.
Dawn Harold -Annunziata
October 16, 2007
To the Family of James Slater: I will always remember the great friendship that James had with my brother, Mike Harold, and the times we spent talking in the backyard of my parents' home. This world has lost a true friend and heaven has gained a fine angel. With sincere sympathy.
Dawn Marie(Harold)Annunziata
Patsy Barnhill
October 16, 2007
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
May the LORD give each of you comfort and HIS peace.
I work with Sharon.
S. Strong
October 15, 2007
I work with Sharon and I want to express my deepest sympathies during her families time of need.
Mary Lou Yawn
October 12, 2007
Our deepest sympathy from Mary Lou Yawn and Cheryl's Children
Alana Sanchez
October 12, 2007
My sympathy goes out to all family and friends. I worked with James at the Bon Ton in Irondequoit for 3 years. He was a wonderful person to work with. He shared stories and gave me advice on many issues. I haven't seen him in many years but I will never forget his smile and seeing him come into work with his headphones on. I wish the family peace in knowing he is in a better place.
Jeff & Tori McCullers
October 12, 2007
I worked with James for about 4 or 5 yrs. He was the big brother figure to me.I just wished that we talked more, but when we did it was like we would pickup from when the last time we talked. James is a role model for everyone. He touched alot of people. You will be missed. I am glad that James was apart of my life, he always will be. To his Mom, Son And family you are in my thoughts and Prayers. We Love you
Eugenio Cotto Jr.
October 12, 2007
James you'll be missed by all us in the neighborhood. May the Lord of the heavens greatly comfort all of the Slater family with His infinite mercy and grace in this time of sorrow. God bless!
Michael Harold
October 12, 2007
James was probably my best friend in school. We hung out a lot together there and even after we graduated. We played football and ran track and shared a lot of really good times. I had not seen him much in recent years but will always remember those days at Franklin and what a good and thoughtful friend he was to me. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Jamel Hall
October 12, 2007
I had the pleasure of meeting James in Durham, NC in 2000. We later became co-workers and great friends. We saw and treated eachother like family. The ONLY regrets I have,is not takng time to talk to James on a regular basis. James always refered to me as B.A.Y.Boy. James will definitely be missed by his extended family in NC. To his immediate family, I'm sorry for your loss and you will be in my prayers. Jamel "B.A.Y.Boy" and Nicole Hall.
Gary Moxley
October 11, 2007
James you will be missed and I was proud to call you a friend. I enjoyed our time together a Dick's Sporting Goods and was always happy we kept in touch. You are a big reason I am where I am today in life. You will be missed
Mox
Donna Sawyer
October 11, 2007
I work with Audrey Snowman and know how close she was with James. I wish I could have met him cause I'm sure he was a great person as I've heard from so many. Please accept my deepest sympathy's. Donna Sawyer
Diane Hayes
October 11, 2007
I will be keeping you all in my prayers. Know I am with you at your time of need.
Tina Case
October 11, 2007
My heart felt condolences and blessings to the Slater Family and his best friend Audrey. I had the pleasure of meeting Jimmy September 30th when he went to the Bills game. He was a sweet, caring, man. I am very honored to have met him and to call him my friend. May he rest in peace.
Kathleen Farrell-Lloyd
October 10, 2007
My heart felt condolences and blessings to the Slater Family. I had the pleasure of meeting James in Durham, NC in 2003, when he was working with my son, Jamel at Foot Locker. He also was a groomsman at Jamel's wedding. He was a sweet, caring, and kind soul. You have been blessed as are all those who shared in his life. May he be in peace.
Alfreda Brooks
October 10, 2007
Sis Slater, my prayers are with you and your family during this time. Words can not express how much I wish I could be there to give you comfort. Just know that I love all of you and will lift up your names in prayer. Phil 3:8 says Whatsoever things are lovely and of good report think on these things so was Jimmy.
In the true spirit of Christianity
Leon Smith
October 10, 2007
My condolences and prayers go out to Mother Slater,Rochelle,Nikki and family. Jimmy was a humble caring man who always had a warm smile.I know he is already in heaven smiling down. He will be miss.
Tammy King
October 10, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I work with Sharon and will be keeping the family in my thoughts & prayers. May the Lord grant you peace and comfort at this time.
kenneth strachan
October 10, 2007
I am sad to hear one of my childhood buddies has past. At an early age James showed compassion for others. When we went to junior high and high school this trait and others began to grow inwards as well externally. James in is quite but forceful style inspired many around him and I have always admired it from him. Living on Alphonse street was a joy and next to it is Barons street. James never left Rochester becuase I believe he thought he could make a difference. I hope that his senless death will not go with out meaning. So I send my condolence to his family and loved ones. Kenny Strachan (class president 1978)
Laurie Perry
October 9, 2007
Mr. and Mrs. Slater,
As the former Vice President of the Monroe Community College's Human Service Club, I was given the great pleasure, of getting to know your son at our anual confrence. He was a great man and a wonderful speeker. I hope that knowing your son was loved by many people within the community, gives you some comfort.
Juanita Harris (ABC/AFC)
October 9, 2007
I am sorry for the loss of someone in our community that was trying to make a different. In the society in which we live in today, we need more people like him to reach out and touch somebody's hand and make this a better world. My deepest condolences to a special loss and to the family and friends.
Peter Cup
October 9, 2007
Our family is so sorry for your loss. James was such a great role model for his younger students, friends and teammates at Franklin.
Peter Cup class of 1979.
Sandra Morehouse
October 8, 2007
I will always remember the care James Slater showed in bringing his Mother to church on Sundays--I will miss seeing him in the back of the church sitting next to his Mother & will always remember his smile whenever I said hello to him.
Maribel Torres
October 8, 2007
For the short time that I knew you you were a great person. You will be greatly missed.
Remembering a Great Man, Class of 1978 (Ben Franklin)
October 8, 2007
James & I went to Jr., High then attended Ben Franklin together. To this day I will always remember what a wonderful, kind and gentle person he was. My heartfelt prayers and thoughts are with the Slater family & friends, as we are so sadden by the loss of a brave person. We will meet again in Heaven. God Bless.
Michele Saner
October 8, 2007
I remember James from Frederick Douglas and Benjamin Franklin. He was a very nice person. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Juanita Lebron-Vargas
October 8, 2007
I am really sorry about your loss. I am very thankful to have known James, I worked with him way back at S&K Menswear. I missed him very much and did not get a chance to see him in the near past but I never forgot him either. I will forever hold him close in my heart and thoughts as well as prayers, not only him but his family too. I love you and miss you. God Bless!
Ron Howard
October 8, 2007
As your former quarterback in high school, it was an honor to hand you the football but a greater honor to be called your friend. You will be greatly missed.
lynn rogers
October 8, 2007
I went to Benjamin Franklin with James and he was a great person. Sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
ELEANOR STRICKLAND- LEVERT
October 8, 2007
I HAD THE WONDERFUL PLEASURE OF ATTENDING BENJAMIN FRANKLIN HIGH WITH JAMES. EVEN BACK THEN HE WAS A GOOD FRIEND. THERE ARE NO WORDS TO EXPRESS THE LOST OF SOMEONE SO SPECIAL WHO TOUCHED SO MANY LIVES. IT TRULY IS A GREAT LOST FOR THE PEOPLE OF THIS COMMUNITY. I KNOW THAT GOD WILL SEE THE FAMILY THROUGH THIS TIME, AND MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL.
Cynthia
October 8, 2007
James Slater was a great person in high school (Ben Franklin). I remember him being a gentleman. He will be sadly missed.
October 8, 2007
May you always have comfort in God. I pray for the family members of James Slater. I knew him a long time ago. God Bless.
Edna James
October 8, 2007
Sorry for the lost of your love one may god be with you and your family Love Edna and Family
STELLA OUTLAW
October 8, 2007
GOD BLESS.
Tonda Phillips
October 8, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Rashaan Brooks
October 8, 2007
I can't explain how much I will miss Jimmy. He was a friend when I need one. He will be truely miss. To grandma,nikki and james and mama I promise not to be sad for ever love you yall
the proticle son
Crystal
October 8, 2007
1 Corinthians 13
Love Is the Greatest
1 If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing. 3 If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it;[a] but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing.
4 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud 5 or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. 6 It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. 7 Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
8 Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages[b] and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever!
13 Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.
Jimmy loved therefore he gave us the greatest gift he had to give. May you find comfort in God's Word, family and friends that are near and far. Jimmy will be truly missed and never forgotten.
Willie Lightfoot
October 8, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow. God Bless You
Betty Williams-Collins
October 8, 2007
My condolences goes out to the Slater family. I went to school with Rochelle. I pray as the days go by, that your heart will become lighter. God bless.
Debra Bellesen
October 8, 2007
To my brother Jimmy, you stood for what was right. I thank God for your spirit, and your beautiful smile. To mother Lacey, sister Rochelle and Nikki and James, the Lord will reward Jimmy for ALL the great things he has done here on earth. I love you all.
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