Betty Jean Spinelli

Betty Spinelli Obituary

Spinelli, Betty Jean
Webster: Oct. 17, 2007. Survived by her children, Carla, Carl & Christina Spinelli; sisters, Pamela Rockwell, Patti Federico & Carol (Raymond) Smith; brothers, Robert (Martha) & Ed (Deb) Broskin; many nieces and nephews.
No prior calling hours. A Memorial Mass will be held SAT., 10 AM at Our Lady Queen of Peace Church, 601 Edgewood Ave. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Camp Good Days & Special Times, 1332 Pittsford-Mendon Rd., Mendon, NY 14506.
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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Oct. 19, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Betty Spinelli

14 Entries

Cindy Cowley

October 27, 2007

To Betty’s Family and Friends

Betty was a lovely and funny person, to have met, and to have worked with.
One of the most endearing memories is when Betty did not realize the PA system was on and she sung a whole Beetles tune. To everyone’s delight!
I am truly pleased to have known her. She will be greatly missed, but not with out a bit a humor mixed about and what a nice thing to have left behind.

Greg Garland

October 26, 2007

I worked with Betty Jean at The Penfield Home Depot. At first, I thought Betty Jean didn't like me, but I quickly realized that she cared for me very much. I began to trust her, my guard fell, and I soon revered her. I always knew what to expect from her. She would always tell me how it was, in her stern voice. She always watched out for me. She was the eyes and ears of that store, and everyone knew it. Chatting with Betty Jean in the phone center was always thought provoking, and entertaining. Whenever I was struggling at work, she would find a way to let me know I was doing a good job. She trusted me, just as I trusted her.
I last spoke to Betty Jean at her residence, when I was calling to wish her a get well soon. She insisted that I use her as a personal reference on my resume'. I felt as though that was the biggest complement, coming from a woman I respected so much.
I appreciate Betty Jean, and I am sad to know I cannot talk to her anymore. My thoughts and prayers go out to Betty Jean and her family.

Tracey Heater

October 26, 2007

To the Family of the amazing Betty Jean, my deepest condolences.

I worked with Betty Jean at Home Depot for 5 1/2 years. We went from merely co-worker to a relationship that defies definition. .

She was my friend and a shoulder to cry on. She was my confidant and a source of sage advice. From everything from business, to love, from men, to child rearing (though sometimes they are the same thing;)), she always had time to listen, a story to tell, and wisdom to share. She was a tremedous source of comfort in times of sadness or hardship.

She helped me to find my sense of personal value and joy for living, and how very important it is to live, but to remember to play. She was one of the main forces in my decision to do something better with my life and keep my priorities straight. To remember: it is more important to laugh with my children than have a clean house.

I will miss her so much. God Bless you, Betty Jean, and all the many, many people whose life you made brighter just from knowing you. And God Bless all who you leave behind and may they be comforted knowing how well loved you are.

Diane Roccisano (nee) Taccone

October 23, 2007

Dearest Cousins - I am so saddenened to hear of the passing of my dear cousin Betty Jean. We were stuck together like glue when we were young, she and I were inseparable, doing every thing together from watching the younger kids to talking about boys and what we were going to be when we grew up. We missed togetherness as we grew older, each going our separate ways but she was always in my heart and thoughts. I had the extreme joy of seeing her again during the last two family reunions and am blessed to have had that time to reconnect with her. I always missed the little girl I grew up with and now will miss the great lady that she was. My heart is heavy for all of my cousins. Sleep in peace dear BJ - I'll love you always.

Barbara Niggli

October 20, 2007

To Betty Jean's family: I had the pleasure of working with Betty Jean at the Home Depot since June 2005. I was a transfer from another store and on my first day at Penfield when she received an incoming call for me her page went out to the "IMA of lumber". Somehow I could not pick up the call and called Betty Jean to find out what happened. "Hi, my name is Barb and I'm the new IMA of lumber and I can't pick up that call." Betty Jean stated: "I know who you are, it looks like the call has hung up and I thought you were suppose to start here last week?" From that day on, I humbly began to realize, it didn't matter to Betty Jean if you knew her for 7 years, 7 days, or 7 minutes she made it a point to know you. When I would ask her how she was feeling she would talk about "not sweating the small stuff", then she would start to give "motherly" advice on my life. Not only did she give advice she would follow up the next time she saw me and asked if I followed it. Her strength and compassion will always be with me. With Deepest Sympathy for your loss, Barbara Niggli

Gina Amico

October 20, 2007

I had the pleasure of knowing Betty Jean since 1989. We worked together at Scrantoms and then later at Home Depot in 2002. BJ had wisdom like no one I've ever known. Whenever she spoke, I wanted to hear everything she said. I learned a lot from her, and we laughed a lot too. She was a great lady and I will miss her terribly. There will be no one like her ever.I send my prayers and deepest sympathy to her family.

Nikki O'Reilly

October 20, 2007

My heart goes out to all of the Spinelli family. I worked with Betty Jean seven years ago at Home Depot and I was saddened to hear that she had passed. She was a wonderful woman and the most selfless person I have ever known. She will be missed.

Kathy Lentine

October 20, 2007

To Betty Jean's family-
Among all of my husband's wonderful cousins, Betty Jean was the one to make me laugh about something every time we talked. Through good times and bad times, she always maintained a positive attitude. She always pointed out the humorous side of any situation and taught me the importance of "not sweating the small stuff." Even as sick as she was last week in the hospital, she made me cry thru the tears.I will remember her words whenever emotion gets the best of me, and will pass on her simple but true words of wisdom. A salute to Carla, her friend Karen, her children and sisters for the tender loving care they to provided her during her illness.

Bob and Laura Baker

October 20, 2007

Your cousin Bob and Laura will miss you BJ.... Carla, Carl, Christina, PatPam,Bob, Eddie, and Carol. Our heart, thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. What a wonderful person our BJ was. I will miss her, especially our long 3 & 4 hour talks on the phone. She was my best friend and Bob will never be the same.

God Bless all of you,

Love your cousin Laura and Bob Baker

Deep Rock Auto Service

October 19, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Julie Taylor

October 19, 2007

We are so sorry for your loss. Mrs. Spinelli was a wonderful lady. We all will miss her great smile and wonderful laugh. I will miss seeing her in Wegmans shopping.

Andy Taylor and family

Patrick Schwehm

October 19, 2007

My condolences go out to the whole Spinelli family. I worked with Betty Jean at home depot since 2000 and we were the best of friends. She was the reason i went back to visit the home depot after i moved to florida. She will always be in my thoughts. She will definatly be missed.

cheryl herold

October 19, 2007

pam, patty & families,
my heart goes out to you in this difficult time.try to take comfort in the fact that friends and family love you,and want to be here for you.i only met your sister a couple of times, but she was kind and funny,and surely will be missed by all.

love, cheryl (herold)

Kimberly Atzrott

October 18, 2007

My condolences to the Spinelli family. I worked with Betty Jean at The Home Depot from September 2005 until this past July 2007. She was a wonderful person and I will miss her dearly. I am lighting a candle for her at my home. I will also be making a donation in her name.

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