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Heather Gross Obituary

Heather Aron Gross 6/28/81 ~ 12/14/08 Heather was never meant to die of old age; instead she died causing international news. The inbounds avalanche at Snowbird, on December, 14th, ended her life at age 27. She was an avid Snowbird skier and would never want her death to stifle anyone's love for skiing or for the resort. Our daughter did a life's worth of living in her 27 years. Her candle burned brightly but not long enough. She needs the many people whom she has touched, to keep it burning. Her prayer for you would be to remember her goodness and zest for life and continue to share and spread it. Heather had a passion for adventure and learning. Travel was a part of who she was. She open mindedly accepted and befriended people from all over the world. She combined travel and learning with studies in Spain, China, Argentina, and more. She will be deeply missed by her parents, Dennis and Alyce Gross of Salt Lake City, and her sister, Emily Gross, of Ft. Collins, Colorado. Heather left a void that will be partially filled by hilarious memories. Anyone caring to memorialize Heather should make a donation to the Utah Food Bank in her name. As an infant she was baptized on August 23, 1981 into the Body of Christ and anointed with the Holy Spirit at Zion Lutheran Church, 1070 Foothill Dr., where the Celebration of her Life will be held on Saturday, December 20th at 3 p.m. Guests will be greeted as early as 2 p.m.

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Published by Deseret News from Dec. 18 to Dec. 19, 2008.

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Jeanne Hansen

March 26, 2009

Alyce and Denny,

Receiving your letter and sad news today was such a shock. Heather's picture showed a beautiful young woman and reminded me so much of you, Alyce. She looks just like I remember you from our days in Germany.

Each Christmas I have enjoyed the letters about your family and all the fun and good energy that you shared. Now I wish I saved all those letters so I could read them again. Clearly,you have been such proud parents of two wonderful girls.

I will hold you dearly in my heart and prayers. Hold on to one another and to God.

God Bless you both and your dear Emily.

My deepest condolences,
Jeanne McCabe Hansen

John and Brenda Payne

January 10, 2009

Dear Denny and Alyce,

We just today heard about Heather and send to you our deepest condolences and love. We have fond memories of our girls, Kresha, Emily, and Heather, together at Marriage Encounter events. Heather had such determination and tenacity, and we see that those traits carried through into adulthood.
We send our love to you all. May Christ's faithful love and eternal promises comfort and sustain you all. You are in our prayers.

John and Brenda Payne

Kathy Houdeshel

January 6, 2009

Dearest family, I bring prayers to our Lord daily for you...to continue to celebrate Heather's amazing life and legacy. I am Dasch's Mom and had the joy of having your precious daughter in our home. One night she came over with a photobook from Europe and shared the entire trip with me. How we laughed!

I am working on a piece of art to reflect Heather's contributions to all of us. I look forward to spring when we return from California so we can meet and share this together. We have alot in common and a friendship based on our love for Heather could very well be a gift from our Lord! Much love and anticipation for happy times together, Kathy Houdeshel

Lee Nuckolls

December 30, 2008

To Heather's family,
Curtiss & I had the great fortune to know Heather through our friend Scott. Heather, Scott, Curtiss, and I shared a fabulous powder day at Solitude on January 1, 2007 and I'll never forget the sheer joy she brought to the day for all of us and we've talked of it often since then. She was a beautiful as a person and as a skier.

Tressa (Hayes) Pack

December 29, 2008

Dear Denny, Alyce and Emily,
My deepest sympathy to your family and friends. I remember babysitting Heather and Emily when they were both little girls and how sweet and adorable they both were. Heather as a little girl was extremely smart, articulate and funny. Though I lost touch, I feel extremely blessed to have known such an extraordinary person as Heather. Sleep peacefully sweet girl.

Tammy McDonald

December 25, 2008

Dear Alyce, Dennis and Emily.Alyce I just saw you a few weeks back when you came into Canyonview Elem. to see us and say hello.You were so happy and retirement was treating you great.I remember how thrilled you were because Heather was comlng home for the wedding of her sister.I never met Heather but if she had the same zeal for life as you Alyce I can imagine her being a treasure like you.I am so sorry for your loss .Words can never heal the hurt you and your family are going through but prayer can. So at this time we celebrate Christ birth we also pray for all of you.God Bless you, and Alyce come by and we will give you a hug.Tammy McDonald

Evelyn Little

December 23, 2008

Dear Alyce, Denny and family,
I was so shocked and saddened when I heard of the tragedy that has occured to your family. I lost a husband this year, but it is nothing like losing a child....I can't begin to imagine.
I thought of the phrase "It's not the number of years in your life that count, but the life in your years." This seems so true in the life that Heather lived.
I know your faith will sustain you through these next difficult months and your many friends will be there to help.
Know that I'm thinking of you and praying for you.
With love,
Evelyn (Hawkins) Little

Kurt Nilsson

December 22, 2008

Dennis, Alyce, and Emily,

I cannot begin to convey my shock and sadness, but hope that in some small way the outpouring of condolences you've received will help at this time. God bless you.

Angi Petersen

December 22, 2008

Dear Dennis, Alyce & Emily

I worked with Dennis for a short period of time and learned about his two beautiful daughters,and what a proud father he is. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. I feel privledged to have been able to share stories with Dennis and learn about your beautiful daughter and all of the things she accomplished during her short time here on earth.

Carolyn Ashburn

December 22, 2008

Dear Denny, Alyce, and Emily -
You are in our prayers and have been since we heard about Heather's death. We pray for you the peace that passes all understanding. We will remember Heather with joy and thanksgiving for her life. With our love, the Ashburns

Mary Anne Davies

December 22, 2008

Dear Gross Family,

Please accept my deepest sympathies during this difficult time. Heather had the kind of warmth, courage, and generosity that most people will never achieve in a lifetime. I am forever grateful that I got to know her over the last few years. She was a great friend and I will always remember how she never left without giving you a hug first. She was an amazing person and will be forever missed.

Patrick O'Hara

December 22, 2008

Dennis, Alyce & Emily:
While Heather and I had only crossed paths a few times in High School and once a few years later. I remember those moments clearly. She had the ability to make the briefest of moments memorable. She will be greatly missed.

Leah Spencer

December 21, 2008

Dennis, Alyce & Emily:
I have never had the opportunity to actually meet Heather face to face, but I fell like my life has been touched just by learning more about her (the life she lived and the many many people she touched). Just reading about her and hearing stories are inspiring. You are all in my most sincere prayers. Thank you for your example and your faith! May God bless you.
With love,
Leah Spencer

Amy (Damron) Bodell

December 21, 2008

I knew Heather way back from elementary school and through high school...what an amazingly fun girl! From soccer at recess, AYSO days, FPS, Creative Pursuits...she could make anyone laugh. I was so saddened to hear about her passing and wished I would have stayed in better touch with her. She was an amazing girl - so smart, thoughful, caring and a great friend. My prayers are with you, Gross family!

TREE

December 20, 2008

Heather's spirit survives through everyone's smiles, crazy laughter, and spazmatic dancing. She touched everyone she met, she was so unique. The language and numbers always had to be precise. Her heart was so full that it finally burst. In every memory, remember her wild spirit. It is that wild spirit that proves God exists. She now lives in all of us because that soul couldn't be contained by this Earth. In my memories she will always have that crazy laugh and that never-ending glow.

Pr. Hal & Shirley Nilsson

December 20, 2008

Dear Denny and Alyce, We want you to know that we have been holding you and Emily in our prayers ever since we heard the sad news of Heather's death. Your beautiful obituary prompted me to retrieve my pastoral record book entry for August 23, 1981, and relive her baptismal day, the day she was received as God's own child. She was that child in amazing ways during her life and remains that child now in her new life. Even as you are surrounded in love this day by family and friends, we pray that God's grace and hope will surround and sustain you today and all the days to come.

Jaimie (DeGraw) Maio

December 20, 2008

Dear Gross Family,
As Bree's big sister, I remember how cute the two of them were when they were just itty-bitty. She had an unforgettable smile and looked so adorable in Girl Scout green! Heather was a good friend to many, but I know she meant the world to my sister.

ETERNAL rest grant to her, O Lord,
and let perpetual light shine upon her.
May Heather rest in peace.

Kim Ogden

December 20, 2008

I was deeply sadden when i got the news of Heathers passing.. I knew her threw mutual friends. She had an amazing way of making others feel welcome... She always seemed to have the sunshine follow her.. Always had a smile on her face... She has given everyone she met such wonderful memories. My thoughts and prayers goes out to the family and friends who have lost a truly wonderful person..

Nancy & John Merkle

December 20, 2008

Dearest Alyce, Denny, & Emily:
Our thoughts & prayers are with you. Although we cannot physically attend the services for Heather today, please believe that we are with you in spirit.
Deepest Sympathy, Nancy, John, Chris (& family)

Janet Ogilvie Stapleton

December 19, 2008

Heather was one of my closest friends while attending Butler Middle and Brighton High School. I still can't believe she's gone and so wish I would've kept in better contact. She had a contagious laugh and a quick smile. She is one of the smartest people I've known and by far the best study partner I have ever had. From Creative Pursuits to Future Problem Solving, to AP Chemistry, she helped me survive many classes and projects. She was never a rival, always a support. She always had a knack for lightening up a tense moment. I was so happy when she joined the cross country team and we had another common goal. She will be greatly missed, but leaves behind only happy memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mindee Mowrey

December 19, 2008

Dear Gross Family,
I just wanted to give my condolences to the family of such a wonderful, friendly, happy girl. She always had a beautiful smile for me when I would see her. You raised an amazing person, and I thank you for that.

Mara Haslam

December 19, 2008

It was fun to work with Heather in the Speech Acquisition Lab. I am praying for comfort for all those who are missing her now.

Jean Childs

December 19, 2008

I remember Heather as the sweetest, smartest little girl in 5th grade. I am deeply saddened to hear of her accident. I have been visiting with JoAnn Warr and Mary Jane Johnson and we all remember her very well. My heart goes out for your loss and my prayers are with you. I know well the anguish you are going through as I lost my daughter 4 months ago and she was only 29. May God bless and be with you.

Nicole Reese

December 19, 2008

Dear Denny, Alyce, Emily, and Family, I always enjoyed seeing Heather at Zion. Her smile lit up a room! She will be greatly missed. Your family is in our prayers. May the holy Spirit comfort you. Nicole Reese & Michael Chard

Jill Halliday

December 19, 2008

I do not know Heather personally, but I Have been so touched by the heartfelt comments made by you, her sweet parents, both in the initial news story and now in her obituary regarding her goodness, her zest for life, her helping attitude, that i just have to tell you you are all in my heart and prayers. We have a 27-year-old daughter born the day after Heather was baptized. Oh how I can imagine the sense of loss you must feel! Yet you give such hope to all around you, and I am comforted too. May you feel the Savior's arms around you as you rest in the memories of Heather's goodness, and know that one day you will be face-to-face with her once again talking about those hilarious moments, and so much more.

With admiration and love,
Jill Halliday

Annie & Joel Nau

December 19, 2008

Denny, Alyce, & Emily ~ You have been in our prayers all week, and we hope the promise of Christ's resurrection brings you peace during this time of mourning . . . and always. Blessings to you all and your extended family. ~Annie, Joel, Sam & Bekah Nau

Merribeth and Steve

December 19, 2008

Dear Alyce, Denny and Emily, Our hearts are broken at your loss of your beautiful sweet daughter. She was a darling child who grew up to be an amazing young woman. I can still see her cute smile the day we ran into her at Snowbird last winter. She was with a group of friends and you could tell how much fun she was having. She loved being on that mountain. We know God was with her last Sunday and that she is with him now.
Her light will shine through the people she touched and the memories we hold in our hearts.
Please know that our love and prayers are with all of you.

Jackie Clayton

December 19, 2008

Dennis, You and your family have been in my thoughts since I heard of this accident on Sunday. I have always felt a special bond with you and Alyce as the parents of two daughters. Over the years I so much appreciated all your advice and sharing of parenting experiences, as John and I started our family (two daughters, as well). I remember Heather as a young delightful girl and it appears she grew up into a wonderful lady. Keep your memories close and alive. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Crystal Orvin

December 19, 2008

My deepest sympathy goes out to the Gross family and all of those people whose lives were touched by Heather. I only knew her for a short amount of time. I worked with her at Snowbird in 2004. She was such a good soul. I remeber that she had a great sense of humor and was nice to everyone she encountered. I hope that the powder is plentiful wherever she is.

Pamela Lattin

December 19, 2008

Dear Dennis & Family, Although we did not know Heather, we hurt deeply for your loss. We have read the articles about Heather and she must have been a fun and amazing young woman. May God comfort you with His warm and loving arms.

Zebulon Pischnotte

December 19, 2008

I knew Heather only four months, but in that time she quickly became one of my best friends. She was always fun to be around, whether it was in the classroom or spending time together with our friends. While some speak of a balance necessary between smart and fun, Heather could go all-out with both. Never will I meet another like her, and I will dearly miss her. I pray that everyone, especially her family, may be carried through this with our mutual support and our fond memories of one of the kindest, most caring people we have ever known.
-Z

Patrick

December 19, 2008

Gross Family,

I will always treasure the great times we had together skiing at Grand Targhee and boating at Lake Powell. Heather was an incredible person and has always inspired me to live life to the fullest. She will be deeply missed by many. My heart goes out to you Dennis, Alyce, and Emily.

Thomas Nelson

December 19, 2008

Though I didn't know Heather well, I only have good memories of her. I work in the photo department at the Tribune, and Sunday was one of my most difficult days there. I will always remember Heather for her sense of humor, and I hope others will as well.

K W

December 18, 2008

To Heather's Family,

I pray for our Lord to comfort you all and give you strength to get through this difficult time. I didn't know Heather, I've only read about this tragic accident through the media. The descriptions I have read about her, show her to have been a very loving, energectic, caring person. Some people die of old age, yet never really live, but it sounds as though Heather knew how precious life is and lived her life to the fullest. My prayers for all of Heather's family and friends.

Eric Olsen

December 18, 2008

Dennis, Alyce and Emily,

I have always been impressed by your family and the talents each of you have. Heather was well accomplished in her short life.

I hope you find comfort with the sweet memories of her life. Know that you are cared for by many around you.

You are in our prayers.

Reisa Faller (Hall)

December 18, 2008

Heather was such an amazing, smart, wonderful person. I have loved knowing her and sharing in some funny times with her in High School. She was a good person and will be greatly missed!

December 18, 2008

Heather, we will all miss your infectious smile and quiet demeanor on the tram and while skiing with you. I will never forget while we sat on the tram deck Friday evening watching the sun set on High Baldy and you called our attention to how beautiful the last sunlight of the day hitting Fields of Glory was. Golds and oranges and yellows and long shadows.

Maybe you knew somehow that that's where your last run would be. A fitting run to go out on: Fields of Glory... My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

ADDIE STOWERS

December 18, 2008

WHILE I DIDN'T KNOW YOUR BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER I CAN'T IMAGINE LOSING MY OWN SO MY PRAYERS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU. YOU MUST HAVE DONE A GREAT JOB OR SHE WOULDN'T HAVE TURNED OUT SO BEAUTIFUL AND WONDERFUL. I WILL PRAY SHE IS AT PEACE AND LOOKING DOWN ON YOU ALWAYS. YOU WILL SEE HER AGAIN. SHE WILL ALWAYS BE IN YOUR HEART AND SOUL.BLESS ALL OF YOU. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. LEAN ON THE LORD FOR A WHILE HE WILL HOLD YOU TILL YOU HEAL. LOVE ADDIE.

Cheryl Smith

December 18, 2008

To the Gross Family,
My mom and dad were your neighbors on Coventry Lane (Pat and Bernie Gierloff), and my boys and I were living with them for a couple of years. You have been in my thoughts and prayers since I heard the tragic news about Heather. I know my mom and dad were waiting for Heather to give her a big hug. I did not know her very well, but from what I have seen and heard you raised a wonderful daughter. Please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss, and I hope during this time when we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ, he will bring you the comfort of his love.
Cheryl (Gierloff), Ryan and Alex Smith
Salt Lake City

Michele (friend of Karen's)

December 18, 2008

Dennis, Alyce, & Emily
Heather obviously lived life to the fullest and good for her! My prayers are with you and I know God is with you. You now truly have an angel in heaven.

December 18, 2008

Heather was an amazing person. I had the privilege of skiing with her at snowbird. She was inspirational. Her passion for life and the sport of skiing was infectious. I loved skiing with her because she encouraged me to push harder, pass my comfort zone. You could always find her by her smile under all the ski gear. She will be deeply missed in the ski community.

Cris and Misha Phipps

December 18, 2008

Dear Gross Family-
Our deepest sympathies go out to your family. Heather will be missed forever. She always had a smile on her face and a great story to tell. Heather had an amzing energy about her that was able to make those around her happy the second she walked in a room. Your portrayal of her in her obit was wonderful, refreshing and honest.
Our condolences,

James Sewell

December 18, 2008

Heather is truly unique; if the world was filled with people like her, what a joyous place it would be. I'm so grateful for every second I spent with her, even when I couldn't express it adequately. With Love,

Adrian Gatherum

December 18, 2008

Dear Gross Family,
I had the extreme privledge of having Mrs. Gross for a teacher in the third grade at Canyon View Elementary. I have enjoyed running into you over the years and because of you and many other great teachers who influenced me, I became a teacher myself. I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. My heart aches for you and I can't imagine your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you as are those of the rest of the Thomas family.
Adrian (Thomas) Gatherum (Kent and Kim Thomas' daughter)

Marsha & Jim Gale

December 18, 2008

Dear Alyce, Dennis and Emily,
Our families have shared some treasured moments over the years. I am especially glad to have been Heather's Girl Scout leader for many years. The many campfires and stories, the trips and the lifelong friendships will always be special to us. Our families also shared the love of skiing and Snowbird. We will miss her infectious laugh and great attitude. We love you all.

Nicole (Parkin) Coppin

December 18, 2008

Dennis, Alyce and Emily,
I wanted to send you both my, and my family's, condolences for your family. Heather was one-in-a-million! Wonderful, funny & sweet thoughts of her are engraven in my memory. I am grateful for the memories I have of her from both Girl Scouts and school...she sure could make me smile, she still does. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and her, as you begin this new journey.

John and Peggy Stanchfield

December 18, 2008

I did not know Heather but on reading about her she was a wonderful young woman who packed a whole lot of experience into an all too short life. The parallels to our son Joe are too numerous to ignore. We share your heartache and understand your grief. Our prayers are with you.

Adam Cline

December 18, 2008

The slopes will miss you, Heather, as will I.

Kathie Hawkins

December 18, 2008

My parents were neighbors of yours on Coventry Lane (the Gierloffs), and spoke fondly of your family. If they were here today, I am positive they would wish to send you love and comfort during this most difficult time. Heather is now with them and Him in our lords kingdom....much comforting thoughts coming your way knowing Heather is spending Christmas with her saviour Jesus Christ this year....God Bless your family!!

Kathie Gierloff Hawkins
Posthumously for
George and Patricia Gierloff
Coventry Lane neighbors

Kyla Paul

December 18, 2008

Heather I miss you so much. I am so sorry I had not kept in touch better. you will be forever missed

Sulinda Moore

December 18, 2008

Dear Family,
Alyce and Dennis, you have raised your daughters to live life to the fullest, which has been exemplified by Heather. She has accomplished so many things that only some of us dream of doing. Take comfort in knowing where she is and the legacy she has left.
Our prayers are with you.
Sulinda Moore and Family

Carol Reed

December 18, 2008

My condolences to the Dennis Gross family. It has been my pleasure to work with Dennis in relations to his business. Dennis is very well thought of and respected in the insurance business. May you find comfort from your friends and family that grieve along with you. I would also like to mention that the obituary for Heather was very inspirational and I would believe brings comfort to everyone who reads it.

Randy

December 18, 2008

Denny, Alyce & Emily,

My prayers are with you in this very difficult time. I don’t need to tell you how wonderful Heather was to so many, and how she touched our lives in such a special way. I am grateful that I had the opportunity to know her, and the pleasure to have spent time with her. These things bring memories that I will retrieve from time to time and take comfort in that I was better off for having a part of her in my life.

She is going to be deeply missed and fondly remembered.

Randy

Heather on our Girl Scout trip to Moab, Utah

December 18, 2008

Kathy Anderson

December 18, 2008

I had the opportunity of teaching Heather in my ninth grade Honors English and Honors Geography classes. She was a great addition to our class and left a footprint on my life. She was a humanitarian for her fellow classmates; she cared deeply about others. She made positive contributions both academically and socially. My prayers are with her family. She will be missed.

Bree DeGraw

December 18, 2008

My sincerest condolences to Dennis, Alyce and Emily. I am so thankful to have known Heather. From Girl Scouts all the way through the last time we hung out, our friendship meant the world to me. I remember her smile, her laugh, her dance moves, her spirit and her passion for life. I always looked up to her and I always will. I miss her deeply and extend my love to her family.

With love,

Michelle Jensen

December 18, 2008

Heather was an amazing, and inspirational friend. Heather could always make me laugh, and she always challenged me to think. She knew how to live, and impacted everyone she met.

My life will always be better because of all the times I spent with her. She will live on in my heart for the rest of my life. She was living proof that you could make your life what you wanted to make it. She lived honestly, and fully.

My heart goes out to the family, I wish you the best and guarantee you that your daughter is going to live on in the lives she touched.

Danielle Gardner Villagomez

December 18, 2008

Dennis, Alice & Em,

Heather has such an amazing spirit and I know that she has brought so much happiness to many people. I look back and laugh at all the good times we had together. I wish I could turn back the hands of time to enjoy those childhood moments again. I fondly remember the Friday night sleepovers in the basement and dancing to Genisis in the living room. So many good times. Heather always amazed me with all that she was able to accomplish and still have fun all along the way. My thoughts and prayers are with you three during this time. I love you all! Heather will be dearly missed.

TR Brooks

December 18, 2008

I met Heather at Redfish Lake in the summer of 2000. We were instant friends. I will miss her. Godspeed Heather.

Brandie Stewart

December 18, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Heather was a beautiful woman. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lyn Karnes

December 18, 2008

Emily and Family

My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time. Take care of each other.

Lisa Martin

December 18, 2008

I was shocked and saddened when I realized that the girl who passed away while skiing was Heather from my very first 3rd grade class at Cottonwood Heights. I have wonderful memories of Heather. She was always smiling, always doing her best. She brought a lot of joy to our class. In the coming weeks I will get you copies of all of the pictures I took of her in third grade and copies of 3 sweet notes I have in my books that she gave me. She kept on being an amazing girl, as I have learned from reading about her life. What a wonderful tribute you have written to her and what a privilege it was for me to be her teacher. May you, Dennis, Alyce and Emily, find peace and comfort now and in the days to come.
With love,
Lisa Urry Martin

Richard & Marti Weber

December 18, 2008

Alyce & Dennis,

We want you to know how sorry we are. I can't imagine how devastated you must be. May God give you the comfort you need and know he has his loving arms around Heather.

Jere & Jan Krakow

December 18, 2008

To the Gross Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. May you find peace in our saviour Jesus Christ and in the rich memories of Heather's life.

Jeanine Mulhair

December 18, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with Heather's family. Bill & I lost our daughter eariler this year. We really do understand the sorrow of losing a child. May God bless you.
Bill & Jeanine Mulhair
Code Fabrication

December 18, 2008

I don't know your daughter, but may she rest in peace.

patty gierloff

December 18, 2008

Dennis, Alyce & Emily,
You have all been in my thoughts since I learned of the tragic events of Sunday. I remember both girls as such sweet bundles of energy. The more I hear of Heather, I see that I was unfortunate not to have known her as an adult. You did a terrific job raising such inspirational young women. May you find peace in this hard time & find the light of Christmas a healing blessing.
Patty Gierloff
Coventry Lane neighbor

Kathy Larson

December 18, 2008

I had the great pleasure of being a teacher of Heather's. And although I haven't seen her in maybe ten years or so, I still remember her fondly. She was determined, smart, funny, charming, and one of the nicest people I have ever known. I was very proud to have her as a student, and very proud to see the woman she became.

I believe people are measured by the positive, lasting, meaningful impact they have on those around them. By that measure, Heather was one of the best.

I would like to express my profound sympathy to Heather's parents, Alyce and Dennis, her sister Emily, and to her many friends around the world. I am so, so sorry for your loss.

Thank you, Heather. I'll always remember your smile, and that funny little growl you did when you couldn't get something juuuuust right. Whenever I play Bach, I'll think of you. Rest in peace.

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