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Burke McConkie
November 13, 2010
Steve, I am so sorry to read about your loss. I knew you when you were the Stake Athletic Director when I attended the Yorba Linda 4th Ward, back in 1987-1988. My son's name is also Connor McConkie. Great minds think alike :) I would love to hear from you. I tried to contact you a while ago to share some info on George Wilson McConkie, but was unsuccessful. We live in Gilroy, CA now. Hope you are doing well. Please drop me a line. Your friend, Burke McConkie ([email protected])
David Wakefield
May 14, 2006
To the McConkie family,
I just heard today of the passing of Stephen. I express my deepest sympathy for the entire family and the many people accross the world who have been touched by his great gentle example. I graduated from high school and entered the M.T.C. right after high school with Stephen. We were probably the only 2 or 3 Elders in High School! His picture (seen in almost every chapel around the world) constantly reminded me what a great person he was. I am grateful to know him and know that he will continue to do great things on the other side of the veil. God bless his young wife and son. If you need anything don't hesitate to email me.
Marche (Morrell) Altom
May 13, 2006
Dear Stephen,
I was so grieved to read about your son. What a tragic loss for you, Shauna, your family and his sweet wife and son. My mother, Lois Morrell, sent me the notice. I am so sorry.
Julie Searle
May 11, 2006
Dear Andrea, Connor, and McConkies,
My heart goes out to all of you in your loss. What a great missionary he was whilst he served in Adelaide, Australia. A very caring and giving person. I was blessed to have known him. Thank you.
Rob Weiler
May 8, 2006
Andrea, Connor, and the McConkies,
I wanted to add my condolences and express appreciation for Steve's shining example of our Savior. I remember telling Steve in high school his middle name should have been "Wow" because everything he did left me in awe. Steve was a gracious friend who always found the best in every person and every situation. I know he is still spending his life in service to his Master.
Suzanna Banister
May 8, 2006
Andrea,
I am sorry to hear about your loss. You were both such good examples to me through LDSSA. Steve was a great leader and he has left a great legacy with you and Conner. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. Love, Suzanna Banister
Cheryl Doerfler Lake
May 1, 2006
Dear Andrea,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It was so wonderful to have you as part of my Olympic team, and I rejoiced to hear of your marriage of the birth of your son. God be with you and Connor until you can be with your husband again.
Terry, Teresa and Torren Isaako
April 29, 2006
My heart and prayers go out to you Andrea, Connor and the whole family. I am very greatful that I had the opportunity to have served with the great Elder McConkie (my trainer). As a trainer he set the standard in all facets of missionary service and conduct, and he set a benchmark for me which helped me to fulfill all that I could have done in the field. I know that he is still going strong on the other side. May you all be comforted through this time.
All our love,
Marilyn Tiller Call
April 28, 2006
Dear Ence Family and Andrea,
My heart breaks for you as I heard about your husband's Death at such a young age. I did a lot of reading of church books while Ashley was in the hospital and I was really struck by the words of one of our prophets that sometimes the Lord needs to take the best of his spirits though they are young for his needs in the spirit world. After reading about Steve, knowing my Ashley's incredible spirit and remembering Paul Tingy...I feel there must be a special gathering up of the best. I'm sure you understand this too but knowing this doesn't always help with the deep hurt of being physically separated from ones we love so much. May your families be especially blessed to get through this difficult time. Let's go out to lunch sometime... I'd love to hear more about Steves Life.
Anne Clawson
April 28, 2006
Andrea, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Edie Morgan
April 28, 2006
I am sorry for his passing and sorry that I just heard. I would of loved to attended the events. He will always be remembered! The McConkie family hung out with me at the temple on Main street while "the Groom" was going to get the car on my wedding day. I will always remember him. He is on to a greater work but will be greatly missed! He was a great student for me at Brighton Seminary.
Ryan Moffitt
April 27, 2006
I'm very grateful for Stephen and his kind example. The world is a little darker place without his smile and sense of humor. We will miss him dearly.
Amanda Denkers
April 26, 2006
My dearest Andrea,
I am so priveleged to know you and Stephen. Every memory I have of council always had the two of you standing beside one another. Today he was not standing by you physically, but I could feel his spirit still standing beside you as you greeted everyone so graciously. I have so many wonderful memories of early morning meetings and the laughter and reverence you two could bring to that table. I feel honored to have had Stephen touch my life the way he has and the blessing to know you still. I love you.
Tom & Kadie Nielsen
April 26, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. Steve was a great man, and we are better to have known him. We knew him for only a short time, but are so thankful for him. All our love...
Jake Deines
April 26, 2006
Our dear friend and leader. What a terrible terrible loss. I am heartsick. Andrea, you and your son will be in my prayers. I send my love.
Jonathan Spencer
April 26, 2006
Steve was a tremendous positive influence in my life. I still appreciately deeply his kindness and service. His friendship is still wonderfully significant to me. I tremble to think of his passing, but, as all others who know him, I feel only love in thinking of him.
Emily (Monson) Loveland
April 26, 2006
Andrea,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Stephen sounds so amazing and I know he will live on through you and your son. I pray that you will have continued peace and comfort.
Erin (Buchi) Thomas
April 26, 2006
It's very difficult to express the sorrow felt at the loss of such an incredible person. All I can say is how grateful I am for the blessing of having Steve as a friend. And what an wonderful blessing it is to have the knowledge and comfort of the Gospel.The service was beautiful and full of such love. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Timothy Gooch
April 26, 2006
My condolances to the McConkie Family. The legacy of loved ones like Steve who have gone before us, remains as an example and benchmark of what we hope to become, so that when the day comes that we are called home, we will be equally prepared and have someone there to recieve us with open arms. May they find a cure.
Robert & Ruth Nelson
April 26, 2006
Our wonderful son-in-law Brad Chambers and Melanie loved Steve and his family so much. Our faith and prayers are with you and your precious little boy. With sympathy, Elder y Hermana Nelson, Chile Concepcion Mission
Gaye Lane Davis & family
April 26, 2006
Stephen, like Samuel, "grew on and was in favour both with the Lord and also with men." He has left too soon--from our perspective. And for the One who has "measured the waters in the hollow of His hand," it is a welcome day. The thoughts and prayers of many are with you all today.
Ann Boyden
April 25, 2006
Stephen and Shauna and family -- As I look at the picture of this gorgeous young man, I am struck by his wonderful smile. It is just like yours, Stephen, especially at young Stephen's age. Though our lives have gone separate ways since childhood and high school days, I still love you deeply and are so grateful for the friendship we have always been able to share as cousins. My heart breaks with you at this far-too-early separation, but rejoices at the Eternal promise that we both know we have. God bless you all.
Love Paul and Ann (McConkie) Boyden
Amanda (Adamson) Lloyd
April 25, 2006
I knew Steve from High School and mutual friends and from serving on one of the Seminary Council Committees when he was on seminary council. He was gentle and kind and the nicest person I have ever known. His wife Andrea and their beautiful baby boy are so lucky to be an eternal family. I feel deeply in my heart that Steve will watch over his family during their time on this earth and they will always know and feel his love and protection.
Dave Howe
April 25, 2006
Steve and my son were companions in the Adelaide Mission. Steve was in our home several times when they returned from Australia. I was always impressed with him as a wonderful example of what a Latter-day Saint young man should be. Steve was a great influence on my son and will be greatly missed by many. I believe he is working with his grandfather today, preparing the eternities for all of us.
William R. (Bill) Bush
April 25, 2006
Shauna and family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Such an early departure for your dear son! How thankful we are for eternal ties that bind.
Bill (son of Sterling and LaReta)
Jared Swain
April 25, 2006
As one who has taught many members of Stephen McConkies family at Brighton, and currently teach Sam at Butler, I wish to extend my heartfelt condolences to the family at this trying time. May the Lord Bless you all!!
Ronda Zeeman
April 25, 2006
I am so sad to lose such a great Cousin. I will always remember Stephen as that very good man.I pray for the family to find confort in this time we lose a wonderful man. You were stong and faithful even in your last days. we love you, and miss you Stephen.
Rebecca Pinegar
April 25, 2006
Andrea and family, and Stephen and Shauna and family: Thank you so much for the example of your lives. Stephen is a remarkable young man, from remarkable parents who married a remarkable young woman. We grieve for this separation. We honor you and are honored by our association. May the Lord continue to bless you. We love you. Uncle Mike and Aunt Rebecca
Christian Hansen
April 25, 2006
As I read through the things said by others, I felt like I had to add my voice to the chorus of praise for Stephen, and heart felt sorrow for his family that will no doubt miss him. Stephen was one of the greats, and he will be missed. To lose one that has influenced so many for good is a great loss to the world. My sincere condolences and prayers are with you.
Erica (Jones) High
April 24, 2006
Andrea,
As I read about Stephen's life, I am literally awed by what an incredible person he is. I can truly feel that he led a fulfilling and influential life here. Andrea, you truly have an amazing eternal companion. I wanted to offer my heartfelt sympathy and pray that you will be filled with peace.
(a fellow Skyline classmate)
Stacie (Rose) Pratt
April 24, 2006
Stephen was an amazing individual. He was a kind and thoughtful friend. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends during this difficult time. There is no doubt in my mind that Stephen is with our Eternal Father. It was an honor to know him.
Marci Vlam Draper
April 24, 2006
My sincere condolences to the McConkie and Ence family. I know our Father in Heaven loves us and that His plan is for us to be together forever. This is the greatest comfort for me to share with you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Your kind spirit will be missed.
Nikole Carlson Scheaffer
April 24, 2006
I am so sorry to hear of Steve's passing. Steve was truly one of the kindest people I have ever known. My prayers and thoughts are with Steve's wife and family.
Tyson Harper
April 24, 2006
I am truly saddened by the loss of such a great person. Stephen was always so encouraging and lightened my life as well as the lives of many others. I will miss you. I wish to express my condolences to his family.
Larry and Amaryllis Tippetts
April 24, 2006
Andrea and the McConkie and Ence families: I was deeply saddened to hear of Steve's passing. May our Father's blessings of comfort and peace be with you. Thank you for the wonderful memories from the Institute.
Vicki Allred
April 24, 2006
Dear Steve and Shauna - we were absolutely heart broken to read of your son's passing. We want you to know that you are in our prayers as well as his wife and child. Mark and Nan also send you their love and have you in their prayers as well. We send to you our love - God bless you all - Vicki and Allen Allred (Manhattan Beach Ward)
Kelly (Egan) Mear
April 24, 2006
I want to add my condolences to all those sent to Andrea and the rest of Steve's family. It's been years since I had talked to Steve and was only barely aware of his illness. Finding out about his death was a shock to me. But, as has been said, Steve was a wonderful person, always doing right and looking out for others. He will be blessed for his goodness and righteousness. What a wonderful thing eternal marriage is- knowing that families are forever! Steve was a good friend and has left a great legacy. His life was short, but had a lasting impact.
CaroLyn Johnson
April 24, 2006
Andrea and Ence Family,
I am so sorry about the passing of Stephan. Through Michelle I have gotten to know your family and have cried and laughed. Andrea, may you find strength in your family and friends and may your faith sustain you.
CaroLyn and Gary Johnson
Dallas Cluff
April 24, 2006
I feel great sorrow at the passing of Stephen. He was a good and true man, who always had a kind word and time to share for all around him. He was an exemplary missionary. I looked up to him and admired him. My thoughts are with his wife and family. May they feel comforted at this time in some way.
Dallas Cluff
Merika Stout
April 24, 2006
Stephen, your ever present smile and your always willing hands have endeared you to all that you met in your short life. Your strengh and endurance has truely shown us "hope through faith."
I love you and wait for the day that we will see one another again.
Stacey ( Morgan ) Day
April 24, 2006
Andrea, My heart goes out to you and the many others surrounding you at this time.I don't know what to say except I know the pain you have right now. I just lost my brother and hero Chad. There is no saying what life can bring. The only thing that I can tell you from my loss is that the memories will carry on forever until you two meet again. Chad had a son Josh and I will make sure that he knows everything there is to know about Chad. Please do the same for your son, as Stephen will depend on you all to do that for him. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Stacey
Katherine & Lance Wallin
April 24, 2006
Andrea,
may the sun bring you new energy by day
may the moon softly restore you by night
may the rain wash away your sadness
may the breeze blow new strength into your being
may you walk gently through the world and know its beauty all the days of your life
We love you so much. You and your family are in our prayers. We are thankful for your friendship and to know such incredible people.
Take care.
Much love,
Launa Stout
April 24, 2006
Steve and Shauna:
Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. May you be comforted with the knowledge of the plan of salvation and eternal families. Love Kirt and Launa and family
Launa Stout
April 24, 2006
Andrea and Connor:
We loved Stephen and will miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with your and the entire McConkie family.The memories of Stephen will live on forever. Hope through faith.
love Aunt Launa
Jessica R.
April 24, 2006
Annalisa, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your brother. I just noticed his obituary in the newspaper today, and recognized the last name and saw that it was your brother. My aunt passed away suddenly this month also, so I can understand some of the grieving that you must be going through. It was so fun to work with you at greg and the JSMB and I am always here as a friend if you need anything. Just know that he is in a better place, where he is no longer suffering, and that you will see him again someday.
Erana Tangiora
April 24, 2006
Today (25th April) New Zealand and Australia commemorate the bravery and sacrafice of our men who fought in the first World War.
I am honored to have served alongside Elder McKonkie in the great battle for the souls of men as one of the Lords soldiers in the Adelaide Mission.
I have been touched by the words expressed to him and to learn what a remarkable young man he is. What a great legacy he has left.
I know that the great Plan of Happiness is true and it brings peace into my life. My deepest sympathy goes to Andrea and Connor.
From your Sister in the Gospel.
PAUL AND KRISTINE PHILIPS
April 24, 2006
ANDREA, RICHARD AND MARLA,
MY HEART BREAKS FOR YOUR LOSS AT THIS TIME. WE SEND OUR LOVE AND SUPPORT TO YOUR DEAR FAMILY.
April 24, 2006
Andrea - we were so sorry to hear about Stephen. We hope that the strength that has carried you this far will continue to be with you and Conner.
Your Friends at HCI HR
Shannon Anderson
April 24, 2006
Dear McConkie and Ence Family,
We are so saddened by Steve's passing away. He was one of the most genuine people I have ever known. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, as they have been for the past several months. He was such an amazing example to everyone who knew him; I am lucky to have known him as well.
With sympathy,
Shannon, Tyler & Isabelle Anderson
Elisa Alba Best
April 24, 2006
Andrea, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this trying time. I hope you and you family will be surronded by peace and love.
Ryan and Hillaree Wright
April 24, 2006
With the depths of our soul we express our love and gratitude for Steve and Andrea. Although we have only known them for a short time our lives will never be the same because of them. Our inexpressible sorrow is sent to Andrea and Connor. We look forward to seeing Steve again soon!
Theresa Werner
April 24, 2006
My deepest sympathies to Steve's family at their loss. It was a great pleasure getting to know Steve and Andrea and to have had the opportunity to care for Steve.
Cindi (Vlam) Green
April 24, 2006
I am honored and blessed to have known such a strong and grounded person like Stephen. I want to express my love and heart-felt sympathy to Stephen’s family. The best knowledge we have is knowing that we can be with our loved ones again.
Jacey Egbert Faulkner
April 24, 2006
I send my feelings of warmth to the McConkie and Ence family. Stephen is a celebrated individual, and one who will truly be missed; though I knew him briefly, his example was so poignant and his sincere kindness and humility so moving.
Jamie Hillman
April 24, 2006
I had the pleasure of serving around Elder McConkie in Australia. He was a born leader; someone that you trusted to lead you in the right direction. It was unfortunate to hear of his struggle with cancer and about his passing. I know he is in a better place. However, I empathize with his wife and son, because I too have a small family and I can only imagine how difficult it would be. My prayers are with you. God bless.
Tim Garner
April 24, 2006
McConkie and Ence Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. What can I say that isn't already known by hundreds, if not thousands, of people? I feel as though any sadness I can express would be insignificant compared to what you, his closest family and friends, might be experiencing. Steve was, and remains today, a great man in every sense of the expression. My friendship with him began in Australia while in the service of our Lord and I take great comfort in knowing that friendship remains in tact and that I can one day embrace my friend again. I am a better person because of that friendship. In all my dealings with and observations of Steve, he never failed to treat those he came in contact with as anything less than what he knew them to be, sons and daughters of God. He has had a positive influence on my life and he will be missed.
With love and sympathy,
Tim, Kimberly, & Jackson Garner
Kelly Sperry Stoddard
April 24, 2006
I am so sad to hear about Steve's passing. He was a good man and a kind person and I am grateful to have been his friend. My prayers will be with his wife, son, and family.
Julie (Smith) Morton
April 24, 2006
I had the pleasure of knowing Andrea from working with her at the U of U in the Human Resources dept. I also had the honor of knowing Annalisa from LDS sorority at the U of U. I just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you and you are in our prayers!
Tionna (Norman) Roberts
April 24, 2006
I am grateful for the opportunity to have known Elder McConkie. I was a new missionary coming into the field where he had just been called to be an assistant. He was looked up to by many and many went to him for gospel knowledge because they knew he would have the answer. He was always very kind and giving of himself. I know he will be such a blessing to the people in the spirit world.
John Stout
April 24, 2006
Stephen,
Growing up together I feel you have always been my favorite cousin. I remember things we have done together including hiking Mt. San Jacinto, and the many summers together in Redondo Beach and Placentia.
I will miss you very much and look forward to seeing you again.
I love you.
Shaunika Dearman
April 24, 2006
Andrea, I'm so sorry for your loss. Stephen was a hero among men. When we were kids and as the years passed, Stephen was one of my heroes. I think he was to all of his cousins. We will always have "HOPE THROUGH FAITH". (Alma 25:16) Much love!
Lou Anne Mallory
April 24, 2006
I never met Stephen, but felt I knew him via his loving Aunt Vivian and Uncle Carlos Adams. My prayers go out to Stephen's sweet wife and son, and to his loving, caring family. You all made his time here a joy forever.
Angelina Harder
April 24, 2006
Dear Andrea and Cornor,
I can still see Steve sitting in my living room helping to deal with my problems with my dear husband and the loss of our son only a short time ago.
I cannot tell you how much I looked forward to his visits and his kind words.
I know in my heart he was needed by our Heavenly Father and that he was a great spirit and his work was finished as hard as it is to accept by all of us.
We miss you Andrea and love you and and your son.
Christine & Jessica Erin Boone
April 24, 2006
Our heartfelt sympathy, love and prayers go out to the McConkie and Ence families. God be with you.
Kari Zeeman
April 23, 2006
I feel so honored to have known Stephen and am so happy I got to be his aunt . What a fine example of love and devotion and obedience. I will treasure this young man and the life and example he was.
Matt and Barbie Curtis
April 23, 2006
We are deeply grateful for Steve's wonderful example and friendship. He continues to inspire us with his humble, faithful life and genuine discipleship. Our heartfelt sympathies to his family and everyone else who has been blessed by his love.
Kenny and Breanna Tagge
April 23, 2006
McConkie and Ence Family,
We are so saddened by your loss. We love the Ence family and our thoughts and prayers are with both families at this time. We are grateful for your example over the many years and for your strong testimony in the Gospel. We love you guys!
Layne & Esther Shipley
April 23, 2006
Our hearts are broken over the loss of Steven. The McConkie and Ence familys are in our constant thoughts and every prayer. May the Lord's spirit carry you through this difficult time.
David Kimsey
April 23, 2006
I express my deepest condolences to Andrea and Stephen Connor. I was saddened to hear about Steve's passing. As you can tell Steve's influence is far reaching, getting to me on the other side of the country as his condition progressed.
I have many good memories of Steve, from high school dances, to his farewell and homecoming, to sitting around at his parents house talking about life and listening to him gush about his new girlfriend whom he hoped to marry, which he did.
Steve was a good friend. He had a great hope and loved life. I will miss him greatly and express my condolences once again to Andrea, Stephen Connor, and Steve's family. You are in my heart and prayers.
Justin & Courtney Bagley
April 23, 2006
We deeply regret the passing of Steve. He was our friend, our neighbor, and an example of goodness. We wish that we could be in SLC to visit with the McConkies and say good-bye to our friend. We have no doubt that Steve will be in the greatest of company in heaven, among the noblest of saints.
Rob and Tamara Robinson
April 23, 2006
We are sorry for the loss of such a great man. We send our love and pray that the spirit of peace and love surround your family.
Peter and Robin Solman
April 23, 2006
We have often been inspired and touched by the deep expressions of love and admiration for Stephen by those who knew him best. It is evident that in his short 27 years he contributed much and blessed many lives.
Our heartfelt sympathy, love and prayers continue to go out to the McConkie Family.
Preston Rasmussen
April 23, 2006
I had the honor of serving around Elder McConkie in the mission field and wanted to express my heart-felt sympthoy to his family. Elder McConkie was a great Missionary and I consider myself lucky to have known him. May God be with you in your time of need.
Christopher Midgley
April 23, 2006
It was my pleasure to know a man like Steve McConkie, Jr. I have no question in my mind, heart or soul that this great man now sits with our Father in Heaven. Our Father who has poured more love, compassion, sincerity, charity and friendship into this young man than anyone else whom I have ever had the privilege of knowing.
He was always kind. He was always considerate. I wish I could count the times that I had looked at Steve and truly wished I had possessed half of the wonderful qualities that he had. He had a sense of humor that was second to none. He was honest, loving and the most tender individual that I have ever met.
I cannot help but feel saddened by our loss. While I know that our Father must have other important things in store for Steve on the other side, I am saddened by the loss that this world has suffered. We have lost a brave, honest man. A loving husband and father…
And I have lost my friend.
Stephen, I will miss you. You may never know the degree to which you have influenced my life. Your loss is devastating. It took my breath and broke my heart. It made me weep and stung bitterly me to my core. I cannot find any comfort. For you, my friend, are worth nothing less than the sorrow I feel for not having you here. The only prayer of my heart can be this: Until later, my friend.
Faithfully Yours,
Matt & Angie Dugdale
April 23, 2006
Steve will always be in our hearts. As a giant among men, he seemed to perfectly personify humility and meekness. We will always be grateful for his kind greetings, his warm smile, and his sincere friendship. Our experiences with Steve will always be cherished.
Tiffany Hunter Greene
April 23, 2006
I send my deepest condolences and much love to all of Steve's family, and especially to Andrea. Steve was truly a great man, I feel honored to have known him and called him my friend.
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