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John Karr Obituary


John Ross Karr died Wednesday morning at the age of 84. He was a beloved husband and father, a lifelong defender of civil liberties, and a 57-year resident of El Paso. He was born in Lyon County, Kansas, on June 18, 1923, the son of Chesley Green Karr and Gertrude McCrea Karr, and grew up on their productive and picturesque Midwest farm. He attended Emporia State University, where he met Joyce Van Gundy, a fellow Kansan and his future wife. He then enrolled at the United States Military Academy at West Point, where he trained as a pilot and was commissioned as a first lieutenant upon graduation in 1945. After WWII he flew P-47s in Europe. One week after graduating from West Point, he and Joyce were married. Their song was Hoagy Carmichael's "Stardust." In 1950, searching for a warm, dry place to live, John and Joyce set out for Albuquerque. Passing through El Paso just after a summer cloudburst, they were taken with the city's fragrant, fresh-washed feel. Though they quickly learned about El Paso's more typical climate, they never left. That same year John began work as an insurance adjuster, but-as he liked to say-"I wasn't good at having a boss." Thus he started the John Karr Insurance Agency, which he ran for forty years. He also founded MPA, Inc., a company that leased banking equipment. John was amazingly opinionated about politics. Congenitally Democratic, he was a loyal supporter of social reform. For many years he was the heart of El Paso's chapter of the American Civil Liberties Union, writing fiery letters to the editor and frequently setting straight many a less open-minded thinker. Nonetheless, in the '70s he ran as a Republican in an attempt to oust the incumbent, of whom he greatly disapproved. At age 82 he tried for a seat on the board of trustees of El Paso Community College, a race that ended in him achieving, as he put it, "fourth place out of three." He and Joyce also believed strongly in historical preservation, and renovated many fine homes in their long-time neighborhood, Sunset Heights. After he learned he had sprue-an allergy to wheat-Joyce researched and produced many tasty wheat-free meals, but John joked that he was lucky to be in El Paso, where he could subsist happily for days on chips and salsa. John is survived by his wife, Joyce Karr, and their children: Michael Karr and wife, Marie-Paule Bondat, of Brookline, Massachusetts; Stephanie Karr Dodson and husband, John Dodson, of El Paso; Chesley W. Karr and wife, Kari Ward Karr, of Albuquerque; and John Sedgwick and partner, Patrick Bear, of San Francisco. Also grieving his loss are five grandchildren--Andrew Karr of Sarasota, Florida; Abigail Karr of Boston; Zach Dodson of Chicago; Seth Dodson of Chicago; and Aaron Karr of Albuquerque-as well as a host of loved and loving friends. A memorial service will be held from 5:00 to 6:00 p.m. on Monday, March 17, at the El Paso High School auditorium, 800 E. Schuster Ave. Everyone is welcome. For those kind enough to think of sending flowers, please consider instead a donation to The Karr Family Fund, Visiting Nurse Association of El Paso, 4171 N. Mesa, Bldg. D, Suite 500, 79902. Goodbye, Gramp. Thank you for everything. We'll take care of Mim, and we'll miss you always. Services entrusted to Harding Orr and McDaniel Funeral Home, 320 Montana Avenue.
Published by El Paso Times from Mar. 15 to Mar. 19, 2008.

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Jon Sheridan

March 20, 2008

I want to offer my condolences to the Karr family. The world has lost a great man but I know he lives on in the wonderful things his children and grandchildren go on to do. I know first hand the wonders they can do. My father worked with Mrs. Karr and their daughter Stephanie was my speech therapist for several years. I can't convey the respect and admiration I have for this family. I have not spoken to the Karrs in many years but would love to hear from them, especially Stephanie. May your sorrow pass swiftly and leave only the precious memories of a life well lived.

James Michael Cheatham

March 18, 2008

I had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Karr years ago at a political function. I was impressed by both his intellect and wit, but also his diligent work preserving his beloved Sunset Heights and his genuine desire to assist those less fortunate.

Gentlemen like Mr. Karr are far and few between. El Paso will miss Mr. Karr more than we may ever know.

Joe Gomez

March 17, 2008

My condolences to Joyce and the rest of the Karr family. John was always a joy to go to lunch with. We could always find a subject to discuss. He will be missed by this community. Joe Gomez

Elizabeth (Cano)Acosta and Art Acosta

March 17, 2008

I was so sad to hear that John ("Mr. Karr") has passed on. He was my surogate father, my mentor, my boss and my friend. He was there for me when my parents died and when my three children were born and all of life's inbetweens. We will never forget you. Our deepest sympathy to Joyce, all his children and their family.

David Leibson

March 16, 2008

John and I met while I was a student at El Paso High School in 1965 and I lived across the street from him after high school. John Karr was a calm strong person who stood by me during a rough period in my life. I will never forget him.

Alexandra Hans

March 16, 2008

John was a rationally exuberant liberal.
We were honored to have known him.
Love,
Alexandra and Paul Hans
Newton, MA

March 15, 2008

A valued family friend is now missed.

John Karr:

A rare breed of a gentleman, who served his country in many admirable and responsible ways.

John was a sincere advocate for social fairness, human rights and responsible government and carried out those convictions on a daily basis.


From Bill and Joe, sons of Charles P. Motsch

Marie Vass

March 15, 2008

Our family thought we would never meet a person more liberal than our father, Ernest Vass, but we were wrong. John was that person much to the delight of our father. Thank you for many hours of political debates with Dad, John! You will be greatly missed by the Vass family, but mostly by you lovely wife and family. You made life interesting and exciting for those who were associated with you in any capacity: work, politics, religion, social occassions, etc. Mother sends her regards to each of the Karr's.

Mike Casey

March 15, 2008

Mr. Karr,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served in the U.S. Army Air Forces as a P-47 Thunderbolt fighter pilot. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Anne Dingus

March 14, 2008

I was lucky to know John Karr for 30 years. He and Joyce were always welcoming to me--I felt like an honorary member of their family. John made me think and made me laugh, usually at the same time. So many people will miss him. Much love and sympathy to you, Joyce, and to the extended Karr and Dodson clans.

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