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Sandra Couture Obituary

Sandra A. Couture Leominster, active in theater community; 61 LEOMINSTER Sandra A. Couture, 61, of Leominster, died Wednesday, October 8th, at the Leominster Health Alliance Hospital, after a brief illness. Her three children survive her: Christopher Couture and his wife, Debbie of Fitchburg, Candace (Candee) Graves and her husband, John of Templeton, and Nicole Couture of Leominster with whom she lived. She leaves her brother, Raymond Brosseau with whom she also lived; and her sister, Linda Marrone and her husband, Ralph, of Fitchburg; along with two dear grandchildren, Justice and Hunter Graves. Her beloved husband, John Couture passed away in 1989. Sandie also leaves behind many nieces and nephews. Sandie was born on January 2, 1947, daughter of the late Raymond J. and Sundina V. (Salvi) Brosseau. She was a lifelong resident of Leominster. To say that Sandie was "involved" in theater is an understatement. She gave local audiences countless years of memorable performances on many stages throughout the area. Her career began as a nightclub singer with Sounds Unlimited in 1961. In 1976, she hit the stage in her first theatrical role. Over the next 30 plus years, her talent and creative spirit, whether on stage or off, played a vital part of countless productions. Sandie was a member of New Players Theatre Guild where she created "Showstoppers", a traveling group of vocalists who brightened numerous events and gatherings with their talent. For many years, Sandie was also an intricate part of the Saint Joseph's PTA shows, and was the director of their choir. For over 10 years, she was the drama teacher at Julie Country Day School in Leominster, and most recently was the drama director at Oakmont High School and Toy Town Elementary School in Winchendon. She delighted in sharing her talent and passion for theater with children and teens. At Theatre at the Mount in Gardner, Sandie wore numerous hats during her 20 plus years of dedication. Mount audiences know her most notably for her portrayal of Mother Superior in the Nunsense series, a role she was currently playing for the 5th time in "Nunsensations". Her roles behind the scenes included director, choreographer, music director, costume and set painter to name a few. Her artistic vision and enthusiasm for bringing a show from book to stage was contagious and admired by all. Nothing was more important to Sandie than her family, and most recently her precious grandsons who were her pride and joy. She delighted in each and every moment that she spent with them. All will miss Sandie's talent, generosity, selfless spirit, and passion for life. COUTURE Calling hours will be on Sunday, October 12, 2 to 6 p.m. at the Brandon Funeral Home, 305 Wanoosnoc Rd., Fitchburg. A funeral service will be held Monday, October 13, at 10 a.m. at St. Joseph Church, 46 Woodland St., Fitchburg. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Sandie Couture Scholarship Fund, c/o Digital Credit Union, 1123 Central St., Leominster, MA 01453.

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Published by Sentinel & Enterprise from Oct. 10 to Oct. 11, 2008.

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Catherine Ayles

October 9, 2010

I can just imagine how great the Angels' Choir sound now that they have you there to join them... The most beautiful Angelic voice I have ever heard... Lots of love
Catherine (Normandin) Ayles

Nicole Couture

October 8, 2010

2 years ago today, I lost you. It still hurts to even utter those words. You were the light in my life, my role-model, my best friend. I miss everything about you. But most of all, I miss your voice. I miss the caring eyes that looked at me with unconditional love. You are my guardian angel now. Watch over me and guide me down the right paths. I love you and miss you every second of every day. This world is not the same without you. But I know that the sky is brighter now that your star is there. Rest In Peace Mom.

Candee Graves

October 10, 2009

On Sunday 10/11/09 there are Mass at St. Josephs Church Fichburg at 11:00Am also at St. Anna in Leominster at 11:30 AM and Holy Cross Church Templeton at 10:45AM.
For our Mom! Thank you for all your Prays!

Kelly Varnum

October 8, 2009

Well it's been a long difficult year without you but we've all managed to survive. Words cannot describe how much I've missed you or how much I've needed to hear your intoxicating laugh or words of wisdom. It would be selfish of me to say that I wish you were still here so I will just say that I am happy that you are finally with U.John, Grammy and Grampy again.

Caitlyn and I love and miss you very much Auntie and hope to see you in our dreams soon.

Nicole Couture

October 8, 2009

Mom...I cannot believe that is has been 1 year already!! It's been a long, rough road...but with all of our family and friends' support, I can sit here today and truly be thankful for the loving and caring world that you created for me! Not a day goes by where I don't long to hear your voice or yearn for the feel of your hand on my shoulder...but I know you (and Daddy) are always with me...to guide and protect me throughout the rest of my life. I miss you with every beat of my heart!! I love you Mom. Rest In Peace.


"A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts." ~Washington Irving

Catherine Ayles

June 19, 2009

I will never forget how awesome Sandie was and her angelic voice and friendly smile... I know for sure shes in heaven along with my Dad Ron Normandin...
RIP Sandie

Mom ,Nona we will miss you & you will always be in our hearts.

November 9, 2008

Candee Graves

November 9, 2008

We would like to Thank everyone for the wounderful words writen about our Mother and Nona.
Thank you so much.

Joan Syriopoulos

November 4, 2008

I will never forget Sandie Couture, she was my idol, a talented and passionate woman who managed to do it all: raise a family, stay close to God, and spread her talent and that of countless others to the world. When Sandie performed on stage, she commanded your attention and enraptured your heart, she was the ultimate performer. It didn't stop there, she taught so many others the joys of entertaining and giving of their God given gifts. My first encounter with Sandie was when, at the encouragement of a friend, I auditioned for a St. Joe's Variety Show. I was a newcomer and had previously been too busy raising four children to join a singing show, and Sandie knew most of the cast except me, but I waited until late after audition to try out for a Gospel solo, and was thrilled the following week to find that she awarded it to me. That was the beginning of a long liaison with my idol. It was a liaison I will never forget and always cherish. She has left a deep void which cannot be replaced, but the seeds she has sown will grow and regenerate. What a tremendous legacy!!! To say she fully utilized the gifts God gave her would be a huge understatement. It is impossible for me to say good-bye, her picture is on my wall at work and she continues to give me courage to perform, her memory is everlasting, she is not gone for me. I convey my compassion to her family, especially my friend Nicole, and send my love and gratitude to them for sharing Sandie with all of us. And to Michelle I send my heartfelt sympathy at losing the deep friendship and camaraderie of soul-to-soul that can never be equaled.
Love, Joanie Syriopoulos

Joanne Damico

October 27, 2008

To the entire "Salvi" family....Nikki, Chris, Candee, Linda, Ray...
I was deeply saddened when by complete happenstance i saw what i thought was a typo in the local free paper just yesterday, the name Couture. Though i am not part of this family any longer, I still remember with a deep appreciation of "family" - the reunions held at Rosewood Manor on Lindell Ave. All of the Bocci tournaments, trampoline acts, swimming in the pool, lounging in the jacuzzi, and the best food ever served, and Sundina in the sunroom...like it was yesterday.
I am just so shocked, so sad for all of you. Please accept my apologies for not knowing and being part of her farewell.
I will never forget the memories of her hospitality, her generosity and her wonderful smile. I know she is with her mom and dad and John, but still, i know each and every one of you hurt, and i am so sorry for every one of your tears. I wish for you smiles to overshadow the tears, she is certainly an angel who has her wings. My deepest sympathy to everyone - everyone.
Love
Joanne

Deby (Tessier) Powell

October 20, 2008

Linda, Raymond & the Couture children,

It's been many, many years since I last saw any of you, but as I returned from a business trip, I was told by my mom that Sandie had passed away. I can't express my shock at receiving the news.

I just wanted to extend my condolences to all of you. I have heard over the years of a life well lived by Sandie. I can remember your mom, 'Aunt Sunny' baking Sandie's wedding cake in the kitchen on Crossman Ave....and John & Sandie bringing Candace home, and what proud parents they were....how I enjoyed being around your family.

I know this is so difficult for all of you, but may you take comfort in the knowledge that Sandie is with John now, and together they will watch over all of you.

My deepest sympathy!

Deby (Tessier) Powell

Nicole (Thibeau) Lubao

October 16, 2008

Dear Nicole, Candee, and Chris;

I heard the sad news of your Mom’s sudden and unexpected death this morning. Although it has been a few years since last I saw her, and even longer since I’ve spoken with her; my heart is truly saddened and mere words cannot even begin to express my sorrow at her passing.

Sandie was more than just a wonderful person; she was one hell of an extraordinary and talented woman!!! I met her just about 15 years ago when I did my first show, “Anything Goes” with Theatre at the Mount. She was always so generous with her time, she didn’t mind taking an extra few minutes to go over some really tough dance steps; and she was especially patient with non-dancers like me. Sandie was lively and animated and just down right funny. I always looked forward to being in a show with her, being directed by her, or watching her perform. She was simply “The Best”.

I know that Sandie’s passing will not only leave a void in your lives, but also a void in the hearts and minds of her students and those who worked with her and saw her perform at Theatre at the Mount and New Players Theatre Guild. Take comfort at the thought that she meant so much to so many people.

Sandie Couture will be truly missed and will always remain within our hearts. Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, I hope looking back through those memories help comfort you tomorrow. Hold tight to your memories of her, may they give you strength. And take comfort in knowing that your wonderful Mom is now watching over you. May God give you strength.

My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you.

Peace, prayers and blessings…

Kelsey (Cormier) Vander-Heyden

October 16, 2008

Nicole,

I was very saddened by the news. We have so many fond memories of the early DAC days. Your mom truely was the life of the party. I always saw her laughing. She will be missed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Susie Michaud

October 16, 2008

Dear Nicole and Family,

When we began rehearsals for Nunsensations in August, no one expected that this would be the final production with our dear "Rev".
Our Nunsense sisterhood began over 15 years ago and has continued over the years through five different Nunsense productions.
I feel privileged and honored to have had this final opportunity to work with Sandie.
"She's our Right Reverend Mother, there isn't any other"...
Such a one-of-a-kind talent; such a one-of-a-kind person. She was a commanding presence both on-stage and off-stage.
On opening night of Nunsensations I came backstage after the performance and presented a small gift to Sandie and the Sisters. It was a small figurine of a nun holding a Halo crown with the inscription, "Bravo, You're a living Saint, You deserve a Halo."
That message is now a poignant reminder of God's mysterious way.
I am sure that in the short time she has been "upstairs", Rev is now directing the heavenly choir, has added sequins to the halo crowns and is probably teaching them some choreography to spice up their act!
Bravo Rev and thank you for the life lessons you taught to all of us....you completed the task...you finished the dance...May you rest in Peace.

Elaine Miller/Archambeault

October 16, 2008

Dear Linda and Family

I just learned today (Thursday) of Sandy's passing. I am so sorry that I was not there to say goodbye. I hope that you were able to tell her that I was thinking of her when I met you in the restaurant. I always admired Sandy - she taught me so much during the days that I sang with her and your father. That was a part of my life that I will always treasure. Judging from all the letters in this guest book, her life was a life well lived. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Kristen Leger

October 15, 2008

Nic, I love you kiddo! I learned so much from you and mom that made my life richer! The year I lost my mom I was not going to do the PTA show and Sandi took me aside and asked me to do it for her. That she was in the past shows with my mom, Loretta, and she would want me to dance for her and I did. Right before the Saturday show Sandi gave me an award of Excellance for my stage presence and performance and she signed it. It still hangs on my wall today. I was so honored and still am. My heart hurts and the theater has lost a great star, but she will always be in the balcony.....her show has just begun!

Linda Cormier

October 15, 2008

Dear Nicole and Family, how shocked and saddened we were to hear of your mother's passing. She brought such joy and passion to the arts and lived her life with zest and gusto. We were a tight-knit "family" at DAC, and have many fond, wonderful memories of all our dance trips together. Doris (Mem) and I send our deepest sympathies as well as our thoughts and prayers.

Kenneth Basque

October 15, 2008

To Sandie's Family and her extended family as well. My thoughts are with you all in this time of sadness. Sandie was more than a teacher, more than a performer, more than a director.... Sandie was an inspiration to many people. My earliest memories of perfoming arts have to do with seeing Sandie on stage... I knew it was a direction I wanted to take as well. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.... Thank you for the music Sandie!

Meredith (Charron) Hurley

October 14, 2008

Nicole
I was so saddened to hear of your mother's untimely death. I was just thinking of you both a couple of weeks ago. You were both so important in my life during those DAC days and you were truly my second family. Her wonderful sense of humor and love for life will never be forgotten. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Carmela and David Dupuis

October 14, 2008

We are so saddened and shocked by this tragic event. Sandie was the life of the party at all the DAC recitals, trips, and fund-raising events. She supported all the dancers. We will always remember her for her generosity, kindness, spunk, and good humor. Nicole, our hearts go out to you and your family during this very difficult time.....

Jonathan Wright

October 14, 2008

Dear Nicole and the Couture family,

I remember the first time I met Sandie, it was at an audition for Guys & Dolls at JCD. I was brand new to the area and did not know a sole. I figured I would audition for the part of Nicely-Nicely (not having done theatre in 10 years). I overheard a few ladies in the back (Sandie & NM) discussing how easy the part was and how any "jerk" can do that role. I thought, "these ladies are tough, what did I get my self into?". When I came out after singing the Ave, Sandie immediately came over to me and said that was her favorite song. That made me feel a whole lot better. After a few shows with NPTG, I had the honor of Sandie asking me to join Showstoppers. I still did not know her well, but she always made me feel at home and "important" to her. Of course I said yes. The first time I came to your home, I immediately felt like I had been there for years. Sandie had another talent of making everyone feel comfortable around her. Through the years and many shows, I came to love Sandie. She really helped to bring me out of my shell, and actually got me to dance!! I give her enourmous credit for getting me to sing on a regular basis and getting me more involved in NPTG.
On Thursday night, I sang "You raise me up" to her while making dinner and I started to cry. My Nicole came to me and asked why I was sad. I told her that My friend Sandie had gone to Heaven. She gave me a big hug and made me feel better, I thought how I wanted to give you a hug, to somehow make you feel better.
I was deeply honored when Miche told me that Sandie requested I sing the Ave & The Prayer for her. I will miss her immensely.
Love,
Jonathan

David Arsenault

October 14, 2008

As we all know, Sandie was a figurehead in the local theatre scene and I hope everyone will continue to forge ahead and produce outstanding performances in her memory. I know my experience in the theatre would not have been the same without her.

David & Sandra Roth

October 14, 2008

Sandie did SO MUCH for the students at JCD, our Cassandra & Zachary among them! Her legacy will live on!!!

Faith Marvell

October 14, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss.
The Office of Attorney Christine M. Tree, Esquire

Lost

October 14, 2008

I Logged on and googled 2 words. Sandie Couture! OMG. Im just a backstage guy and set builder for many shows who loved working with this Master of idea to paper to an incredible production. Whether the performers were 8 years old or (?How is Minichello?). I'll miss her of course because now I have no "To Do" list. Thank you all for the re-memories via this guestbook.
God knows all, But now I can't wait to get to heaven to be greeted by Jesus, a carpenter whom now can dance and sing as he welcomes us too. She has the ability above as she had on earth.

Ray

Jayson Salvi

October 13, 2008

Chris, Candee, & Nicole Not sure you remember me. I'm your cousin Jayson. Virginia is my Grandmother. Your Mom always remembered me even though we only saw one another about once a year. Our families have lost a wonderful women. May you find peace in knowing that her and your Dad are together.

Melissa Dupuis

October 13, 2008

To the Couture Family,
I was so shocked and sad to hear of your mothers passing. She was such a joy and loved the arts so much. Being around her growing up in the dance world she was always there for each and every one of us as we danced away. She'd even join us! Who could ever forget those cruises we'd go on. Memories that will stay in my heart. I will never forget her. My sincere condolences go out to the Couture Family.

Kindest Regards,

Kevin & Nancy McGuinness

October 13, 2008

Nicole, Chris, & Candee. Kevin & I were shocked and saddened at the news of your Mom's passing. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. It is not only a tremendous loss to the theater community but to the many people she called friends. I am privileged to have been a part of Sandie's life for many years through NPTG and especially Showstoppers (who could ever forget "Christmas in July") She will be missed by all who were fortunate enough to know and love her.

Susan (Pirone) Ferguson

October 13, 2008

To The Family,

My sister and I were childhood friends of Sandie and Linda. I remember being around Sandie would always make me laugh and be happy. I will remember her fondly.

Candy (Jennings) Scarale

October 13, 2008

Candee, Chris and Nicole, I am so sorry about your Mom's sudden passing. My mom used to tell many great stories of her times following the Sounds Unlimited back in the 70's and the fun we had when visiting all of you on Westminster Hill. I lost my mom (Harriette Jennings) earlier this year and understand the shock of a sudden loss. She will be with you always!

Joanne (Thebeau) Leger

October 13, 2008

Mrs C. was such an important part of making those very awkward teenage years more bearable. The St. Joseph's youth choir was an important part of my life and I remember all the hard work and effort Mrs. C put into each mass and each production with respect and gratitiude. God has called her home and we can all know that there is a musical angel sitting on our shoulder ready to help at a moments notice. My thoghts and prayers are with her family.

Paula (Schiavitti) Shanley

October 12, 2008

Dear Nicole, I was saddened to hear the news of your mother’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Nancy King

October 12, 2008

Nicky, Chris and Candee,
It was at a General meeting of New Players Theatre Guild in 1991 when I first came to know your mom personally. She was asking for members to join a new group forming called SHOWSTOPPERS and I thought that sounded like a fun opportunity. I remember timidly approaching her. Your mom had this very large personality and I was pretty quiet in those days. I was intimidated. But through these past 17 years in SHOWSTOPPERS my personality has grown (it had to!) and I have come to so appreciate our time singing together, the wonderful stories your mom would tell, her multiple incredible talents, her complete generosity and willingness to help, her enthusiasm, creativity and most importantly PASSION for life and the things she loved. I have learned so much from your mom, and she has inspired me in so many ways. We shared a birthday, that always made me feel just a bit closer to her, but what I now know is that knowing your mom has made me a better person, a stronger personality, and a better performer. She may have been intimidating at first, but she had a way of working her way into your heart! I am honored to have known your mom, and will carry her in my heart into the future. I thank you all for sharing her with us.

Ally & Chris Piermarini

October 12, 2008

Linda, Raymond, Candee, Chris and Nicole:

We are saddened by Sandie's passing. She was a great cousin, an indomitable spirit and a truly talented individual. Her memory will always bring two words to mind...Class Act.

Ann & Jim Caisse

October 12, 2008

My dear Nicole, can you believe, it was only a week ago that for some reason I was thinking of your mother, and I've been saying to myself, "Jim, why didn't you call her".
I truly believe God was sending me a message.
Your mother, Sandie, was a wonderful friend to Ann & me for the last thirty years. When she enrolled you at the studio many years ago, a beautiful relationship was born between all of us. We watched you grow and I took great pride in making you the beautiful dancer that you became. Your Mom was so
proud of you. Sandie was so instrumental in helping me with my show sets. She was there for me whenever I needed her, knowingly having so many other projects as well.
Ann & I will never forget our weekend together with Sandie & John at our home on Cape Cod.
How she loved to shop! Miche, you can appreciate that!
To all of you...Candee, Chris, Nicole and Michelle too... our deepest and heartfelt sympathy.

Sandie, " You unselfishly gave of yourself to so many people in so many ways, as you take your final curtain bows....all we can say is...
" Bravo, Bravo "
Ann & Jim Caisse
The Villages, Florida

Paul Bibo

October 12, 2008

Nicole,
We are so sorry for this loss. Though we never had the honor of meeting your mother it is almost as if we knew her. You spoke so wonderfully of her and her talents and spirit! All of our love, prayers, and kindness go to you and your family. At this time and always!
Love,
Paul and Barry

Amy Laberge Mason

October 12, 2008

Candee, Chris & Nicole. My heart is breaking for you. Your mom, my aunt, was an incredible lady. I keep on remembering when you used to live on Westminster Hill Rd and all the fun us kids had! Rely on us, your family and friends! Michele, you were such an anchor when Uncle John died. I pray for all of you.
Love, Amy, Jeff, David & Hannah

Carol Ann Normandin

October 12, 2008

My sympathies to the family.
Your Mom was a caring & loving wife, a good mother and an extremely talented person. She will be missed by all that knew her.

Monica Bourgault

October 12, 2008

The words are hard too find, as the shock and disbelieve have not left. Sandie was a mentor and friend to me. I first met her over 25 years ago during a St. Joe's PTA show where she was the director. It was my first production since high school. Sandie told me of the New Players Theatre Guild, for which I became a member. I was honored and Proud when she invited me to join her "Showstopper" group, where we shared not only our music with each other, but our lives. My heartfelt sympathy to her family, the void she has left will never be filled. I must say that the memories are too numerous to mention, and too precious to ever forget. Forever in my heart. Love, Monica

Maria Kukkula

October 12, 2008

Chris, Nicole and Candy...My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this sad time. Your mom was a wonderful person and she will be greatly missed. She gave me wonderful memories through her love and dedication with the St. Joseph choir. I'll never forget the weelky pratices, masses, yearly variety shows, trips to the state house, the New York trip, the album we made, yearly pool parties and many other wonderful things we did. She impacted many lives and we are all the better for it.

All my Love,
Maria Kukkula

Bill McGrath

October 12, 2008

Nicole, Candee, Chris.. I can not say that I don’s have an understanding of the loss you must feel, since I believe I feel it myself. Sandie made many people part of her family! No people more so than the Showstoppers. For twenty years, Sandie sang and danced on my right side. I don’t know how that hole will ever be filled; in Showstoppers, or in my heart. We shared harmony, private jokes, occasional bloopers, lots of body heat and yes; sweat! My first time playing opposite on stage with Sandie was in “Man of LaMancha.” I have never, before or since, felt so “safe” on stage, as I played Sancho against her fabulous Aldonza! She was a outstanding actress and performer and brought the best out in everyone. I don’t know how she can be replaced in the theater community, but I hope we can do our best to carry on in her spirit. I believe I will think of her, "Every Monday night for the rest of my life!" Love to all!

Jennifer (Beauchene) MacLean

October 12, 2008

Mrs. C was such a HUGE part of my childhood. Being a part of the choir for so many years is something that I look back on so fondly. Especially at Christmas, I tell my children how we would all climb into the back of an MCM truck and go caroling to the nursing homes and different neighborhoods. I still have all the ornaments she made us and I hang them on our family tree every year. I am sincerely sorry for your loss. To say Mrs. C was an amazing woman is such an understatement. She was always so full of life, she left her mark on everyone she met and even those she just performed for. She will forever be missed.

Jeannine Cook

October 12, 2008

Nikki,
I am truly sorry for your lost. I know how hard it is to loose a parent suddenly. When I heard the news, I was in disbelief. Your mom had such a strong spirit and force. Even though her physical body gave out, her spirit and force will be with all of us forever. With every dance step, every note sung, every line said, she will be there. She made me a better performer and for that I will always be grateful.

Nicole and Katrina Fleming

October 12, 2008

When we think of your mother, we think of someone that commanded respect, not only because of her talent in the theater, but her class as a person. She was always ready with a wink to make one feel at ease. She will be greatly missed.

Eric Baird

October 12, 2008

Nicole and family, working with your mother inspired me. Her passion for the theater was incredible. She taught me many things in a small number of years. I will always remember her kind words when we worked costuming her shows. I do know that she will be there guiding all of us as we move forward in our lives and our productions. I will miss her dearly. Always remember that I am here when you need me and we will all triumph in her memory.

Santino's Italian Eating House Family

October 11, 2008

We would like to send our love and prayers to you in this time of sorrow. Sandie will be missed by all of her family and friends.

Diane Cushing

October 11, 2008

I am so privileged to have shared the stage with Sandie on our Nunsense shows. I first met her in Fiddler on the Roof when Nicole and my Emily were babies. I was in awe of her then and ever since, and I knew if Sandie was in a show I was in, it was golden!
God Bless you all!

Pat/Patty

October 11, 2008

Nicole; Our thoughts are with you at this time. We always enjoyed seeing your mom perform and enjoyed seeing her at the store from time to time. May God Bless You. Pat & Patty @ Dancer's Boutique

Craig Cormier

October 11, 2008

There will be a hole in our theater family that will take a long time to fill. Sandie, you will never be forgotten, and you will be missed. Our sympathies to Nikki, Chris and Candee.

Karen Linabury

October 11, 2008

My sympathies to all. I was a member of the St. Joseph's Youth Choir and every Christmas I still hang the many ornaments Sandy made for me on my tree. Ironically, this past weekend I was in NYC at a performance of "Wicked." She had a way of making everyone she came upon feel "Unlmited" and she will remain with me forever "like a handprint on my heart." Your life will be celebrated.
Karen (Selinga) Linabury

uncle fred

October 11, 2008

to candee chris and nicole, please take comfort in the fact that your Mom is now with the only man she ever loved-your dad . she is giving him a big hug and kiss for all of you and telling him how incredibly proud she was of each of you

Kathleen Meehan Goreham

October 11, 2008

I was stunned to read of Sandy's passing. I was in musicals with her years ago in Fitchburg. A fabulous performer and a very giving, dedicated friend of the theatre. Condolances to the family in this sad, sad time.

Frank Dionne

October 11, 2008

I was shocked & saddened to hear of Sandie's untimely passing! As a founding member of Sounds Unlimited I had the privilege of sharing many years of travel & performances with Sandie; her talent & professionalism were 1st class! Both she & her beloved John were also instrumental in my association with MCM & the extended Couture family. My prayers and deepest sympathies go out to her entire family and especially Candee, Chris & Nicole.

October 11, 2008

We never even knew you and you allowed us to have our wedding pictures taken on your beautiful property on Lindell Ave in 1993...our sympathies to Sandra's family.

Don & Chris

Jay Shea

October 11, 2008

Sandy will always have a place in our hearts. She had a way of making you do the impossible. She could be so funny, but yet so stern. She made you want to do your very best,because when you did, she made you feel like a million bucks. She excelled in everything she did and expected nothing less from you. I am proud to say that I had any part in her life and she will be sadly missed. To her family and friends my heart goes out to you.
Sincerely yours,
Jay Shea.

Sherri Leahey

October 11, 2008

Nicole and family, I was so shocked and stunned when I heard the news...I am so sorry for your loss....You're Mom was so instrumental to soooooo many peopl e... she made us all loo k good on stage , and did it with such grace and confidence ( in all of us ).... she will be so missed by the entire community.....( And to Miche, some women are never lucky enough to have a best friend.....you. however were blessed with Sandie, ) My thoughts and prayers are with all of you......God Bless

Kathy Starr

October 11, 2008

Our deepest sympathy to you and your families. Sandie was a bright light and will shine forever.

Love, Kathy and Rick Starr

Michael Lucier

October 11, 2008

Chris, Candee, & Nicole: I am so deeply saddened by the news of the loss of your Mom-Sandy! Memories of all sorts crowd my mind and heart as I ponder years of knowing her, your Dad, and you children! From babysitting you children, to singing lessons with her, to many productions throughout my younger life with Sandy, your Mom gave me the confidence to achieve majors goals and aspirations comforting me to this day! A wonderful Lady--ALWAYS! Forever my greatest Ally & Friend! My Deepest Condolences to all of you and your extended families! I am always at your disposal at anytime! Just say the word.

Lyn & Emily

October 11, 2008

October 11, 2008
"Put your soul into it!...Paint the stripes this way so they look like real wood...Step ball change, then do a jazz square...Sing out and enunciate!...Do you have a black straw hat for the Mary Poppins character for the TAM summer camp production? Sure we can use your help back stage!" Sandie, you were a one of kind trouper! Talent par excellance! A wonderful performer, teacher, friend, companion, task master, giver, listener...it would take a lifetime to enumerate your life, style, love and spirit in words. You were there for me and my family in our time of need...our talks helped get us through trying times. I can only hope we can do the same for your family, especially Nicki...my daughter Emily's mentor and choreographer at TAM and Oakmont shows. Anyone who ever had the fortune of working with you, knowing you, and watching you perform your magic, is a blessed person indeed. We will love you forever and will miss you dearly. The one thing we know for sure...Every angel in heaven is rehearsing for you right now for that heavenly musical of musicals...and we can only close our eyes to envision the glorious opening production. For you, our dear Sandie...the show will always go on!

Lyn & Emily Lambert

October 11, 2008

"Put your soul into it!...Paint the stripes this way so they look like real wood...Step ball change, then do a jazz square...Sing out and enunciate!...Do you have a black straw hat for the Mary Poppins character for the TAM summer camp production? Sure we can use your help back stage!" Sandie, you were a one of kind trouper! Talent par excellance! A wonderful performer, teacher, friend, companion, task master, giver, listener...it would take a lifetime to enumerate your life, style, love and spirit in words. You were there for me and my family in our time of need...our talks helped get us through trying times. I can only hope we can do the same for your family, especially Nicki...my daughter Emily's mentor and choreographer at TAM and Oakmont shows. Anyone who ever had the fortune of working with you, knowing you, and watching you perform your magic, is a blessed person indeed. We will love you forever and will miss you dearly. The one thing we know for sure...Every angel in heaven is rehearsing for you right now for that heavenly musical of musicals...and we can only close our eyes to envision the glorious opening production. For you, our dear Sandie...the show will always go on!

Amy Maguy

October 11, 2008

Nicole, I am very sorry for your loss. Your mom was an amazing person and will be sadly missed by all of us who knew her from the St. Joe's Shows. I will always remember my first show when we sang and danced to "Your never fully dressed without a smile". Sandy brought many smiles to peoples faces, and there will always be one when we think of her.

Heidi Couture

October 11, 2008

Dear Candace, Chris and Nicole, I am so sorry about your Mom's sudden passing. I know what a shock that can be. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers, even though I am far away. Aunt Sandie was larger than life and now she will be with your Dad happy together forever. Love to you all.

David Goulkin

October 10, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Meredith Marcinkewicz

October 10, 2008

One of my favorite times in theater was when Sandi choreographed TAM's "Hello Dolly." Like so many other shows, she taught it so a non-dancer, like me, could still look good and have fun. There hasn't been anyone else with her particular kind of style, and she will be greatly missed.

Carol Allard Vancil

October 10, 2008

Sing it Sandi...
"I see the spotlight, and though it's not right, I simply can't resist it's call... For some Nuns it's bingo at the parish hall, Turn up the SPOTLIGHT and I have a ball"!!!

Sandi was born to sing, dance, act, and bring smiles and laughter to her friends and her audiences... She was one of a kind.... such a cool lady!!!

Shelly Wilson

October 10, 2008

My deepest sympathy to you Nicole and all of Sandie's family and friends. I have had the privilege of working with Sandie both in St. Joe's Variety Show and St. Joe's Christmas show. I've watched her many times on stage at the Mount also. She was a beautiful person who always made us all laugh. She will be missed by countless people whose lives she has touched.
God Bless you Sandie...........

Barbara E.

October 10, 2008

To Nicole and family; I first saw Sandy as Mame back in the 80's. I had the extreme pleasure of working with her at St. Joseph's choir and variety show and have seen her unbelievable talents. She will be soooo missed! I am truly sorry. We have all lost someone very special!

Karen Mills

October 10, 2008

My deepest sympathies and heartfelt condolences go out to all of Sandie"s children, family and Miche. She was a wonderful woman with a huge heart. I will never forget how hard it was for her to sing at my husband Paul's funeral, yet she pulled the "children's" choir back together and did it. Thank you Sandie. Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever. You will be greatly missed.

Heather (Charron) Fortier

October 10, 2008

My heart sank upon hearing the news of Sandie's passing. Many memories flooded my thoughts of years past and the times spent in the theater and at the dance studio. The world has lost a tremendous person. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Cherri Girouard

October 10, 2008

My thoughts go out to the family and friends of Sandie. It was a pleasure to have had the opportunity to have known Sandie in the St. Joseph's Variety Shows. It was such joy having many laughs watching her performances in Nunsense and attending her other performances thorughout the years. To hear the wonderful notes that she sang.
She will be missed

Bruce English

October 10, 2008

It was with great shock and sadness that I learned of the loss of one of local theatre's shining lights. Sandie was wonderful to work with on stage, and a great lady off of it. My sincere condolences to her family during this very difficult time.

Bernice Robillard

October 10, 2008

To Nicole and Family,
When I heard of Sandi's passing, my mind and heart were flooded with memories- she was so instrumental in the lives of my children and their eternal love for the theatre-

Sincerely,
Bernice Robillard (Sterling, VA)

Joe& Dottie DeStadio 15-3 Jay's Rd.

October 10, 2008

There is so much shock and disbelief at the passing of Sandy, There are no words to discribe the loss that will be felt by all. If you needed help you called Sandy, when you needed a laugh you went to see her perform, and when you needed the hear a singer that will always be a great memory, you thought of Sandy. our deepest condolence's go out to her children,her entire family,and Michele. Also to all of her great friends. She has left a void in all who knew and loved her. May God Bless you all and give you the strenth to get through this terrible loss.

Pattie Pichette

October 10, 2008

I will always feel blessed that Sandi was in my life. My life is a better one for having known her. As a director she had a way of making everyone look fabulous on stage. She was a wonderful person. To her children - I pray that your faith, family and friends will carry you through this time and may you keep her memories close to your heart.

Brian McMullen

October 10, 2008

Ahh, Golde, how we will miss you!
Great woman and a great friend to my mom so many years ago. (Jane)
Condolences to the Couture family and all of Sandy's many, many friends.

Pat Francoeur

October 10, 2008

Dear Niki, Candi and family. I am deeply saddened by your loss. I was fortunate enough to see her last performance on Saturday night.

Sandi always knew how to bring a smile to you face. She was a task master and tough but she knew how to get the best performance out of you.

I've known Sandi for many years going back to the NPTG and through the years with the St. Joseph's Variety Shows.

She is leaving a big void that will not be filled.

My condolences and my prayers go out to all of you.

Respectfully,

Vincent Andreani

October 10, 2008

Dear Linda and Raymond,we were saddened to hear of your loss of Sandra.I am glad we got to spend time with you and her at Randi's and Peggy's weddings, and that is how we will remember Sandra.Though distance separates us, our love for Sandra.you,and all the cousins is deep and abiding.Please know that our thoughts and prayers are and will be with you in this time of sorrow.
Love,Cousin Vince and Bonnie

Vincent Andreani

October 10, 2008

Chris,Candie,and Nicole;please accept our deepest sympathy and condolence.Though we won't be there physically,take comfort in knowing that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With love,Cousin Vince Andreani and wife,Bonnie

Jane Senja (Ollikkala) Morgan

October 10, 2008

To Sandie's family, cast of Nunsense, and the community theater family of north central Massachusetts-

I was shocked and saddened to hear of the sudden loss of a wonderful matriarch of theater. My heart and prayers go out to you all.

Sandi was an incredible person to work with- so professional, and passionate about the arts. One of my earliest memories of working with her goes back to when she played Ruth (with my Mabel, and our colleagues Peter Landry and Tim Recko) in Pirates of Penzance so many years ago in a Sawtelle Singers production done at Christ Church, Fitchburg back in the '87. Sandi looked so dashing in her pirate attire!

My last performing opportunity with Sandi was in the orginal Nunsense production at the Mount, just before I moved to Illinois in the early 90s. I can imagine that the remaining cast must be in a state of shock. My condolences to you all.

Please keep me informed of any gatherings or tributes that may be planned in the future, and I will see if I can get out to New England for a visit. I miss you all, and I will miss Sandie as well! May her spirit continue to shine brightly in each of your hearts through your future work in the arts throughout the community.

"Be still my soul..."
In Christ, Jane Senja

Lisa Girouard

October 10, 2008

Nichol,Candi and the Couture Family,

My Deepest Sympathy.Sandi's beautiful voice,contagious smile and all her many talents will be saddly missed. At this time of great sorrow I hope all these memories of her will warm your heart.

Love Lisa Girouard

Lori Mwagodi

October 10, 2008

My 11yr old daughter has played basketball, soccer and other sports. She has always enjoyed these activities but it wasn't until she tried her first play in fourth grade that we really discovered her talent. Mrs. Couture meant a lot to our family and she will be missed dearly.

Cynthia (Charron) Walker

October 10, 2008

All I can feel is shock and sadness at the great loss of a wonderful person. My daughters and I spent many, many hours at DAC with Sandie and Nicole, as well as doing a couple of shows at NPTG. My prayers and sympathy to Nicole, and the rest of her family. She left a great legacy and a tough act to follow. She will be missed.

Rhonda LaPointe-O'Brien

October 10, 2008

Jim, Mike and the entire Couture family....may I be one of the many to express my condolences for the loss of Sandy. I remembered the love of life, family and friends that she showed in some way each and every day....and it usually started with just a smile. I know that she will be missed by many, many people. May God guide and help your family during this very difficult time.

Ana

October 10, 2008

Nicole, My deepest condolences to you and your family. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
I am here for you now and always. Since the loss of my mother, I know that there is an angel by my side ALWAYS. your mother is your guardian angel and is still with you. Don't consider her gone forever! Love you and im here!

Kristen (Bissonnette) Richford

October 10, 2008

I am so shocked and saddened to hear about Ms. Couture passing so suddenly -- she was a wonderful, classy, funny and compassionate woman. I have had the pleasure of working with her in the past at NPTG as well as seen many of her wonderful performances... she will be greatly missed -- all my love to her close friends and family.

Valorie Miller

October 10, 2008

On behalf of the Winchendon Public Schools' after school program, you have our sincere condolences. Sandie was a wonderful lady. The students have looked forward to her leading the annual play at Toy Town Elementary School. She will be greatly missed.

Ruthe Lew

October 10, 2008

Sandy was the matriach of theatre throughout the area; she will be sorely missed by her devoted fans and the hundreds of people whose lives she touched. Ruthe Lew

Janice (Butler) Potter

October 10, 2008

I was shocked and saddened to hear about Sandie's passing. She did SO much for SO many. She was my choir director for the childrens choir at St. Josephs many years ago. A true loss to the community. My thoughts and prayers are with her family at this time.

Steve Ciccolini

October 10, 2008

To all of Sandy's family, please know that you are in my prayers and thoughts. Sandy was a wonderful woman and her talents were always evident. I was flattered and fortunate enough to be a part of her childrens' weddings and I will always remember her graciousness and class.

Rest in peace, good soul. Steve Ciccolini

LINDA HUNTER-MORIARTY

October 10, 2008

CRIS AND FAMILY, SO SORRY FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS, SHE WAS A WONDERFUL, TALENTED PERSON.
LINDA HUNTER, SHANE HUNTER

Karen Girouard

October 10, 2008

I was shocked to hear of Mrs. C's passing. She was an amazing woman who was loved by all and will never be forgotten. I will never forget the great times spent at Mrs. C's in the summer practicing for our concerts and choir practices. My heart goes out to her family and friends. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

All My Love!

jennifer knight

October 10, 2008

1994 - Kiss Me Kate, my introduction to Mrs. Couture. She's been a part of my theater days from the very first one. My condolences to you Nikki, and Candie, the two family members I know the most, and to Mich, I know you all miss her greatly. She was definitely larger than life.

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