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Janet Wihtelin Obituary

Janet T. (Membrino) Wihtelin lifelong resident of Fitchburg; 68 FITCHBURG Janet T. (Membrino) Wihtelin, 68, of Fitchburg, died peacefully Wednesday, December 10th, in UMass University Hospital, Worcester following a brief illness. Born in Fitchburg, on January 7, 1940, she was the daughter of the late Louis and Angelina (Vivo Amore) Membrino. Janet was a lifelong resident of Fitchburg, She graduated from Fitchburg High School with the class of 1957. She was a member of St. Anthony of Padua Church, Fitchburg. Janet was a loving and devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and friend. Her greatest enjoyment came from spending time with her family. It was a rare occasion when Janet was not at one of her grandchildren's sporting events. She was an avid fan and strong supporter in all that they did. Janet was well known and loved by all. She will be greatly missed. Janet leaves her husband of 49 years, Ronald O. Wihtelin of Fitchburg; two sons, Ronald L. Wihtelin and his wife, Kimberly (Shorey) of Fitchburg, and Robert D. Wihtelin and his wife, Debra (Leone) of Gardner; five grandchildren, Christopher and Leah Wihtelin of Gardner, and Samantha, Taylor and James Seidl of Fitchburg; one sister-in-law, Betty Membrino of Fitchburg; a special nephew, Lou Membrino and his wife, Sue of Newton; one great-nephew, Philip Membrino and one great-niece, Natalie Membrino; several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins. She was predeceased by two brothers, Philip D. and Charles J. Membrino. WIHTELIN Funeral services will be held Monday, December 15th from the Smith-Mallahy-Masciarelli Funeral Home, (www.masciarellifamilyfuneralhomes.net), 243 Water Street, Fitchburg with a Mass at 10:00 a.m. in St. Anthony of Padua Church, 84 Salem St., Fitchburg. Burial will be in St. Bernard's Cemetery, Off St. Bernard's St., Fitchburg. Calling hours in the funeral home will be Sunday, December 14th from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Memorial contributions may be made to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, 10 Brookline Place West, Floor 6, Brookline, MA 02445-9924, or to the St. Anthony of Padua Church Renovation Fund, 84 Salem St., Fitchburg, MA 01420 or may be left at the funeral home.

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Published by Sentinel & Enterprise on Dec. 12, 2008.

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Cheryl Rossi-Slattery

December 26, 2008

Ron Sr. , Ron Jr, Rob & families,
I am soooo sorry to hear of your wife's (mom's) passing! I just can't believe it!!! I wish I was there for the funeral however I just found out about it Christmas night. It can't be real; I still can't stop crying! I loved her like she was my own mom!!! What a wonderful woman. Life is just too short. Mr. Wihtelin, you and she gave me hope that marriage could be all it was meant to be, I hope you can find a way to heal the pain. Ronnie, growing up with you and your family was a treat! It was a real home and love was everywhere....She will be missed. I am deeply saddened and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I miss you guys, love you too.......Sheri

Patricia Rossi

December 26, 2008

Ron and Family,

I am visiting from Florida and just heard about Janet's passing. I am so sorry and can relate to your sorrow, as I remember just seeing you two in August at Dick's service at St. Anthony's. They say "time heals" but, at this time, nothing can replace the love you two had throughout your marriage, and the MANY good times you have memories of. Just know that you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

Pati

Joyce Ouellette-Leite

December 21, 2008

Ron, Rob and family,
I have many sweet memories of your mother and was saddened to read this news in the paper. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers as you deal with this weather and missing your mother during this holiday season.

bob shakarian

December 14, 2008

Ron and Kim sorry to hear about your loss. My prays are with you. Your Mom will be watching the whole family, take care,
bob

William Kemp

December 14, 2008

To Ron, and all the Wihtelin family:
Lise and I are very, very sad to have heard the news of your wife's death. We were hoping to be with you on Sunday and Monday, but the weather conditons are such that we have decided it would not be wise to get ourselves iced up with you. All the Kemps send their heart-felt condoleances.
Kip

Cousin Bob Wihtelin

December 12, 2008

Ron and family, words are too puny to express how sad I am about our loss. Janet lived the way we all try to, and she made it look easy because it came naturally.

Michelle (French) Caudle

December 12, 2008

Rob, Ron and Family, I have fond childhood memories of "Mrs. J" . I am saddened by the news, my prayers are with you all.

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