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Delbert Gardner Obituary

NEWPORT NEWS - Delbert Ralph Gardner, 85, devoted husband, father, and grandfather, and child of God, departed this life on Sept. 21, 2008, to be with his Savior.
Born in Wooster, Ohio, in 1923, Delbert served his country in World War II as a member of the U.S. Eighth Air Force, 790th Bomb Squadron, 467th Bomb Group (Heavy) from 1941-45. He put the G.I. Bill to good use, earning his AB and MA in English from Syracuse U., followed by a PhD in English from the U. of Rochester.
Del enjoyed recounting stories from his many jobs: usher in a 40s movie palace; fireman on a locomotive; pinsetter at a bowling alley; salesman of pianos, vacuum cleaners, and insurance; cab driver; and journalist. After achieving the first college degree in his family, he took pride in teaching college English for 21 years: at Syracuse U., Lycoming College, and Keuka College in his beloved Finger Lakes region of upstate NY.
Del then turned his creative talents to writing, editing, and developing educational materials and training literature for the U.S. Army, earning the civil service rank of GS-11 as a writer-editor/training specialist. He served in this capacity at both Ft. Knox and Ft. Eustis for 14 years and merited a number of Sustained Superior Performance Awards.
Inheriting a love and talent for poetry from his father, Harry Calvin Gardner, Dr. Gardner had more than 30 poems and stories published in periodicals such as The Literary Review, Poetry Digest, and Christian Science Monitor, among many others. Along with nonfiction articles, he had a scholarly book published, An 'Idle Singer' and His Audience: A Study of William Morris's Poetic Reputation in England, 1858-1900. Other works are forthcoming; visit www.gardnercastle.com.
Del loved his family dearly. In many ways, this love has been the central theme of his life. In addition to his father, Harry, he was deeply attached to his mother, Effie Jury; his brothers, Norman and Donald; his sister, Ruth; and his stepfather, Frank Peterson. His 1968 marriage to Marilyn Elaine Hegarty, a graduate of Keuka, was a match made in heaven, a sentiment that he expressed every day and in numerous ways--including poems and stories. This love has infused the lives of all the members of his close-knit family, with whom he always shared comfort and strength, as well as his passion for literature, art, and music. Del's great love for his family--and his love of life itself--are strongly felt and will be carried on by all who survive him, including his wife, Marilyn; his children, Carolyn, Theodore, Daniel, and Melody; six grandchildren; and many family members and friends.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in memory of Dr. Gardner to a scholarship fund for his grandchildren. Contributions may be sent to the Gardner family at 338 Marlboro Road, Newport News, VA 23602.
The funeral service will be 7 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 25, at Weymouth Funeral Home, Newport News, with visitation following. Interment will be in Elmira, N.Y. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press on Sep. 24, 2008.

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Kathi Patterson

November 6, 2008

Deepest sympathy for your family. May your memories comfort you in the days to come. You're in our prayers.

The family of Dorothy (Gardner) Blainey

Stephen & Michelle Dempsey

September 29, 2008

We hold your family in our prayers.

Steve Sternberg

September 24, 2008

I was deeply saddened to learn of Dr. Gardner's passing. It was an honor caring for him. I wish all of the family well and my thoughts and prayers are with you and Dr. Gardner.

Chris Rogers Family

September 24, 2008

All our prayers and thoughts are with you. May God grant you comfort and peace during this difficult time.
May God be with you...

Mary Lee

September 24, 2008

Carolyn - I was so very sorry to read about your father's passing this morning. I know that this is an especially sad and trying time for you and your family right now, and I hope that good memories of your father and all he accomplished will be a great comfort to all of you. Remember that the only true death is when the one who has crossed over is never spoken of again. There will come a time when it be easier to think about and talk about your father. He will never truly leave you. He just lives in a different place now. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers...Mary Lee (Michelle's Mom)

Angie Thomas

September 24, 2008

With golden shimmering wings,
Paul is able to fly freely with God’s angels and
experience the exquisite realm of the absolute...
Thinking of You…Angie Carmen Thomas (ATSC Employee)

~Ancient Rendezvous~

when the extraordinary experience arrives
that a spirit is living free,
confusing emotions are felt
created by the physical absentee
of that special someone
causing the mind to wonder why
a sadness must grip the heart
producing tears to cry
connecting with those memories
that rain within the spirit’s core
grasping understanding
to courageously explore
the essence of purpose
for which all spirits exist
which has become a curious search
that continues to persist
leading to a glow of enlightenment
shining within the heart
absorbing the vast knowledge
of those spirits who depart
and pass on an ancient wisdom
to carefully listen to inner clues
revealing that life continues forever
through these beautiful rendezvous.

Judy Harvell

September 24, 2008

Marilyn,
Sorry to hear of your husband's passing. May God be with you in this time of sorrow.

Janis Smith

September 24, 2008

Melody,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved father. I know you and your family are hurting badly right now. Through you - Mel - I knew that he was a wonderful man and a loving father - he lived a good life and touched many people with his gentle nature and now he gets to rest. I believe he is in the most wonderful of places and would not want you to grieve overmuch. God is holding you all in his loving and powerful hands. I'll be praying for you.

Betty Salisbury

September 24, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Andre Hill

September 24, 2008

Dr. Gardner....There certainly are alot of good things I can say about you sir. I remember going to your home and feeling so very comfortable while I was there. You were a very kind man. My prayers are with your family in this time of need. May God bless us all...

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