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Ruth Pulda Obituary

PULDA, Ruth L. Ruth L. Pulda, 53, of West Hartford, June 9, 2008. The sun, the stars and the moon to her boys: Husband, Howard Rifkin and sons, David and Caleb Pulda-Rifkin. Beloved daughter of Mary Pulda of Shrewsbury, MA and the late Louis Pulda, of blessed memory. Truly loved daughter-in-law of Sylvia Rifkin. The rock for her sisters and brothers: Margery Blonder, Elizabeth Tapper, Arnold Pulda, Harriet Ben-Ner, and Robert Pulda. Always along for the ride, the "outlaws": Fred Blonder, Peter Simkin, Pat Pulda, Avner Ben-Ner, Kathy Pulda, Eric and Gail Rifkin. Proud Aunt to Barbara Blonder and David Haynes, Ken Blonder, Lynne Tapper and Leland Brandt, Eve Tapper and Adam Ochlis, Molly and Sam Pulda, Yonaton, Shira, Galia, Yael and Amir Leon, Dana and Julie Pulda, Drew and Darah Rifkin. Loving great Aunt to Matthew and Emily Ochlis, Sofie and Eli Brandt, and Seth Haynes. Leader, educator, mentor and advocate to a generation of Connecticut lawyers and on behalf of women's rights, civil rights and social justice. Ruth's law career spanned twenty-five years as a named partner in the "plucky little law firm" of Livingston, Adler, Pulda, Meiklejohn and Kelly. She loved a good fight and won more than she lost. She has been recognized by the Connecticut Bar as one of the top lawyers in Connecticut and received two awards very important to her life's work: The Elizabeth Blackwell Award from Connecticut N.O.W. in 2003 for her "tenacious commitment for health care for women" and the 2006 One Woman Making a Difference award from CWEALF (CT's Womens' Education and Legal Fund). Ruth previously served as legal counsel to CWEALF, as chair of the State Permanent Commission on the Status of Women, and co-founded and taught the Women's Rights Clinic at the University of Connecticut School of Law. Devoted friend and confidant to too many to mention she will be missed every day, but her impact on so many people and on so many issues will long endure. Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, June 11 at 9:30 a.m. in the Sanctuary of Beth El Temple, 2626 Albany Ave., West Hartford, with Rabbi James Rosen officiating. Interment will follow with a graveside service at the B'nai Brith Cemetery, St. Johns Rd., Worcester, MA (Ruth, always the Worcester girl). A reception will follow at Congregation Beth Israel, 15 Jamesbury Dr., Worcester, MA. Shiva, the Jewish period of mourning, will be observed at the home of Ruth, Howard, David and Caleb, 144 Sunny Reach Drive, West Hartford, beginning Thursday, June 12 and ending just prior to Shabbat on Friday, June 13. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Ruth's memory may be made to the following organizations: Center for Children's Advocacy, University of Connecticut School of Law, 65 Elizabeth St., Hartford 06105; CWEALF, 135 Broad St., Hartford 06105; or Love Makes a Family, 576 Farmington Ave., Hartford 06105. Arrangements entrusted to Weinstein Mortuary, Hartford. The family is compiling a "Book of Memories". Friends, colleagues and family are invited to send stories, anecdotes and other remembrances to The Family of Ruth Pulda, 144 Sunny Reach Drive, West Hartford 06117. For further information, or directions, please visit online at www. weinsteinmortuary.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 10, 2008.

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Balynda Thompson

March 31, 2012

I was thinking of caleb and david. I asked an old friend how they were, and she told me of their gteat loss
I am sorry and also sad to hear
Ruth was a great mom and a joy to have known.

nancy fuster

February 8, 2012

I have been trying to reach Ruth for a few years and while visiting CT. decided to google her name...I was caught off guard by the news of her passing. I worked for Ruth and her family for over one year and have to say she was a hell of a lady with a great career, great family, great zest for her work and her loves....I know she is in a wonderful dimension~~~

Martha Yarosh-Moritz

March 27, 2009

I was looking up old friends on the internet and came upon the news of Ruth's passing. I spent a wonderful year with Ruth at the University of Sussex. She certainly made the world a better place. She will be missed in my heart.

Selden Prentice

September 24, 2008

I met Ruth in the library at Connecticut College at the beginning of our senior year. We got chatting and found that we had both come back from a junior year abroad feeling a bit alienated from American college life. I was privileged to have had her as a friend that year; she made that last year more interesting and fun. I am sorry we lost touch but I am grateful to have known her. I send my condolences to all her family.

karen backer

September 12, 2008

sorry for your lose, karen backer, bessie pulda,backer's granddaughter

Megan and Lyndon Roy

July 3, 2008

Once met, never forgotten! We first met Ruth at Sussex University and until then we had no idea that so much energy and determination could be packed into one small person (and a vegetarian, to boot). We were thrilled we managed to meet up with her in New York two years ago ... and nothing had changed. Howard, David and Caleb, we are hugely sorry for your loss. She will leave a big whole in so many people's lives. We were proud to call her our friend.

Ritu Garg

July 3, 2008

Dear Howard,

I had the great pleasure of meeting you and Ruth in Blackheath some years ago. I am very sad to hear of Ruth's passing. I shall always remember her warmth as well as her vibrant and beautiful personality. My sincere condolences to you and the boys.
Ritu Garg (Blackheath)

alan thomson

June 22, 2008

I met Ruth during her year at Sussex University in 77/78. It was clear to all that she was a very special person. To Howard and your sons, my heart goes out to you.

Dayle Spencer

June 17, 2008

Ruth had that special spark that exists in far too few of us. She was at once captivating, engaged, and interested. Her energy and love of life drew those of us who were blessed to know her into a circle of intimacy almost immediately. Howard, David, Caleb and the Pulda, Rifkin family members, do not count your losses, celebrate that you were in Ruth's orbit for as long as it lasted. You (and we) were truly blessed by her life.

Larry Volin

June 16, 2008

The brother in law of Robbie, Ruth was like family to me. I was shocked to hear of her passing. I give my greatest sympathy to all th Pulda family and Howard and the boys.

Ruthie rules the Romans at Caesaria 1973

Leila Van Gelder (Sorrell)

June 16, 2008

The Ruthie I remember is forever 18 in my mind for that is the year we spent together in the most formative year of my life, Young Judaea Year Course 1973-74. She touched my life then as well as across the miles and years since.

Jesse Rosenbaum

June 15, 2008

My deepest sympathies to Ruth's family. I will always remember her as a wonderful member of my 1973-74 Year Course Program in Israel!

Steve Meili

June 13, 2008

Dear Howard and everyone in the Pulda and Rifkin families: Leigh and I send our deepest sympathies at this difficult time. Ruth was a wonderful law school classmate, law firm partner, and friend. Her dedication to public interest law was an inspiration. Her legacy will endure through the lives of the people she touched and the causes she so deeply believed in.

John C. Brittain

June 13, 2008

Dear Howard and family:

I remain in solidarity with Ruth in life and the after life.

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Chris Marolda

June 12, 2008

My deepest sympathies to Ruth's family and to all who knew her. The band and I always had a great time playing for you all and I only wish that we had been able to do it one more time. -Funk Brokers, Inc.

Joe Mastronardi

June 11, 2008

We were fortune to know and love Ruth as a close friend and our neighbor. Her ever present smile and warm personality contributed significantly to the social fabric we proudly call the West End. She will be sorely missed but never forgotten. May God bless her, you, and the “guys” during this transition and forever thereafter. The Mastronardi’s

Debra Brown

June 11, 2008

Dear Howard and family,
I was so sorry to hear about Ruth. I always loved being around her, ever since the days at the capitol many years ago.
My thoughts are with you and your family.

Kim Schilling

June 11, 2008

My thoughts and Prayers go out to the Pulda and Rifkin families. I used to work for Ruth many years ago as her legal secretary. She has always been inspirational and I have always looked up to her with great respect. May she be at peace. God Bless.

Bill Bright

June 11, 2008

Dear Howard,

I am so sorry for your loss. We will keep you and the boys in our prayers.

Pat Russell

June 11, 2008

I can see Ruth's happy face at my dining room table for a book group meeting and I feel heartbroken for your loss and mine. May God bless you and hold you in your grief.

ESTA SNIDER

June 11, 2008

MAY ALL OF YOUR WONDERFUL MEMORIES HELP SUSTAIN YOU NOW. MAY RUTH REST IN PEACE. ESTA SNIDER

Nick, Judy and Mike Dimaio

June 10, 2008

We offer our sincerest sympathies to your entire family during this time of loss. We're thinking of you and hope that the prayers of your friends and family will comfort you now.
Love to all,

Dan Kervick

June 10, 2008

Dear Howard & boys

My life is infinitely better because a part of it passed through the spirit, fight, knowledge and tenacity of Ruth. God love you all

Dan Kervick

Rebecca Bryan (Judd)

June 10, 2008

Dear Howard, David & Caleb,
Ruth was a beacon of light and filled with spunk. Our memories of her all include laughter and determination. Your family impacted so many ~ the years together at the Montessori School of Greater Hartford hold only a few examples of the lives you have all touched.
Sending you love and peace,
Rebecca Bryan (Judd), Bart, Ginger & Jacob

Rabbi Emil and Karen Hager

June 10, 2008

We extend our heartfelt condolences to the family on the passing of Ruth.

Sincerely,

June 10, 2008

Dear Howard, David, Caleb and Family,

Please know that my prayers and heartfelt sympathy are with each of as you celebrate in memory the life of Ruth-a remarkable and vibrant woman who lived life passionately.

May God bless and keep you well.

Sincerely,
Gail M. Crockett

Ann Filloramo

June 10, 2008

Howard and family -- I was saddened to hear the news of Ruth’s passing and my thoughts are with you, your children and all of Ruth’s family. She was such a committed and passionate person and contributed so much to the Hartford community. I always ran into Ruth during election time when I was working for this or that person -- Ruth was always positive and had such an attractive and open spirit. She will be missed by many.

Jon Gould

June 10, 2008

Howard:

Judy and I extend our sincerest condolences to you and the Pulda and Rifkin families. Though time and geography eventually separated us, what will never separate us is the memory that we grew up in the law together.

Stuart Sadick

June 10, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of Ruth's death. Even her name brings back vivid memories of Hebrew school, of Doherty High, and of Connecticut College. I'll always remember her as a kind, thoughtful, and fun person, a magnet for those around her. My most sincere condolences to all of you on your loss.

Cheryl Weagle

June 10, 2008

To the Pulda and Rifkin Families: My husband Cliff and I send our prayers to comfort you during this very difficult time. Now, she will rest in peace.

Carol Clapp

June 10, 2008

Dear Howard,
My heart and my prayers are with you and the boys. Not only those of us who were lucky enough to know Ruth but just about everyone else in this state is diminished by her passing just as we all were blessed by her friendship, her work and the battles she fought. I was so sorry to hear that she had lost this last one. You know that I am a better person for having known her.
Much love, Clappsky

Jennifer Laperle-Sclamo

June 10, 2008

To The Pulda-Rifkin Family,

Please accept my condolences during this difficult time. May you find solace in the loving memories that you have of Ruthie.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Joan Hubbard

June 10, 2008

Howard, your sun, moon and stars has left me and the bookgroup far better people for knowing her and having her with us over the years.
I am greatly relieved that her suffering is over but weaping nonetheless. My thoughts are with you and the boys. Joan

June 10, 2008

Dear Howard,
Many years ago, I met you, Ruth and your boys one sunny West Hartford day strolling happily together. That is the way I will remember Ruth and her family.
Please accept my sympathy at your loss.
John Noonan

Ruth-Ellen (Burack) Flanagan

June 10, 2008

Dear Pulda and Rifkin Family, I knew Ruthie best in high school at Doherty. My nickname was REB (my initials and I was a rebel) and we had a lot of great times hanging around! It has been awhile since I have seen Ruth and most of our gang. I am living in Raleigh NC now and get back to Worcester several times a year to visit my mom Edna Burack who is living at the Eisenberg Assisted Living. She and my Dad were great friends with Mary and Louis. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I will send something for your memory book.

shawn lang

June 10, 2008

I heard the news yesterday as friends emailed friends and passed the word along. What a wonderful spririt Ruth was, and will continue to be in this world. My heart and thought are with you, Howard and the boys, and the tremendous family and friends whose lives Ruth touched.

Peace,
Shawn M. Lang

Lori Pelletier and Mary-Beth Failla

June 10, 2008

Howard and Family, please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Ruth made this world a much better place for all of us.

beverly tobolson larson

June 10, 2008

Dear Mary, and Family,

I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of Ruth. Please extend my sympathy to the entire family

Sincerely,
Beverly Tobolson Larson

June 10, 2008

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